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demmiblue

(36,909 posts)
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 06:36 PM Sep 2020

Monica Lewinsky Is God's Gift to Twitter

Who knew Monica Lewinsky, the intern of record, would one day speak for all of us when she tweeted this in early September: “Just realized I am more scared of our government now than I was in 1998. And that’s saying a lot. A. LOT.”

Lewinsky, who has been a quiet force on Twitter since 2014, is recently rocking the sphere, claiming her voice in a very public forum after having been very publicly vilified—albeit before the age of social media. On Twitter, Lewinsky is a kind neighbor and saucy best friend. She dishes on challah recipes. She polls the Twitter abyss on what car she should get: “So very me. Can’t decide between a Subaru or a Tesla.” (It prompted a reply from Elon Musk saying that he’d be happy to give her one, and that she could return it if she wasn’t happy with it.) She’s a girl’s girl. Who knew? The social media platform provides a glimpse into a person who had been rendered as a flat surface for decades by the media. “I lived as a one-dimensional, mutated character for a very long time but I love that people connect to me on social media through these kinds of things,” she tells Vogue over the phone. “And when people connect for other reasons, it quiets those instances.”

Lewinsky seems Twitter-seasoned and breezy: Her banner image reads “Grateful AF.” in slate blue font on a millennial pink background. A segment of her bio reads “ex-beret model,” a reference to an infamous of picture of the young Lewinsky beaming and posing with former President Bill Clinton where she was wearing, yes, a beret. She has just shy of 1 million followers.

But her foray into social media wasn’t an easy one. She says that she was terrified about the prospect of joining the platform. It wasn’t until she spoke about the effects of bullying at a 30 Under 30 conference in 2014 that Forbes chief content officer Randall Lane convinced her to register. “He said ‘Listen, you can’t take up this crusade around online shaming, and online bullying, and these things, if you’re not really in the conversation and you’re just sort of chiming in from the sidelines,’” she says. “And he suggested that I publicly join Twitter.”

https://www.vogue.com/article/monica-lewinsky-twitter-humor-interview


I really admire this woman; she went through hell and came out on the other side in a positive, impactful way.
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Monica Lewinsky Is God's Gift to Twitter (Original Post) demmiblue Sep 2020 OP
She did tremendous damage to our party and to liberal politics. Laelth Sep 2020 #1
Sorry, not going to entertain that. demmiblue Sep 2020 #2
That seems extreme to me. They really don't need your forgiveness. LakeArenal Sep 2020 #6
That's good because neither is going to get it. n/t Laelth Sep 2020 #8
Considering everything it was a nonissue. JI7 Sep 2020 #7
nah, if it hadn't have been her qazplm135 Sep 2020 #11
learning to forgive ihas2stinkyfeet Sep 2020 #17
+1 50 Shades Of Blue Sep 2020 #19
Remember Newt Gingrich & Pals? They were the actual criminals. Real criminals. Hekate Sep 2020 #27
This! happy feet Sep 2020 #29
Sorry, Bill Clinton was FAR more responsible. SharonAnn Sep 2020 #36
I get where you are coming BlueMTexpat Sep 2020 #40
F you ML Jack-o-Lantern Sep 2020 #3
Lol... triggered! demmiblue Sep 2020 #4
💯 live love laugh Sep 2020 #37
After listening to Monica Lewinsky in recent years I feel like she had no regrets JI7 Sep 2020 #5
I guess people have different takes on the matter, especially women. demmiblue Sep 2020 #9
I am a woman JI7 Sep 2020 #10
Well, woman across the board have very different opinions in this matter. demmiblue Sep 2020 #12
I just listen to Monica herself and see no regrets from her JI7 Sep 2020 #14
Yeah, because decades later you need to hear her regrets. WTF. demmiblue Sep 2020 #15
uh, she did a show on this just recently JI7 Sep 2020 #16
moved on? Skittles Sep 2020 #31
Nope... she is a strong, resilient woman. demmiblue Sep 2020 #33
LOL Skittles Sep 2020 #34
Give yourself a cookie. demmiblue Sep 2020 #35
good her. i mean that. ihas2stinkyfeet Sep 2020 #18
You're so obvious. n/t demmiblue Sep 2020 #20
what is that supposed to mean? ihas2stinkyfeet Sep 2020 #22
Oh my goodness, I have no idea! demmiblue Sep 2020 #23
Post removed Post removed Sep 2020 #24
Oh... demmiblue Sep 2020 #25
Her mother sat by her bedside night after night, fearing Monica might kill herself. Hekate Sep 2020 #28
enough with the YOUNG thing Skittles Sep 2020 #32
And the military has very strong rules against an officer having sex with an enlisted person. marie999 Sep 2020 #42
Just putting this here (her TED talk): demmiblue Sep 2020 #13
Good to see Monica has found her Voice. Aussie105 Sep 2020 #21
Post removed Post removed Sep 2020 #38
She caused her own hell. She stalked the President, gave no fucks for his wife nor daughter. Budi Sep 2020 #26
I blame Bill, not a starry-eyed, 22-year old intern. nt Earthshine2 Sep 2020 #30
There is enough blame to go around. BlueMTexpat Sep 2020 #39
Interesting info. Some I did not know. Okay blame ... 99% Bill 1% Monica Earthshine2 Sep 2020 #41

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
1. She did tremendous damage to our party and to liberal politics.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 06:42 PM
Sep 2020

As did Bill Clinton, and I haven’t forgiven either of them.

That said, it’s good that both have made significant, positive contributions post-2000.

-Laelth

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
11. nah, if it hadn't have been her
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 06:57 PM
Sep 2020

it would have been someone else. She was just the last one. Bill would have picked someone else, and behaved just as recklessly, timing would have just been slightly different.

 

ihas2stinkyfeet

(1,400 posts)
17. learning to forgive
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:20 PM
Sep 2020

is the biggest thing i learned from being a mom.
12 yrs of catholic school didnt do it. and being pure irish, believe me, i can grind a grudge to an edge that can take you ear off.
but being a mom is about forgiving.
you should try it, it's good for the heart.

Hekate

(90,930 posts)
27. Remember Newt Gingrich & Pals? They were the actual criminals. Real criminals.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 08:31 PM
Sep 2020

Bill and Monica were just foolish.

BlueMTexpat

(15,374 posts)
40. I get where you are coming
Tue Sep 29, 2020, 05:27 AM
Sep 2020

from.

And you are absolutely correct in that she and Bill did tremendous damage to our party and liberal politics. Their actions also affected both Gore's and Hillary's candidacies for President. Remember that Gore could have easily won in 2000, avoiding the Florida debacle entirely, had he allowed Clinton to campaign for him as Clinton wished to.

But he didn't. and I blame that decision primarily on his running mater, the turncoat traitor Joe Lieberman.

But the worst culprits were Newt Gingrich and his crazies. And, to me, they always will be.

That's the bottom line.

JI7

(89,281 posts)
5. After listening to Monica Lewinsky in recent years I feel like she had no regrets
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 06:50 PM
Sep 2020

about her involvement with Clinton.

demmiblue

(36,909 posts)
12. Well, woman across the board have very different opinions in this matter.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 06:57 PM
Sep 2020

And some of us can put it into perspective in 2020.

JI7

(89,281 posts)
14. I just listen to Monica herself and see no regrets from her
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:03 PM
Sep 2020

when it comes to being involved with Clinton.

demmiblue

(36,909 posts)
15. Yeah, because decades later you need to hear her regrets. WTF.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:10 PM
Sep 2020

She has moved on, probably with a shitload of therapy. Oh, but no, she needs to be regretful and beating herself up for the rest of her life?

Good lawd.

JI7

(89,281 posts)
16. uh, she did a show on this just recently
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:14 PM
Sep 2020

that's where I saw she seemed proud of having been with bill. I have no problem with that.

 

ihas2stinkyfeet

(1,400 posts)
18. good her. i mean that.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:23 PM
Sep 2020

i have no regrets for playing 2nd fiddle to another woman for 5 yrs, either.
best sex i ever had. wiped the taste of 30 yrs of almost no sex right out of my mouth. so to speak.

Response to demmiblue (Reply #23)

Hekate

(90,930 posts)
28. Her mother sat by her bedside night after night, fearing Monica might kill herself.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 08:33 PM
Sep 2020

I think she’s been through the fires of hell for her young foolishness.

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
42. And the military has very strong rules against an officer having sex with an enlisted person.
Tue Sep 29, 2020, 07:31 PM
Sep 2020

Some still do but more would if there weren't any rules against it.

Aussie105

(5,463 posts)
21. Good to see Monica has found her Voice.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:27 PM
Sep 2020

Sex in the office between consenting adults is more common than you think. Even in the Oval Office.
(It's a thrill thing.)

I thought at the time it was all a beat-up, still do.

Worse things have happened in that Office. Wars have been started, countries demolished, plots hatched. (Trump reference)

Response to Aussie105 (Reply #21)

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
26. She caused her own hell. She stalked the President, gave no fucks for his wife nor daughter.
Mon Sep 28, 2020, 07:58 PM
Sep 2020

He apparantly didn't either, but this article isn't about him.

It's about her.
And she holds no more admiration for what role she played than he does.

She fking knew what she was doing & gave no fks about who she was damaging
Just server her own gratifying thrill at the moment.

She's owed nothing.


BlueMTexpat

(15,374 posts)
39. There is enough blame to go around.
Tue Sep 29, 2020, 05:13 AM
Sep 2020

Yes, Clinton should have known better and bears most of it. There is no question whatsoever about that.

But Hillary forgave him and he seems to have reformed since then after treatment for sex addiction. But his actions enabled Newt and his crazies to do their worst. Those actions hurt Gore's candidacy in 2000 and ALSO hurt Hillary's in 2016, in part because they mitigated the effect of tRump's sexual assaults.

BUT Monica was NOT merely a "starry-eyed intern." She had already had a five-year affair with one of her married high-school teachers before heading to DC. There were also reports from her contemporaries and colleagues that she had set her sights on Clinton once she became an intern.

Her mother seems to have had grand sexual aspirations, so Monica's own aspirations didn't just come out of nowhere.

Her biggest mistake was in trusting Linda Tripp. Even then, Monica only testified because she was forced to by RW GOPers.

I admire her for trying to hold out for as long as she could, given their intimidation tactics, which should have been deemed to be illegal. After all, the actions were consensual and she was over 21 at the time.

This should NEVER have been an impeachment issue, but for Clinton's lying about it. Even that should NOT have risen to the level of impeachment. But we're talking about GOPers, for whom no action by a Dem is off the table. The same or worse actions by GOPers, e.g., Newt himself and tRump, are practically qualifications for a GOPer.

But no, I do not consider her an admirable person. And I never will. But I wish her well nonetheless.

 

Earthshine2

(4,044 posts)
41. Interesting info. Some I did not know. Okay blame ... 99% Bill 1% Monica
Tue Sep 29, 2020, 06:43 AM
Sep 2020

Yes, it's not fair that the GOP gets away with these things and famous Dems cannot.

But, it does not negate that this is a shame because Bill was so shameless!

It very much contributed to the GOP's rise after Gore.

As a married man who has had affairs, I can truly say this was due to profound lack of character on my part. I am much better now.

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