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Omaha Steve

(99,630 posts)
Sat May 4, 2013, 04:46 AM May 2013

Funeral home: No one wants to bury bomb suspect

Source: AP-Excite

By STEVE LeBLANC and BOB SALSBERG

BOSTON (AP) - A funeral home director was scrambling to find a cemetery that would bury a suspect in the Boston Marathon bombings, ignoring protesters gathered outside his business and saying everybody deserves a dignified burial service no matter the circumstances of his or her death.

Tamerlan Tsarnaev, 26, died from "gunshot wounds of torso and extremities" and blunt trauma to his head and torso, said Worcester funeral home owner Peter Stefan, who has Tsarnaev's body and on Friday read details from his death certificate. The certificate lists the time of his death as 1:35 a.m. on April 19, four days after the deadly bombing, Stefan said.

Tsarnaev died after a gunfight with authorities who had launched a massive manhunt for him and his brother, ethnic Chechens from Russia who came to the United States about a decade ago. Police have said he ran out of ammunition before his younger brother dragged his body under a vehicle while fleeing.

Tsarnaev's family was making arrangements Friday for his funeral as investigators searched the woods near a college attended by 19-year-old Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, who was captured less than a day after his brother's death

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Read more: http://apnews.excite.com/article/20130504/DA62ARU80.html





In this Feb. 17, 2010, photo, Tamerlan Tsarnaev, left, smiles after accepting the trophy for winning the 2010 New England Golden Gloves Championship in Lowell, Mass. Tsarnaev, the older of the brothers suspected in the Boston Marathon bombing, died from gunshot wounds and blunt trauma to his head and torso, his death certificate says. (AP Photo/The Lowell Sun, Julia Malakie, File) MANDATORY CREDIT

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Funeral home: No one wants to bury bomb suspect (Original Post) Omaha Steve May 2013 OP
There were many protesters outside the Worcester funeral home yesterday. nt MADem May 2013 #1
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2013 #2
What he did was horrible watoos May 2013 #3
Funeral director is just doing his job Kolesar May 2013 #4
How do you know they didn't? ButterflyBlood May 2013 #8
Protesting his funeral services is not going to undo any atrocities. Quantess May 2013 #12
Exactly. enlightenment May 2013 #31
I doubt he John2 May 2013 #19
exactly? heaven05 May 2013 #11
Thank you I fully agree gopiscrap May 2013 #22
Those protesters need to shut up and go home. Sheldon Cooper May 2013 #5
Do what was done with bin Laden ButterflyBlood May 2013 #9
Cremation is against his religion--can't do that without risking MAJOR "fundie" backlash. MADem May 2013 #36
Killing is also against his religion. Beacool May 2013 #39
That doesn't solve the problem, though. MADem May 2013 #41
Send it to Russia so that he parents can have it buried there Freddie Stubbs May 2013 #18
How about shipping him back to Russia TheCowsCameHome May 2013 #6
I guess I just don't get it booley May 2013 #7
maybe the cemetaries are worried about vandalism. bunnies May 2013 #10
This is the church that buried James Earl Ray. bigendian May 2013 #13
Roll the first reel of "The Magnificent Seven." malthaussen May 2013 #14
Cremate him. Use his ashes to make a paving stone. Thor_MN May 2013 #15
sounds good to me or mail his ashes to his mother klyon May 2013 #40
Lee Harvey Oswald was buried in Ft. Worth, Texas mc51tc May 2013 #16
Timothy McVeigh was cremated mc51tc May 2013 #17
On second thought, cremation is probably the best option Freddie Stubbs May 2013 #20
Cremation is forbidden in Islam. You want REAL trouble, cremate him. kestrel91316 May 2013 #28
Isn't blowing up children forbidden in Islam? If so, Tsarnaev wasn't really a Muslum Freddie Stubbs May 2013 #46
Why don't they just cremate him and ship the ashes to his parents in Dagestan? SunSeeker May 2013 #21
I believe it's because he's Muslim... brooklynite May 2013 #23
Well then ship the casket to Dagestan? nt SunSeeker May 2013 #26
Wherever he's buried he just might become a sacred site for extremists flamingdem May 2013 #24
This guy would have been a more appropriate funeral director: corkhead May 2013 #25
This is IDIOCY. But what do you expect in our IDIOCRACY? kestrel91316 May 2013 #27
Embalm him at an unnamed mortuary and then bury his remains in kestrel91316 May 2013 #29
He has been "claimed." Embalming is a problem, too. It's not appropriate in Islamic tradition. MADem May 2013 #43
All the threads about this sure get really fucking ugly. (nt) Posteritatis May 2013 #30
I don't understand. caseymoz May 2013 #32
Family in the US onpatrol98 May 2013 #33
A Muslim cemetery is optimal, because other cemeteries make demands re: MADem May 2013 #44
So much anger and pain in all of this. davsand May 2013 #34
send him to his father COD.. Historic NY May 2013 #35
Threaten to cremate his remains and spread them over the city... zeeland May 2013 #37
I don't blame them. Beacool May 2013 #38
Even Lee Harvey Oswald received a decent burial. ColesCountyDem May 2013 #42
Only a fool of a cemetary owner would agree to host Tsarnaev's plot brentspeak May 2013 #45
Could they bury him unmarked/John Doe? Myrina May 2013 #47

MADem

(135,425 posts)
1. There were many protesters outside the Worcester funeral home yesterday. nt
Sat May 4, 2013, 06:47 AM
May 2013

They may have to ship his ass to the metro area, and bury him down that way.

Response to Omaha Steve (Original post)

 

watoos

(7,142 posts)
3. What he did was horrible
Sat May 4, 2013, 07:25 AM
May 2013

but as my monsignor said at Mass two Sunday's ago, we can't let acts of violence harden our hearts.

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
4. Funeral director is just doing his job
Sat May 4, 2013, 07:55 AM
May 2013

Those protestors should have protested the Iraq War or bush, or the bankers.

ButterflyBlood

(12,644 posts)
8. How do you know they didn't?
Sat May 4, 2013, 08:33 AM
May 2013

I protested the Iraq war and was at some Occupy stuff and if I lived there I might protest thst guy as well.

 

John2

(2,730 posts)
19. I doubt he
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:42 AM
May 2013

can hear you, unless you are one of those who believe in the afterlife. It is nothing but a dead corpse. I think this should be a private matter between the family and the Funeral director. Anybody obstructing that should be arrested for disturbances. It is their business. Protesting dead corpses seems stupid to me. Let the dead rest and the living go about living until their time come. The dead can't hear or feel anything from the living.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
11. exactly?
Sat May 4, 2013, 08:53 AM
May 2013

protest a dead body? It's rotting. Bury it, be done with that corpse. Move on. All that protesting won't bring back the dead or return arms and legs to people who lost them. Human beings.

gopiscrap

(23,760 posts)
22. Thank you I fully agree
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:55 AM
May 2013

once you're dead...bury the body...trash his reputation if you will, but everybdy deserves to have their remains treated with dignity and disposed of with grace..otherwise we are just as barbaric as everyone else.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
5. Those protesters need to shut up and go home.
Sat May 4, 2013, 08:05 AM
May 2013
Someone has to bury this guy - what's their solution? Leave his body to rot in the street?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
36. Cremation is against his religion--can't do that without risking MAJOR "fundie" backlash.
Sat May 4, 2013, 04:04 PM
May 2013

I think they should either try to find something in the metro DC area near the uncle, or in an area of large Muslim population such as Michigan or California (and leave the grave unmarked); mail the corpse home to Russia; or do the "Bin Ladin solution"--burial at sea. Given the circumstances, I think the third choice is the best.

Perhaps the Russians have a warship in Havana or at sea that can swing by, pick the guy up, and dump him outside the 200 mile limit.

That is not an optimal solution in terms of Islamic burial practices, but it is prescribed IF there is concern that the body will not lie safely in the grave, that someone might dig it up and desecrate it or use it in a mocking fashion.

I think this guy's situation fits that bill.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
39. Killing is also against his religion.
Sat May 4, 2013, 05:08 PM
May 2013

Therefore, screw him!! He already broke one of the most sacred commandments of most religions: Thou shall not kill.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
41. That doesn't solve the problem, though.
Sat May 4, 2013, 05:33 PM
May 2013

Cremate this guy, and you open up a huge can of worms, that could produce additional violence and vengeance.

I don't think anyone wants that.

malthaussen

(17,195 posts)
14. Roll the first reel of "The Magnificent Seven."
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:14 AM
May 2013

Some of my fellow humans seem to forget, from time to time, what civilization is all about.

-- Mal

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
15. Cremate him. Use his ashes to make a paving stone.
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:18 AM
May 2013

Such that marathon runners can trample him for as long as there is a Boston Marathon. Better put in a drain to the sanitary sewer nearby.

mc51tc

(219 posts)
16. Lee Harvey Oswald was buried in Ft. Worth, Texas
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:27 AM
May 2013

after being shot by Jack Ruby. No one wanted his body either. You can see how many showed up for the funeral here by viewing the photos: They need to find a rural cemetery somewhere making sure the grave in unmarked.

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=781

SunSeeker

(51,553 posts)
21. Why don't they just cremate him and ship the ashes to his parents in Dagestan?
Sat May 4, 2013, 09:45 AM
May 2013

Didn't the parensts say they wanted his remains back in Dagestan?

brooklynite

(94,550 posts)
23. I believe it's because he's Muslim...
Sat May 4, 2013, 10:21 AM
May 2013

Some religions insist on a burial...in which case who would object to cremation should be resolving this problem.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
27. This is IDIOCY. But what do you expect in our IDIOCRACY?
Sat May 4, 2013, 11:32 AM
May 2013

The man is DEAD. We bury dead people. What do these freaks want?

I shouldn't ask. I assume they want to be given possession of his remains so they can publicly desecrate them.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
29. Embalm him at an unnamed mortuary and then bury his remains in
Sat May 4, 2013, 11:36 AM
May 2013

"potter's field". Every large county has a place they bury unclaimed remains, IIRC. Unmarked graves, anonymous resting place.

Cremation is forbidden in Islam and it would be inappropriate to desecrate his remains by doing so, and would certainly add fuel to the fire.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
43. He has been "claimed." Embalming is a problem, too. It's not appropriate in Islamic tradition.
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:05 AM
May 2013

They are no doubt keeping him VERY cold to try to stave off rot.

I think the easy answer is burial at sea, a-la-bin Ladin. It is permissible, if there is a reasonable fear or expectation that the body will be dug up and abused, mutilated, etc., or if animals could get to it and eat it. This guy checks that block.

Also, since there's the "Good/Bad Muslim" argument, burial at sea kind of eliminates how he is to be buried (face toward Meccah/face away from Meccah). The uncle, or whoever is paying the bill, would have to agree, but I think that's the best way to handle it. Perhaps some wealthy Muslim with an interest in making this all go away could loan a seagoing yacht, or they could haul the corpse out to sea and hand it off to a Russian military vessel for burial in very deep water.

caseymoz

(5,763 posts)
32. I don't understand.
Sat May 4, 2013, 01:28 PM
May 2013

The guy's dead. 1) You can't just leave him to be refrigerated at taxpayer's expense. 2) It's against his religion and his family's religion to cremate him. 3) If you buy him you can't just desecrate his corps. 4) People who've done a hell of a lot worse that he did have been buried in fully marked graves, so let's not get into who deserves a decent burial and who doesn't. 5) Having him unburied and disowned is just going to stink up the neighborhood.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
33. Family in the US
Sat May 4, 2013, 02:22 PM
May 2013

Potter's field...unless some of those complaining about the protesters have a nice family plot they would like him placed in.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
44. A Muslim cemetery is optimal, because other cemeteries make demands re:
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:17 AM
May 2013

how the body is placed in the ground--they want vaults, and metal coffins, etc, and that's not how it's done. If a Muslim cemetery can be found, it must be his sect--is he shi'a or sunni (I suspect the latter but you never know).

The uncle, I think, is ready to pay the costs of his burial --the problem is finding a place that will cooperate.

I think the grave will have to remain unmarked, if they can find a place.

davsand

(13,421 posts)
34. So much anger and pain in all of this.
Sat May 4, 2013, 02:45 PM
May 2013

I can only hope that at some point the better parts of human nature lead everybody to some kind of healing.

What those two are accused of was a terrible horrible crime. Nobody can ever fix that. All any of us can do is try and heal the damage as much as possible and then resolve to try and correct the things that led to its happening.

Not only are there those directly injured in the attacks, but there are those who love them along with an entire larger group of people who mourn and carry anger. While there is no way to condone what was done, it is also important to consider that those who loved the accused along with that community are ALSO carrying grief and pain. Seems to me that an awful lot of people are hurting and sad right now, and maybe we need to be worrying about that.

Peace.


Laura

zeeland

(247 posts)
37. Threaten to cremate his remains and spread them over the city...
Sat May 4, 2013, 04:27 PM
May 2013

or shut up and go home. This frenzy of feeding on rage and hate
Is revolting. Enough already.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
38. I don't blame them.
Sat May 4, 2013, 05:05 PM
May 2013

They don't want to have the headache of having people vandalize the tomb once they found out where he's buried.

Why don't they cremate him and send the ashes to his parents? They can then decide to bury him in his own country.

Personally, I don't care if he joins Bin Laden in a watery grave. Good riddance!!!

brentspeak

(18,290 posts)
45. Only a fool of a cemetary owner would agree to host Tsarnaev's plot
Sun May 5, 2013, 07:24 PM
May 2013

Why deal with the constant vandalism and disruption? Not to mention probable lawsuits from families whose loved ones are buried in the same cemetery.

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