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What makes you feel old? For me, I am tired alot, (Original Post) debm55 Aug 2023 OP
Forgetting things-- like common words. viva la Aug 2023 #1
I know. Going to the kitchen and forgetting why I went. debm55 Aug 2023 #5
Stupid Psoriatic arthritis in my knee. sinkingfeeling Aug 2023 #2
I'm sorry. Are you seeing a doctor for it? debm55 Aug 2023 #6
Seen a couple of them, X-rays, and MRI done. Will eventually have to have knee sinkingfeeling Aug 2023 #8
Best of luck to you. debm55 Aug 2023 #11
I feel old when I see kids graduating from college Deuxcents Aug 2023 #3
I feel guilty taking naps. Mostly because when I was younger I was a multi tasker--teaching, going debm55 Aug 2023 #7
Nothing really (but my gait, I guess; supposed to improve.) elleng Aug 2023 #4
elleng- I am so sorry, I hope you get better. debm55 Aug 2023 #9
Thanks, debm55. elleng Aug 2023 #10
Looking in the mirror. Gaahhh! Ocelot II Aug 2023 #12
Ain't it the truth. debm55 Aug 2023 #14
I walk differently. Not with a disability. Just slower or more deliberate. Not as carefree. Nanuke Aug 2023 #13
Yes, my doctor said I am overweight--5' 4" 139 lbs. I walk slower but when I walk Dolly, I try to debm55 Aug 2023 #15
That doesn't sound overweight. Gee. nt Laffy Kat Aug 2023 #19
I agree. That is not overweight. Polly Hennessey Aug 2023 #25
I'm 5'4" 140 not overweight. Getting off 5 more would be OK but not needed nt yellowdogintexas Aug 2023 #26
I think I'm a couple of years older than you, sweetheart... OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2023 #16
But I don't have that get uo and go,go,go like I used to. In fact, I went to the doctor because of debm55 Aug 2023 #17
Whoa,,,I would subscribe 3,5 grs of good Sativa bud. OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2023 #18
At the time, it was in 1991, it was illegal in PA. I don't have to worry about being hyper active debm55 Aug 2023 #20
I dunno, but this might give you a psychologically enjoyable kick in the pants. OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2023 #28
I need new knees. Lunabell Aug 2023 #21
That's why I left nursing after 2 years of a 4 year program. Everyone I now has had a hard time with debm55 Aug 2023 #23
Got my BS in Child Development and was going to be a teacher. Lunabell Aug 2023 #36
I think we switched careers. debm55 Aug 2023 #39
Traveling arthritis. Ache all over. Emile Aug 2023 #22
I tell my doctor that and he said it comes with age. My left leg is numb and I fall alot. New doctor debm55 Aug 2023 #24
Realizing I am buying my clothes from Alfred Dunner. Well, this old fart is going to bed. Sweet debm55 Aug 2023 #27
Who the hell is Alfred Dunner? OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2023 #29
Alfred Dunner is a women's clothing manufacturer. virgdem Aug 2023 #30
LOL....I screwed up and exposed myself as a total fashion ignoramus. Oh well.... OAITW r.2.0 Aug 2023 #31
No problem. If you're a guy, you wouldn't know about women's clothing. virgdem Aug 2023 #34
It's a women's clothing manufacturer - Ocelot II Aug 2023 #41
My age. LuckyCharms Aug 2023 #32
Yep me too debm55 Aug 2023 #40
debm55............ Upthevibe Aug 2023 #33
I know sometimes when I get ready to post a print I see all these read lines for mispellings and I debm55 Aug 2023 #42
Slight vertigo problems. Mr.Bill Aug 2023 #35
What makes me feel old? Niagara Aug 2023 #37
Sorry Niagara, I find that taking dolly for a walk refreshes me and helps me forget some problems. debm55 Aug 2023 #43
Body feels one way, mind resists. Prairie_Seagull Aug 2023 #38
I'm going to try that. Still wish I had the energy of my younger days. debm55 Aug 2023 #44
2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020 AKwannabe Aug 2023 #45
Hear, fucking hear. nt Prairie_Seagull Aug 2023 #47
I agree with you 100%. We need some peace and quiet in our lives and the ass continues. Very tired debm55 Aug 2023 #48
Pain and tiredness. tblue37 Aug 2023 #46
Agree. debm55 Aug 2023 #49
This. nolabear Aug 2023 #50
hahaha debm55 Aug 2023 #52
Pain in my knees, and listening to today's popular music. Mad_Dem_X Aug 2023 #51
Agree there debm55 Aug 2023 #53
Another thing: Standing in the checkout line at the grocery store, Ocelot II Aug 2023 #54
Isn/t that the truth. Who are those people? debm55 Aug 2023 #55
I'm almost 40 Elessar Zappa Aug 2023 #56
Hell, wait until you reach your 60's. debm55 Aug 2023 #57
Making a reference to a TV show, book, movie, etc... LudwigPastorius Aug 2023 #58
Yep debm55 Aug 2023 #62
Names - actors, authors, composers, etc. Doc_Technical Aug 2023 #59
Sorry debm55 Aug 2023 #63
c'est la vie Doc_Technical Aug 2023 #66
Looks chrisjourney9876 Aug 2023 #60
True. debm55 Aug 2023 #64
Mentioning something during a discussion of wnylib Aug 2023 #61
I am so happy you feel that way. I understand when you are talking to younger folks you have the debm55 Aug 2023 #65
The song "You And Me" by The Wannadies. Aristus Aug 2023 #67
Realizing that my date of birth..... lastlib Aug 2023 #68

viva la

(4,495 posts)
1. Forgetting things-- like common words.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:03 PM
Aug 2023

Or who sang a song I can sing all the way through.
Or who told me that thing yesterday.
Or why I'm standing in the middle of the laundry room with my car keys in my hand.

sinkingfeeling

(57,229 posts)
8. Seen a couple of them, X-rays, and MRI done. Will eventually have to have knee
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:12 PM
Aug 2023

replacement. But I don't have time between my planned travels for it. I'm trying to make it until summer of 2025.

Deuxcents

(25,522 posts)
3. I feel old when I see kids graduating from college
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:06 PM
Aug 2023

And I’ve known them since birth! Or getting married, having their own kids. I will say that I’ve been pretty lazy lately and I think it’s because the heat has zapped my energy and I just don’t care so I take a nap and enjoy it!

debm55

(55,773 posts)
7. I feel guilty taking naps. Mostly because when I was younger I was a multi tasker--teaching, going
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:11 PM
Aug 2023

to college at night, raising a family, keeping a home, etc,etc. Now the thought of all that makes me tired.

elleng

(141,926 posts)
10. Thanks, debm55.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:15 PM
Aug 2023

Had surgery, shunt placed July 5, to drain fluid faster, so hoping.

Ocelot II

(129,096 posts)
12. Looking in the mirror. Gaahhh!
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:18 PM
Aug 2023

And my birthday suit looks like I forgot to take it out of the dryer.

Nanuke

(902 posts)
13. I walk differently. Not with a disability. Just slower or more deliberate. Not as carefree.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:20 PM
Aug 2023

debm55

(55,773 posts)
15. Yes, my doctor said I am overweight--5' 4" 139 lbs. I walk slower but when I walk Dolly, I try to
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:25 PM
Aug 2023

go faster. Then I really take a nap.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,501 posts)
16. I think I'm a couple of years older than you, sweetheart...
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:41 PM
Aug 2023


Your age is totally a function of your mind.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
17. But I don't have that get uo and go,go,go like I used to. In fact, I went to the doctor because of
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:45 PM
Aug 2023

excessive energy and he gave me valium.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,501 posts)
18. Whoa,,,I would subscribe 3,5 grs of good Sativa bud.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:50 PM
Aug 2023

Smoke 2 bowls and call me in the morning.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
20. At the time, it was in 1991, it was illegal in PA. I don't have to worry about being hyper active
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:54 PM
Aug 2023

anymore.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,501 posts)
28. I dunno, but this might give you a psychologically enjoyable kick in the pants.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 10:58 PM
Aug 2023

Try a different idea.

 

Lunabell

(7,309 posts)
21. I need new knees.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:54 PM
Aug 2023

But, I'm not going to do it until the pain gets unbearable. I just can't stomach the thought of implants in my body or the thought of orthopedic surgery after having seen, heard and smelled (yes, bone surgery smells because of the drilling, sawing and chiseling) orthopedic surgery as a student nurse. I shudder.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
23. That's why I left nursing after 2 years of a 4 year program. Everyone I now has had a hard time with
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:58 PM
Aug 2023

the recovery.PS wanted to work in preemie unit, left when I found out that I had to do sort of rotations in other units. Went into teaching.

 

Lunabell

(7,309 posts)
36. Got my BS in Child Development and was going to be a teacher.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 01:27 AM
Aug 2023

But, I changed my mind because I'm gay and back then, I didn't want any bullshit about it. Turns out I was right to do that. Whatever strides we've made have almost been erased. I love being a nurse. I'm a born care-taker and it's a profession where I can always find a job. Now, I work exclusively with pediatric home health and my knees aren't as much of an issue.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
24. I tell my doctor that and he said it comes with age. My left leg is numb and I fall alot. New doctor
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 10:04 PM
Aug 2023

is having me see a neurologist as my needle prob(all 70 of those shits on my leg and spine and leg) showed abnormal That is the doctor that told me my leg is numb because I am overweight 5'4' 139 lbs. They did tests for arthritis and said no. I am sorry for you and hope they can give you something.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
27. Realizing I am buying my clothes from Alfred Dunner. Well, this old fart is going to bed. Sweet
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 10:18 PM
Aug 2023

Last edited Tue Aug 29, 2023, 08:12 AM - Edit history (1)

dreams everyone...

OAITW r.2.0

(31,501 posts)
29. Who the hell is Alfred Dunner?
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 11:01 PM
Aug 2023

Seriously. I'm 70 and I have never heard this person/corporate name.

virgdem

(2,293 posts)
34. No problem. If you're a guy, you wouldn't know about women's clothing.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:49 AM
Aug 2023

The only reason I know about men's clothing names is that I help my husband with his clothing selection (he's not a fan of shopping for clothing).

Ocelot II

(129,096 posts)
41. It's a women's clothing manufacturer -
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:42 AM
Aug 2023

their target market is middle-aged and older women.

Upthevibe

(10,026 posts)
33. debm55............
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 11:42 PM
Aug 2023

I have to say that I can for sure tell I'm slowing down....

My spelling has especially gotten worse (I've never been that great of a speller anyway). And it's not uncommon for me to go into another room and forget what the Hell I went in there for. 99 times out of a 100 when I go back to where I was I'll remember what I was needing to do.

I also get tired more easily. Fortunately, I've ALWAYS been a nap taker. I LOVE my naps! When I wake up I have a new burst of energy. Even when I was in my 20's on my lunch breaks I would normally take a nap when possible. I've done that throughout my life. I take naps almost every day...

debm55

(55,773 posts)
42. I know sometimes when I get ready to post a print I see all these read lines for mispellings and I
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:44 AM
Aug 2023

go back and fix. Sometimes I get them, sometimes not.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
35. Slight vertigo problems.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 01:17 AM
Aug 2023

Stairs without handrails are dangerous. I have to move slowly and deliberately on any stairs. I do not climb ladders anymore. We have grab rails in out tub/shower. I really miss them when we stay at a hotel.

Niagara

(11,526 posts)
37. What makes me feel old?
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 08:49 AM
Aug 2023

1. Fibromyalgia flare ups.


2. Food sensitivities. It's a drag that I have to avoid certain ingredients and food items.


3. Gum sensitivities. Cold items really aren't that great anymore, hold the ice in that drink.


4. Temporary Forgetfulness. Why did I walk into this room?


5. Having to say unusual phrases. For example, while turning off the coffee pot before leaving for work, I'll say something off the wall so that I remembered that I turned off the coffee pot before leaving the house. Usually it's "Purple Banana Cheesecake".


6. My 96 year old grandmother not remembering who I am.

debm55

(55,773 posts)
43. Sorry Niagara, I find that taking dolly for a walk refreshes me and helps me forget some problems.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:47 AM
Aug 2023

Prairie_Seagull

(4,598 posts)
38. Body feels one way, mind resists.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 08:59 AM
Aug 2023

Still sticking with mind over matter in this case. I am stubborn.

AKwannabe

(6,876 posts)
45. 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:49 AM
Aug 2023

And worst of all…January 6, 2021

All that has transpired is getting real fucking old and makes me tired and old feeling.

Fucking sick of it!

debm55

(55,773 posts)
48. I agree with you 100%. We need some peace and quiet in our lives and the ass continues. Very tired
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:57 AM
Aug 2023

Last edited Tue Aug 29, 2023, 10:29 AM - Edit history (1)

of it

Ocelot II

(129,096 posts)
54. Another thing: Standing in the checkout line at the grocery store,
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 11:25 AM
Aug 2023

looking at the magazine rack, and realizing that I have no idea who any of the celebrities on the covers are. I couldn't pick any of them out of a lineup.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
56. I'm almost 40
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:18 PM
Aug 2023

and I’ve noticed it takes much longer for me to recuperate from weightlifting, particularly deadlifts and squats.

LudwigPastorius

(14,174 posts)
58. Making a reference to a TV show, book, movie, etc...
Wed Aug 30, 2023, 11:25 PM
Aug 2023

and having a grown ass 40 something look at me like I am insane because they don't know what I'm talking about.

Doc_Technical

(3,738 posts)
59. Names - actors, authors, composers, etc.
Wed Aug 30, 2023, 11:43 PM
Aug 2023

Titles of books, movies, tv shows, songs. albums.

It isn't lost data, it's a problem with data retrieval.
My data bus must be malfunctioning.

wnylib

(25,355 posts)
61. Mentioning something during a discussion of
Thu Aug 31, 2023, 09:52 AM
Aug 2023

politics, historical events, or even just clothing fashions and seeing jaws drop in surprise that I am speaking from personal memory and experience, not from reading about it.

Being the last one still alive from my family of origin. Parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, and several older cousins all deceased.

Being the last one left from a local circle of friends. One of them passed away just this year. Her daughter is pregnant now at the same age that her mother was when pregnant for her. Past memories came to me of when her mother was pregnant, how we all used to get together for lunches at a restaurant. The mother was so large that she had to take the outside seat in the booth and turn sideways.

I have some newer friends, but we lack the long shared history of the old ones.

So that's what makes me feel old. But, I also feel young in some ways. I get around better than some people in their 70s. I guess I look younger because people are surprised if they hear my age. It's genetic, apparently. My mother looked younger than her age, too. I still enjoy getting involved in community activities, learning new things, reading, movies, and until recently, bike riding.










debm55

(55,773 posts)
65. I am so happy you feel that way. I understand when you are talking to younger folks you have the
Thu Aug 31, 2023, 10:11 AM
Aug 2023

actual experience. Happens to me too.

Aristus

(71,653 posts)
67. The song "You And Me" by The Wannadies.
Thu Aug 31, 2023, 11:13 AM
Aug 2023

I heard it for the first time on the soundtrack to Baz Luhrman's "Romeo + Juliet" in 1997. I was only twenty-eight. But the song, about the alternating periods of angst and carefree enjoyment of young life, made me instantly feel old. Like those very same emotions had passed me by, and it was time to be a responsible adult.

That feeling hasn't changed now that I'm going on fifty-five.

lastlib

(27,551 posts)
68. Realizing that my date of birth.....
Thu Aug 31, 2023, 12:34 PM
Aug 2023

...is closer to the start of World War I than it is to today......

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