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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsConfession time. Have you ever pretended someone was at the door or you had to use the bathroom to get out of a boring
phone call? I have.
I dislike phone conversations.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Ocelot II
(115,922 posts)Hell, yes. Years ago, back when I had a night life and we carried pagers, pretending my pager went off got me out of a few boring or uncomfortable bar conversations. Sometimes we'd call each other's pagers from a pay phone as a getaway ploy.
debm55
(25,606 posts)malaise
(269,237 posts)😀😀
DBoon
(22,405 posts)It's one I use for relatives regularly.
debm55
(25,606 posts)anciano
(1,010 posts)My phone is set for call forwarding to voice mail, and I only communicate via text messages or emails. Love it👍
debm55
(25,606 posts)Tetrachloride
(7,878 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)catbyte
(34,499 posts)"Oh, my buzzer just buzzed. Must be Amazon or the UPS guy."
debm55
(25,606 posts)NotASurfer
(2,156 posts)and they continue chatting away while they go about their business, wash up, and walk back out the door.
No idea how some folks think.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Dulcinea
(6,673 posts)I was at Target not long ago when I saw a woman on her phone go into the stall, do her business, & leave while still talking on the phone. Would you want to talk to someone while they're on the pot? Ick.
zanana1
(6,135 posts)Works every time. Actually, I'd more interested in getting guests out without being insulting. I'd like to have one of those buttons the queen has in "The Crown". She just pushes it, stands up and the doors open.
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debm55
(25,606 posts)Midnight Writer
(21,819 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)Fla Dem
(23,809 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,375 posts)... to get out of an endless boring meeting at work.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(9,574 posts)Usually I use my dog as an excuse, as others have posted. "He needs to go out," etc.
debm55
(25,606 posts)I too usually say the dog has to pee, or I make up a fake appointment that I have to get ready for.
debm55
(25,606 posts)MuseRider
(34,136 posts)I am really polite and would never want to hurt someone elses feelings but there comes a time when it is just too much.
debm55
(25,606 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,483 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)Elessar Zappa
(14,099 posts)Im not very good on the phone, even with close family. I always have to think up an excuse to hang up lol.
debm55
(25,606 posts)tblue37
(65,502 posts)3catwoman3
(24,079 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)SWBTATTReg
(22,183 posts)or am not interested in. Enough! I just simply say it's time for my smoke break, and leave.
debm55
(25,606 posts)story.
SWBTATTReg
(22,183 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)3catwoman3
(24,079 posts)There was a parent name that always used to make me wince when it showed up on the call list. It was a dad, who had preschool twins. He was a good dad, and very observant, and VERY detail oriented. I'd always know that he would go on and on, at great length, including every possible detail from the last 3-4 weeks just in case something might be even remotely relevant to the reason for today's call.
I'm not very assertive, so it was very difficult to find a way to politely interject and attempt to get him to cut to the chase.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Stuart G
(38,453 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)Xavier Breath
(3,659 posts)Problem is, so have the people I've been speaking to
debm55
(25,606 posts)dameatball
(7,400 posts)ProfessorGAC
(65,289 posts)But I don't recall a specific event.
I'm just assuming I've done it at least a few times.
debm55
(25,606 posts)WestMichRad
(1,340 posts)Wouldnt have to if some people werent jerks.
debm55
(25,606 posts)jimfields33
(16,044 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)Niagara
(7,701 posts)Once I had a co-worker that called me and texted me all the time to talk about work.
This would happen sometimes before I clocked-in for work in the morning.
Sometimes it would be during my work hours.
90% of the time it would happen right after her shift ended and she was on her way home after 9pm.
Then she started to call me about work during my weekends off. I ended up putting her on block once she relieved me on Friday afternoons and until I clocked back in on Monday mornings.
Super annoying. I need downtime off work and she obviously didn't have enough common sense and decency to let people that are off the clock to stay off the clock.
debm55
(25,606 posts)dem4decades
(11,310 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)doc03
(35,396 posts)debm55
(25,606 posts)Upthevibe
(8,088 posts)Yes...... I have. More times than I could possibly count!
It totally depends on the time of day.
If it's in the morning, I need to go because I haven't had breakfast yet and if my blood sugar goes down I'll faint.
Mid-afternoon - Well, I better get out the door to run my errands.
Early evening - I need to go because I haven't had dinner yet and if my blood sugar goes down I'll faint.
Later evening-- Well, I'm so tired I need to go down for the night.
I'm really good with/on the phone and have had many wonderful conversations with various friends. But, if the conversation has run it's course or for some reason there's a struggle (meaning either one of us just isn't really in the mood to talk), I'm done.
debm55
(25,606 posts)I understand,
AnnaLee
(1,041 posts)I just discovered how much I bore people. I never call anyone but, when someone calls me, it seems they usually end the conversation with an excuse like bathroom, appointment, etc. I spend life without contact with anyone other than strangers on the Internet, so I have nothing interesting to say. Yet, I am thirsty to talk and have contact. Boring me!
Elessar Zappa
(14,099 posts)I know for me, its not that the person is boring, its just that Im not good on the phone and look for reasons to hang up.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Last edited Sat Apr 27, 2024, 09:41 PM - Edit history (1)
know that even though I have to go, they continue to go on and on with their conversations Some people need to learn the art of conversation. It is not a one way street. but takes give and take. I have one family member that I tell that I have to use the bathroom. The conversation on her part continues. Being I don't like to pee myself, I put the phone down and run to the bathroom. She is still talking. Are you boring , I don't know you well enough to make that call.
My favorite excuse is the door one in fact. Sometimes I will say I forgot I have to go out.
debm55
(25,606 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,344 posts)have a different system. They just never answer their phones. They want you to text them, then they will answer your text anywhere from an hour to several days later if at all. I have over the years trained some of them that if that's what they want, they will never hear from me. Some of them do answer my calls now.
The other extreme is my wife has two sisters who don't live near us, and if they call they will talk for at least an hour, sometimes two hours. My wife usually doesn't mind and enjoys talking to them.