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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDoes anyone share my pet peeve of the over and misuse of the word "awesome"??
I know people who use it as an adjective for practically EVERYTHING. I once listened to a presentation on a youth group, and the woman giving it used that word in pretty much every sentence. If that word was removed from the vocabulary, there are people who would be practically mute.
I found this, on line, and it pretty much sums up my feelings:
Many words have been wasted on the subject of when adulthood starts. Some hold that it comes about with the right to drink alcoholic beverages or vote in an election. For particularly stringent grammarians of a certain generation, the rite of passage that marks the official start of adulthood is the point at which one becomes annoyed at hearing someone say that something is awesome, when they dont actually mean that it produces awe.
https://www.dictionary.com/e/awesome/
(I overdid it doing yard work, yesterday, so today I'm sore and grumpy. And I KEEP HEARING PEOPLE OVERUSING THAT WORD!!)
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)Siwsan
(26,260 posts)And, at best, I'd say my property looks 'maintained' through blood, sweat and tears. Mostly the sweat, and sometimes the blood part.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)California_Republic
(1,826 posts)MontanaMama
(23,313 posts)You might enjoy this TED talk Siwsan.
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)hlthe2b
(102,236 posts)one's adjectives when writing. I have to edit my own writings carefully to avoid doing that, but I typically DO. When speaking, I'm even more aware of the need not to use (or at least not repeat) really overused adjectives and phrases.
I just don't think it even occurs to many people not to do so anymore. They hear others (online so-called "influencers" or their own peers) using a term and they automatically repeat it.
unblock
(52,208 posts)someone had to do it....
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)and I order a salad or some such thing and the waiter/ess, who is about fourteen, replies, "Awesome!" (And then I tell him/her to get off my lawn.)
rsdsharp
(9,170 posts)"perfect" to every order from every person.
(To be clear, I too, hate "awesome."
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)You go the counter, order a cup of coffee and a caramel roll and the guy always says "Perfect!" That assumes some other order would be less than perfect, so what if you ordered a cup of coffee and a cheese Danish instead? Would he say, "Nice job, but you could do better"?
rsdsharp
(9,170 posts)Fortunately for you, you've found it.
zipplewrath
(16,646 posts)I'll see your "awesome" and suggest that I can beat the abuse level with the word "literally".
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)I am tempted to print up some cards with the actual definitions of both words. Then I can hand them out to the offenders.
zipplewrath
(16,646 posts)You assume that these folks can comprehend and learn from the written word.
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)About SOOOOO many things.
zipplewrath
(16,646 posts)It's so much easier than being hopeful.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Some of them must have found their way to your house.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)and sometimes become rabid.
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)And for something a little silly
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)Uniqueness in language is one thing, while redundant inappropriate usage is quite another. One shows an abundance of imagination and the other, IMHO, shows a lack.
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)language as well. I try not to overuse awesome and literally, but my problem is cursing. I'm an atheist but can't drive for more than ten minutes without a dozen "Christ"'s coming out of my mouth... even when I'm alone.
UTUSN
(70,686 posts)I very seldom experience awe, and it's never been in reaction to a shampoo or toothpaste.
hunter
(38,311 posts)Bruce the Eagle Gets his 15 Minutes of Fame in a Symmetrical Glamour Shot
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10181219156
https://www.thisiscolossal.com/2019/05/bruce-the-eagle/
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)jayschool2013
(2,312 posts)I'm more worried about people's inability to use the past participle.
"I should have ran for president" annoys me more than an innocent "awesome."
hunter
(38,311 posts)jayschool2013
(2,312 posts)Nice!
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)I try to avoid using either of them, in her presence.
jayschool2013
(2,312 posts)My dog doesn't respond to "lay down" unless you explain the object of the command. "Lie down" he'll do.
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)The only form of 'lie' I'm confident in identifying has to do with everything coming out of trump*'s mouth.
elleng
(130,895 posts)It appears that everything is 'impossible to believe.' I don't think so.
ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)Oh, and "dank" is another. Good grief, I can just imagine some Bostonian teens running around calling everything "wicked dank."
Sanity Claws
(21,847 posts)happybird
(4,606 posts)It's my favorite lazy word for something great plus a little extra. Super great, if you will.
I do try to switch it up, but awesome is my default description for fantastic, wonderful things.
The two misused words that drive me nuts are literally and iconic. According to pop culture media everything is iconic these days.
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)I also have an 'awesome penalty jar' that requires $1, every time that word is used in my house. Admittedly, people didn't take me seriously so that's why I came up with the 'groovy' response.
Groovy is such a fun word. You definitely get the side-eye whenever you bust it out, which is great.
A few years ago DH and I tried to bring "grody" back but, sadly, it didn't catch on among our friends.
mokawanis
(4,440 posts)My wife was listening to a podcast yesterday where two authors were conversing and one of them repeatedly paused and said "um". I've been around people who do it so often that it becomes a major distraction and makes me want to finish their sentences or point out their annoying habit.
Siwsan
(26,260 posts)And let's not forget the strange need for people to use the word 'basically' when they are explaining a situation.
klook
(12,154 posts)Many things are nightmares these days traffic jams, medical paperwork, home renovation projects surely there are other words available.
Totally Tunsie
(10,885 posts)Why do seemingly intelligent people use that word? Arrrgh!