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Posted without comment - (Original Post) DURHAM D Nov 2017 OP
Why bother posting it at all Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #1
Why did you bother to comment? nt DURHAM D Nov 2017 #2
I commented because you posted it without comment. Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #7
DURHAM: SCantiGOP Nov 2017 #48
I don't care if a woman leftynyc Nov 2017 #3
Yes. n/t MontanaMama Nov 2017 #6
Even more importantly. yallerdawg Nov 2017 #11
How about leftynyc Nov 2017 #17
The standard now is "very poor taste?" yallerdawg Nov 2017 #21
Do you really want to swim leftynyc Nov 2017 #25
I think "very poor taste" is... yallerdawg Nov 2017 #32
Agree - that doesn't leftynyc Nov 2017 #34
Yea MFM008 Nov 2017 #36
+1 blue cat Nov 2017 #47
I, like Lindsay Graham, think the picture proves he was joking around. Hamlette Nov 2017 #50
Then do it with a girlfriend or a wife leftynyc Nov 2017 #53
99% of the time I would agree with you. In this case, the collegial relationship is entertainment stevenleser Nov 2017 #61
This was on the plane leftynyc Nov 2017 #67
Filming a movie isnt in front of an audience either, but its part of the entertainment. stevenleser Nov 2017 #69
Who was he trying to entertain? leftynyc Nov 2017 #70
That's correct, he thought the photo would be funny, he was a comedian, and he says she consented stevenleser Nov 2017 #71
Where did he say she consented to the photo in advance? pintobean Nov 2017 #75
there is nothing in the photo worth being burned ovr questionseverything Nov 2017 #78
Please provide a link to this statement by Franken. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #84
Take a look at this. You can see the general atmosphere at these events... stevenleser Nov 2017 #83
I saw that over the weekend. leftynyc Nov 2017 #86
And now, there is no question. There is a pattern here. stevenleser Nov 2017 #87
Or comedy at a USO show Drahthaardogs Nov 2017 #88
There may be something to this "ethics" investigation Senator Franken called for. yallerdawg Nov 2017 #4
Plus it sets up the Republicans -including abuser in our WH- to be investigated too. Madam45for2923 Nov 2017 #8
This thread is not going to go well. madaboutharry Nov 2017 #5
400 plus recs. yallerdawg Nov 2017 #26
Based on what I have heard this is not sexual harassment. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author MFM008 Nov 2017 #42
Thats if you believe her MFM008 Nov 2017 #56
I am speaking more generally. madaboutharry Nov 2017 #63
right wing women treestar Nov 2017 #9
The only inconsistency going on here is how some DUers treat the accusers. Inkfreak Nov 2017 #15
Well why should a right wing woman treestar Nov 2017 #18
Lol, hey..you wanna give a pass to guys for politics..thats on you. Inkfreak Nov 2017 #27
Then don't vote for him...of course the only other choice is a Republican... Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #31
No sweat. I wont. I dont live in his state. Inkfreak Nov 2017 #38
I mean that generically...if the Democrat is a bridge too far and offends you in some way ...well Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #82
Huh? How is that response justified? treestar Nov 2017 #33
Lol!!! Inkfreak Nov 2017 #37
Huh? Why does righty get to have it both ways? treestar Nov 2017 #41
Because we aren't them. moriah Nov 2017 #89
Our ethical standards should not allow treestar Nov 2017 #90
Everyone has their own hill. The Quakers... moriah Nov 2017 #91
Who determines who has power? treestar Nov 2017 #92
If we don't listen to the story, how can we say it's obviously false? moriah Nov 2017 #93
That's not true leftynyc Nov 2017 #19
Its absolutely true. Inkfreak Nov 2017 #24
You're entitled to your opinion leftynyc Nov 2017 #29
Two things: dawg Nov 2017 #10
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #12
A woman got a right to make a living, Corgigal Nov 2017 #13
It is all political. Duppers Nov 2017 #58
What other activities can women do that negates them being able to speak out about being groped? Inkfreak Nov 2017 #14
The can make the claim that it's all PC crap treestar Nov 2017 #35
"Groped"? Franken is not even touching her. panader0 Nov 2017 #43
Please read more on the Franken-Tweeden story Duppers Nov 2017 #57
Nope. Im all caught up. Thanks! Inkfreak Nov 2017 #79
Attacking the woman who makes the accusation of sexual harrassment? oberliner Nov 2017 #16
So credibility is not an issue? Motive is not an issue? If a woman accuses a man rzemanfl Nov 2017 #23
Why does the mere accusation make someone an angel treestar Nov 2017 #39
Fuck. This. Shit. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #20
What Franken did was absolutley wrong BoneyardDem Nov 2017 #22
I agree on both points. yardwork Nov 2017 #60
Yep, agree on both points, too. suffragette Nov 2017 #72
She could be on the set of a porn on break between sucking dicks, but if someone NightWatcher Nov 2017 #30
Thank you for coming to the defense of fluffers. I will not inquire into the motives of rzemanfl Nov 2017 #46
It's not about her sexuality orangecrush Nov 2017 #40
SO FUCKING WHAT? Iggo Nov 2017 #44
K & R malaise Nov 2017 #45
Yes. MontanaMama Nov 2017 #65
Right wingers are tough until it suits their needs. Dawson Leery Nov 2017 #49
So, women who come forward and report abuse are weak? pintobean Nov 2017 #74
Help tiptonic Nov 2017 #51
If a woman presents herself as a sexual object is it OK for men to view her as a sexual object? jalan48 Nov 2017 #52
Yes, but they don't get to kiss or touch her without her consent. DemocratSinceBirth Nov 2017 #54
Thanks. Makes sense to me. jalan48 Nov 2017 #55
I've decided: even gun carrying, bosom baring Trump supporters deserve to have their boundries .... marble falls Nov 2017 #59
The gun carrying, bosom baring Trump suppporter said she was not, in her initial statement. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #85
Thanks for posting Gothmog Nov 2017 #62
Sorry, but this is "slut shaming". PERIOD. Steven Maurer Nov 2017 #64
Sounds like what the Repukes do when accused of something packman Nov 2017 #66
I am not much into shaming a woman to silence her. SandyZ Nov 2017 #68
I don't see slut-shaming or victim-blaming SpankMe Nov 2017 #73
i dont care is she was a hooker...no woman or man should be samnsara Nov 2017 #76
i still hope he runs for pres questionseverything Nov 2017 #80
Makes me... Mike Nelson Nov 2017 #77
No comment? I can see why. MineralMan Nov 2017 #81

SCantiGOP

(13,869 posts)
48. DURHAM:
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:19 PM
Nov 2017

Welcome to the "some women are just asking for it" side of the debate.
Hope you are comfortable with the people you meet there.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
3. I don't care if a woman
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:25 AM
Nov 2017

is in front of you stark naked - under NO circumstances do you touch her without permission. EVER. That said, Franken shouldn't even consider resigning over this.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
11. Even more importantly.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:32 AM
Nov 2017

Don't have your photographer take a picture and give it to the woman!

10 plus years later, she might find it works as a manufactured distraction!

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
21. The standard now is "very poor taste?"
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:56 AM
Nov 2017

No - the standard for Democrats.

Republicans - still just "live boys?"

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
25. Do you really want to swim
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:58 AM
Nov 2017

in the sewer with republicans? They have zero standards and only contempt for women. I expect FAR more from my side of the aisle.

Hamlette

(15,412 posts)
50. I, like Lindsay Graham, think the picture proves he was joking around.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:25 PM
Nov 2017

Otherwise, why take a picture?

The photographer said she was in on the joke and pretend sleeping and Franken was to resuscitate her.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
53. Then do it with a girlfriend or a wife
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:34 PM
Nov 2017

but not with a colleague. I can't believe I have to explain this.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
61. 99% of the time I would agree with you. In this case, the collegial relationship is entertainment
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:00 PM
Nov 2017

and not that of Weinstein and actors looking for a job from him, but fellow entertainers.

Is Ryan O'Neal touching Allie McGraw inappropriately in this picture, because she is his colleague:

https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/thumbor/ftrDlMJX5xzN8GU2P2uP1nFeGZo/fit-in/550x550/filters:format_auto-!!-:strip_icc-!!-/2012/08/33/1/192/1922564/5a565f5b3303e5a2_Fourimage.jpg

No and the reason is, he is touching her as a part of an entertainment role they are playing. Al Franken alleges his photograph, where everyone asked so far said he is not touching her but has his hands hovering above her, is part of a comedy act.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
67. This was on the plane
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:25 PM
Nov 2017

on the way home, not in front of an audience as part of a comedy act. And not sure what you're talking about with O'Neal/McGraw, those are scenes from a movie.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
69. Filming a movie isnt in front of an audience either, but its part of the entertainment.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:10 PM
Nov 2017

Franken alleges that this picture was part of entertaining people.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
70. Who was he trying to entertain?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:22 PM
Nov 2017

And you're being very disingenuous comparing a movie scene to this. He did it because he thought it was funny. He was wrong and that's why he's apologized.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
71. That's correct, he thought the photo would be funny, he was a comedian, and he says she consented
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:26 PM
Nov 2017

to the photo in advance because people would think it was funny.

If he is lying about that, he deserves to be burned.

questionseverything

(9,654 posts)
78. there is nothing in the photo worth being burned ovr
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:10 PM
Nov 2017

wether she was in on the joke or not

groping thru that vest is not physically possible

one moment of poor taste should in no way be a life changing event for franken and certainly not for the country

do you have a link to support that franken said she was in on it?

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
84. Please provide a link to this statement by Franken.
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:04 AM
Nov 2017

Nothing I have read, including his apology, says she consented (in advance or at any other time) to the photo.

And Snopes seems to confirm that the allegations about it being staged with her consent are fake news.

https://www.snopes.com/photographer-said-franken-image-was-staged/

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
83. Take a look at this. You can see the general atmosphere at these events...
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 11:14 PM
Nov 2017
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029861640

She was touching, grabbing and gyrating on everyone. It was a part of the act.
 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
86. I saw that over the weekend.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 08:24 AM
Nov 2017

Seems her outrageous outrage was merely for show but did the damage she was obviously looking for.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
87. And now, there is no question. There is a pattern here.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:54 AM
Nov 2017

Very disappointing.

You were right from the get go.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
4. There may be something to this "ethics" investigation Senator Franken called for.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:25 AM
Nov 2017

"Hell hath no fury like a former comedian/satirist getting played as a distraction."

madaboutharry

(40,209 posts)
5. This thread is not going to go well.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:25 AM
Nov 2017

She is who she is. And it doesn't matter that she has sexualized her image, no person should ever experience sexual harassment or be on the recieving end of inappropriate behavior.


Demsrule86

(68,556 posts)
28. Based on what I have heard this is not sexual harassment.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:59 AM
Nov 2017

Most likely this is the work of Hannity and Stone.

Response to madaboutharry (Reply #5)

MFM008

(19,808 posts)
56. Thats if you believe her
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:40 PM
Nov 2017

I do not.
I believe she looked at this picture, (he is NOT touching her) and it made her angry and she is a partisan, she thought I can MILK this situation and perhaps take out a Liberal democrat senator.
He apologizes to her for feeling affronted by the awkward fumbling stupidity.
He apologizes to the USO troop as well,
I presume he did not sexually victimize any of them, he apologized because it was the right
thing to do.
So a raging liberal is going to put his career and reputation into the greedy little hands of a
right wing hack ?
No sorry, this is a right wing Roger Stone hit job.
A he said she said to try to remove
an annoying liberal from the Senate.
Then maggot ices the cake last night about where Frankens hands were in other pictures.
The aggressive pussy grabbing rapist golden shower boy

NEED I SAY MORE??????????????????????????????

madaboutharry

(40,209 posts)
63. I am speaking more generally.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:01 PM
Nov 2017

What I mean to say is that believing someone should not be based on whether or not someone can say "they invited it." That's not fair. Harassers are responsible for their conduct.

This situation with Fraken is turning out to have a few more layers to it than first appeared. He shouldn't have had that photo taken. But I think a lot of people are jumping on the condemnation bandwagon with their own agenda.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
9. right wing women
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:27 AM
Nov 2017

claim to be tough and that women who complain of harassment are being delicate snowflakes. So there is a kind of inconsistency there.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
18. Well why should a right wing woman
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:53 AM
Nov 2017

who claims to be so tough, not be seen differently to someone who doesn't claim to be so tough? If they think it is weak for women to not just ignore it, get over it, and kick their ass (they will often say the likes of "bother me, and I'll kick your ass, not go whining to the police" or what have you). So why do they get to complain about it?

Demsrule86

(68,556 posts)
31. Then don't vote for him...of course the only other choice is a Republican...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 PM
Nov 2017

This is not even close and most likely manufactured.

Demsrule86

(68,556 posts)
82. I mean that generically...if the Democrat is a bridge too far and offends you in some way ...well
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 08:35 AM
Nov 2017

of course the GOP candidate is always a choice...not a good one of course for our side.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
33. Huh? How is that response justified?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 PM
Nov 2017

You are the one giving all right wingers a pass even though they think it is weak when WE complain of this stuff.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
41. Huh? Why does righty get to have it both ways?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:09 PM
Nov 2017

They can make fun of snowflakes who complain about it and then when it's them, complain about it?

moriah

(8,311 posts)
89. Because we aren't them.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:10 PM
Nov 2017

And the moment we let ourselves forget our ethical standards, we let ourselves forget what makes us different from them.

It sucks because no, they don't want to hold to our ethical standards, but still expect us to hold to them. As a matter of fact, they drink it up when we *don't* apply the standards we advocate equally -- it tastes like victory to them.

We are being trolled, people.

They chose to go with the Tweeden story because they KNEW we would react like this, and anticipated it.

As a matter of fact, there's significant evidence highly-rated MAvGA accounts and suspiciously anonymous "news sites" are pushing material that includes massive amounts of things that look like slut-shaming attached to rumors discrediting her. Why else would the trolls be making these if they weren't bait to make us look bad?

We don't need to bite on the bawdy nature of her act or her pictures, and pretty much my personal rule is if I see material pushing that narrative, I'm assuming the person sharing it at the very least bought into the bait. Even if they don't understand why it IS bait.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
90. Our ethical standards should not allow
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:13 PM
Nov 2017

mere accusation to bring people down. And we should not allow the right to win because of our so grand ethical standards. They will win. We've seen it with President Pussy Grabber. They know that and play us. Meanwhile they get their own people in regardless.

It's like saying I don't shoot people and when another country starts shooting us, we don't shoot back because we don't shoot people due to our ethical standards. So we all die.

Screw that.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
91. Everyone has their own hill. The Quakers...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:50 PM
Nov 2017

... were willing to risk their lives for PR victories during conflicts where Natives were either allied with other nations or were justifiably angry about things being done to them. And that level of personal pacifism isn't something I'd ever demand of anyone.

Yet, strangely enough, the person showing that very type of pacifist, PR-oriented reaction is... Al Franken himself.

Yes, he's categorically denied ever propositioning anyone for a sexual encounter in a bathroom. Which is easy enough. I'm pretty sure even at the lowest points in his financial standing, he's had a better place to take someone for a tryst than a bloody bathroom. If that person is at all credible, they must have misunderstood a joke he doesn't even remember making. He didn't even say "I don't recall it that way".

He's not denying his hands ever went south of the waist in a photo op. For all I know, they might have done so many times, maybe even in response to the same sort of joking from the woman first.

But he's certainly going the safe route. The honest one. The one with integrity.

----

Our ethical standards should involve listening to the alleged victims and the accused's responses, considering both, and then making our own conclusions.... but we *must* listen, and consider. Truly listen and consider.

Then, the second part of our ethical standard must be the recognition that while all crossing of boundaries is bad, the power dynamic of the alleged perpetrator and the vulnerability of the alleged victim are factors that prioritize what allegations get examined first. There IS an objective difference between between some cases of even mere ass-grabbing -- if the alleged perpetrator has a power position over the victim, and especially the power differential inherent when the ass grabbed belongs to a minor. ESPECIALLY the combination of abusing the power of one's office to find vulnerable juveniles to target for it and worse.

That's how we fight the "everyone does it" narrative of false equivalency.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
92. Who determines who has power?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:56 PM
Nov 2017

It is not always going to be clear. Plus it IS possible that maybe I do want to have a relationship with the powerful man (Monica Lewinsky). And we don't have to "listen" long to obvious frauds. This is getting so out of hand. We have to go back to the issues. Why should Moore be defeated over how he will vote in the Senate. Why would we want to lose a Senator who votes the way we need and why would someone who votes that way on our issues be someone who also abuses women? We can take that into account.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
93. If we don't listen to the story, how can we say it's obviously false?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 03:39 PM
Nov 2017

Seriously, listening and believing aren't the same thing.

But if you refuse to even listen, to even *briefly* consider whether it's plausible, then you might as well place yourself in the camp of the Evangelicals who are supporting Moore now more *because* he was accused.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
19. That's not true
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:54 AM
Nov 2017

That poster does have a point-right wingers consistently say Democrats are far too sensitive and should lighten up and not be so PC. All the charges should be investigated and let the chips fall where they may. It's long past time that women shouldn't have to be afraid to come forward for fear of their jobs, careers or reputations.

dawg

(10,624 posts)
10. Two things:
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:31 AM
Nov 2017

1. No amount of salacious behavior makes it acceptable, or even understandable, for one person to sexually harass another.

2. Tweeden's public "sex object" persona does make it much more understandable as to why a former comedian like Franken would have resorted to cheap jokes like the photo and a skit where he kisses her. It plays to her shtick.

Response to DURHAM D (Original post)

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
13. A woman got a right to make a living,
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:35 AM
Nov 2017

however Roger Stone was ringing his own bell again the day before.

That makes its all suspect. Now it enters political, not criminal element.

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
14. What other activities can women do that negates them being able to speak out about being groped?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:45 AM
Nov 2017

I just wanna be able to tell my kid now. Thanks in advance.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
35. The can make the claim that it's all PC crap
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:06 PM
Nov 2017

and that it is weak and whiney to complain about it.

They can point out that Mary was 14 when she was married, implying that 14-year-olds are ready to consider dating, no matter how old the man.

They can wear a shirt that says Trump can grab their pussy anytime. They can defend the Orange Pussy Grabber as just boy talk or locker room talk, nothing to get upset about or use to think he should not be POTUS.

Why does the right winger always get to have it both ways?

I feel strongly about this as I have exposure to misogynistic, mean right-wing women. They do exist. We are not all great feminists.

rzemanfl

(29,557 posts)
23. So credibility is not an issue? Motive is not an issue? If a woman accuses a man
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:57 AM
Nov 2017

that's all it takes? No cross-examination, just an instant adjudication of guilt? Wow.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
39. Why does the mere accusation make someone an angel
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:07 PM
Nov 2017

there is no such thing as political motivation, by a right winger who didn't say anything about it until a time when it was useful to use because so many Republican men were getting accused. We are all playing into their hands, giving her attention and forgetting all about Moore and the Pussy Grabber in Chief.

 

BoneyardDem

(1,202 posts)
22. What Franken did was absolutley wrong
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 11:57 AM
Nov 2017

He was right to apologize...and I thought it was an honest and thoughtful apology.

I find her attempt to be the blushing victim of 10 years of anger and humiliation over the incident to be manufactured.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
30. She could be on the set of a porn on break between sucking dicks, but if someone
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 PM
Nov 2017

whom she did not give permission, grabbed her and kissed her, they'd be just as wrong.

It's about permission and consent and nothing else.

rzemanfl

(29,557 posts)
46. Thank you for coming to the defense of fluffers. I will not inquire into the motives of
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:35 PM
Nov 2017

the kisser under the circumstances you posit. Ewwww!

orangecrush

(19,546 posts)
40. It's not about her sexuality
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:08 PM
Nov 2017

It's about her right wing leanings.

Which are made obvious by a couple of the pics.

MontanaMama

(23,313 posts)
65. Yes.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:16 PM
Nov 2017

You are again the voice of reason malaise. Al is a smart one...he knows the whole truth will come out and that is why he has opened himself to an investigation. He will withstand the momentary discomfort - I hope. The fact that Roger Stone was on the forefront of this speaks volumes. Everything that man touches is shit.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
74. So, women who come forward and report abuse are weak?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:48 PM
Nov 2017

Fuck.

People should think about what they're posting.

tiptonic

(765 posts)
51. Help
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:30 PM
Nov 2017

Al thought it was all in fun. Dump but innocent mistake. Bet miss Leeann ends up with a job at Faux news.

marble falls

(57,080 posts)
59. I've decided: even gun carrying, bosom baring Trump supporters deserve to have their boundries ....
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:52 PM
Nov 2017

respected and be allowed to open to whom they decide to do it for.

The one question I have and it hasn't been answered in any news source or by either Franken or the gun carrying, bosom baring Trump supporter is whether she was in on the joke photo or not.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
85. The gun carrying, bosom baring Trump suppporter said she was not, in her initial statement.
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:10 AM
Nov 2017
But he didn’t stop there.

The tour wrapped and on Christmas Eve we began the 36-hour trip home to L.A. After 2 weeks of grueling travel and performing I was exhausted. When our C-17 cargo plane took off from Afghanistan I immediately fell asleep, even though I was still wearing my flak vest and Kevlar helmet.

It wasn’t until I was back in the US and looking through the CD of photos we were given by the photographer that I saw this one:

I couldn’t believe it. He groped me, without my consent, while I was asleep.


http://www.kabc.com/2017/11/16/leeann-tweeden-on-senator-al-franken/

Steven Maurer

(459 posts)
64. Sorry, but this is "slut shaming". PERIOD.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:15 PM
Nov 2017

Seriously, people.

The only thing that is important is the photographer saying that the photo was staged and she was conscious and in on the joke.

THAT is what calls this into question. Nothing about her history or political beliefs.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
66. Sounds like what the Repukes do when accused of something
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:18 PM
Nov 2017

Run down the victim - Not a good post- Regardless of who she is or was, it has little bearing on her value as a human that was taken advantage of

SpankMe

(2,957 posts)
73. I don't see slut-shaming or victim-blaming
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:36 PM
Nov 2017

The tone to me is more "she's no snowflake". She's a bit more of a "tough lady", so to be portrayed as a meek little flower who was emotionally damaged by big, bad Al seems disingenuous.

Everyone agrees that a past as a nude model or SWAT team toughie doesn't lessen the culpability of any future abuser. But let's not pretend that Ms. Tweeden's dignity was really damaged by this. Franken is still the bad guy in this episode. But it's not like he titty-grabbed Jessica Tandy.

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
76. i dont care is she was a hooker...no woman or man should be
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:55 PM
Nov 2017

touched without their consent. Its like trespassing. I'm not saying this is what happened here.. I'm staying away from everything for a few days....I love and respect Al and was hoping he would consider a run for Prez. Guess that's out now? Hoping and crossing my fingers this was a one time only prank gone bad.

if not, then he needs to get help.....

questionseverything

(9,654 posts)
80. i still hope he runs for pres
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:19 PM
Nov 2017

the woman has a right to her feelings but it is physically impossible to grope anyone thru that jacket

Mike Nelson

(9,954 posts)
77. Makes me...
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 04:01 PM
Nov 2017

...admire Al Franken's reaction even more. Of course, there is no consent to assault this woman - even if the photos look like Trump is given permission to grope. You just don't do it.

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