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Adenoid_Hynkel

(14,093 posts)
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:15 PM Nov 2014

Brittany Maynard, Death With Dignity Advocate, Dies At 29

Source: Huffington Post



Brittany Maynard, the Oregon woman who had become an outspoken advocate for patient's rights following her terminal cancer diagnosis, died on Saturday, the Oregonian reported. She was 29.

"Goodbye to all my dear friends and family that I love," she wrote in a Facebook post, according to People. "Today is the day I have chosen to pass away with dignity in the face of my terminal illness... the world is a beautiful place, travel has been my greatest teacher, my close friends and folks are the greatest givers... goodbye world. Spread good energy. Pay it forward!"

Earlier this year, Maynard learned that she was suffering from an aggressive form of brain cancer called glioblastoma and had only six months to live. After hearing what the disease would to her body in its final stages, she decided that she wanted to die on her own terms.

Maynard and her family, including her husband Dan Diaz and her mother Debbie Ziegler, moved to Oregon, whose Death With Dignity Act has allowed hundreds of terminally ill people to end their lives by taking a medication prescribed by doctors. She picked November 1st as the day she wanted to die because it was after her husband's late October birthday.

Read more: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/02/brittany-maynard-dead-cancer_n_6091142.html?&ncid=tweetlnkushpmg00000067



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Brittany Maynard, Death With Dignity Advocate, Dies At 29 (Original Post) Adenoid_Hynkel Nov 2014 OP
R.I.P. Brittany BlueDemKev Nov 2014 #1
Goodbye, Brittany. Arugula Latte Nov 2014 #2
Brittany is now free. Be happy. Ken Burch Nov 2014 #3
Amen Ishoutandscream2 Nov 2014 #29
For then - Gossamer Stories by Manuel Gutiérrez Nájera Xipe Totec Nov 2014 #4
You post some of the best poetry on DU. Thanks. freshwest Nov 2014 #19
Thanks. And please don't let me inhibit your posts Xipe Totec Nov 2014 #24
How beautiful. How very beautiful. Hekate Nov 2014 #38
Beautiful! Thank you. nt Mojorabbit Nov 2014 #41
Thank you for your thoughtful post. n/t Judi Lynn Nov 2014 #67
as it should be handmade34 Nov 2014 #5
I agree genxlib Nov 2014 #53
+1 blackspade Nov 2014 #61
Exactly! wendylaroux Nov 2014 #117
Pass gently, Brittany... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2014 #6
A brave young woman, an example to many. Thinkingabout Nov 2014 #7
.. Cha Nov 2014 #8
I'm happy she had the choice. NutmegYankee Nov 2014 #9
yes, I'm happy she had the choice, too NJCher Nov 2014 #12
The entire experience was horrible. NutmegYankee Nov 2014 #21
.... BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #27
Thank you. I'm an Oregonian who voted twice for the Death with Dignity law. classof56 Nov 2014 #37
My stepbrother did that Spirochete Nov 2014 #62
I am as well davidpdx Nov 2014 #68
I would have voted for the one in Mass. Ampersand Unicode Nov 2014 #92
bless you, Nutmeg Yankee. I feel your pain. I had to let my mom go and roguevalley Nov 2014 #107
I hope her crossing was peaceful. nt FLyellowdog Nov 2014 #10
I had a near death and its so fast and painfree, I know she sailed through without a roguevalley Nov 2014 #108
Bless you Brittany - I hope PumpkinAle Nov 2014 #11
She looked like Maggie from Walking Dead. PeteSelman Nov 2014 #13
Rest in peace shenmue Nov 2014 #14
Be at peace.. How difficult his must have been, but I respect here decision. hlthe2b Nov 2014 #15
RIP. Initech Nov 2014 #16
true. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #28
Respect otohara Nov 2014 #17
May she rest in peace. hrmjustin Nov 2014 #18
a snowflake falls into the ocean Voice for Peace Nov 2014 #20
beautiful imagery, voice for peace. roguevalley Nov 2014 #109
R.I.P. Brittany Louisiana1976 Nov 2014 #22
I found her to be incredibly wise and brave BeyondGeography Nov 2014 #23
"Brittany's Law" customerserviceguy Nov 2014 #25
RIP Brittany Unknown Beatle Nov 2014 #26
Many thanks to Oregon. mahannah Nov 2014 #30
RIP, Brittany...and thank you! noiretextatique Nov 2014 #31
I hope she finds peace ripcord Nov 2014 #32
RIP Brittany 47of74 Nov 2014 #33
Very Sad jalan48 Nov 2014 #34
Awwwww. BlueStater Nov 2014 #35
Dear Brittany MissDeeds Nov 2014 #36
R.I.P. Brittany Hawaii Hiker Nov 2014 #39
I just went over to Freeperville RoccoRyg Nov 2014 #40
Unsurprising. The members of RimJob land find new lows with each passing day. 47of74 Nov 2014 #43
You mean the people who want the gov'ment out of our lives... Kalidurga Nov 2014 #45
I think they want to bypass "government" and personally tell other people what to do. n/t djean111 Nov 2014 #69
Maybe they want both Kalidurga Nov 2014 #101
We were never on opposite sides of every issue like we are now SleeplessinSoCal Nov 2014 #47
Yet they cheer on the death penalty and leave the poor to starve to death davidn3600 Nov 2014 #56
Peace and comfort to her loved ones. herding cats Nov 2014 #42
Rest well, brave woman UpInArms Nov 2014 #44
It's also dia de los muertos & All Souls Day SleeplessinSoCal Nov 2014 #46
RIP, Brittany theHandpuppet Nov 2014 #48
Her time here was too brief. Ilsa Nov 2014 #49
With Dignity... sheshe2 Nov 2014 #50
"...travel has been my greatest teacher ..." undiegrinder Nov 2014 #51
She is one of the bravest woman I've ever read about. She didn't whine about.. BlueJazz Nov 2014 #52
Rest in Peace lovely lady. 840high Nov 2014 #54
RIP... Tom_Foolery Nov 2014 #55
I wondered whether she was going to really kill herself on the particular day treestar Nov 2014 #57
She had come in for a lot of unfair criticism . . . markpkessinger Nov 2014 #65
I didn't read that far but anyone who said that is horrible treestar Nov 2014 #73
I'm happy that she made the decision Gloria Nov 2014 #58
May she rest in peace. And thanks to the good people of Oregon that made this possible. nm rhett o rick Nov 2014 #59
Heartbreaking. blackspade Nov 2014 #60
We're often much kinder to animals on this front Bibliovore Nov 2014 #76
I cried when I read this... Contrary1 Nov 2014 #63
Very well said. hamsterjill Nov 2014 #86
That's frigging hear wrenching. :( C Moon Nov 2014 #64
Vale (nt) Recursion Nov 2014 #66
My condolences to your family, Brittany. Gently into that good night... Raster Nov 2014 #70
What was the drug(s) used? Elmergantry Nov 2014 #71
........ daleanime Nov 2014 #72
:( :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: WillyT Nov 2014 #74
Ultimate decisions with will to make that final decision packman Nov 2014 #75
Peace be upon you. sinkingfeeling Nov 2014 #77
Very brave and wonderful lady. samsingh Nov 2014 #78
Not that any cancer is 'good' but those glioblastomas are particularly horrible. stevenleser Nov 2014 #79
Yes. I lost my mom to one about 20 years ago. Myrina Nov 2014 #80
I'm very sorry to hear that. stevenleser Nov 2014 #96
My dad died from glioblastoma at 49. NutmegYankee Nov 2014 #104
solidarity with all those who suffer needlessly Warren Stupidity Nov 2014 #81
she says goodbye in a facebook post??! redruddyred Nov 2014 #82
You obviously have not Ineeda Nov 2014 #87
be careful redruddyred Nov 2014 #89
Post removed Post removed Nov 2014 #93
if you're arguing from the basis that sick people should never be criticized redruddyred Nov 2014 #99
What is the precise problem in doing so? LanternWaste Nov 2014 #103
is that something that *you* would share on fb? redruddyred Nov 2014 #110
My wife says "yes." JanMichael Nov 2014 #123
I'm sorry, but who are you to decide what is valid? redruddyred Nov 2014 #126
And who are you to decide what is tasteful???? onecent Nov 2014 #128
I am simply stating my opinion sir or madam redruddyred Nov 2014 #130
You have a problem with that? 2banon Nov 2014 #118
I don't understand why your name is so Republican. nt valerief Nov 2014 #129
republicans don't understand why it's so communist redruddyred Nov 2014 #131
I admire her Stargazer09 Nov 2014 #83
We allow VA_Jill Nov 2014 #84
RIP Brittany fredamae Nov 2014 #85
R.I.P. Brittany. ..... nirvana555 Nov 2014 #88
Best of luck to fredamae Nov 2014 #98
Um, not so fast. KamaAina Nov 2014 #100
Some people are afraid of being euthanized against their will, others are afraid of being kept alive nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #115
I find this argument extremely outrageous. 2banon Nov 2014 #119
I am (quite severely) disabled. They do not speak for me whatthehey Nov 2014 #121
This courageous woman and her family.. dawnie51 Nov 2014 #90
RIP Brittany Ampersand Unicode Nov 2014 #91
RIP. You were a brave young woman! NT Adrahil Nov 2014 #94
Godspeed and Safe Passage, young lady...... LongTomH Nov 2014 #95
Rest in Peace JohninPA Nov 2014 #97
Bless Brittany and her family - important work she handled with grace. polichick Nov 2014 #102
Rest in Peace Little Lady!!!! and I'd like to post a poem that I particularly love! onecent Nov 2014 #105
May this brave young woman rest in peace. Paper Roses Nov 2014 #106
"Do not go gentle into that good night" DemoJohnNC Nov 2014 #111
May the four winds blow you safely home... nt Earth_First Nov 2014 #112
RIP bigwillq Nov 2014 #113
Free at last democrank Nov 2014 #114
A beautiful, brave soul - rest in peace. nt adigal Nov 2014 #116
rest in peace. bradmatt Nov 2014 #120
Welcome to DU! gopiscrap Nov 2014 #125
This thread has now outlived Ms. Maynard by several days. KamaAina Nov 2014 #122
which, since it does not face imminent agony and indignity, is just fine nt whatthehey Nov 2014 #124
my sympathy to her friends and loved ones Skittles Nov 2014 #127
 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
3. Brittany is now free. Be happy.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:21 PM
Nov 2014

May all who face such a situation be able to find a path like this.

My best wishes to her husband and family.

Xipe Totec

(43,887 posts)
4. For then - Gossamer Stories by Manuel Gutiérrez Nájera
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:21 PM
Nov 2014

I want to die young at the end of the day On the High Sea, with face to the sky, When agony is but a dream far away And the flight of my soul is a bird soaring by.

Let there be no sad tears as I draw my last breath, at one and alone with the sky and the sea, No sobbing, nor prayer, nor laments of death; I only would hear the deep waves cover me.

To die when the bright glow of twilight is fading, And catches the waves in its last net of light; To be like that sun as its luminous shading Expires and is lost in the arms of the night.

To die, and die young: before time has destroyed The delicate fabric illusion has spun; When life can still say:"I am yours," but the void Of a final echo tells us death has won!

- Gossamer Stories,
Manuel Gutiérrez Nájera,
Translated by John A. Crow

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
19. You post some of the best poetry on DU. Thanks.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:47 PM
Nov 2014

I could post two quotes, but your contribution is much more positive.

genxlib

(5,517 posts)
53. I agree
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 12:05 AM
Nov 2014

I am deeply saddened by the illness that took her away so young.

But I am inspired that she had the courage to do this publicly in an effort to make progress on this important issue.

Modern medicine has made incredible strides to keep us alive. However, somewhere along the way, they have lost sight that being kept alive is not necessarily the same thing as living.

Death with Dignity is a cause I fight for because it is a choice I would want available to me.

Rest in Peace brave soul and strength to the family.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,501 posts)
6. Pass gently, Brittany...
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:25 PM
Nov 2014

You showed so much bravery by your actions in your life and at your death...

My deepest condolences to your family.



NutmegYankee

(16,197 posts)
9. I'm happy she had the choice.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:28 PM
Nov 2014

I watched my father die at age 49 from Glioblastoma. Watched a 240 lb man wither to 75 lbs in just two months, lose his ability to walk and speak, and lose other basic functions.

This woman has done a lot of good for this cause. God bless her.

NJCher

(35,606 posts)
12. yes, I'm happy she had the choice, too
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:36 PM
Nov 2014

I'm sorry you had to go through that, Nutmeg Yankee. Forty-nine is way too young. And 75 lbs is almost unimaginable.

I always want to cry when I hear stories like this, but death is just a transition.


Cher

NutmegYankee

(16,197 posts)
21. The entire experience was horrible.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:49 PM
Nov 2014

And I started crying right after I wrote that because it came flooding back. Memories like when the steroids finally failed to stop the swelling and my father's brain suffered massive hemorrhaging, the doctors hooking him up to a ventilator against his and our wishes, and the nasty fight we had with the doctor who wanted to withhold the morphine because it could cause him to stop breathing. That was our society - withholding pain meds because a terminal patient with maybe a day or two to live could stop breathing if he got them. We won the fight, but it took an entire day to get him off the ventilator and transported home where he died within hours.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
27. ....
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 10:02 PM
Nov 2014
I'm sorry you all had to go through that....truly awful.

Prolonging suffering...That's not what medical care should be.

Thank goodness Oregon exists.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
37. Thank you. I'm an Oregonian who voted twice for the Death with Dignity law.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 10:39 PM
Nov 2014

I'm grateful it is working as I hoped it would. Recently lost a family member who died far too soon, but would have availed himself of the law if he so decided. We were grateful he was spared that path, but grateful it was there for him and for Brittany. I am terribly sad, of course, to lose someone I loved very much, as I know Brittany's friends and family are to lose her. Coincidentally, today is my late sister's birthday. She died in an accident and I still miss her terribly, but I know if the choice had been hers, she'd have chosen death over unrelenting pain.

Rest in peace, Brittany. And blessings to those who are grieving your loss.

Spirochete

(5,264 posts)
62. My stepbrother did that
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 03:17 AM
Nov 2014

a few years ago. He lived in Newport, and also had a brain tumor. It's good that Oregon gives a person that option.

Ampersand Unicode

(503 posts)
92. I would have voted for the one in Mass.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 01:14 PM
Nov 2014

...but was not old enough to vote yet. I was disappointed that it got defeated, of course by the meddling pearl-clutching Catholic voters who came out in droves to vote against bodily autonomy and in favor of draconian morality.

At least Oregonians and Vermonters are rational. And Montanans -- at least on this issue.

Belgium, Switzerland and Holland still lead the way on compassionate choice.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
107. bless you, Nutmeg Yankee. I feel your pain. I had to let my mom go and
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 06:28 PM
Nov 2014

it was huge but freeing for everyone. You did the good thing.

PumpkinAle

(1,210 posts)
11. Bless you Brittany - I hope
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:35 PM
Nov 2014

your strength and courage helps others are able to die with dignity.

May Dan and your Mom find peace in the days to come.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
13. She looked like Maggie from Walking Dead.
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:36 PM
Nov 2014

In that picture anyway.

Going out on your own terms offers you the only dignity possible.

R.I.P.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
25. "Brittany's Law"
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 09:54 PM
Nov 2014

needs to be her legacy in as many places as politically possible. I salute her courage to live and die on her own terms, and to use the rest of her life to inspire others to grant the dying what she had to move to Oregon to accomplish.

RoccoRyg

(260 posts)
40. I just went over to Freeperville
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 10:56 PM
Nov 2014

I like to keep track of what the freaks are up to. They are not sympathetic for Brittany's passing. They think she tried to encourage others to commit suicide too, and they say she was evil for standing up for death-with-dignity laws because they will lead to state-sponsored euthanasia. They also think she isn't going to Heaven. What a bunch of paranoid, hateful lunatics.

RIP Brittany.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
45. You mean the people who want the gov'ment out of our lives...
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 11:09 PM
Nov 2014

wants the government to tell us how to live?

undiegrinder

(79 posts)
51. "...travel has been my greatest teacher ..."
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 11:38 PM
Nov 2014

Bon voyage, Brittany ... wish you could share with us what you learn from this journey.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
52. She is one of the bravest woman I've ever read about. She didn't whine about..
Sun Nov 2, 2014, 11:44 PM
Nov 2014

...the plight of her life or try to elicit emotions. She stood tall and did what she thought was best.
I hope I go out with such strength.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
57. I wondered whether she was going to really kill herself on the particular day
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 12:23 AM
Nov 2014

and thought she might not have since it did not make that news for so long.

I hope people who decide not to do this are not consider to suffer a death without dignity.

markpkessinger

(8,392 posts)
65. She had come in for a lot of unfair criticism . . .
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 04:27 AM
Nov 2014

. . . after this article appeared earlier in the week on Huffington Post, in which she stated her intention to delay her death. Some of the reader comments were simply appalling -- things like, "I knew she'd chicken out" and "A deal's a deal" and the like. But the dignity she, and the Death with Dignity movement, called for lay not in setting a date certain and following through, but rather in having the option to do so. Never has this movement remotely suggested that taking one's own life is the only dignified option for a terminally ill person, but rather that what constitutes 'dignity' in death is for the indivdual facing it to determine.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
73. I didn't read that far but anyone who said that is horrible
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 09:19 AM
Nov 2014

Some of the comments were about fighting it, or the doctors being wrong - one guy said no doctor should put a number of months on how long you have to live, and others claimed their relatives were given 3/6 month prognosis and were still around 20 years later.

I saw my mother, a son. and two brothers, 1984, 2006,2013,and 2014 dye because of cancer, not one of them ever told us they wanted to end it all, they fought and even through the pain they fought and now it's my turn and I am and will fight. Sometimes you teach others through your pain, teach what it means to fight which to me is a different interpretation of death with dignity.


This is true - it's the interpretation. Either way is "dignified" in its own way.

Gloria

(17,663 posts)
58. I'm happy that she made the decision
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 01:05 AM
Nov 2014

before it was taken out of her hands. She had been worried about deteriorating to the point that she would not
be able to take the drugs.

Godspeed, Brittany!

blackspade

(10,056 posts)
60. Heartbreaking.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 02:53 AM
Nov 2014

RIP Brittany.

Another version of this story:
http://news.yahoo.com/terminally-ill-death-dignity-advocate-dies-024759984.html

This part stood out to me:

Janet Morana, executive director of the group Priests for Life, said in a statement after hearing of Maynard's death: "We are saddened by the fact that this young woman gave up hope, and now our concern is for other people with terminal illnesses who may contemplate following her example. Our prayer is that these people will find the courage to live every day to the fullest until God calls them home. Brittany's death was not a victory for a political cause. It was a tragedy, hastened by despair and aided by the culture of death invading our country."


Fuck off Janet. Gave up hope? You hope others find the courage to live? Culture of death? Take your religious bullshit and cram it up your cram hole. One more Christian grandstanding on the death of a terminally ill patient. Disgusting.

Bibliovore

(185 posts)
76. We're often much kinder to animals on this front
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 09:51 AM
Nov 2014

An acquaintance of mine was in a car accident last month. She was in a coma and was found to have substantial brain-stem damage. Recovery was not going to happen, and her husband honored her previously stated wishes and withheld care. It then took many days for her to die, slowly starving to death and dehydrating, in a coma on pain meds. If she'd been a dog, she'd have been allowed to be gently euthanized without prolonging suffering.

Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
63. I cried when I read this...
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 04:00 AM
Nov 2014

Not because of the choice she made, but because she had to make it. I had hoped that she might be able to stay a bit longer.

Rest well.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
75. Ultimate decisions with will to make that final decision
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 09:51 AM
Nov 2014

What more eloquent statement is there for the human spirit? Sad, yet in some way a story that gives one courage.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
80. Yes. I lost my mom to one about 20 years ago.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 10:55 AM
Nov 2014

Seeing what it did to her - before and after surgery, then chemo, then regrowth - faster & worse, despite the chemo ... it was awful.



I hope Ms. Maynard's decision opens a real and serious discussion about 'personal freedoms' in this country, because to me, the freedom to deal with a terminal illness in whatever way you choose, is a basic human right.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
96. I'm very sorry to hear that.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 02:01 PM
Nov 2014


As you know all too well, the survival time/rate is about as low as I have seen on any cancer http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glioblastoma_multiforme#Prognosis and that time only comes with some very unpleasant treatment options. The life of the patient is usually already miserable before diagnosis and becomes even more so almost immediately and stays that way.

for your mom.

Edited to add, my mother has had a number of different cancers so I have spent a lot of time at cancer centers talking to other patients. None of the glioblastoma patients I initially met are still around. Very sad.

NutmegYankee

(16,197 posts)
104. My dad died from glioblastoma at 49.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 03:46 PM
Nov 2014


It's heartbreaking to watch. I'm happy she had the choice and the bravery to start this conversation nationwide.

Ineeda

(3,626 posts)
87. You obviously have not
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 12:08 PM
Nov 2014

been following this story. Read up like a decent person, and then report back. (Is your 'name' indicative of your politics? Is so, no further explanation is necessary. Heartless.)

RIP dear Brittany. My best friend of 50+ years suffered horribly from this disease before she inevitably died a merciless death. I helped with her care, so I witnessed the consequences of this diagnosis.

Response to redruddyred (Reply #89)

 

redruddyred

(1,615 posts)
99. if you're arguing from the basis that sick people should never be criticized
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 02:34 PM
Nov 2014

then you probably don't have any room to criticize me.

Heartless.

 

redruddyred

(1,615 posts)
110. is that something that *you* would share on fb?
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 07:32 PM
Nov 2014

...with 1000 of your closest acquaintances?

I guess there's the activism angle to consider.

I suppose I should make a disclaimer lest this devolves into another slugfest: I'm not really bothered one way or another. I just think it's weird.

JanMichael

(24,870 posts)
123. My wife says "yes."
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 05:04 PM
Nov 2014

Whether or not you think FB is "weird" is not a valid point. Many people use it now to communicate.

 

redruddyred

(1,615 posts)
130. I am simply stating my opinion sir or madam
Wed Nov 5, 2014, 02:40 PM
Nov 2014

we're all entitled to them. whether or not you think we should have them.

Stargazer09

(2,131 posts)
83. I admire her
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 11:13 AM
Nov 2014

She could have done all of this without publicity, but she was thinking of others even in her final weeks. She opened up the discussion of dying with dignity, and even people who say they would never make that choice have acknowledged that it should be available to people everywhere.

R.I.P. Brittany.

VA_Jill

(9,933 posts)
84. We allow
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 11:29 AM
Nov 2014

our fur and feathered friends to be euthanized when their suffering becomes too much, but except for a few enlightened places, we expect humans to suffer until a "natural" death overtakes them. That's bullschitt of the highest order. RIP, Brittany, and thanks for showing us, with your grace and courage, how to go peacefully.

fredamae

(4,458 posts)
85. RIP Brittany
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 11:42 AM
Nov 2014

I appreciate her courage for sharing the process. She educated people everywhere and helped all understand the importance of controlling our own bodies in making life and death decisions.
My condolences to her friends and family.
May she rest in peace.

nirvana555

(448 posts)
88. R.I.P. Brittany. .....
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 12:44 PM
Nov 2014

I'm really hoping we can get this on the ballot in CA. I like what someone posted, Brittany's Law....

fredamae

(4,458 posts)
98. Best of luck to
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 02:28 PM
Nov 2014

CA.
I live in OR. I voted for this so many years ago. I'm lucky (so far) that I am not in any condition to need DWD, but If I ever do?
It Is a comfort just knowing it is there as a choice.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
100. Um, not so fast.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 02:45 PM
Nov 2014
http://www.sacbee.com/opinion/california-forum/article3480794.html

Why, when listing opponents, did The Sacramento Bee editorial pushing an assisted-suicide law ignore the disability community? (“Give the dying the right to pick how and when to die”: Editorials, Oct. 26) We could be those most affected.

As a disability-rights advocate and person living with a disability, I know our concerns aren’t just “fear-mongering.” Rather, legalizing assisted-suicide is a direct threat to our community as well as to the elderly, people with chronic illness and others marginalized by society....

When Oregonian Barbara Wagner was prescribed chemotherapy for aggressive lung cancer, the Oregon health plan refused to cover it. They offered, instead, among other things, to pay for her assisted suicide. Randy Stroup, another Oregonian with cancer, received a similar denial. Is there any wonder why? Treating people with terminal or chronic illness is expensive. At roughly $300, assisted suicide is the cheapest “treatment.”...

Brittany Maynard’s story is tragic. When you look at assisted suicide through the narrow lens of one individual, it may look acceptable. But when viewed as broad public policy, assisted suicide is bad medicine.


The author, a friend, is no FReeper; she is at least as progressive as I am. No on 86!

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
115. Some people are afraid of being euthanized against their will, others are afraid of being kept alive
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 09:26 PM
Nov 2014

against their will - including me, potentially, in the future, under various scenarios. I guess there's really no simple, one-size-fits-all answer.

And she's absolutely right about the dangers of assisted suicide under a for-profit healthcare system. Just another reason why we desperately need single payer.

 

2banon

(7,321 posts)
119. I find this argument extremely outrageous.
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 11:51 AM
Nov 2014

I've heard the disability community campaign against this and I'm frankly disgusted.

I WANT FREEDOM OF CHOICE and you would deny me that!

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
121. I am (quite severely) disabled. They do not speak for me
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 02:31 PM
Nov 2014

When options to make life bearable degrade and pain increases, I hope her option is open to me. It should be open to everyone, regardless of disability or none, illness or none.

dawnie51

(959 posts)
90. This courageous woman and her family..
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 01:11 PM
Nov 2014

have humbled me. I am in awe of Brittany, and her husband and mother. She has shown us the way to make our own medical decisions with bravery and truth. The usual course is to try for one more good day, just one, and then maybe one more, and soon, there are no more good days, and you are no longer in a situation where you can make your choice for yourself. I had read somewhere that she had decided to wait a little longer, but it looks like Brittany put that out to give her family privacy and peace at the end. God speed, pretty girl.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
105. Rest in Peace Little Lady!!!! and I'd like to post a poem that I particularly love!
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 05:33 PM
Nov 2014

People so seldom say I love you --- and
then it's either too late -- or love
goes, --- so when I tell you I love
you, --- it doesn't mean I know you'll
never go, only that i wish you didn't
have to.

Lawrence Craig Green

Paper Roses

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106. May this brave young woman rest in peace.
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 05:34 PM
Nov 2014

I support her decision. I believe we should all have the right to choose this same route.
Who suffers most under these circumstances? Not only the patient but all friends and family. It is my opinion that Brittany was brave and chose the right thing while she still had a chance to die with dignity.
I hope when my time comes, that I will be able to control the end of my days.

DemoJohnNC

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111. "Do not go gentle into that good night"
Mon Nov 3, 2014, 07:59 PM
Nov 2014

Any disease is terrible to try and live with, but when it's terminal there's just no living at all. Thank you for your courage and sharing this moment with us.

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