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Alan knows where you hid your stash!
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)spooky3
(34,452 posts)Good for your heart; good for your knee surgeon; bad for your older self.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Corvo Bianco
(1,148 posts)I just turned 30 so my twenties are still raw
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Glamrock
(11,800 posts)Not that twenty year old Glamrock would listen. He knows everything, you see.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...your presence in CT won't help your Dad one bit. There's nothing you can do for him. Live your own life.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)Oh, and don't forget your cowboy boot when you move.
I lost one ten years ago and I only have the left one now
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)Sometimes doing your thing means resisting irrelevant pressures and then you love where you end up.
Other times, doing your thing means stubbornly clinging to one way and not taking advantage of the wisdom of others.
How to tell the difference in advance? Damned if I know.
Nictuku
(3,613 posts)Start saving for your retirement NOW!
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,693 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)SCantiGOP
(13,870 posts)If you can re-direct all that energy you are going to expend you will have millions of dollars and probably several PHDs by the time you retire.
(really, really just kidding. My advice would be Don't marry X and don't even date Y and Z)
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)nocoincidences
(2,218 posts)especially in 1970.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)AJT
(5,240 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)lastlib
(23,233 posts)mercuryblues
(14,531 posts)Here are some lottery numbers.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Gidney N Cloyd
(19,835 posts)Everything worked out in the long run but these two things could have given made things easier.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Doreen
(11,686 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Hayduke Bomgarte
(1,965 posts)Where you'll meet the woman who will be your second wife, in 8 years. And if you meet her somehow, somewhere else anyway, RUN AWAY FAST and don't look back. She'll give you 13 years of happiness followed by 5 years of mediocrity followed by 5 years of ever worsening misery, ending in a blindside divorce at the absolute worst time. She'll come through menopause by toughing her way through with no professional aid beyond what the health food stores push, which, as far as I could ever tell were totally worthless and ineffective. She'll come through after 4-5 years a completely changed, for the worse MUCH WORSE, woman. She'll become a bitter shrew and a faint shadow of her former self. Totally altered personality and character, which she will refuse to acknowledge or consider while accusing literally everyone else of changing for the worse.
She will drive you crazy with her inability to participate in any adult level conversation,outside of number crunching or organization, and with her fixations and obsessions with small meaningless things and her inability to ever see the bigger picture. Her incapacity to think/plan more than 1 move ahead, disabling any ability to consider how her words and actions might affect others down the road, and will call you delusional when you attempt to explain it to her.
Another thing that will annoy you half to death is her propensity to interrupt in mid sentence and take issue with what she thinks that half sentence means, which will have no resemblance to what the completed sentence would have meant, and will escalate it to a shouting match when you try to finish the sentence and correct her.
You'll get to where you love her but have an intense dislike of her. You'll be glad to leave the house, or have her leave and dread eithers return. You'll lose so many things accumulated over many years, in the divorce, it'll make your head spin.
Here is her name, **** *******. You'll meet her at the 1st National bank on this date, **-**-****. Stay away from there.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Lochloosa
(16,064 posts)They didn't listen to there's and look where they ended up.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)nocalflea
(1,387 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Moostache
(9,895 posts)Take that trip to Europe.
Go "broke" while living at mom and dad's.
By the way...the "5th year plan"? Yeah...that's a thing that David is going to get away with...USE IT!!!
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Aristus
(66,358 posts)Use your GI Bill to put you through Medical Assisting School and then the PA program. Oh, and whatever you do, be in the conference room of the community center on Pearl St in Tacoma for the Richard III read-through, Summer, 1994. Sit across the table from the woman who looks like Mimi Rogers. Trust me."
tymorial
(3,433 posts)I could save myself a lot of pain and suffering by telling myself not to do something in 5 years. I don't know if anyone else has an incident like this but there is a single moment in my life where I made a decision that led to a sequence of events which changed my life and caused a lot of difficult times.
I could say dont go rock climbing on a certain day or approach the descent differently. Perhaps my life would have been different. I may not be the same person today with the same life. If that were the case then my daughter would not be here and that is a risk I could never take. She is everything to me and I would suffer all of those times again to make sure she is here.
I simply couldn't take the risk.. though I might tell myself not to drink as much the night before finals. I really did a number on myself that night and the hangover lasted days
Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)The Blue Flower
(5,442 posts)for awhile, anyway
greymattermom
(5,754 posts)failures are ok, they will happen anyway.
CanonRay
(14,101 posts)GentryDixon
(2,950 posts)Brad Paisley "Letter to Me"
Brad is a very strong progressive.
This song is my son's ring tone. 😍
Upthevibe
(8,048 posts)song and video. Thanks for posting!
fierywoman
(7,683 posts)instead of waiting until you're 33.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)femmedem
(8,203 posts)I had some horrible years--a divorce, a fiancée who committed suicide, and years (after being raped) when I couldn't imagine anything better for myself than being an exotic dancer--but I wouldn't trade any of it away.
I'm dumbfounded when I look back on it and see that I've landed in this safe place, with this good man, with a job that satisfies and has an impact on my community.
I guess I'd tell myself to be nicer to my ex-husband. Yeah. And of course, I'd tell myself to drive out to a certain bar on a certain night fifteen years in the future and save my fiancée's life. Other than that, it's been a wild, full, wonderful ride.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)It was 1966
GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)Upthevibe
(8,048 posts)get your degree in something that makes sense!
Sancho
(9,070 posts)stonecutter357
(12,697 posts)anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)Doodley
(9,091 posts)pbmus
(12,422 posts)klook
(12,155 posts)And it was, mostly. Way better than okay, for the most part.
Also -- "Man, do not give so much of a shit about what other people think of you! Most of them have absolutely no idea who you are or what you're capable of."
Still need to get those calls at this advanced age as well.
Iris
(15,653 posts)hunter
(38,311 posts)benld74
(9,904 posts)Youll save yourself years and $$$$ doing it now
Laffy Kat
(16,379 posts)Ysabel
(1,736 posts)and then when you were seven and you had that conversation with (blank) and she said oh yeah we talked about this the last time around didn't we and then when you were 13 i sent you that note dated 1627 (current calendar) remember that well you get my drift right anyway go read that note again and reply i'll check the post in 3024...
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)Dont zag.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)FSogol
(45,485 posts)FSogol
(45,485 posts)geardaddy
(24,931 posts)BarbaRosa
(2,684 posts)yes, sign up.
DFW
(54,378 posts)DON'T HANG UP, IT'S REALLY ME! I MEAN YOU!
Flaleftist
(3,473 posts)and use cold storage.
Kaleva
(36,299 posts)blur256
(979 posts)You got undergrad on a scholarship at a great school. Don't take out loans for a degree you will not use. Damnit. 50 gs later
kwassa
(23,340 posts)Get a real education.