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NNadir

(33,525 posts)
Sat Aug 20, 2022, 09:33 PM Aug 2022

My wife and I don't like the same kind of movies.

I like historical films, she likes "chick flicks" and "horror movies."

My wife sneered, "I don't want to watch movies about Hitler." I said I couldn't handle a "chick flick."

To bridge the gap, she googled "Hitler Chick flicks" and to our joint surprise lots of movies actually came up. We laughed like hell that anything came up.

We went to the library and checked out "Jojo Rabbit."

Not a bad compromise.

I rather enjoyed it, despite its elements of horror. It, um, bridged the gap.

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MLAA

(17,298 posts)
2. Sounds like my husband and me.
Sat Aug 20, 2022, 09:52 PM
Aug 2022

Here’s our compromise. I join him in the den and play free cell or read posts on DU while he watches The History Channel. I expect I’ve absorbed enough to do reasonably well on WW2 on a trivia team 😬

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
3. I've watched it 3 times, absolutely love JoJo Rabbit
Sat Aug 20, 2022, 10:04 PM
Aug 2022

Even though I know it really well, the scene with the shoes, and the ending ... choke me up hard every time.

Such a brilliant film.

Jade Fox

(10,030 posts)
4. Good chick flick that even guys like....
Sat Aug 20, 2022, 10:10 PM
Aug 2022

"In Her Shoes" directed by the late Curtis Hanson who directed "LA Confidential".

cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
6. Funny cuz
Sat Aug 20, 2022, 10:33 PM
Aug 2022

we are watching what I believe is the most inspired tv series of all time: Reservation Dogs on Hulu - produced and created by Taika Waititi (along with Sterlin Harjo), who also directed JoJo Rabbit (Waititi).

Reservation Dogs https://g.co/kgs/wpGWGG

genxlib

(5,528 posts)
8. I absolutely love Jojo Rabbit
Sun Aug 21, 2022, 07:51 AM
Aug 2022

I think it is one of the best films of the last decade.

I think it is rare to find a farcical dark comedy that works on such a serious subject but I loved this one.

KeepRolinRolin

(4 posts)
10. For a fun chick flick to watch with your wife, try Showgirls.
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 02:10 PM
Aug 2022

Paul Verhoven is the brilliant mind who makes some of the greatest chick flicks ever, from Basic Instinct to Robocop. You won't be disappointed.

NNadir

(33,525 posts)
11. I love my wife a great deal, and would never dream of inspiring her...
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 03:13 PM
Aug 2022

...even remotely to consider divorcing me.

KeepRolinRolin

(4 posts)
12. Just playing around with that one ofc.
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 03:23 PM
Aug 2022

Try to find something historical in nature the maybe mix elements of your wife favorite genres.

NNadir

(33,525 posts)
13. Well, when she was first in college, there was a "debate" on...
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 04:10 PM
Aug 2022

...campus on pornography, in which Harry Reems was a live (but clothed) participant with his film "Deep Throat" being shown before the "discussion."

She went to the film but didn't stay through all of it. We still joke about it though.

I'm fairly certain that her popularity with men in those days was more connected with her looks than having been seen in the audience, at least I hope so. (I didn't go to the showing.)

She and her girlfriends apparently viewed it as some kind of rite if passage.

I don't think such an "event" would go over all that well on a modern campus nor should it.

We have a long way to go, but we have moved considerably from those days. My wife is a feminist and is appropriately offended by violence against women and objectification of women.

She is not happy if I discuss that I was interested in her initially because of her looks, but she subsequently spent some decades teaching me what beauty really is and she hopes I'm not an entirely lost cause.

pressbox69

(2,252 posts)
14. If you like
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 06:01 PM
Aug 2022

JoJo Rabbit you might try The Death Of Stalin. I love 30's horror films. My favorite romantic movie is The Ghost and Mrs Muir 1947.

NNadir

(33,525 posts)
15. We've done "The Death of Stalin" multiple times. It's not much as a chick flick, but my wife...
Wed Aug 24, 2022, 06:59 PM
Aug 2022

...agreed to watch it and enjoyed it, but probably not as much as I did.

I had to see it alone when it was in theaters, but we've seen it multiple times on DVD.

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