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dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
Fri Jan 25, 2013, 06:48 AM Jan 2013

Why did men stop wearing high heels ?

For generations they have signified femininity and glamour - but a pair of high heels was once an essential accessory for men.

Beautiful, provocative, sexy - high heels may be all these things and more, but even their most ardent fans wouldn't claim they were practical.

They're no good for hiking or driving. They get stuck in things. Women in heels are advised to stay off the grass - and also ice, cobbled streets and posh floors.

And high heels don't tend to be very comfortable. It is almost as though they just weren't designed for walking in.

Originally, they weren't.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-21151350

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Why did men stop wearing high heels ? (Original Post) dipsydoodle Jan 2013 OP
The real question is pnwmom Jan 2013 #1
And why do women continue to wear them? nt Live and Learn Jan 2013 #2
I have no idea. (I've never worn a heel bigger than an inch.) pnwmom Jan 2013 #3
years ago I was given a pair of knee high stiletto heeled boots azurnoir Jan 2013 #12
When I was young, women as tall as I never felt the need to wear heels. pnwmom Jan 2013 #15
height never had anything to do with it azurnoir Jan 2013 #16
Don't look at me. I always said I married a short guy Warpy Jan 2013 #29
Many men still do. Lasher Jan 2013 #4
ouch! I didn't think of that, though I often have when I've seen cowboy boots yurbud Jan 2013 #10
the fancy decoration is a personal thing, but the toe and heel are practical Kali Jan 2013 #11
That heel also helps keep your foot on a motorcycle foot peg. Lasher Jan 2013 #13
ha! Kali Jan 2013 #14
it takes about half a second of wearing them to figure that out. yurbud Jan 2013 #17
Mine are higher than this. louis-t Jan 2013 #28
aaack! I just typed the word 'boot' and the boot ads are louis-t Jan 2013 #30
Very interesting! jsr Jan 2013 #5
high heels are for showing off your behind booley Jan 2013 #6
when they quit worrying pscot Jan 2013 #7
Boot obsession laturb Jan 2013 #8
two related trends killed it: mass produced clothing and few truly manual labor jobs yurbud Jan 2013 #9
It's probably because glam went out of fashion. mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2013 #18
Yiu'd have loved the annual Marc Bolan event dipsydoodle Jan 2013 #19
I was specifically looking for a good picture of him in high heels. mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2013 #20
You missed out Slade dipsydoodle Jan 2013 #21
They were like the Bay City Rollers, but without the tartans. mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2013 #22
A friend of mine who I was taking care of / keeping an eye on dipsydoodle Jan 2013 #23
No love for Gary Glitter? UnrepentantLiberal Jan 2013 #31
I can't stop watching these videos. mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2013 #24
I still like to see a cowboy libodem Jan 2013 #25
Did they? GodlessBiker Jan 2013 #26
Nice article abelenkpe Jan 2013 #27

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
12. years ago I was given a pair of knee high stiletto heeled boots
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:18 PM
Jan 2013

about 31/2 to 4 inchs they were gorgeous however walking in them was another story the heels throw off your entire center of gravity literally you have to learn to walk in them, I wore them a couple of times and passed them on

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
15. When I was young, women as tall as I never felt the need to wear heels.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 05:47 PM
Jan 2013

I'm always shocked when I see women even taller -- 6 feet and over -- wearing heels! Why torture your feet like that? I don't get it.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
16. height never had anything to do with it
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 06:32 PM
Jan 2013

it was a fashion thing I'm average height 5'5" and these days wear riding boots which have a low heel half inch or so

the height of the boot (knee) was always more important to me

Warpy

(111,254 posts)
29. Don't look at me. I always said I married a short guy
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 04:04 PM
Jan 2013

so I'd never feel compelled to put on a pair of high heeled shoes.

I consider myself lucky to have come of age in the late 60s, able to wear Earth Shoe knockoffs and other sensible footwear. The highest heel I've ever worn was an inch, and even that made my feet and back hurt.

I swear I don't own dresses or skirts because they work best with heels and I just can't wear 'em. That and I feel like I'm in drag when I put one on.

Women who live in heels seem to walk in them perfectly well. What they can't do is run in them, and that's a real problem in this culture.

Lasher

(27,578 posts)
4. Many men still do.
Fri Jan 25, 2013, 07:22 AM
Jan 2013


It is by no accident that today's cowboy boot resembles the riding footwear in your linked article.

yurbud

(39,405 posts)
10. ouch! I didn't think of that, though I often have when I've seen cowboy boots
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 02:55 PM
Jan 2013

when else do guys wear high heel, pointy-toed, fancy pattern and bedazzled footwear?

Kali

(55,007 posts)
11. the fancy decoration is a personal thing, but the toe and heel are practical
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:13 PM
Jan 2013

they are made for stirrups - the narrow toe to go into the stirrup and the heel to prevent the foot from going all the way through. (to facilitate getting on a horse and taking off in a hurry and also to get "loose" if some wreck should cause the rider to become unseated, the idea to prevent being dragged/trampled by the foot by a runaway horse)

they are indeed NOT meant for walking. yee haw!

Lasher

(27,578 posts)
13. That heel also helps keep your foot on a motorcycle foot peg.
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 03:51 PM
Jan 2013

I thought the spurs looked pretty cool, but had to give them up because they tended to get tangled up in other motorcycle parts.

louis-t

(23,292 posts)
28. Mine are higher than this.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 04:04 PM
Jan 2013

At least 3" heels. Snakeskin and suede. And the toes are pointier and longer! Second hand store, $18. They zip up the back. I can't go to the link or I will be inundated with boot ads again.

booley

(3,855 posts)
6. high heels are for showing off your behind
Fri Jan 25, 2013, 03:10 PM
Jan 2013

.... as being on your tip toes makes you butt look firmer and smoother since your legs have to work extra hard to maintain what is actually an unnatural position.

It also stresses your calf muscles for the same effect.

and I think that's where photography and porn came in. They helped make a woman's body appear better and later the shoes themselves became a kind of fetish.

But unless you are trying to look sexy for that particular moment, I don't recommend anyone wearing them.

laturb

(1 post)
8. Boot obsession
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 02:32 PM
Jan 2013

I am an unapologetic boot fan, and have been since purchasing my first pair (F. Pinet) in Bond Street, London, whilst enjoying a summer job at John Lewis in Oxford Street, where I was inspired by the boots my boss was wearing.
Since then, I had amassed a splendid collection ranging from Chelsea Cobbler to Fratelli Rossetti to hand made walking boots from a wonderful bootmaker in North Wales.
But now I am devastated, seemingly having lost the bulk of my collection to theft at my storage facility in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, prior to shipping to the UK!

yurbud

(39,405 posts)
9. two related trends killed it: mass produced clothing and few truly manual labor jobs
Sun Jan 27, 2013, 02:53 PM
Jan 2013

The rich wore their fancy foofoo stuff to show that they were a cut above the rest of us, but as clothes became mass produced, anyone could buy a cheap knockoff of the stuff the rich wore, ruining the fun of it.

Also, wearing such nonsense was a way of showing that you didn't have to do manual labor like everybody else.

But as jobs requiring actually brute strength declined, guys instinctively sensed they could be replaced by women at any time--especially when women could be paid less to do the same job. So they had to dress more macho to prove to themselves they were men and had a reason to exist.

A guy who dresses like a woman (besides as a joke) reinforces that fear that mean aren't needed, and maybe even the idle rich felt that too.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
19. Yiu'd have loved the annual Marc Bolan event
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 11:29 AM
Jan 2013

at my pal's pub which closed New Years Eve for good. Annual event for c. 300 sold out in advance.



mahatmakanejeeves

(57,425 posts)
20. I was specifically looking for a good picture of him in high heels.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 11:43 AM
Jan 2013

Last edited Wed May 8, 2019, 02:53 PM - Edit history (2)



From https://www.nme.com/blogs/nme-blogs/marc-bolan-10-songs-to-remember-him-by-762994



If the song seems vaguely familiar, it's because it was used in a Mitsubishi car commercial about ten years ago.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,425 posts)
22. They were like the Bay City Rollers, but without the tartans.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 12:15 PM
Jan 2013

Last edited Mon Jan 28, 2013, 12:54 PM - Edit history (1)

Woody was the cute one.

Bay City Rollers:

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From http://lilabhose.blogspot.com/2012/06/bay-city-rollers.html#!/2012/06/bay-city-rollers.html

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From http://www.retroland.com/bay-city-rollers/

From Slade, their big hit, "Mama weer all crazee now." Which version do you prefer?





The 70s had a lot more good music than people give it credit for. Can someone please get a move-on and invent the time machine?

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
23. A friend of mine who I was taking care of / keeping an eye on
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 12:29 PM
Jan 2013

cos she had cancer wanted to go the Osmond's gig at Wembley Arena which local anyway - this as about 5 years ago. I grabbed 2 tickets on ebay quickly and we went. Bay City Rollers were a support group and they were truly awesome - far better than when they were youngsters.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,425 posts)
24. I can't stop watching these videos.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 01:38 PM
Jan 2013

Every glam artist I can think of, there's a video for him at YouTube. As I watch them, I'm tapping my toes, and I have a huge smile on my face.

I doubt that anyone can outdo Gary Glitter. It's hard to find a picture of him at any site that does not go into the recent unpleasantness.

http://hits-of-the-70s.blogspot.com/2012/05/in-1970s-gary-glitter.html



Can it get any more outrageous?

libodem

(19,288 posts)
25. I still like to see a cowboy
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 02:56 PM
Jan 2013

In tight jeans and boots with a riding heel. Hold over from the urban cowboy phase in the 70's. I was more of a little hippie but there was a cross over to country back then. I had moved to the other side of the state with my first husband, to a small cow/calf operation. Worked for me. Hippie girl moves to the country. Learns how to swing dance. Buck hay.

abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
27. Nice article
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 03:15 PM
Jan 2013

Didn't know heels were about riding.

Platform shoes were supposedly about avoiding ick filled streets.

I'm 5'9 and prefer a nice comfy pair of converse. Wearing any kind of heel makes me feel like a giantess.

To each his (or her) own.

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