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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsIf you could give yourself a new first name, what would you name yourself. Mine would be Elizabeth
SarahD
(1,732 posts)Oh, wait. That's already taken.
tblue37
(68,213 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(13,829 posts)It's my middle name, but it was my mother's name so I guess they didn't want two in the family. I wouldn't mind my first name so much if my parents would have used the Scottish diminutive for it, which is Jenny.
debm55
(56,019 posts)LisaM
(29,502 posts)My first name IS Elizabeth, so this thread is already making me laugh.
spooky3
(38,293 posts)LisaM
(29,502 posts)I still like it.
PJMcK
(24,777 posts)(wink)
debm55
(56,019 posts)spooky3
(38,293 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)spooky3
(38,293 posts)The pronunciation they wanted.
MiHale
(12,642 posts)Charles is my first after my Dad, not to get confused with a couple of Charleys, my parents decided to go with my second name, Gregory. Im known as Greg to everyone but Official places, credit cards, doctors, so on and so forth.
Ive always wanted to be able to use it exclusively but Id go with the formal Lithuanian Gregoras as the choice.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Niagara
(11,561 posts)I didn't have an appreciation for my first name until this year. It took my long enough to appreciate it.
And then suddenly a few in person friends as well as a few online friends literally call me by my name and it sounds extraordinary and soothing!
Now I'm feeling like my middle name can go take a flying leap lol. I'm only teasing that my middle name can go take a flying leap.
Niagara
(11,561 posts)MOMFUDSKI
(7,080 posts)My mom was going to name me Penelope but a good friend beat her to it. I wouldve been happy with Penny though. My kids are Jac and Jill. Whats in a name? lol
debm55
(56,019 posts)I have been happy with it
hlthe2b
(112,868 posts)based on census data. Some really beautiful names (likewise nice ones for men) have been pretty much lost to any common use in the US and Europe. My sister's name and mine are a bit like that, but though we both dislike our middle names, I like the first names. So, no changes here.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Wicked Blue
(8,469 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)doc03
(38,849 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)doc03
(38,849 posts)anyone could name the show. Nobody even made a guess.
debm55
(56,019 posts)doc03
(38,849 posts)Gilles always talked about his son Egbert. From what I could find he only appeared in 1 episode. The actor's name was
Gregory Marshall, I couldn't even find a picture of him. I always remembered that name because Gilles talked about Egbert all the time. I would be the only other person ever named Egbert.
NORM! I think if you liked 80s comedies, you know this.
Rebl2
(17,422 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)Cheers to yo in the new year!
LudwigPastorius
(14,215 posts)I'd change to something like, Flint Ironstag, Bolt Vanderhuge, or Slate Fistcrunch.
debm55
(56,019 posts)LudwigPastorius
(14,215 posts)Cartoonist
(7,579 posts)Doesn't really fit my last name, but I'll take it.
debm55
(56,019 posts)brewens
(15,359 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)LoisB
(12,397 posts)I always disliked my name (Lois) because it's such an old name. Now that I'm old, I guess it fits.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Chainfire
(17,757 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)hello to your Elizabeth.
nocoincidences
(2,465 posts)so I think I would go with Lily.
My fave aunt was named Lillian, too.
debm55
(56,019 posts)retread
(3,889 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...as in Spangler Arlington Brugh, real name of famous no-talent pretty face actor Robert Taylor. I don't know, or care, if the name is ugly or not. Just how cool would it be to be named Spangler Arlington Brugh...?
debm55
(56,019 posts)MyMission
(2,008 posts)My name is quite unusual, I used to think of changing it when I was a kid, but grew to appreciate how unique it was...until fairly recently, when a huge corporation stole my name and now it's recognized everywhere!!! And they mispronounce it!!!!
So I've been joking about stealing their name, and changing mine to...Facebook,
but only joking because I really don't want to be called Facebook.
And now I've revealed my true name to you. It rhymes with beta, theta, zeta; long "A"
After 60+ years I'm not changing it!!! It's a German variant of Margaret.
Many years ago I worked with a Deborah, Not Deb, Debbie, Debra. She was firm about that, but she was always mispronouncing my name no matter how often I corrected her. So, I started to call her by a nickname, which got her to give me the same courtesy she expected from others, saying my name correctly. Now that my name is globally known and mispronounced, I'm not thrilled....Poor me! Lol
debm55
(56,019 posts)MyMission
(2,008 posts)Her English name was Minnie, but she was called Maida, which means girl in Yiddish. My dad named me Meta, which sounds like Maida. It's a short version of Margaret.
Here's some fun information.
Origin:German
Other Origin(s):Greek
Meaning: Pearl; Mint; After, beyond
Meta is an original and standout name for girls. It has multiple sources across the globe, the main origin being German, where it means "pearl." As a Lithuanian name, Meta means "mint." Meta is a Greek word meaning "beyond, after," often associated with positive change, possibility, and evolution. A child bearing the name Meta is bound to evolve and flourish as they make their way in the world. A pearl is something rare, precious, and filled with wisdom, just like your wonderful little girl.
https://www.thebump.com/b/meta-baby-name
There's also now a Wikipedia page about my name!
Just found it! Knew about some but not all on the list.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meta_(name)
debm55
(56,019 posts)Deb-or-ah or Deb-ra or Dev- or-ah
Jilly_in_VA
(13,829 posts)I'd name them Deborah and Melissa. They mean the same thing in different languages...honey bee.
debm55
(56,019 posts)freesqueeze
(1,384 posts)Actually I think it would be cool if my friends would call me "Butch" and when prodded I would admit that my given name was "Elliot."
https://www.deviantart.com/freesqueeze
debm55
(56,019 posts)Hermit-The-Prog
(36,631 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)Hermit-The-Prog
(36,631 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)NBachers
(19,188 posts)ever found out, I'd never hear the end of it.
I was relieved when my birth certificate confirmed that I'm really Neil.
But, years later, I found out my Irish Catholic mom had me baptized as Cornelius. Don't tell anyone!
But now, at this late part of my life, Cornelius would give me big cred in the Irish community. So I've made peace with it.
My handle, given to me by my high school buds, was Otto. Many people still know me as Otto.
But I always thought Steve would be great. Everyone gets along with Steve.
debm55
(56,019 posts)MOMFUDSKI
(7,080 posts)but they called him Corny.
debm55
(56,019 posts)surrealAmerican
(11,740 posts)... a three syllable name with no decent nickname.
That said, my name's my name, and I'm just too accustomed to it to really want to change it anymore.
Iris
(16,847 posts)It was the middle name of both of my grandmothers
debm55
(56,019 posts)Diamond_Dog
(39,809 posts)Wladyslava.
I like my given name well enough - Kathleen.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Diamond_Dog
(39,809 posts)Rooted in Slavic, the name Vladislava comes as a derivative of Vladislav, whose elements vladeti and slava indicate rule, glory, or, better yet, one who owns a glory.
From the web site The Bump.
Glorfindel
(10,172 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)There was an actress years ago named Gemma. I like it
I like Luna or Chloe or Lilly.
debm55
(56,019 posts)sanatanadharma
(4,076 posts)I am known by so many different names in different places on the internet, all self-chosen, and all pointing to the same one self I call "I".
That same One-Self known to all who identify as "I".
But if we meet on the street, I'm Herb.
debm55
(56,019 posts)NNadir
(37,321 posts)It would be appropriate, since I long have wished to restore the Kingdom of Epirus to overcome the hegemony of Rome.
I may, however, be a little late for the task.
debm55
(56,019 posts)samnsara
(18,721 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)3catwoman3
(28,632 posts)My first name is Martha, and Ive never liked it.
Time and time again, if a book, or TV show, or movie wants a cranky, unpleasant female character, shell be named Martha/Aunt Martha. A prime example is the current Medicare Advantage ads with the crabby little old lady in the oversized glasses.
The worst use I ever saw of my despised name was in the early 70s, while I was in nursing school. The back cover of a medical journal showed a little old sour-faced lady, rather like the above mentioned Medicare Martha, sitting on a high, 4-legged wooden stool. It was an ad for the stool softener Colace. The ad said, For a BM in the AM, give Aunt Martha Colace in the PM. I was horrified. Couldnt they have chosen Aunt Bertha, or some other ugly name? Sheesh!
This was 50 years ago, and I can still see that damn ad in my minds eye.
A couple of friends whom I first came to know on line, and then in person, call me Cat because of my screen name, which is as close to Kathleen or Caitlyn as I will get. Ill take it.
debm55
(56,019 posts)FalloutShelter
(14,193 posts)Why not just go for it?
debm55
(56,019 posts)FalloutShelter
(14,193 posts)Traildogbob
(12,562 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)And you give me a half ass reason for doing so. Change the post or I will have it done for you. And I have never done that before. Thank you.
Dulcinea
(9,690 posts)Miranda, Rosalind, Portia, Cassandra...
debm55
(56,019 posts)LeftInTX
(34,015 posts)I have some weird names in my family;
Great grandmother: Gulbahar, ---> Couldn't change her name, since she was a "foreign alien" and couldn't become a citizen because she couldn't read or write
Grandmother: Horsig --> Changed name to Hripsime and then Helen
Great Aunt: Nunufar --> Changed name to Nevart
Grandfather: Nerses (My brother got that middle name and was teased to death)
debm55
(56,019 posts)LeftInTX
(34,015 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)RainCaster
(13,385 posts)My name is too common, so I use this name at the coffee shops.
Solly Mack
(96,385 posts)viva la
(4,497 posts)Several nice nicknames.
debm55
(56,019 posts)a Rebecca and did not like my name as a child, but do now. Most call me Becky though. I do like Becca, but was never called that.
viva la
(4,497 posts)And 3 syllables is the right rhythm for a formal name.
I didn't have a daughter, so I didn't get to use the name!
debm55
(56,019 posts)mnhtnbb
(33,136 posts)so I would have had options to shorten it. Instead, they named me Betty. Zero options. Even worse, when I was little they called me Betty Lou. Agghhhh!!!! My parents weren't even from the South.
We moved across the country (NJ to CA) when I was 14 and I insisted they stop calling me that. And of course, I became known only as Betty to classmates and friends.
I thought about changing my name entirely when I turned 18 and went to college, but there wasn't a name I just loved and felt was me and was worth the hassle of changing legally.
So, had it been Elizabeth, I might have changed nicknames at different points in my life to better reflect who I was during different stages of my life.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Rebl2
(17,422 posts)Rachel. My mom had a sister by that name and she never had children. I would have, before marriage, been Rachel Ray. If not that name, it would be Sara after another one of my mothers sisters that died when she was a baby.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Emile
(40,691 posts)debm55
(56,019 posts)sakabatou
(45,789 posts)At least then I wouldn't have my old nickname.
debm55
(56,019 posts)ChazInAz
(2,993 posts)I was born in Hungary. We immigrated to America in 1956-1957...you may recall what happened that winter in my homeland. My given name was Karel Radu Danesti Prokopp. (Magyars seem to like long names, probably because of our language!) My parents Americanised us kids' given names: Joszef, Jovanka and Karel became Joseph, Janice and Charles. I prefer to go by my old name, and use Radu Danesti as a stage name occasionally. Legally, it's still Charles.
debm55
(56,019 posts)jmowreader
(52,910 posts)My first name is currently Jim. I'm not thrilled with it - a nice Italianate or German first name like Mauricio or Stefan would be cooler - but the effect on people if you could introduce yourself as Jim Jones or Jimmy Hoffa would be worth it.
debm55
(56,019 posts)CTyankee
(67,807 posts)I was named after a singer named Jeanette McDonald. Evidently, she was once famous.
debm55
(56,019 posts)yellowdogintexas
(23,595 posts)However when I was growing up I hated my name because it was easily corrupted into an extremely annoying nickname. There was also only one other person who had the same name. For some reason, most people seemed to have no clue on the correct pronunciation.
When I got to college I met a few others with the same name and lost the awful nickname and bad pronunciations. Then I moved to Cambridge MA; lots of women with my name. I
had found my tribe!
I still don't know how I would have changed it.
I am named for my grandmothers, and I love my name(s) now. Of course I am Southern so when I heard both my names together I knew I was in trouble.
debm55
(56,019 posts)Last edited Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:28 PM - Edit history (1)
Dem2theMax
(11,005 posts)I'm adopted. My birth mother and my adopted parents gave me the exact same first name, without any of them knowing what the other had named me.
My first name is not unusual, but I've never met another person who has my name. I would have to go to France to run into a bunch of people with my name.
I would like to change my middle name. I'd like to get rid of it and replace it with my birth mother's maiden name. Then I would have the original name she gave me, and then the adopted last name at the end.