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legcramp

(288 posts)
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 07:41 PM Jan 2014

Glendale police: 16-year-old girl says man died during sex act

Source: AZCENTRAL.COM

Glendale (AZ) police have arrested a 16-year-old girl in connection with the strangulation death of a Phoenix man during what she claimed to be a consensual sex act, officials said.

The girl, whose name was not released by police because she is a juvenile, was booked Saturday into a detention facility on suspicion of second-degree murder. She remained there Tuesday.

Police were called to the 6200 block of West Olive Avenue on Saturday at about 5:45 p.m. on report of a injured person in an apartment. What they found instead was a dead 43-year-old man, officials said.

Sgt. Jay O’Neill, a Glendale police spokesman, Jason Ash had several cuts to his body and a cord around his neck.



Read more: http://www.azcentral.com/community/glendale/articles/20140121glendale-police-year-old-says-man-died-during-sex-act-abrk.html



Police first interviewed the teenager’s mother, who said she had been home for a time but left her daughter and her daughter’s friend, Ash, alone at the apartment.

The leader in the clubhouse for the Mother of the Year Award right there.
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Glendale police: 16-year-old girl says man died during sex act (Original Post) legcramp Jan 2014 OP
Coming and going at the same time! Bennyboy Jan 2014 #1
I'm sorry, correct me if I'm reading this wrong giftedgirl77 Jan 2014 #2
Yep, Mother of the year. legcramp Jan 2014 #3
Yes she probably wins the title. gvstn Jan 2014 #43
What a mom - piece of merde. 840high Jan 2014 #4
Update: Per ABC 15 in Phoenix. It gets weirder. legcramp Jan 2014 #5
ok, this is horrible but i wonder if the mother was selling her daughter for sex JI7 Jan 2014 #7
My thought exactly! nt Tumbulu Jan 2014 #10
She certainly could have sexual desires Yo_Mama Jan 2014 #12
the mother knew he was with her and left them alone together JI7 Jan 2014 #20
Ewwwww. How awful. Yo_Mama Jan 2014 #22
I just cannot understand why the girl is being charged with anything? Tumbulu Jan 2014 #28
Because there is nothing reported as being rape. TM99 Jan 2014 #31
Sex with a minor IS rape Tumbulu Jan 2014 #53
Technically, the state of Arizona TM99 Jan 2014 #54
In most states the age of consent is 16 happyslug Jan 2014 #36
The age of consent in AZ is 18. herding cats Jan 2014 #40
Must be a West Coast rule, all but Washington States uses 18. happyslug Jan 2014 #50
Yes, age of consent in FL = 18. n/t bitchkitty Jan 2014 #41
Wow, even more screwed up than it originally sounded. penultimate Jan 2014 #34
so far everyone in this thread is OK with the 43 year old man who had sex with the 15 year old? Beaverhausen Jan 2014 #6
"police have arrested a 16-year-old girl" FiveGoodMen Jan 2014 #8
Maybe it happened when she was 15 seattledo Jan 2014 #29
Well, he's dead. What more do you want? eggplant Jan 2014 #9
Given the shear enjoyment of some here to beat dead horses... NutmegYankee Jan 2014 #25
Pieces. Lots of little pieces. DisgustipatedinCA Jan 2014 #27
Yes, the creep should have been Tumbulu Jan 2014 #11
"thank goodness he died". thanks for sharing nt msongs Jan 2014 #13
He apparently died for his actions quakerboy Jan 2014 #23
Well, issue the dead man a strongly worded criticism, now! MADem Jan 2014 #26
Well, he is dead. I don't see anyone shedding any tears over him penultimate Jan 2014 #35
Not enough information to blame the mother. bloom Jan 2014 #14
Normal girls don't have 43 year old "friends" that a mother should be comfortable legcramp Jan 2014 #15
I don't think it is impossible bloom Jan 2014 #16
The fact is that at 16 and with mental disabilities azurnoir Jan 2014 #17
What part of "left her daughter and her daughter’s friend" legcramp Jan 2014 #18
I call you sane. colorado_ufo Jan 2014 #19
I have a jump to conclusions mat you should try out shedevil69taz Jan 2014 #32
the article refers to the man as being the 16 year old's Friend, not a friend of the mother, a JI7 Jan 2014 #21
We can blame both. It's not an either/or situation. He was a filthy perverted man penultimate Jan 2014 #37
I bet the bastard was older than the mother. Beacool Jan 2014 #24
Agreed Helen Borg Jan 2014 #30
I have a different theory: The mother did it, and is blaming the daughter. IdaBriggs Jan 2014 #33
The problem is deaths like this is more common then you think happyslug Jan 2014 #38
I find it likely, with the caveat I think the mom was involved. IdaBriggs Jan 2014 #44
Most such cases are icky, happyslug Jan 2014 #49
I missed the "Amy" bit - yup, I am now voting IdaBriggs Jan 2014 #51
I now read the Friend's name as "Ash" and that was the Victim. happyslug Jan 2014 #52
That same thought crossed my mind too. penultimate Jan 2014 #39
I am a total Law & Order fan. IdaBriggs Jan 2014 #45
Ha - I just thought "hey, maybe the mom did it" bitchkitty Jan 2014 #42
Great minds, bitchkitty. Great minds. IdaBriggs Jan 2014 #46
Parents can do really fucked up shit...Sounds like a Steve Wilkos Show to me.. snooper2 Jan 2014 #47
So, a rapist is now dead, and died during the rape? chrisa Jan 2014 #48
 

giftedgirl77

(4,713 posts)
2. I'm sorry, correct me if I'm reading this wrong
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 07:49 PM
Jan 2014

but was the 43 yr old man the 16 yr old's "friend" the mother is referring to?

gvstn

(2,805 posts)
43. Yes she probably wins the title.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 09:55 AM
Jan 2014

Though this lady gets an "honorable" mention:

The mother of a student who was kicked out of high school after starring in gay porn to help pay his family's bills said she couldn't be prouder.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2543391/Mother-supports-son-18-kicked-high-school-starring-gay-porn-pay-family-bills.html

I'm no prude but her kid having to do porn at 18 to help pay the bills at 18 makes her proud?
 

legcramp

(288 posts)
5. Update: Per ABC 15 in Phoenix. It gets weirder.
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 07:59 PM
Jan 2014
No charges have been filed against the mother, said O'Neill, but the investigation is ongoing.

The mother, who did not want to go on camera, told ABC15 Monday evening that her daughter suffers from schizophrenia and autism.

She indicated her daughter was "really confused and does not understand what happened."



Read more: http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/region_west_valley/glendale/pd-glendale-man-killed-during-sex-act-with-teen#ixzz2r5If36GS

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
12. She certainly could have sexual desires
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 08:44 PM
Jan 2014

It's not uncommon for young women with mental disabilities to be exploited by men. I wouldn't assume the mother was involved.

JI7

(93,257 posts)
20. the mother knew he was with her and left them alone together
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 11:01 PM
Jan 2014

they also refer to him as the girl's friend . so it's not some friend of the mother or some health care worker or teacher or anything like that .

how would a 16 year old end up being friends with some 43 year old and end up being in the home with the mother knowing.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
22. Ewwwww. How awful.
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 11:20 PM
Jan 2014

The girl needs to be in protective custody, for sure.

If she was 16 it's illegal sex by Florida law, I believe. If the man were 24 or younger, there would be the close-in-age exception, but I think with that great an age difference it's statutory rape because the age of consent is 18, isn't it?

Which leads to an interesting question - does a kid have the right to kill in defense of statutory rape, and if not, why not?

Tumbulu

(6,619 posts)
28. I just cannot understand why the girl is being charged with anything?
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 01:25 AM
Jan 2014

Isn't this statutory rape? Is self defense not allowed?

 

TM99

(8,352 posts)
31. Because there is nothing reported as being rape.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 04:14 AM
Jan 2014

Consensual sex gone wrong could warrant manslaughter charges, though she is a minor.

There are really too many questions with this whole scenario to draw as many conclusions as have been in this thread without more information.

 

TM99

(8,352 posts)
54. Technically, the state of Arizona
Thu Jan 23, 2014, 07:46 AM
Jan 2014

does not have any laws on rape. There are various ones that cover 'sexual assault'.

Arizona Revised Statutes, §13-1405 - Sexual conduct with a minor would be the applicable one in this case.

But given the lack of complete details and the fact that the purported 'victim' may have committed the act of murder (it is not clear whether it was in self defense or not), then, yes, this thread with the hyperbolic responses that this man deserved to die do strike me as very inappropriate and over the top.

 

happyslug

(14,779 posts)
36. In most states the age of consent is 16
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 08:42 AM
Jan 2014

Thus she is of age to give consent to have sex

herding cats

(19,974 posts)
40. The age of consent in AZ is 18.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 09:04 AM
Jan 2014

There's some give if the two are close in age, for example 17 & 18, but that wouldn't apply here.

 

happyslug

(14,779 posts)
50. Must be a West Coast rule, all but Washington States uses 18.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 12:35 PM
Jan 2014

Last edited Wed Jan 22, 2014, 05:15 PM - Edit history (2)

States with age of Consent at 18: Arizona, Florida, California, Delaware, Idaho, North Dakota, Oregon, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia and Wisconsin, (total 11 states) Mostly on the West Coast or the Western . Florida, Virginia, Tennessee and Delaware are the exception to the rule this is a Far West tendency.

States with age of Consent at 17: Colorado, Illinois, Louisiana, Missouri, Nebraska, New Mexico, New York State, Wyoming, and Texas,(total of Nine State), Mostly in the Great Plains (New York State is the big exception).

States with age of Consent at 16: Every other states including the following, Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont, Washington State and West Virginia,(Total of 30 States)



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America

Beaverhausen

(24,682 posts)
6. so far everyone in this thread is OK with the 43 year old man who had sex with the 15 year old?
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 08:02 PM
Jan 2014

Only the mother being criticized? Got it!

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
8. "police have arrested a 16-year-old girl"
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 08:19 PM
Jan 2014

Do you have to change the story to make the point?

NutmegYankee

(16,457 posts)
25. Given the shear enjoyment of some here to beat dead horses...
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 12:04 AM
Jan 2014

What's the problem with beating a dead rapist's corpse?

Tumbulu

(6,619 posts)
11. Yes, the creep should have been
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 08:34 PM
Jan 2014

arrested, but thank goodness he died! My goodness, why was the poor victim of rape arrested?

quakerboy

(14,727 posts)
23. He apparently died for his actions
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 11:30 PM
Jan 2014

I'm not sure exactly what more justice could be meted out, unless one has a direct line to the afterlife.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. Well, issue the dead man a strongly worded criticism, now!
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 12:13 AM
Jan 2014

Who here is saying they're "OK" with anything of that nature? I don't see any "Right on, dude" posts--am I missing them?

Good grief--it doesn't matter if the guy was a pervert....he's DEAD. He's beyond your scorn or excoriation. He's already gotten his comeuppance, pardon the term.

There's an expression about "beating a dead horse" which, while crude, is illustrative....

 

bloom

(11,638 posts)
14. Not enough information to blame the mother.
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 09:10 PM
Jan 2014

Not enough information to blame the mother.

With the girl being 16, schizophrenic and autistic, it seems to me, if anyone is to blame, it would be the man, himself.

If he was her "friend", he would have presumably known what her condition was and should not have been doing whatever the hell he was doing - whether consensual or not.

 

legcramp

(288 posts)
15. Normal girls don't have 43 year old "friends" that a mother should be comfortable
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 09:26 PM
Jan 2014

leaving them with. And she isn't normal.

Just sayin'.

 

bloom

(11,638 posts)
16. I don't think it is impossible
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 09:38 PM
Jan 2014

that a family 'friend' could have been trusted to have a non-sexual relationship with a 16 year old - as one would trust an uncle, etc. He could have been a care-giver for years, for instance.

I really don't think there is enough information to blame the mother. Why not blame the man, himself?

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
17. The fact is that at 16 and with mental disabilities
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 09:54 PM
Jan 2014

she really could not have legally consensual sex with anyone, the Mothers role in this is yet to be seen though

 

legcramp

(288 posts)
18. What part of "left her daughter and her daughter’s friend"
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 10:14 PM
Jan 2014

Last edited Wed Jan 22, 2014, 12:32 AM - Edit history (1)

Are you struggling with?

I don't know your life experience but we raised three daughters. I can assure you that I would have not been as understanding as you seem to be if one of them had brought home and introduced a 43 year old male "friend".

Call me crazy and judgmental.

shedevil69taz

(512 posts)
32. I have a jump to conclusions mat you should try out
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 06:34 AM
Jan 2014

We don't have enough information to know what the relationship was between the man, the mother, and the daughter beforehand in this story.

JI7

(93,257 posts)
21. the article refers to the man as being the 16 year old's Friend, not a friend of the mother, a
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 11:06 PM
Jan 2014

family friend or even a teacher or nurse or anything else like that.

it refers to him as being a friend of the Teen Girl.

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
37. We can blame both. It's not an either/or situation. He was a filthy perverted man
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 08:45 AM
Jan 2014

who put himself in a situation in which he died an embarrassing death that exposed his depravity. The mother is very likely complicit in the whole thing and is probably a piece of shit too. We could all be wrong though, but that's how it looks so far.

Hopefully this won't screw up the girl's life too much in the end.

Beacool

(30,503 posts)
24. I bet the bastard was older than the mother.
Tue Jan 21, 2014, 11:59 PM
Jan 2014

The girl has mental issues and he bedded her? Screw him, I don't feel sorry for him.


 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
33. I have a different theory: The mother did it, and is blaming the daughter.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 08:35 AM
Jan 2014

From the article:

Police first interviewed the teenager’s mother, who said she had been home for a time but left her daughter and her daughter’s friend, Ash, alone at the apartment.


There is no "while she was fill-in-the-blank" which is normal in explaining why someone leaves.

Then --

She later received a call from her daughter indicating that she and Ash were involved in a consensual sex act involving strangulation, and that Ash was dead, according to police. The mother said she returned to the apartment, called 911 and attempted to resuscitate Ash.


So, they are supposedly "doing the deed", something goes wrong, the daughter calls the mom (who presumably JUST finds out a 43-year old is "doing" her daughter in "non-traditional" ways ( ), and the mom "attempted to resuscitate Ash."

Let me be blunt - "attempt to resuscitate" would NOT be the first thing I would be thinking if someone is "doing" my mentally handicapped 16 year old without my knowledge and consent. I find this ... implausible.

Then we have ....

Police said the 16-year-old had fled the apartment before officers arrived; she was taken into custody at neighboring unit.


So, the mom is there with a guy (presumably close to her age) who is dead from (presumably) poorly performed kinky sex, says the teenage daughter did it, and the kid gets blamed.

My theory: the mom did it, and is blaming the handicapped / mentally disabled kid because she probably won't go jail, while the mom is likely to face some kind of charges. The mom may even think she is doing a good thing, because if mom goes to jail, who will take care of her vulnerable, disabled daughter?

Ta Da! There you have it - a plausible, working theory of a crime, solved from the clues in a newspaper with zero evidence other than some common sense.

 

happyslug

(14,779 posts)
38. The problem is deaths like this is more common then you think
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 08:49 AM
Jan 2014

I once talked to a Police Officer who had just finished a class on Murder investigations, which included a sub section on strange accidental deaths. The strangest is the one where two prostitutes are having sex while they client stands on a chair naked with a rope around his next strangling himself by stepping off the chair and then back onto the chair. This gives some men an extra high. I am NOT into that type of sex, but it is known, and once in a while the man missteps and ends up hanging himself. The Two prostitutes then try to lift him up to prevent him hanging, but generally are to weak and then they leave.

Just a comment, that such deaths are NOT unheard if, rare but they do occur and this sounds like that type of accident.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
44. I find it likely, with the caveat I think the mom was involved.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 10:31 AM
Jan 2014

I am not going to judge other people's sexual preferences unless he really was "doing" the daughter. Then it is just a whole bunch of ICK for a variety of reasons, with the big one being "grown man taking advantage of a teen."

 

happyslug

(14,779 posts)
49. Most such cases are icky,
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 11:28 AM
Jan 2014

And that the daughter was left with a friend named "Amy" and then you had this man dead, just tends to bring to mind that particular icky act.

The Mother may be involved, but also may not be, thus no charges till the police talk to the daughter and "Amy".

 

happyslug

(14,779 posts)
52. I now read the Friend's name as "Ash" and that was the Victim.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 04:24 PM
Jan 2014

Thus I may be mistaken, that the friend the girl was left with was the 43 year old not another young woman, but it does NOT leave out the possibility this was an accidental death.

More Articles, but no new details:

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/teen-partner-43-died-consensual-sex-act-article-1.1587371

http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/region_west_valley/glendale/pd-glendale-man-killed-during-sex-act-with-teen

http://www.wncn.com/story/24505776/teen-girl-arrested-in-homicide-of-glendale-man

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
39. That same thought crossed my mind too.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 08:55 AM
Jan 2014

I don't think it's very tinfoil-ish to think that might be possible. Anyone who has ever watched Law & Order knows that is how it usually turns out on TV.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
45. I am a total Law & Order fan.
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 10:31 AM
Jan 2014

I think this script practically writes itself!

Dun dun DUN! "In the criminal justice system..."

bitchkitty

(7,349 posts)
42. Ha - I just thought "hey, maybe the mom did it"
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 09:39 AM
Jan 2014

scrolled down, and saw this post.

I wonder the same thing - the mother could have done it and is now blaming the mentally disabled child.

I see a possible episode of Snapped...

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
47. Parents can do really fucked up shit...Sounds like a Steve Wilkos Show to me..
Wed Jan 22, 2014, 10:57 AM
Jan 2014

Example #1




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