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Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
Wed May 22, 2019, 10:13 AM May 2019

Does anyone share my pet peeve of the over and misuse of the word "awesome"??

I know people who use it as an adjective for practically EVERYTHING. I once listened to a presentation on a youth group, and the woman giving it used that word in pretty much every sentence. If that word was removed from the vocabulary, there are people who would be practically mute.

I found this, on line, and it pretty much sums up my feelings:

Many words have been wasted on the subject of when adulthood starts. Some hold that it comes about with the right to drink alcoholic beverages or vote in an election. For particularly stringent grammarians of a certain generation, the rite of passage that marks the official start of adulthood is the point at which one becomes annoyed at hearing someone say that something is awesome, when they don’t actually mean that it produces awe.

https://www.dictionary.com/e/awesome/

(I overdid it doing yard work, yesterday, so today I'm sore and grumpy. And I KEEP HEARING PEOPLE OVERUSING THAT WORD!!)

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Does anyone share my pet peeve of the over and misuse of the word "awesome"?? (Original Post) Siwsan May 2019 OP
But hey, OTOH, I bet your yard looks awes ... errr ... FANTASTIC! (nt) mr_lebowski May 2019 #1
Ok, you made me laugh through my soreness! Siwsan May 2019 #3
Whatever it takes to keep the HoA off my back, that's my motto ;) (nt) mr_lebowski May 2019 #7
" absolutely " California_Republic May 2019 #2
Yep! Agree 100%. MontanaMama May 2019 #4
Thanks! Siwsan May 2019 #6
Perhaps they don't teach this in school anymore, but one is supposed to mix up (and not repeat) hlthe2b May 2019 #5
awesome post! unblock May 2019 #8
ARGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! (Just kidding!) Siwsan May 2019 #9
I especially love it when I go to a restaurant and the waiter/ess asks for my order The Velveteen Ocelot May 2019 #10
Well, at least the wait staff where you eat doesn't respond with rsdsharp May 2019 #15
I get the "perfect" response from the counter guy at a local coffee shop. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2019 #16
Exactly! There is only one perfect. rsdsharp May 2019 #19
Literally zipplewrath May 2019 #11
They are pretty even as peeves. Siwsan May 2019 #12
You assume zipplewrath May 2019 #21
I struggle to remain hopeful Siwsan May 2019 #22
Be a cynic zipplewrath May 2019 #24
I abandoned all of my pet peeves in the woods jberryhill May 2019 #13
No, they've just become feral peeves, which reproduce quickly The Velveteen Ocelot May 2019 #17
On Language, by Stephen Fry NightWatcher May 2019 #14
I come from a family of teachers and writers Siwsan May 2019 #18
Even though I consider myself literate and a "word-ie", I have to work to stop from using lazy NightWatcher May 2019 #26
Me. It is long ago completely washed out of meaning anything. UTUSN May 2019 #20
Yes. Harker May 2019 #23
Here is some awesome... hunter May 2019 #25
That qualifies as awesome. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2019 #27
Awesome post jayschool2013 May 2019 #28
The correct form is "I should of ran for president." Right? hunter May 2019 #29
Clearly jayschool2013 May 2019 #31
I have a friend whose peeve is the proper use of lay vs. lie Siwsan May 2019 #30
Does she lie in bed? jayschool2013 May 2019 #32
I'm not stepping into that trap!! Siwsan May 2019 #33
and 'incredible' elleng May 2019 #34
Substitute "wicked" for "awesome" then you have my pet peeve ProudLib72 May 2019 #35
You have a really awesome pet peeve! Sanity Claws May 2019 #36
I'm guilty of overusing awesome happybird May 2019 #37
I now counter the word 'awesome' with the word 'groovy'. Siwsan May 2019 #38
Lol! happybird May 2019 #41
I, um, have one, um, pet peeve, um, like that mokawanis May 2019 #39
Add to that "um", "like" and "you know" Siwsan May 2019 #40
It's a nightmare. klook May 2019 #42
I'll "see" your "awesome", and raise you one "nothingburger". Totally Tunsie May 2019 #43

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
3. Ok, you made me laugh through my soreness!
Wed May 22, 2019, 10:16 AM
May 2019

And, at best, I'd say my property looks 'maintained' through blood, sweat and tears. Mostly the sweat, and sometimes the blood part.

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
5. Perhaps they don't teach this in school anymore, but one is supposed to mix up (and not repeat)
Wed May 22, 2019, 10:18 AM
May 2019

one's adjectives when writing. I have to edit my own writings carefully to avoid doing that, but I typically DO. When speaking, I'm even more aware of the need not to use (or at least not repeat) really overused adjectives and phrases.

I just don't think it even occurs to many people not to do so anymore. They hear others (online so-called "influencers" or their own peers) using a term and they automatically repeat it.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
10. I especially love it when I go to a restaurant and the waiter/ess asks for my order
Wed May 22, 2019, 10:59 AM
May 2019

and I order a salad or some such thing and the waiter/ess, who is about fourteen, replies, "Awesome!" (And then I tell him/her to get off my lawn.)

rsdsharp

(9,170 posts)
15. Well, at least the wait staff where you eat doesn't respond with
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:23 AM
May 2019

"perfect" to every order from every person.

(To be clear, I too, hate "awesome.&quot

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
16. I get the "perfect" response from the counter guy at a local coffee shop.
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:28 AM
May 2019

You go the counter, order a cup of coffee and a caramel roll and the guy always says "Perfect!" That assumes some other order would be less than perfect, so what if you ordered a cup of coffee and a cheese Danish instead? Would he say, "Nice job, but you could do better"?

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
11. Literally
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:07 AM
May 2019

I'll see your "awesome" and suggest that I can beat the abuse level with the word "literally".

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
12. They are pretty even as peeves.
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:12 AM
May 2019

I am tempted to print up some cards with the actual definitions of both words. Then I can hand them out to the offenders.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
13. I abandoned all of my pet peeves in the woods
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:20 AM
May 2019

Some of them must have found their way to your house.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
18. I come from a family of teachers and writers
Wed May 22, 2019, 11:32 AM
May 2019

Uniqueness in language is one thing, while redundant inappropriate usage is quite another. One shows an abundance of imagination and the other, IMHO, shows a lack.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
26. Even though I consider myself literate and a "word-ie", I have to work to stop from using lazy
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:13 PM
May 2019

language as well. I try not to overuse awesome and literally, but my problem is cursing. I'm an atheist but can't drive for more than ten minutes without a dozen "Christ"'s coming out of my mouth... even when I'm alone.

jayschool2013

(2,312 posts)
28. Awesome post
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:16 PM
May 2019

I'm more worried about people's inability to use the past participle.

"I should have ran for president" annoys me more than an innocent "awesome."

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
30. I have a friend whose peeve is the proper use of lay vs. lie
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:23 PM
May 2019

I try to avoid using either of them, in her presence.

jayschool2013

(2,312 posts)
32. Does she lie in bed?
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:25 PM
May 2019

My dog doesn't respond to "lay down" unless you explain the object of the command. "Lie down" he'll do.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
33. I'm not stepping into that trap!!
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:28 PM
May 2019

The only form of 'lie' I'm confident in identifying has to do with everything coming out of trump*'s mouth.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
35. Substitute "wicked" for "awesome" then you have my pet peeve
Wed May 22, 2019, 12:42 PM
May 2019

Oh, and "dank" is another. Good grief, I can just imagine some Bostonian teens running around calling everything "wicked dank."

happybird

(4,606 posts)
37. I'm guilty of overusing awesome
Wed May 22, 2019, 01:05 PM
May 2019

It's my favorite lazy word for something great plus a little extra. Super great, if you will.

I do try to switch it up, but awesome is my default description for fantastic, wonderful things.

The two misused words that drive me nuts are literally and iconic. According to pop culture media everything is iconic these days.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
38. I now counter the word 'awesome' with the word 'groovy'.
Wed May 22, 2019, 01:08 PM
May 2019

I also have an 'awesome penalty jar' that requires $1, every time that word is used in my house. Admittedly, people didn't take me seriously so that's why I came up with the 'groovy' response.

happybird

(4,606 posts)
41. Lol!
Wed May 22, 2019, 01:26 PM
May 2019

Groovy is such a fun word. You definitely get the side-eye whenever you bust it out, which is great.

A few years ago DH and I tried to bring "grody" back but, sadly, it didn't catch on among our friends.

mokawanis

(4,440 posts)
39. I, um, have one, um, pet peeve, um, like that
Wed May 22, 2019, 01:09 PM
May 2019

My wife was listening to a podcast yesterday where two authors were conversing and one of them repeatedly paused and said "um". I've been around people who do it so often that it becomes a major distraction and makes me want to finish their sentences or point out their annoying habit.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
40. Add to that "um", "like" and "you know"
Wed May 22, 2019, 01:15 PM
May 2019

And let's not forget the strange need for people to use the word 'basically' when they are explaining a situation.

klook

(12,154 posts)
42. It's a nightmare.
Wed May 22, 2019, 04:06 PM
May 2019

Many things are “nightmares” these days — traffic jams, medical paperwork, home renovation projects — surely there are other words available.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
43. I'll "see" your "awesome", and raise you one "nothingburger".
Thu May 23, 2019, 12:24 AM
May 2019

Why do seemingly intelligent people use that word? Arrrgh!

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