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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 02:43 PM Mar 2021

Just some thoughts; not a sermon.

I recall hearing or reading a long time ago that if it was possible to "trade troubles" with others we viewed as more fortunate and if we were to all get together and toss our terrible problems into one big pile, once we saw the heartaches and tragedies and hardships others were dealing with we'd likely be happy to quietly reclaim our "terrible problem" and go home.

This struck me this morning as I was doing some yard work on a beautiful spring day and wincing a little as my rheumatoid arthritis stabbed my joints now and then. And, because I'm strange, I guess, before my self pity could get a firm hold on what passes for my mind, I thought of all the husbands and wives, mothers and fathers, children and friends who within this past year, sat at home glued to a small flickering screen while they shared the last moments of someone they could not imagine living without;someone they loved and someone they knew loved them. Or, maybe worse,---I don't know---just getting "the phone call" from an exhausted nurse whose voice cracked with shared grief as she said "I'm so sorry----__________ has passed."

My heart aches for these poor desperate folks. I don't even want to try to imagine their suffering.

And, I have RA and yard work to do.

Damn, folks! I am so blessed!






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LakeArenal

(28,826 posts)
2. I have bad arthritis. Two hip replacements waiting on knee replacements.
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 02:58 PM
Mar 2021

Arthritis is one of those problems that no one can see and sometimes people doubt your pain.

Having said that, it’s not life threatening for me and I bless my stars that is so. So many people deal with much worse.

I count blessings everyday.

niyad

(113,421 posts)
4. I remind myself every single day how fortunate I am. I have my health, what little remains of my
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 03:05 PM
Mar 2021

sanity, my cat, and my friends. And I live in a beautiful area. I am truly blessed.

Harker

(14,026 posts)
5. I suppose that's why "Let's Make a Deal" was popular.
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 03:07 PM
Mar 2021

Broyhill furniture? Hey... I can do better than that!

Gimme door #3!

markie

(22,756 posts)
6. I too, am one of the fortunate ones...
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 04:54 PM
Mar 2021

because of circumstances, my life has changed very little because of Covid and I know no-one personally that has suffered from Covid. But I cry every time the talk turns to those who have died alone or of someone missing a friend or family member...

the days are longer and the sun is sunnier... I hope for a soon to be better future for all of us

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
7. Perspective is everything.
Mon Mar 22, 2021, 05:07 PM
Mar 2021

I was an absolute wreck when I was diagnosed with cancer years ago until I came across the Erma Bombeck book about children with cancer. Reading about them helped put things back in perspective for me. I am immensely grateful for her writing
I Want to Grow Hair, I Want to Grow Up, I Want to Go to Boise (Children Surviving Cancer).

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