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niyad

(113,570 posts)
Thu Feb 1, 2018, 02:39 PM Feb 2018

We Are Living Through the Moment When Women Unleash Decades of Pent-Up Anger Let's hope theres no g

We Are Living Through the Moment When Women Unleash Decades of Pent-Up Anger
Let’s hope there’s no going back.


By Katha PollittTwitter

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Feminism is back, with a vengeance, and you can thank 
Donald Trump for that. No, seriously. The pussy-grabbing scam artist, ignoramus, and vulgarian with zero government experience, who ran on “Lock her up!” and gold-plated racism, won the White House against a former US senator and secretary of state, a woman with many progressive and pro-woman positions who also happened to be sane and the most qualified candidate in living memory—and, adding insult to injury, who got more votes! It was the loudest wake-up call since alarm clocks were invented. Even plenty of women who didn’t like Hillary Clinton could see the problem with a “Hillary Sucks but Not Like Monica” T-shirt. The Trump campaign was like overhearing your co-workers and finding out that, while they might be polite to your face, they all agreed you were an incompetent moron who was sleeping with the boss—oh, and by the way, there’s blood coming out of your wherever.

Women have worked incredibly hard to come as far as they have. For the last 36 years, we’ve gotten more bachelor’s degrees than men. We’ve pushed our way—sometimes even litigated our way—into male-dominated jobs, from auto manufacturing and policing to the military and Congress. In 2017, for the first time, the majority of students entering medical school were female. Despite statistics showing stalled careers, unequal pay, male violence, and the persistence of the double day, we invested in hope. Think how much better our lives are than our mothers’ and grandmothers’, we told ourselves. Our daughters’ lives will be better still. It’s as though women’s liberation were a kind of conveyor belt, humming along automatically. There was no need, really, to get all angry and hostile and man-hating, or to use antiquated terms like “women’s liberation,” with all it implied about the sweeping nature of our subjection and the wild collective energy needed to escape it.


That’s over. The Women’s March set the tone for the resistance on the first full day of the Trump regime—by some measures the largest march in American history, from Washington, DC, and other major cities to small towns in the deep-red states. Who now remembers the male pundits who claimed that calling it a “Women’s March” would discourage men from attending, even though, as they were repeatedly reminded, men were officially invited? (I saw many there.) The name was the point: We’re running this show. This is about our issues—all of them. You be the auxiliaries, for a change. Women set the tone for the year—none of this “Let’s wait and see what Trump does, maybe he’s not so bad, and anyway, infrastructure!” 
Women continued to do the lioness’s share of political activism as the year went on: showing up at town halls, sending those postcards, making those phone calls, hosting those Huddles (the local meetings that came out of the march), and doing all that grassroots organizing. According to the app Daily Action, 86 percent of active callers to Congress were women—particularly middle-aged women, the most overlooked people in Punditland. Good old Mom, so boring, so ordinary, so unphotogenic! A lot of them were big Hillary supporters, and I’m still waiting for the major-media coverage of how they feel and what they think. (“Tune in tonight, when we go to Teaneck, New Jersey, to check in with Debbie Levine and her book club—one year later, how are they coping?”) But I suppose that won’t happen as long as there are small-town diners full of angry white men in MAGA hats.

Now life’s coming at us fast. Some people scoffed at the resistance when Jon Ossoff lost in Georgia—but his campaign showed how much pent-up rage and energy there was among Democratic women. I know people who virtually moved to Georgia to go door-to-door. As my colleague Joan Walsh has written, local women who were previously apolitical, or who were Democrats but avoided discussing politics in order to keep the peace among friends and neighbors, became activists overnight. It turned out their PTA-honed networking skills were invaluable. Women were crucial in subsequent Democratic wins, including Ralph Northam’s for governor of Virginia and Phil Murphy’s for governor of New Jersey. Virginia voters nearly did the unthinkable, turning a 66–34 Republican majority in the state House of Delegates to a slim 51–49 lead. (It would have been a 50–50 stalemate had a tie-breaking draw in one district gone the other way). In the process, they elected a historic number of women, up from 17 to 28.

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https://www.thenation.com/article/we-are-living-through-the-moment-when-women-unleash-decades-of-pent-up-anger/

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We Are Living Through the Moment When Women Unleash Decades of Pent-Up Anger Let's hope theres no g (Original Post) niyad Feb 2018 OP
WE ARE THE MAJORITY! 51% of the population. BigmanPigman Feb 2018 #1
you are, of course, absolutely correct. niyad Feb 2018 #2
Pushing back Stardust1 Feb 2018 #3
welcome to du. yes, it is fascinating, and horrifying, to see how they act when in complete niyad Feb 2018 #4
While this is to be commended, Blue_Tires Feb 2018 #5
how did you ask them before? niyad Feb 2018 #6
Now that you ask, I'm not sure Blue_Tires Feb 2018 #7
how about something simple like, "would you like to go have a burger with me?" niyad Feb 2018 #8
Ask them on a date. Stardust1 Feb 2018 #10
welcome to du. excellently put! niyad Feb 2018 #11
Giant Kick and Rec!! BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2018 #9

BigmanPigman

(51,627 posts)
1. WE ARE THE MAJORITY! 51% of the population.
Thu Feb 1, 2018, 03:15 PM
Feb 2018

It is about time we were treated with respect by all men AND all women (some women do not respect others) need to do the same.

Stardust1

(123 posts)
3. Pushing back
Thu Feb 1, 2018, 08:08 PM
Feb 2018

The right thought that once they got their con man president that everything would be great for them. They have shot themselves in the foot because the backlash towards conservative extremism is HUGE and will only get bigger.

niyad

(113,570 posts)
4. welcome to du. yes, it is fascinating, and horrifying, to see how they act when in complete
Fri Feb 2, 2018, 01:26 PM
Feb 2018

charge.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
5. While this is to be commended,
Fri Feb 2, 2018, 03:15 PM
Feb 2018

how am I supposed to ask women out on dates now? I was too nervous and scared to talk to most women even before #metoo became a thing...

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
7. Now that you ask, I'm not sure
Fri Feb 2, 2018, 03:32 PM
Feb 2018

It was most likely online... Haven't gone out with a live body for a very long time as you can see...

niyad

(113,570 posts)
8. how about something simple like, "would you like to go have a burger with me?"
Fri Feb 2, 2018, 03:36 PM
Feb 2018

something simple, direct, honest.

Stardust1

(123 posts)
10. Ask them on a date.
Sun Feb 4, 2018, 03:05 AM
Feb 2018

Just ask them on a date? #metoo is about speaking up against sexual abuse at work.
Unless you plan to do sexual things to someone without asking them, you have little to worry about when it comes to asking a woman out.

The evil, scheming woman that wants to trap you by falsely accusing you of abuse for merely saying hello to her is an old strawman tactic used by sexists to rally scared men against us and to shame women into staying quiet. Don't fall for it.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
9. Giant Kick and Rec!!
Fri Feb 2, 2018, 06:48 PM
Feb 2018

Get on over to the Greatest!!

Dump, repukes and the internet I think are what are making this groundswell happen, and I welcome it!! I’ve wanted to see something like this since I was pretty small!

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