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You can be having a totally shitty day, but when a toddler waves at you, you can't NOT wave back. (Original Post) charlie and algernon Aug 2012 OP
that's sweet. and obviously so true. nt seabeyond Aug 2012 #1
She looked deeply hurt when the woman texting didn't bother to notice her existence. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #2
I don't know, I think that's just a sad statement about the woman charlie and algernon Aug 2012 #5
Yes. It was the one self-absorbed woman who crushed the poor girl's enthusiasm. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #6
Cell phones that constantly lose service AmyDeLune Aug 2012 #8
Skype's much better for "phone sex". HopeHoops Aug 2012 #9
You know for a fact that the text was not of an urgent nature? Pool Hall Ace Aug 2012 #12
She was talking to EVERYBODY in particular! Well, so was my eldest when she yelled,... HopeHoops Aug 2012 #13
Oh, now that is priceless! Pool Hall Ace Aug 2012 #16
Best I remember, people laughing and talking. I wasn't there. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #19
You don't have to acknowledge somebody else's kid mythology Aug 2012 #21
Welcome to DU, where Child Worship rules! Pool Hall Ace Aug 2012 #23
Not at all true - KITTEHs rule on DU. Kids come second. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #24
I wave "hi" AND "bye" to very little children on the bus. MiddleFingerMom Aug 2012 #3
Do that to a little one who is fussing, and often they are so startled hedgehog Aug 2012 #4
It seems that when I smile at crying babies they stop crying. Odin2005 Aug 2012 #11
ugh..that happens to me too...and then they stare stalk me HipChick Aug 2012 #22
I have a special wave too. Baitball Blogger Aug 2012 #7
"Hey MOM! I saw SANTA today!!!!" HopeHoops Aug 2012 #14
Oh... I get THAT every once in a great while!!! MiddleFingerMom Aug 2012 #18
Dude, you're as close to Santa as I can imagine. I'm starting to go white and so want to do that. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #20
LOL, one day at work... Odin2005 Aug 2012 #10
Sadly, my mental image was a cubicle farm. I spent way too much time in those. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #15
That's sweet. Reminds me of: woo me with science Aug 2012 #17
 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
2. She looked deeply hurt when the woman texting didn't bother to notice her existence.
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 03:15 PM
Aug 2012

That's a sad statement about our society.

charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
5. I don't know, I think that's just a sad statement about the woman
Tue Aug 28, 2012, 08:44 AM
Aug 2012

Most of the people on that elevator DID acknowledge the toddler's existence.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
6. Yes. It was the one self-absorbed woman who crushed the poor girl's enthusiasm.
Tue Aug 28, 2012, 09:09 AM
Aug 2012

I hope there's a room in Hell with nothing but cell phones.

Pool Hall Ace

(5,849 posts)
12. You know for a fact that the text was not of an urgent nature?
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 12:48 PM
Aug 2012

Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't, but it's a bit harsh to damn her to hell for not acknowledging a toddler who was talking to no one in particular.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
13. She was talking to EVERYBODY in particular! Well, so was my eldest when she yelled,...
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 01:14 PM
Aug 2012

"WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON DOWN THERE?" from the upper level of a mall. My wife was mortified. I don't even know how she knew the words (about the same age as the toddler in the video) because we didn't swear in front of them back then and didn't watch TV. We've got an open language policy now, but they're all adults (almost - youngest is 17).

Still, you at least acknowledge a child even if you're dealing with a life-threatening situation. That's just standard procedure, just the way that taking a wad of whateverthefuck a toddler hands you and saying "THANK you" is standard procedure. Some things are just innate and those that lack the instinct are questionable by nature.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
21. You don't have to acknowledge somebody else's kid
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 11:13 PM
Aug 2012

Most of the time in my experience they are an obnoxious bother. If you want to entertain somebody else's kid, that's your business, but I feel no such obligation nor should I just because you stomp your feet about it.

Pool Hall Ace

(5,849 posts)
23. Welcome to DU, where Child Worship rules!
Thu Aug 30, 2012, 07:30 AM
Aug 2012

If you're childfree or not enthralled by children you are either damned to hell or written off as mentally ill.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
3. I wave "hi" AND "bye" to very little children on the bus.
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 03:22 PM
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I often get a double-take from the kids and they giggle and look at their moms (sometimes their
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Instead of the "royal" side-to-side wave, I wave to them by opening and closing my fingers (most
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We BOTH get a boost out of the encounter.
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hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
4. Do that to a little one who is fussing, and often they are so startled
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 03:42 PM
Aug 2012

they calm right down!

My kids call me the "baby whisperer"!

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
18. Oh... I get THAT every once in a great while!!!
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 01:48 PM
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HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
20. Dude, you're as close to Santa as I can imagine. I'm starting to go white and so want to do that.
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 02:01 PM
Aug 2012

My beard isn't as long, but I do have long hair and don't shave at all so I might get to the point where I can do the mall Santa thing. I'm thinking five years, if I live that long. Not to be a bummer, but I don't expect to live to that point.

On Edit: I know I'm not immortal.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
10. LOL, one day at work...
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 12:30 PM
Aug 2012

...a woman with a little girl came and and the little girl kept on saying hi to everyone! Way too cute!

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
15. Sadly, my mental image was a cubicle farm. I spent way too much time in those.
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 01:18 PM
Aug 2012

Twenty years ago, I had my own office, a big one, with at least six terminals in it and a 4x8 white board. I even put a Barney the dinosaur poster on the wall. Ten years before that I had an even larger office. Now you're lucky to get a 4x4 with a stool and a laptop.

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