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debm55

(56,019 posts)
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 01:54 PM Dec 2023

If you could give yourself a new first name, what would you name yourself. Mine would be Elizabeth

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If you could give yourself a new first name, what would you name yourself. Mine would be Elizabeth (Original Post) debm55 Dec 2023 OP
I would do Sarah SarahD Dec 2023 #1
Good! debm55 Dec 2023 #2
I like my first name too much to change it. tblue37 Dec 2023 #120
Elizabeth Jilly_in_VA Dec 2023 #3
Thank you, I didn't know that. debm55 Dec 2023 #5
Probably Bridget or Caroline. I like both. LisaM Dec 2023 #4
People would break out in song if you picked Caroline. ☺️ spooky3 Dec 2023 #6
Yeah, I suppose they would now. LisaM Dec 2023 #9
That's sweet! PJMcK Dec 2023 #89
Both of your choices are great, TY debm55 Dec 2023 #7
Something easily spelled and pronounced, unlike my current name. Nt spooky3 Dec 2023 #8
Sorry about that. Could you have used your middle name? debm55 Dec 2023 #10
🙂didn't like it, either. I just got used to spelling my first name and letting people use spooky3 Dec 2023 #15
I'd just switch my first name for my second name... MiHale Dec 2023 #11
Thank you . I like ethnic names. They are beautiful. debm55 Dec 2023 #14
I'm going to be honest. Niagara Dec 2023 #12
Love ya. debm55 Dec 2023 #13
Love ya, Debbie! Niagara Dec 2023 #16
I will stick with Dawn - my given name. MOMFUDSKI Dec 2023 #17
Dawn is a beautiful name debm55 Dec 2023 #19
Thanks. MOMFUDSKI Dec 2023 #32
I always found it fascinating to see which names came in and out of favor by each decade... hlthe2b Dec 2023 #18
Thank you hlthe2b debm55 Dec 2023 #20
Linda nt Wicked Blue Dec 2023 #21
Thank Wicked Blue. debm55 Dec 2023 #23
Egbert. nt doc03 Dec 2023 #22
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA , for real??? debm55 Dec 2023 #24
Someone a couple days ago said to name a TV charactor and see if doc03 Dec 2023 #25
doc03 I myself didn't know there was a TY character by that name either. debm55 Dec 2023 #28
In the old TV series from the 50s "The Life of Riley", Riley's best friend Jim doc03 Dec 2023 #37
I know one Rebl2 Dec 2023 #96
Cheers doc03 Dec 2023 #106
Yep! Cheers! Rebl2 Dec 2023 #110
HAHAHAHAHAH. NORM. in Cheers. debm55 Dec 2023 #108
Yep Rebl2 Dec 2023 #109
I'd only change if I could change both names. LudwigPastorius Dec 2023 #26
HAHAHAHAHAHAHaHa You are so funny. debm55 Dec 2023 #29
Awww.... LudwigPastorius Dec 2023 #41
Bram Cartoonist Dec 2023 #27
Bram---I like it. debm55 Dec 2023 #30
Anything but Sue! brewens Dec 2023 #31
Yes , if your a guy. Ty debm55 Dec 2023 #44
Marcella. LoisB Dec 2023 #33
Thank you, LoisB. debm55 Dec 2023 #45
My wife's first name is Elizabeth, she has always used her middle name. Chainfire Dec 2023 #34
I still like Elizabeth. My birth certificate says Devora, but I have gone by the English version. Thank you and say debm55 Dec 2023 #46
I've always liked the L sound, nocoincidences Dec 2023 #35
Lily/Lillian is such a beautiful name. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #47
Nimrod. retread Dec 2023 #36
HAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH You are too much debm55 Dec 2023 #48
Spangler... First Speaker Dec 2023 #38
Let me think about it. ______Okay if you like it. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #49
Funny you asked!!! I like my name. MyMission Dec 2023 #39
My real name is Devora, after my great grandmother. Is it Margot? Ty debm55 Dec 2023 #50
I was named for my father's mother MyMission Dec 2023 #66
What a beautiful post. My Hebrew version means bee. It;s funny but there are different ways of pronouncing both debm55 Dec 2023 #67
I always thought if I had twin girls Jilly_in_VA Dec 2023 #104
That is beautiful. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #105
Butch or Elliot freesqueeze Dec 2023 #40
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Butch/Elliot kind of opposites--are they supposed to be? I like it. debm55 Dec 2023 #55
Korgon The Brain Eater! C'mere a minute. Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2023 #42
Hermit-The -Prog are you serious???????? debm55 Dec 2023 #56
Of course. A moderate diet of brains maintains my youthful complexion. Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2023 #74
Oh you debm55 Dec 2023 #75
As a kid, I was secretly horrified that my name Neil was a short version, and my real name was Cornelius. If the kids NBachers Dec 2023 #43
Yes, Steve is one of those go to names. Though I like Neil even as a grownup name. TY I enjoyed reading your post. debm55 Dec 2023 #57
My dad's Irish uncle was named Cornelius MOMFUDSKI Dec 2023 #102
I like that. Ty. It's funny too debm55 Dec 2023 #103
If I did, it would not be ... surrealAmerican Dec 2023 #51
Margaret Iris Dec 2023 #52
Yes, Margaret is very beautiful. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #65
I'm glad I wasn't named after my maternal grandmother - Diamond_Dog Dec 2023 #53
Diamond_Dog m In English, what is the translation of Wladyslava? TY debm55 Dec 2023 #61
It loosely translates to "Glory", deb Diamond_Dog Dec 2023 #64
Julius, inhonor of my favorite great-aunt, Julia. Glorfindel Dec 2023 #54
Love both the names Julia and Julius. the names have character. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #59
I like Elizabeth but not Betty or Liz. LakeArenal Dec 2023 #58
I would use Beth as my nickname for Elizabeth. I like you selection of Lily. It is so sweet. debm55 Dec 2023 #63
I've given myself new name many times, and no I am not hiding from the law sanatanadharma Dec 2023 #60
Thanks Herb, I think.--if that is your name. debm55 Dec 2023 #62
Alcetus. NNadir Dec 2023 #68
I think you are.------- debm55 Dec 2023 #71
Sara samnsara Dec 2023 #69
Beautiful name. debm55 Dec 2023 #72
I would love to be Kathleen or Caitlyn. 3catwoman3 Dec 2023 #70
I love both names. They are classic. I don't like the names/different spelling used today. Thank you for your post. debm55 Dec 2023 #73
Mine would be Maleficent. FalloutShelter Dec 2023 #76
HAHAHHAHAHAHA- --You are funny. debm55 Dec 2023 #78
I mean... I could rock those horns. FalloutShelter Dec 2023 #80
Delete Traildogbob Dec 2023 #77
I take offense to change your name from adolf to another. My great grandparents were Jewish and I don't like it. Period debm55 Dec 2023 #84
Something Shakespearean. Dulcinea Dec 2023 #79
All good choices. TY-----I especially like Cassandra. debm55 Dec 2023 #85
Karen!!! Ha, just joking LeftInTX Dec 2023 #81
May I ask what country --sounds like German. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #86
Armenian, but the name Gulbahar was Turkish..LOL LeftInTX Dec 2023 #88
Thank you debm55 Dec 2023 #92
for me, it's Zorg RainCaster Dec 2023 #82
I wouldn't change mine. Solly Mack Dec 2023 #83
Rebecca viva la Dec 2023 #87
Very sweet name. debm55 Dec 2023 #91
I am Rebl2 Dec 2023 #99
I like Becky and Becca, but "Becca" sounds more... cool? viva la Dec 2023 #107
Becca is a classy modern name. I like it. Happy New Year debm55 Dec 2023 #113
I always wished my parents had named me Elizabeth mnhtnbb Dec 2023 #90
What a wonderful post. Thank you. debm55 Dec 2023 #93
It would be Rebl2 Dec 2023 #94
Beautiful name, TY debm55 Dec 2023 #95
Bartholomew or Herbert Emile Dec 2023 #97
Very classy names, Emile. TY debm55 Dec 2023 #100
Alex sakabatou Dec 2023 #98
I like Alex classy Ty debm55 Dec 2023 #101
That's something I've thought on. ChazInAz Dec 2023 #111
Karel/ Charles is a beautiful name. Have a Blessed New Year. debm55 Dec 2023 #114
Can I pick a new last name instead? I will pick either Jones or Hoffa. jmowreader Dec 2023 #112
That is hilarious. Have a great New Year debm55 Dec 2023 #115
Carlotta. I thought it sounded mysterious and glamorous. CTyankee Dec 2023 #116
Carlotta, is a very exotic and beautiful name. Have a very wonderful New Years with your trip . debm55 Dec 2023 #117
At this late point in my life, I would not imaging changing my name yellowdogintexas Dec 2023 #118
Thank you yellowdogintexas for your insightful post. Wishing you a Happy New Year. debm55 Dec 2023 #119
I would never change my first name. Dem2theMax Jan 2024 #121

Jilly_in_VA

(13,829 posts)
3. Elizabeth
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 02:02 PM
Dec 2023

It's my middle name, but it was my mother's name so I guess they didn't want two in the family. I wouldn't mind my first name so much if my parents would have used the Scottish diminutive for it, which is Jenny.

LisaM

(29,502 posts)
4. Probably Bridget or Caroline. I like both.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 02:10 PM
Dec 2023

My first name IS Elizabeth, so this thread is already making me laugh.

spooky3

(38,293 posts)
15. 🙂didn't like it, either. I just got used to spelling my first name and letting people use
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 02:40 PM
Dec 2023

The pronunciation they wanted.

MiHale

(12,642 posts)
11. I'd just switch my first name for my second name...
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 02:22 PM
Dec 2023

Charles is my first after my Dad, not to get confused with a couple of Charley’s, my parents decided to go with my second name, Gregory. I’m known as Greg to everyone but “Official” places, credit cards, doctors, so on and so forth.
I’ve always wanted to be able to use it exclusively but I’d go with the formal Lithuanian Gregoras as the choice.

Niagara

(11,561 posts)
12. I'm going to be honest.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 02:26 PM
Dec 2023

I didn't have an appreciation for my first name until this year. It took my long enough to appreciate it.


And then suddenly a few in person friends as well as a few online friends literally call me by my name and it sounds extraordinary and soothing!


Now I'm feeling like my middle name can go take a flying leap lol. I'm only teasing that my middle name can go take a flying leap.

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
17. I will stick with Dawn - my given name.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 03:08 PM
Dec 2023

My mom was going to name me Penelope but a good friend beat her to it. I would’ve been happy with Penny though. My kids are Jac and Jill. What’s in a name? lol

hlthe2b

(112,868 posts)
18. I always found it fascinating to see which names came in and out of favor by each decade...
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 03:15 PM
Dec 2023

based on census data. Some really beautiful names (likewise nice ones for men) have been pretty much lost to any common use in the US and Europe. My sister's name and mine are a bit like that, but though we both dislike our middle names, I like the first names. So, no changes here.

doc03

(38,849 posts)
25. Someone a couple days ago said to name a TV charactor and see if
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 03:52 PM
Dec 2023

anyone could name the show. Nobody even made a guess.

doc03

(38,849 posts)
37. In the old TV series from the 50s "The Life of Riley", Riley's best friend Jim
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:36 PM
Dec 2023

Gilles always talked about his son Egbert. From what I could find he only appeared in 1 episode. The actor's name was
Gregory Marshall, I couldn't even find a picture of him. I always remembered that name because Gilles talked about Egbert all the time. I would be the only other person ever named Egbert.

LudwigPastorius

(14,215 posts)
26. I'd only change if I could change both names.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:00 PM
Dec 2023

I'd change to something like, Flint Ironstag, Bolt Vanderhuge, or Slate Fistcrunch.

LoisB

(12,397 posts)
33. Marcella.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:23 PM
Dec 2023

I always disliked my name (Lois) because it's such an old name. Now that I'm old, I guess it fits.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
46. I still like Elizabeth. My birth certificate says Devora, but I have gone by the English version. Thank you and say
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:25 PM
Dec 2023

hello to your Elizabeth.

nocoincidences

(2,465 posts)
35. I've always liked the L sound,
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:30 PM
Dec 2023

so I think I would go with Lily.

My fave aunt was named Lillian, too.

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
38. Spangler...
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:43 PM
Dec 2023

...as in Spangler Arlington Brugh, real name of famous no-talent pretty face actor Robert Taylor. I don't know, or care, if the name is ugly or not. Just how cool would it be to be named Spangler Arlington Brugh...?

MyMission

(2,008 posts)
39. Funny you asked!!! I like my name.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 04:53 PM
Dec 2023

My name is quite unusual, I used to think of changing it when I was a kid, but grew to appreciate how unique it was...until fairly recently, when a huge corporation stole my name and now it's recognized everywhere!!! And they mispronounce it!!!!

So I've been joking about stealing their name, and changing mine to...Facebook,
but only joking because I really don't want to be called Facebook.

And now I've revealed my true name to you. It rhymes with beta, theta, zeta; long "A"
After 60+ years I'm not changing it!!! It's a German variant of Margaret.

Many years ago I worked with a Deborah, Not Deb, Debbie, Debra. She was firm about that, but she was always mispronouncing my name no matter how often I corrected her. So, I started to call her by a nickname, which got her to give me the same courtesy she expected from others, saying my name correctly. Now that my name is globally known and mispronounced, I'm not thrilled....Poor me! Lol



MyMission

(2,008 posts)
66. I was named for my father's mother
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 08:03 PM
Dec 2023

Her English name was Minnie, but she was called Maida, which means girl in Yiddish. My dad named me Meta, which sounds like Maida. It's a short version of Margaret.

Here's some fun information.
Origin:German
Other Origin(s):Greek
Meaning: Pearl; Mint; After, beyond
Meta is an original and standout name for girls. It has multiple sources across the globe, the main origin being German, where it means "pearl." As a Lithuanian name, Meta means "mint." Meta is a Greek word meaning "beyond, after," often associated with positive change, possibility, and evolution. A child bearing the name Meta is bound to evolve and flourish as they make their way in the world. A pearl is something rare, precious, and filled with wisdom, just like your wonderful little girl.
https://www.thebump.com/b/meta-baby-name

There's also now a Wikipedia page about my name!
Just found it! Knew about some but not all on the list.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meta_(name)

debm55

(56,019 posts)
67. What a beautiful post. My Hebrew version means bee. It;s funny but there are different ways of pronouncing both
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 08:11 PM
Dec 2023

Deb-or-ah or Deb-ra or Dev- or-ah

Jilly_in_VA

(13,829 posts)
104. I always thought if I had twin girls
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 01:05 PM
Dec 2023

I'd name them Deborah and Melissa. They mean the same thing in different languages...honey bee.

freesqueeze

(1,384 posts)
40. Butch or Elliot
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 05:03 PM
Dec 2023

Actually I think it would be cool if my friends would call me "Butch" and when prodded I would admit that my given name was "Elliot."

https://www.deviantart.com/freesqueeze

NBachers

(19,188 posts)
43. As a kid, I was secretly horrified that my name Neil was a short version, and my real name was Cornelius. If the kids
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 06:58 PM
Dec 2023

ever found out, I'd never hear the end of it.

I was relieved when my birth certificate confirmed that I'm really Neil.

But, years later, I found out my Irish Catholic mom had me baptized as Cornelius. Don't tell anyone!

But now, at this late part of my life, Cornelius would give me big cred in the Irish community. So I've made peace with it.

My handle, given to me by my high school buds, was Otto. Many people still know me as Otto.

But I always thought Steve would be great. Everyone gets along with Steve.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
57. Yes, Steve is one of those go to names. Though I like Neil even as a grownup name. TY I enjoyed reading your post.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:50 PM
Dec 2023

surrealAmerican

(11,740 posts)
51. If I did, it would not be ...
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:38 PM
Dec 2023

... a three syllable name with no decent nickname.

That said, my name's my name, and I'm just too accustomed to it to really want to change it anymore.

Diamond_Dog

(39,809 posts)
53. I'm glad I wasn't named after my maternal grandmother -
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:43 PM
Dec 2023

Wladyslava.

I like my given name well enough - Kathleen.

Diamond_Dog

(39,809 posts)
64. It loosely translates to "Glory", deb
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:59 PM
Dec 2023

Rooted in Slavic, the name Vladislava comes as a derivative of Vladislav, whose elements vladeti and slava indicate “rule,” “glory,” or, better yet, “one who owns a glory.”

From the web site The Bump.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
58. I like Elizabeth but not Betty or Liz.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:51 PM
Dec 2023

There was an actress years ago named Gemma. I like it


I like Luna or Chloe or Lilly.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
63. I would use Beth as my nickname for Elizabeth. I like you selection of Lily. It is so sweet.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:57 PM
Dec 2023

sanatanadharma

(4,076 posts)
60. I've given myself new name many times, and no I am not hiding from the law
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 07:53 PM
Dec 2023

I am known by so many different names in different places on the internet, all self-chosen, and all pointing to the same one self I call "I".
That same One-Self known to all who identify as "I".
But if we meet on the street, I'm Herb.

NNadir

(37,321 posts)
68. Alcetus.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 08:45 PM
Dec 2023

It would be appropriate, since I long have wished to restore the Kingdom of Epirus to overcome the hegemony of Rome.

I may, however, be a little late for the task.

3catwoman3

(28,632 posts)
70. I would love to be Kathleen or Caitlyn.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 09:42 PM
Dec 2023

My first name is Martha, and I’ve never liked it.

Time and time again, if a book, or TV show, or movie wants a cranky, unpleasant female character, she’ll be named Martha/Aunt Martha. A prime example is the current Medicare Advantage ads with the crabby little old lady in the oversized glasses.

The worst use I ever saw of my despised name was in the early 70’s, while I was in nursing school. The back cover of a medical journal showed a little old sour-faced lady, rather like the above mentioned Medicare Martha, sitting on a high, 4-legged wooden stool. It was an ad for the stool softener Colace. The ad said, “For a BM in the AM, give Aunt Martha Colace in the PM.” I was horrified. Couldn’t they have chosen Aunt Bertha, or some other ugly name? Sheesh!

This was 50 years ago, and I can still see that damn ad in my mind’s eye.

A couple of friends whom I first came to know on line, and then in person, call me Cat because of my screen name, which is as close to Kathleen or Caitlyn as I will get. I’ll take it.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
73. I love both names. They are classic. I don't like the names/different spelling used today. Thank you for your post.
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 10:07 PM
Dec 2023

debm55

(56,019 posts)
84. I take offense to change your name from adolf to another. My great grandparents were Jewish and I don't like it. Period
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 10:59 PM
Dec 2023

And you give me a half ass reason for doing so. Change the post or I will have it done for you. And I have never done that before. Thank you.

LeftInTX

(34,015 posts)
81. Karen!!! Ha, just joking
Sat Dec 30, 2023, 10:50 PM
Dec 2023

I have some weird names in my family;
Great grandmother: Gulbahar, ---> Couldn't change her name, since she was a "foreign alien" and couldn't become a citizen because she couldn't read or write
Grandmother: Horsig --> Changed name to Hripsime and then Helen
Great Aunt: Nunufar --> Changed name to Nevart
Grandfather: Nerses (My brother got that middle name and was teased to death)

Rebl2

(17,422 posts)
99. I am
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:41 AM
Dec 2023

a Rebecca and did not like my name as a child, but do now. Most call me Becky though. I do like Becca, but was never called that.

viva la

(4,497 posts)
107. I like Becky and Becca, but "Becca" sounds more... cool?
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 01:09 PM
Dec 2023

And 3 syllables is the right rhythm for a formal name.

I didn't have a daughter, so I didn't get to use the name!

mnhtnbb

(33,136 posts)
90. I always wished my parents had named me Elizabeth
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 08:35 AM
Dec 2023

so I would have had options to shorten it. Instead, they named me Betty. Zero options. Even worse, when I was little they called me Betty Lou. Agghhhh!!!! My parents weren't even from the South.
We moved across the country (NJ to CA) when I was 14 and I insisted they stop calling me that. And of course, I became known only as Betty to classmates and friends.
I thought about changing my name entirely when I turned 18 and went to college, but there wasn't a name I just loved and felt was me and was worth the hassle of changing legally.

So, had it been Elizabeth, I might have changed nicknames at different points in my life to better reflect who I was during different stages of my life.

Rebl2

(17,422 posts)
94. It would be
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:23 AM
Dec 2023

Rachel. My mom had a sister by that name and she never had children. I would have, before marriage, been Rachel Ray. If not that name, it would be Sara after another one of my mothers sisters that died when she was a baby.

ChazInAz

(2,993 posts)
111. That's something I've thought on.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 02:44 PM
Dec 2023

I was born in Hungary. We immigrated to America in 1956-1957...you may recall what happened that winter in my homeland. My given name was Karel Radu Danesti Prokopp. (Magyars seem to like long names, probably because of our language!) My parents Americanised us kids' given names: Joszef, Jovanka and Karel became Joseph, Janice and Charles. I prefer to go by my old name, and use Radu Danesti as a stage name occasionally. Legally, it's still Charles.

jmowreader

(52,910 posts)
112. Can I pick a new last name instead? I will pick either Jones or Hoffa.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 02:45 PM
Dec 2023

My first name is currently Jim. I'm not thrilled with it - a nice Italianate or German first name like Mauricio or Stefan would be cooler - but the effect on people if you could introduce yourself as Jim Jones or Jimmy Hoffa would be worth it.

CTyankee

(67,807 posts)
116. Carlotta. I thought it sounded mysterious and glamorous.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 03:21 PM
Dec 2023

I was named after a singer named Jeanette McDonald. Evidently, she was once famous.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
117. Carlotta, is a very exotic and beautiful name. Have a very wonderful New Years with your trip .
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 03:45 PM
Dec 2023

yellowdogintexas

(23,595 posts)
118. At this late point in my life, I would not imaging changing my name
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 03:56 PM
Dec 2023

However when I was growing up I hated my name because it was easily corrupted into an extremely annoying nickname. There was also only one other person who had the same name. For some reason, most people seemed to have no clue on the correct pronunciation.

When I got to college I met a few others with the same name and lost the awful nickname and bad pronunciations. Then I moved to Cambridge MA; lots of women with my name. I
had found my tribe!

I still don't know how I would have changed it.

I am named for my grandmothers, and I love my name(s) now. Of course I am Southern so when I heard both my names together I knew I was in trouble.

debm55

(56,019 posts)
119. Thank you yellowdogintexas for your insightful post. Wishing you a Happy New Year.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 04:00 PM
Dec 2023

Last edited Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:28 PM - Edit history (1)

Dem2theMax

(11,005 posts)
121. I would never change my first name.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 08:12 AM
Jan 2024

I'm adopted. My birth mother and my adopted parents gave me the exact same first name, without any of them knowing what the other had named me.

My first name is not unusual, but I've never met another person who has my name. I would have to go to France to run into a bunch of people with my name.

I would like to change my middle name. I'd like to get rid of it and replace it with my birth mother's maiden name. Then I would have the original name she gave me, and then the adopted last name at the end.

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