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cilla4progress

(24,789 posts)
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 09:23 PM Oct 2021

You know one of the things I love about being an old woman..a senior...an elder...a crone?

I am liberated to appreciate the beauty of young female bodies in a way I never was, when younger.

Old, young, male, female - in some ways my aesthetic appreciation and enjoyment is freed!

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You know one of the things I love about being an old woman..a senior...an elder...a crone? (Original Post) cilla4progress Oct 2021 OP
I like your thinking.... OAITW r.2.0 Oct 2021 #1
The thing I like about it is Ocelot II Oct 2021 #2
+1 LizBeth Oct 2021 #15
Crone? Aristus Oct 2021 #3
Many of us use the definition which is the archetype vanlassie Oct 2021 #6
I'd only ever had negative connotations of the word. Aristus Oct 2021 #7
So true, too. vanlassie Oct 2021 #8
Before patriarchy appropriated the word, as it did with so many that referred to niyad Oct 2021 #16
Crone and Crony have the same root: the god Cronos, or Time. A man can have Cronies ... Hekate Oct 2021 #17
I agree. MLAA Oct 2021 #4
I don't understand what you mean. tymorial Oct 2021 #5
You will. Deuxcents Oct 2021 #9
Wow - cilla4progress Oct 2021 #11
Glad to be here, my Friend Deuxcents Oct 2021 #13
Merci, deux cents! zanana1 Oct 2021 #18
Substitute 'old man,' etc., for all those terms for 'old woman' EYESORE 9001 Oct 2021 #10
Interest thought cilla4progress Oct 2021 #12
Skeezy...yeah, maybe. But not nearly as scary... ret5hd Oct 2021 #14

Ocelot II

(115,922 posts)
2. The thing I like about it is
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 09:27 PM
Oct 2021

not having to give a crap about much of any day-to-day stuff any more, including what I look like or what other people think of me. I'm old, homely and cranky; tough shit.

niyad

(113,668 posts)
16. Before patriarchy appropriated the word, as it did with so many that referred to
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 10:34 PM
Oct 2021

Goddess, or women, Crone was a title of honour. It referred to elders, wise women, the experienced, learned ones. Their counsel was sought, their knowledge transmitted. Not exactly the image many have today, but we Crones really pay no attention to that meant-to-be insulting drivel.

Hekate

(90,913 posts)
17. Crone and Crony have the same root: the god Cronos, or Time. A man can have Cronies ...
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 11:02 PM
Oct 2021

… and generally that’s a good connotation, like old friends you could play chess with or go fishing with. But call a woman a Crone and it’s implied she’s a toothless hag, and probably senile.

Until we reclaimed it in the name of wisdom and sisterhood.

Cheers,
Hekate



tymorial

(3,433 posts)
5. I don't understand what you mean.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 09:37 PM
Oct 2021

I am not trying to be an ass but I am 45 and have appreciated young female bodies for at least 35 years when I saw Alyssa Milano in Commando and proceeded to dream she was my girlfriend lol.

Seriously, I don't understand how age matters.

Deuxcents

(16,380 posts)
9. You will.
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 09:47 PM
Oct 2021

Sometimes things can’t be explained with words. Life experiences are the best teacher. I’m 74..knocking on 75. Never thought I’d live this long but it’s been a great ride. Attitude..IMO has a lot to do with physical n mental aging. I hope I never stop learning until my time is up. Then, I’m off to another adventure..maybe..maybe not. We’ll see. Life is beautiful...stay open with your heart

ret5hd

(20,536 posts)
14. Skeezy...yeah, maybe. But not nearly as scary...
Fri Oct 29, 2021, 10:11 PM
Oct 2021

what with the walker and whatnot, and that shuffle that makes you wonder if you can get to the bathroom on time.

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