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LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:29 PM Dec 2013

Former priest to marry mother of his child, daughter of adviser to Pope Francis

Source: NY Daily News

VATICAN CITY — Thomas Williams, the onetime public face of the disgraced Legion of Christ religious order who left the priesthood after admitting he fathered a child, is getting married this weekend to the child’s mother, The Associated Press has learned. The bride is the daughter of former U.S. Ambassador to the Holy See Mary Ann Glendon, one of Pope Francis’ top advisers.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/priest-marry-mary-ann-glendon-mother-child-pope-advisor-article-1.1538820#ixzz2meqzsSHO

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/priest-marry-mary-ann-glendon-mother-child-pope-advisor-article-1.1538820#ixzz2meqdQX7Q

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Former priest to marry mother of his child, daughter of adviser to Pope Francis (Original Post) LiberalElite Dec 2013 OP
All in the Family, I guess..... MADem Dec 2013 #1
Those are two hot looking priests. Beacool Dec 2013 #9
Father Cutie (yes--his name is really CUTIE) was a HUGE scandal. MADem Dec 2013 #12
Yes, I remember the story. Beacool Dec 2013 #18
Priests leaving the priesthood and marrying is LibDemAlways Dec 2013 #2
Correct - not at all uncommon. No Vested Interest Dec 2013 #5
It started because of money. Priests with families mean two things - IdaBriggs Dec 2013 #10
My grandfather left the priesthood to marry my grandmother. Xithras Dec 2013 #15
The Pope could change it instantly. joshcryer Dec 2013 #19
My husband, who was raised Catholic, has lately LibDemAlways Dec 2013 #20
Francis is really bad on choice and women issues. joshcryer Dec 2013 #21
Abstinence... Plucketeer Dec 2013 #3
One-handed, it's not just for preists davidpdx Dec 2013 #7
The Church should allow Priests to marry, as it was hundreds of years ago. onehandle Dec 2013 #4
So what the hell do you think Episcopalians are for? YOHABLO Dec 2013 #6
Or Lutherans. Sognefjord Dec 2013 #24
You realize most opponents of the church are actually opponents of its dogma, right? AtheistCrusader Dec 2013 #13
Too too Thornbirds. n/t bitchkitty Dec 2013 #8
! hedgehog Dec 2013 #11
Father belonged to Legion of Christ founded by drug addict & pedophile. idwiyo Dec 2013 #14
Interesting. I wonder whether the ceremony will include amy vows? n/t Orsino Dec 2013 #16
Pope Francis reveals he used to be a nightclub bouncer in Buenos Aires, Argentina freshwest Dec 2013 #17
I can just see the reaction of some of the guys he bounced. . . Paula Sims Dec 2013 #23
That would be mind boggling for them, I bet! freshwest Dec 2013 #25
The Byzantine (Eastern) Rite Catholic church has married priests but . . . Paula Sims Dec 2013 #22

MADem

(135,425 posts)
1. All in the Family, I guess.....
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:51 PM
Dec 2013

Doesn't he have the looks of an Arrow Shirt model, though?

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And here's the happy bride four years ago, a pretty hard core Catholic, apparently...except for that schtupping priests bit, by the looks of it:



http://communio.stblogs.org/index.php/tag/liz-lev/

Will he stay in the RC club, I wonder, or will he pull a "Father Cutie?"

He jumped ship to the Episcopalians....!



MADem

(135,425 posts)
12. Father Cutie (yes--his name is really CUTIE) was a HUGE scandal.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:35 AM
Dec 2013

People who don't speak Spanish may have missed it, but he was photographed making out with his girlfriend on the beach. That led to his resignation.

The reason the scandal was so HUGE is because he had a HIT television show on Telemundo, where he was like a religious Oprah or something. The little old ladies in the black dresses and rosaries would SWOON over him. He was a massive money machine...

He wrote a book about how he tried to resist temptation (I think it was called Dilemma or something on those lines) --as you can see by the magazine cover, he wasn't too successful!

He really is a poster boy for allowing priests to marry.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
18. Yes, I remember the story.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:37 PM
Dec 2013

He's now married and has two sons.

It was a scandal because he hadn't quit the priesthood before he was caught kissing his girlfriend on the beach ala "An Affair to Remember".






LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
2. Priests leaving the priesthood and marrying is
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:59 PM
Dec 2013

not all that uncommon. The man who conducted Hugh Hefner's wedding back in 1989 was a priest who had served at a church attended by my family. After he left the priesthood, he married and had a large family. Another priest my family knew married a parishioner. Many of these guys become counselors and serve as "rent a priests" for weddings and funerals.

Hard to understand the church's strict prohibition against a married clergy when they allow married Episcopal priests who convert to serve in the Catholic priesthood.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
5. Correct - not at all uncommon.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:53 PM
Dec 2013

The priest who performed the ceremony for my spouse and me subsequently left and married. I always said that was my "out" if I ever needed or wanted one. (I didn't need or want.) That was 50+ yrs ago. I just heard recently that he is active in the Quaker church locally.

I do think, though, that it's preferable to take one's leave before the baby arrives.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
10. It started because of money. Priests with families mean two things -
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 10:55 AM
Dec 2013

they need money to support them, and the children/spouses would be eligible to inherit.

I believe the rules were changed when having a second/third child given to the priesthood with a substantial endowment was common. If that man married, the endowment didn't go to the church, but was eligible to go to his wife and children.

The problem was solved by declaring all priests (including those married before the order went into effect) "no longer married and their children bastards with no right of inheritance." Also, the church then got all the money.

Problem solved, and the Church hierarchy in Rome got MUCH richer.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
15. My grandfather left the priesthood to marry my grandmother.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:15 PM
Dec 2013

He had just been ordained when WW2 broke out, and he volunteered as a chaplain and marched with the troops across Europe. After the war ended and he came back to the U.S., he was assigned to a small church for a while, but later said that his "heart just wasn't in it anymore". When he met my grandmother, the last piece fell into place and he left the priesthood for good.

I'm pretty happy he did...I wouldn't be here otherwise

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
19. The Pope could change it instantly.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:20 PM
Dec 2013

Snap of a finger.

I'm guessing the Church doesn't change because ... fast change is unpredictable and challenging to it. First married Priests? Then women Priests. Can't have that.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
20. My husband, who was raised Catholic, has lately
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:35 PM
Dec 2013

been attending an Episcopal church where two female priests are also both from Catholic families. They didn't let their gender get in the way of what they perceived to be their calling. The Church is missing out mightily by being stubborn on this issue.

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
21. Francis is really bad on choice and women issues.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 06:14 PM
Dec 2013

Though he thinks they should be part of the Church he still sees them as subservient. It's a shame really.

Regarding marriage for Priests he does seem like he's open to changing it. But only in so far as I can tell as if it becomes a problem (ie, more and more men choose not to be Catholic priests because they want to be married).

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
4. The Church should allow Priests to marry, as it was hundreds of years ago.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:35 PM
Dec 2013

DUers who hate the Catholic Church should 'pray' this doesn't happen. It would invigorate the Church like nobody's business.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
13. You realize most opponents of the church are actually opponents of its dogma, right?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:36 AM
Dec 2013

This church COULD become a non-issue to me, if it undergoes some actual reforms, and I'm not talking about marriage for the priests, though that would be a good step in it appearing more 'normal'.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
14. Father belonged to Legion of Christ founded by drug addict & pedophile.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:58 PM
Dec 2013
The saga of the Legion of Christ represents one of the most egregious examples of how the Vatican ignored decades of reports about sexually abusive priests as church leaders put the interests of the institution above those of the victims.

The Rev. Marcial Maciel founded the cult-like Legion in 1941 in Mexico and oversaw its growth into a large and prominent congregation despite credible reports that he was a drug addict and child molester. After Maciel’s death in 2008, the Legion admitted that he fathered three children and sexually abused his seminarians.

...

The Legion scandal has been particularly damaging to the Vatican because Maciel was held up by Pope John Paul II and his cardinals as a model for the faithful, with the order admired for its orthodoxy and ability to bring in money and new priests.


freshwest

(53,661 posts)
17. Pope Francis reveals he used to be a nightclub bouncer in Buenos Aires, Argentina
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:52 PM
Dec 2013

By Lee Moran - December 3, 2013

God's enforcer on Earth used to be a nightclub bouncer.

Pope Francis I has revealed that, years before becoming pontiff, he sorted out rowdy troublemakers in backstreet bars in his home city of Buenos Aires, Argentina.

The 76-year-old head of the Catholic Church made the astonishing announcement on Sunday...

The Catholic News Service reports that he mentioned his former career while talking to parishioners in a working-class neighborhood in Rome....


http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/pope-francis-nightclub-bouncer-article-1.1535865

From link at first article. Wish I could get the picture to post. He has a impish grin.




Paula Sims

(877 posts)
23. I can just see the reaction of some of the guys he bounced. . .
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 01:01 AM
Dec 2013

They wake up one morning, hung over, turn on the TV, and shout "Dude, that's the guy that tossed me out of bars 40 years ago!!!"

Paula Sims

(877 posts)
22. The Byzantine (Eastern) Rite Catholic church has married priests but . . .
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 01:00 AM
Dec 2013

. . . they have to be married BEFORE they become Deacons and then Priests. And once the wife dies, they cannot remarry or they must leave their position in the church. Roman Catholics won't accept that view because it leads to more of a link between East and West and there are parties on both sides that would rather die than see unification.

John Fugelsang's parents were both of the cloth -- his father was a Franciscan Brother and his mother a nun. They both left their offices and got married to each other. It happens. . .

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