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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsYou can be having a totally shitty day, but when a toddler waves at you, you can't NOT wave back.
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(110,159 posts)HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)That's a sad statement about our society.
charlie and algernon
(13,447 posts)Most of the people on that elevator DID acknowledge the toddler's existence.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)I hope there's a room in Hell with nothing but cell phones.
AmyDeLune
(1,846 posts)at just that vital moment...
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)Pool Hall Ace
(5,849 posts)Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't, but it's a bit harsh to damn her to hell for not acknowledging a toddler who was talking to no one in particular.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)"WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON DOWN THERE?" from the upper level of a mall. My wife was mortified. I don't even know how she knew the words (about the same age as the toddler in the video) because we didn't swear in front of them back then and didn't watch TV. We've got an open language policy now, but they're all adults (almost - youngest is 17).
Still, you at least acknowledge a child even if you're dealing with a life-threatening situation. That's just standard procedure, just the way that taking a wad of whateverthefuck a toddler hands you and saying "THANK you" is standard procedure. Some things are just innate and those that lack the instinct are questionable by nature.
Pool Hall Ace
(5,849 posts)So what the hell exactly was going on down there??
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)Most of the time in my experience they are an obnoxious bother. If you want to entertain somebody else's kid, that's your business, but I feel no such obligation nor should I just because you stomp your feet about it.
Pool Hall Ace
(5,849 posts)If you're childfree or not enthralled by children you are either damned to hell or written off as mentally ill.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)MiddleFingerMom
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I often get a double-take from the kids and they giggle and look at their moms (sometimes their
dads) as if to say, "LOOK, a big person who knows how to wave!!!"
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Instead of the "royal" side-to-side wave, I wave to them by opening and closing my fingers (most
adults have forgotten how to wave).
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We BOTH get a boost out of the encounter.
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hedgehog
(36,286 posts)they calm right down!
My kids call me the "baby whisperer"!
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)It's magic, I tell you!
HipChick
(25,485 posts)weird I tell ya
Baitball Blogger
(46,703 posts)It looks like an apoplectic version of the Fosse happy fingers.
HopeHoops
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HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)My beard isn't as long, but I do have long hair and don't shave at all so I might get to the point where I can do the mall Santa thing. I'm thinking five years, if I live that long. Not to be a bummer, but I don't expect to live to that point.
On Edit: I know I'm not immortal.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)...a woman with a little girl came and and the little girl kept on saying hi to everyone! Way too cute!
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)Twenty years ago, I had my own office, a big one, with at least six terminals in it and a 4x8 white board. I even put a Barney the dinosaur poster on the wall. Ten years before that I had an even larger office. Now you're lucky to get a 4x4 with a stool and a laptop.