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MissMillie

(38,583 posts)
Thu Apr 30, 2020, 03:14 PM Apr 2020

My mom recognized me today!!!!!!

We were having face time w/ her and when it was my turn to talk, she said to her nurse, "that looks like my daughter."



ALL of us got so excited! It's been a while since she's even hinted at knowing any of us--even my Dad, who she's been married to for >69 years.

Today is 2 weeks since we got her Covid-19 diagnosis. It's been quite the roller coaster ride. And I think that with lower oxygen levels it doesn't help her dementia at all.

Today, she looks good, but is complaining of being tired. So I logged out of the meeting early. She needs her rest if she's going to beat this.

Probably won't get more face time until Tuesday, but this moment feels so good, it may just hold me over until then.

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My mom recognized me today!!!!!! (Original Post) MissMillie Apr 2020 OP
I'm so happy for you - it's an absolute gift pnwest Apr 2020 #1
I am so happy for you! FM123 Apr 2020 #2
I'm happy for you! Funny how things take on different meanings during your life. Maraya1969 Apr 2020 #3
So happy for you and mom TEB Apr 2020 #4
Sweet story. Totally Tunsie Apr 2020 #5
Hot damn! I know your heart is bursting 💕 MLAA Apr 2020 #6
HOT DAMN!!!! irisblue Apr 2020 #7
I am so happy for you. Stuart G Apr 2020 #8
That's great news! I bet her O2 sats are improving, too. Ilsa Apr 2020 #9
Can I jump for joy with you? lillypaddle Apr 2020 #10
Good news is great news! Congratulations! marble falls Apr 2020 #11
Good News samplegirl Apr 2020 #12
Bloody splendid Soph0571 Apr 2020 #13
So happy for you, your Mom and your family. May she continue to improve! Fla Dem Apr 2020 #14
That's wonderful! JudyM May 2020 #15
My neighbor, who is in her 90s, caught it from a nursing home nurse (the only 2 infected) Frustratedlady May 2020 #16

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
1. I'm so happy for you - it's an absolute gift
Thu Apr 30, 2020, 03:25 PM
Apr 2020

to get those rare glimpses of the person they used to be, the soul that still resides in there. Dementia is just so terribly, awfully cruel. I FaceTimed with my mom yesterday and she was so out of it she didn’t really even understand what she was looking at with the nurses phone. I’m so sad I can’t go to her. I’m so glad you had a good call!

Maraya1969

(22,506 posts)
3. I'm happy for you! Funny how things take on different meanings during your life.
Thu Apr 30, 2020, 03:29 PM
Apr 2020

My mom passed on Feb. 20. She was really out of it for about 4 months before so I couldn't communicate with her much at all but the last time I saw her she had, "woken up" some and I was able to talk to her and tell her all sorts of things like how much I appreciated having her as a mother and telling her things that I remembered from my childhood. And she was able to smile so I know she heard me. It was really a blessing.

I hope your mom continues to recovery.

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
9. That's great news! I bet her O2 sats are improving, too.
Thu Apr 30, 2020, 05:32 PM
Apr 2020

Let's hope and pray she keeps pulling through this!

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
16. My neighbor, who is in her 90s, caught it from a nursing home nurse (the only 2 infected)
Fri May 1, 2020, 02:52 PM
May 2020

and she is now doing fine. She can't talk because of the ventilator, but she posts on Facebook to her daughters.

Her doctor said she fought it like a 30-year-old. I was shocked.

I was glad to see your mother was doing so well. Never give up hope. I wish her the best.

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