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Curtland1015

(4,404 posts)
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 05:24 PM Aug 2012

My god, school supplies are expensive!

My wife and I do not yet have kids of our own, but we are pitching in for a charity drive where you buy school supplies for a young boy or girl. You get a list and buy the stuff on it, plus a new back pack to put it in.

All totalled, everything came to over $100! ...and that was buying mostly "store brand" supplies!

Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy we could help! But it does make me think, how does a family with 2, 3, 4, etc kids deal with these costs every year? Besides the cost of new clothes and everything else!

It's got to be tough!

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cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
1. Very nice of you to help out!
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 05:29 PM
Aug 2012

We keep anything left over from the previous year and re-use it, so that helps a little - but only a little.

Curtland1015

(4,404 posts)
7. My wife should get most of the credit!
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 06:45 PM
Aug 2012

I just play video games and wait for her to come home and say "We're buying school supplies!" or, "We're doing the MS walk on Saturday!"

...and I say "Okay!"



I'm trying to get more involved!

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
2. I remember starting school every year
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 05:31 PM
Aug 2012

with a big fat pencil and a pad of paper already on my desk. And that was in Kentucky in the 60s.

Luckily my kids are all out of school although we still pick up a lot of stuff for my granddaughters. It's crazy expensive. Look for tax exempt days on school supplies - that helps cut the cost down some.

And while I'm here, Kick-Ass awesome job you're doing! Some kid is lucky to have you in their community.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
5. Now the kids have to bring in a box of tissues for the class!
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 06:07 PM
Aug 2012

I think a lot of teachers end up buying chalk!

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
3. I used to budget about $100 a kid, and it's been 4 years suince the youngest graduated high school,
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 05:35 PM
Aug 2012

so I'd say you're right on target : crayons, markers, notebooks, binders, pencils, pens, paper, scissors, tissue, it all adds up pretty fast.

My personal pet peeve was that with six kids, there was always 1 teacher who specified an unusual item that turned the shopping trip into a scavenger hunt. It was always something like a 70 page college rule composition note book with a blue marble cover, or six two-pocket folders, each in a different color , or a green ink pen....... I'm sure it made sense, but it was always a pain in the neck!

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
6. My kids got into recycling big time in high school -
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 06:09 PM
Aug 2012

they used to organize drive to collect unused or partially items which were then set out for whoever wanted them. The last few years of high school, they didn't buy a thing!

rurallib

(62,411 posts)
8. Our local house candidate - Sara Sedlacek - paused her campaign to
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 07:07 PM
Aug 2012

join the food and school supply drive in one of the towns in our district.
Thanks Sara!
http://standwithsara.com/2012/08/success-3-new-offices-open/

"Nearly 30 people donated either food or school supplies and came to meet the Louisa County candidates this past Saturday. The enthusiasm from the people in Louisa County is really growing and they know we can win this election. If you still would like to donate a non-perishable food item or a school supply, we encourage you to bring it to our office during office hours (which will be posted soon!) or deliver it directly to Louisa County Community Action."

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
9. Only before school starts. Wait until October and buy them on clearance - save them for next year.
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 07:25 PM
Aug 2012

We've done that for two decades.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
10. Dallas has an annual school-supply drive for low-income families
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 07:39 PM
Aug 2012

The Mayor gives a speech, there's some entertainers to keep the kids occupied, and the parents get some much-needed school basics for free. That's pretty cool.

kcass1954

(1,819 posts)
11. I've been incredibly lucky this year, more so than any other time that I can remember.
Fri Aug 10, 2012, 10:35 PM
Aug 2012

My son is in high school, so he doesn't need the glue and crayons and markers, etc. His backpack is in good shape, the calculator still works, and he's got a ruler, a compass and some other stuff.

I've had Target coupons for pens that are equal to the price of the pens, so I've been paying sales tax only. I hit Staples today because notebook paper is a penny a pack, with a limit of five. I'll take him back with me tomorrow, and we'll get 10 more packs. I found folders and markers on sale. He'll need several 1" binders, which I haven't purchased yet because I'm not happy with the prices and I'm still looking for a sale. Our big splurge will be Ticonderoga pencils.



A good friend teaches at an elementary school where just over 75% of the students qualify for free/reduced lunch. She spends an incredible amount of her own money buying basic supplies for her classroom. Our quilting group has always helped out with recycled materials for art projects, but this year we're working on school supplies, too.

So far, my "Pammie box" has:
6 boxes of washable markers
8 bottles of glue
9 glue sticks
3 highlighters
4 Sharpies
9 boxes of 24-ct crayons
6 packages of pencils
5 notebooks
3 packages of erasers

Between coupons and sales, I'm out of pocket less than $10 for all that stuff.

DebJ

(7,699 posts)
12. As a long-term substitute teacher, I bought over $500 worth of
Sat Aug 11, 2012, 01:12 AM
Aug 2012

classroom supplies because I couldn't get them at the school.

I also bought $250 worth of fun stuff for the students for competitions and
over $300 in food. I worried about the kids over the holidays without the
free meals so I made them fresh fruit salads and gave them each a bag
full of little snack bags with cereal, dried fruit and the like for each
holiday.

Crazy Dave

(7,321 posts)
15. Wow!
Sat Aug 11, 2012, 11:03 PM
Aug 2012

Guess different school zones have different resources. My wife teaches in one of the poorest Florida counties and not only gets a $300 cash allowance every year that she doesn't even have to turn in receipts for, being that most of the kids are on the free lunch program all the teachers have to do is request anything they want for their classrooms and get it.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
13. I have 4 kids.
Sat Aug 11, 2012, 02:35 AM
Aug 2012

Single mom/full-time student...
It's tough.
And I live in an area where everyone is loaded so the expectations of what people SHOULD buy is enormous in the schools. Long story as to why I ended up here. Not only is there school supplies, but the schools charge yearly fees of up to $150 per student, as well as $400/year for bussing and fees for each field trip (which is often). I usually beg for money from my ex to help out. He's pretty good about it, but last year he promised extra and didn't come through. This year he paid for the bussing.

We re-use a lot of school supplies. At the end of each school year, we go through the supplies and decide what can still be salvaged and put it away for the fall. It's easier with the older kids (surprisingly) as they just need the basics - pens, pencils, paper, binders, math set, scientific calculator. That's pretty much it. The younger ones, though, I think the schools go overboard. They ask for pencil crayons, thick markers, thin markers, pastel crayons and wax crayons. I'm like, really? They need 5 different sets of coloring crayons? WTF? (oh, and watercolors too ) Sometimes they are very specific about brands, which bothers me. Or, like this year, the teacher wants colour coded items, which means everything from last year is useless. And there's nothing more irritating than going through the supplies left at the end of the year and finding that the 5 color-coded specialty notebooks the teacher HAD to have are only 1/3 full, and they cannot be reused the following year, because the next teacher needs a DIFFERENT kind of specialty notebooks. And I laughed about their requirements for gym clothes - no collars, zippers, drawstrings, buttons, embellishments or pockets. POCKETS? and my kids are so skinny they need the drawstring around their shorts to keep them from falling. I suppose drawstrings are more dangerous than trying to run with your shorts around your ankles.

And with each kid needing to bring 4 boxes of Kleenex (really? my oldest said they have so many extra boxes at the end of the year - and they don't give them back either) it winds up being $20 in freakin' boxes of tissue for our family.

I'm also lucky that my parents will buy them some outfits and nice indoor shoes, because I can't afford it. Walmart shoes (or cheap ones from elsewhere) never last the whole year. And when my parents buy the nice ones, it's good because the indoor shoes of one child gets passed down to the next one as outdoor/play shoes. I have 4 girls, lots of hand-me-downs and thankfully my ex-in-laws also help clothe the kids.

My kids reuse backpacks until they are completely destroyed.

I have divorced friends that get piddly amounts for child support and work crappy jobs. I have no idea how they afford it. As it is, we have to really be strictly budgeted and I get quite a bit in alimony and child support. I think in my area, the expectations of the school are totally out of line. The last place I lived in (when I was married and had the money, ironically) never had these kinds of ridiculous requirements or fees.

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