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Last edited Tue Oct 17, 2017, 12:31 PM - Edit history (1)
Sorry to anyone who responded to my earlier header that Gen. Kelly claimed that he didn't receive a call from Obama.
I heard the story wrong when it was broadcast on msnbc...my apologies
"You could ask General Kelly, Did he get a call from Obama?" Trump said in a radio interview with Fox News' Brian Kilmeade.
Kelly, who came on as Trump's chief of staff in July, does not often speak about the son he lost in 2010. 1st Lt. Robert Michael Kelly, 29, was killed in combat in Afghanistan after stepping on a landmine.
"I don't know what Obama's policy was. I write letters and I also call," Trump said, adding he has called "virtually everybody" during his past nine months as commander in chief.
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/white-house/trump-ask-gen-kelly-if-obama-called-when-his-son-n811446
Me.
(35,454 posts)And his son
spanone
(135,830 posts)still_one
(92,187 posts)spanone
(135,830 posts)still_one
(92,187 posts)were not always quite accurate
The Bret Bauer story about a pending indictment against the Clinton Foundation is just one example last year of this
Ellipsis
(9,124 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)I would not want Trump to call me ever
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Or even during Vietnam...
Old Vet
(2,001 posts)A army car and a local priest got out and informed them there son was dead. It was a local thing with local officers and enlisted men would deliver the horrible news. It was terrible, The family never got over this breaking up and the kids turning to heavy drugs. Back in my day I remember kids crying at school only to find out they lost someone to that fucking war......
underpants
(182,788 posts)They are in the area so generally they make the visit.
I was in the Army from 90-93 (didn't get sent to that war thankfully) with several NCO's who'd pulled recruiting duty. If you're in long enough you will probably have the choice of recruiter or drill Sgt.
They said it was just a horrible part of the job, as you can imagine. Even in "peace time" soldiers die pretty much everyday. Lots people around lots of heavy equipment. These NCO's said in a two year stint they could expect to make 2-5 visits depending on the density of service from that area.
Achilleaze
(15,543 posts)But clearly there is no expectation that the republican president* will ever speak truth.
* Comrade Casino, republican Draft-Dodger-in-Chief
MattP
(3,304 posts)madaboutharry
(40,209 posts)The White House has turned into the Mafia, once your in you never get out. I wouldn't doubt he put Kelly up to it.
dhill926
(16,337 posts)let's find out.
cilla4progress
(24,728 posts)The expectation is not that every family is called... iIwant to hear Obama's teams' rapid response.
underpants
(182,788 posts)Ellipsis
(9,124 posts)Legends303
(481 posts)dhill926
(16,337 posts)tymorial
(3,433 posts)Trump made the reference to "ask General Kelly" Thus far I haven't seen confirmation or denial from Kelly.
blueinredohio
(6,797 posts)atreides1
(16,076 posts)He knew that retirement would make him irrelevant, and that his time in the sun had come to an end! That's why he put on his SS runes under his coat and jumped on the Trump fascist train!
Id love to find a way to keep giving, Kelly said in 2016 about his post-retirement life. My fear was of being offered a job that would be kind of a full-time position at a veterans organization or even in the government
Id prefer to not be that, to come up the Beltway every day.
I guess he changed his mind!
tblue37
(65,340 posts)A situation in which a small number of individuals are killed in extraordinary circumstances is not the same as the situation with thousands of troops killed during a war, since the families of those thousands just get letters, not personal phone calls.
Still, a general's son's death should draw a president's attention. I wonder, though, if this is just another "Jim" story from Trump.
Baconator
(1,459 posts)2010 was the highest year for military casualties with a total of 496. It was a shitty time for everyone and I was there for it...
There is a difference between then and now. We lose a GB every 6ish week...That deserves a personal call and letter...
496 a year means a call and a half a day-ish...
There's a difference and I say that as someone who has done the Afghanistan and the Niger mission.
coolsandy
(479 posts)or met with him or sent a letter. i want to hear what Kelly has to say. He was in active duty during that time also. No matter what, this is no excuse for 45 not evening mentioning these red soldiers for days.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,412 posts)So, now Trump's behavior is once again being justified/normalized/excused because of something that a former President may have/may not have done?
Brother Buzz
(36,422 posts)1st Lt. Robert Kelly's wife?
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)stonecutter357
(12,697 posts)The_Casual_Observer
(27,742 posts)Corgigal
(9,291 posts)this should make him quit. His dead son should not be used as a political pawn.
spanone
(135,830 posts)"You could ask Gen. Kelly, did he get a call from Obama?" Trump said on Brian Kilmeade's show on Tuesday morning.
"All I can do is ask my generals. Other presidents did not call, they would write letters, and some presidents didn't do anything. I like, when I can, the combination of a call and also a letter," Trump said on Monday. Those remarks were the first public comments Trump had made about the deaths of four Green Berets and U.S. support personnel who were killed in Niger on October 4.
Trump's effort to use Kelly's deceased son in order to score a political point could add more tension to a relationship that has already had its fair share of difficulties. Reports of Kelly being frustrated with his erratic and unpredictable boss have leaked since August, and as recently as this week it was reported that Kelly was trying to take power to fill important jobs away from the Oval Office as a way of resolving the administration's ongoing staffing problem.
https://www.salon.com/2017/10/17/trump-exploits-john-kellys-dead-son-to-back-up-his-obama-falsehoods/
Achilleaze
(15,543 posts)Yeah, like when he's not squandering our hard-earned tax dollars on his luxurious golden, gourmet golf outings.
By my count he's gone golfing - and squandering our tax money - four times since our four US Green Beret soldiers will killed. And he could not take time to write or call. What a chickenhawk republican a-hole he is.
peggysue2
(10,828 posts)Acknowledgment by a president is absolutely expected. The Trumpster hadn't even mentioned these losses until he was caught off guard with his pants down. He was too busy golfing. Doesn't say much for the WH staff either; they're expected to stay on top of things, not support the endless lying.
I read the transcript from yesterday's press conference. The man was off his meds or took an overdose. He was an incoherent, rambling mess.
The biggest security risk to the United States at the moment is Donald J. Trump. People better start waking up to the stark reality: the man's a lunatic, an illegitimate imposter posing as the leader of the Free World. Sarah Huckabee presumably said that people will be begging for Trump to stay in 2020.
They both belong in an asylum.
okwmember
(345 posts)<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Gen. Kelly and wife attended Gold Star families breakfast at WH in 2011 and sat at Mrs. Obama's table, person familiar with breakfast says.</p> Jeff Zeleny (@jeffzeleny) <a href="
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Gothmog
(145,176 posts)President Obama would have personally called the widow and not the father of the slain solider. Here is some more on this https://www.rawstory.com/2017/10/john-kelly-and-his-wife-sat-with-michelle-obama-at-gold-star-family-gathering-after-sons-death/
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Second Lt. Robert Kelly was killed at age 29 while leading a platoon in Afghanistan in November 2010, and his father delivered a speech four days later about military sacrifices and the troops growing isolation from society.
His father has largely avoided speaking publicly about his familys loss since then, and asked the Marine Corps officer who introduced him ahead of that impassioned speech not to mention his son.
We are only one of 5,500 American families who have suffered the loss of a child in this war, Kelly told the Washington Post six years ago. The death of my boy simply cannot be made to seem any more tragic than the others.