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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDo you want to die while you are doing something that you love?
Really? In the first place, I don't want to die. In the second place I'd rather die doing something that I absolutely hate so I it would just be OVER.
I am not sure why people think "he was doing exactly what he wanted to be doing" is a comforting thing to say.
Eliot Rosewater
(31,137 posts)Otherwise most would never join.
Also, trump did not ask how to humanely talk to anyone let alone a black woman, not in 2 million years.
Ilsa
(61,712 posts)two little kids, and pregnant, and not having had the experiences of a 50+ year old general, who said that condolences of the president don't matter.*
* Sure, presidential condolences didn't matter to him, especially from a prez he didn't like, especially when he knew most of the brass already knew of his family's loss, especially when his personality is not the same as a twenty-something young pregnant widow with two kids.
hlthe2b
(102,530 posts)Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)Lebam in LA
(1,345 posts)Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)doing something you hate and dying means you are going to hell
Dying while doing nothing means you have no place to go
IT IS WRITTEN
Aristus
(66,527 posts)Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)Last edited Fri Oct 20, 2017, 08:39 PM - Edit history (1)
I've had several friends and family die lingering deaths. Not for me.
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)Vinca
(50,328 posts)MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)whatever that means.
Purveyor
(29,876 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)milestogo
(16,829 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)Corgigal
(9,291 posts)What? Who in their minds wants to walk in the middle of Niger to talk to tribal war lords?
I bed they rather be in bed with a loved one, but that's just me.
Kablooie
(18,647 posts)kerry-is-my-prez
(8,133 posts)shanti
(21,675 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,985 posts)rather than screaming in terror like his passengers.
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,804 posts)it means that you were happy at that moment.
I would rather be happy at the moment of death, than unhappy.
But that's just me.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,358 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)The wife I'm sure did not want him to die, period.
I guess they are trying to say he had a good life. But any life that short is hard to accept as having been so great it's OK it's over.
His third child is not even born yet.
It is usually said about people who love to do dangerous things for fun, to try to avert the feeling of uselessness.
Dave Starsky
(5,914 posts)And it's fucking ridiculous. I hate that.
Yeah, he died doing what he loved: leaving his wife a widow and his kids fatherless. Here's to you, Charlie. Nice job.
ecstatic
(32,786 posts)for most. On CNN, a gold star mom said that someone said something similar to her and it really really hurt.
Sunlei
(22,651 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)When I am doing something that I love, I am looking solidly at the future.
MuseRider
(34,136 posts)playing something I love, perhaps the last movement of Beethoven's 9th Symphony or maybe Mahler. Yes I do want to die doing something I love, maybe riding a roller coaster but I would rather be playing in the symphony. Or maybe kissing one of my goats, that is pretty fine right there.
Trump is a stupid asshole a very stupid asshole. He is never appropriate or comforting.
malaise
(269,293 posts)Every living thing dies. That we are all going to die is the one absolute philosophical truth on this planet.
Now how would I like to die - one of two ways - in my sleep or on the operating table out cold from the anesthetic.
I'd rather not die doing something I love but it hardly matters - dead is dead.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)you want it to happen or that you can expect that it will. If signing up for the military meant that you can expect to die, only people with a death wish would join. As far as I am concerned, saying that to a grieving widow is the equivalent of saying, "He would rather die fighting in another country than be with you and you should be happy for him that he got his wish" When my son drowned if someone had said to me "He knew what he was doing when he walked into that river but I guess it hurts anyway", I would have been ready to gouge their eyes out.
I want to live as long as I can still think and do. I will probably go out kicking and screaming but if I have to die, I hope I go to sleep some night and die in the middle of a good dream.
LeftInTX
(25,801 posts)miyazaki
(2,258 posts)SeattleVet
(5,484 posts)by a jealous husband!
milestogo
(16,829 posts)sooner or later.
3catwoman3
(24,122 posts)At the moment they found themselves ambushed, they must have wanted only to be anywhere else, doing anything else. They must have been terrified.
The whole "died while doing something that he loved" has always struck me as very hollow and insensitive, and not in the least comforting.