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Orrex

(66,710 posts)
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 11:29 AM Jul 2025

Share a deeply personal revelation. I'll start.

I can’t trill my R’s. Tried for many years, can’t do it even if my life depends on it.

You?

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Share a deeply personal revelation. I'll start. (Original Post) Orrex Jul 2025 OP
I can trill my Rs when I am typing but not when I am speaking. Watch this: trrrrill. See, it works fine when I am typing Midnight Writer Jul 2025 #1
I HATE justaprogressive Jul 2025 #2
I can't whistle or blow a bubble with bubble gum. Mad_Dem_X Jul 2025 #66
I can't whistle either!!! bamagal62 Jul 2025 #77
I hate underwear, never wear a bra Walleye Jul 2025 #3
Neither do I. Harker Jul 2025 #5
You're no True Dough Jul 2025 #44
More like lead than gold. Harker Jul 2025 #65
I can't curl my tongue no matter how hard I try! nt woodsprite Jul 2025 #4
I HATE... hlthe2b Jul 2025 #6
There is no excuse for lima beans. SheltieLover Jul 2025 #8
I have the gene that makes cilantro taste like soap. SheltieLover Jul 2025 #7
Same! Orrex Jul 2025 #13
Sucks, because I love Mexican food! SheltieLover Jul 2025 #14
I get the soap with fresh but not with dried... weird..nt mitch96 Jul 2025 #25
I've never tried dried cilantro SheltieLover Jul 2025 #30
Same. But the weird thing bamagal62 Jul 2025 #79
Weird SheltieLover Jul 2025 #83
I can't whistle very well or Brainstormy Jul 2025 #9
I very seldom wear a bra, debm55 Jul 2025 #10
That's not odd, Deb, it's normal! SheltieLover Jul 2025 #15
Thanks SheltieLover. Now I don;t feel so bad. debm55 Jul 2025 #18
Lol SheltieLover Jul 2025 #19
Medieval torture devices BigMin28 Jul 2025 #57
This message was self-deleted by its author Grim Chieftain Jul 2025 #37
Ditto. Of course, I'm never been a 38 D or the like, but still. Not comfortable--never were... hlthe2b Jul 2025 #59
Agree debm55 Jul 2025 #60
I don't eat yogurt, eggplant or avocado. bluescribbler Jul 2025 #11
I'm soon to undergo my fourth hernia operation. Harker Jul 2025 #12
Yikes! SheltieLover Jul 2025 #16
Thanks! Harker Jul 2025 #20
Have docs told you why you keep getting hernias? SheltieLover Jul 2025 #21
The first two were a couple years apart and on different sides. Harker Jul 2025 #22
I would stop picking up heavy things & strengthen core SheltieLover Jul 2025 #23
I can't really exercise my abdomen until six weeks after surgery. Harker Jul 2025 #24
Best of luck to you! SheltieLover Jul 2025 #31
Thanks! Harker Jul 2025 #33
I'll bet! SheltieLover Jul 2025 #35
I've had one and now I think I'm going to need another one! ShazzieB Jul 2025 #29
They're not fun. Harker Jul 2025 #32
I can't tie knot in cherry stem with tongue. Both daughters could. SheltieLover Jul 2025 #17
I have na.... MuseRider Jul 2025 #27
I thought it was a trick, Ohiya Jul 2025 #90
Nope. Real deal. SheltieLover Jul 2025 #91
When I was 12 years old I realized I would not last forever...shocking!! nt mitch96 Jul 2025 #26
I procrastinate PJMcK Jul 2025 #28
I can't raise only one eyebrow catbyte Jul 2025 #34
I can... It's one of my super powers....... love your vid's btw... mitch96 Jul 2025 #40
I can, too. I can also cross one eye at a time, and roll my tongue. Ocelot II Jul 2025 #78
" cross one eye at a time"... ya got me there.. I can only do both eyeballs... but I can roll my tongue though.. mitch96 Jul 2025 #87
Nor can I. My mom could do that, and when she did, it was... 3catwoman3 Jul 2025 #54
i learned how to roll my rrrrs frrom the 1960s batman cat woman( lee merryweather ) . AllaN01Bear Jul 2025 #36
There was that very old Ruffles commercial where cartoon baby sat in its high chair saying "Rrrruffles have rrrridges." CrispyQ Jul 2025 #53
i saw that commercial on over the air tv when i was a young allan01bear. i thought it was cute . AllaN01Bear Jul 2025 #58
Being profoundly hard of hearing has always been part of my life since birth, and thus, at one time, always SWBTATTReg Jul 2025 #38
I have no vision with my left eye Oeditpus Rex Jul 2025 #39
I figured out how to trill my r's LogDog75 Jul 2025 #41
I can turn my eyelids inside out LogDog75 Jul 2025 #42
That was a morbid fascination for me as a kid True Dough Jul 2025 #45
Here's another one: I can't see those "hidden" 3D images Orrex Jul 2025 #43
It took me awhile but I was eventually able to LogDog75 Jul 2025 #48
I can't see them either. Wifes husband Jul 2025 #80
Orrex, I guess you could say True Dough Jul 2025 #46
My mom ate all the chocolate off a can of Marthe48 Jul 2025 #47
Good lord Orrex Jul 2025 #49
I told me friend Marthe48 Jul 2025 #50
I can't wait until the Big beautiful funeral. Duncanpup Jul 2025 #51
I don't dry pots and pans before putting them in the cabinet. Just let them air dry and drip for a few minutes. Scrivener7 Jul 2025 #52
I don't like anyone to touch/grab my toes. CrispyQ Jul 2025 #55
I really don't know snowybirdie Jul 2025 #56
Some people call it rolling your Rs. CrispyQ Jul 2025 #61
I can't snort. MIButterfly Jul 2025 #62
I suck at whistling dlilafae Jul 2025 #63
I whistle badly but I wish I could whistle like Roger Whitaker LogDog75 Jul 2025 #64
Here's mine: I like your posts. UTUSN Jul 2025 #67
Shame on you! Shame! Orrex Jul 2025 #69
Including this one. UTUSN Jul 2025 #70
My little toes are truly small. Oddly so. Solly Mack Jul 2025 #68
I think that trait was foretold as mythical proof of royalty Orrex Jul 2025 #71
The royal nubbies. Solly Mack Jul 2025 #72
Hey, don't tell me. I didn't write the prophecy. Orrex Jul 2025 #73
Can't fight prophecy. Solly Mack Jul 2025 #74
I joined the International High IQ Society just to meet chicks. LudwigPastorius Jul 2025 #75
I can no longer snap my fingers Attilatheblond Jul 2025 #76
I went through a phase where I could not either. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2025 #93
There is no food I don't like. Eko Jul 2025 #81
I only have 4 toes oberle Jul 2025 #82
How do you count to 20? Orrex Jul 2025 #85
I can smell things bamagal62 Jul 2025 #84
It's a thing, alright, and my wife has it. Harker Jul 2025 #86
lol! bamagal62 Jul 2025 #88
Every superhero has at least one exceptional sense. Harker Jul 2025 #89
I think it's more of a bamagal62 Jul 2025 #92

Midnight Writer

(25,156 posts)
1. I can trill my Rs when I am typing but not when I am speaking. Watch this: trrrrill. See, it works fine when I am typing
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 11:34 AM
Jul 2025

but not when I speak.

hlthe2b

(112,919 posts)
6. I HATE...
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 11:42 AM
Jul 2025

LIMA BEANS!!!


Oh, and I can't trill my "R's" either... Fortunately, those in Costa Rica, Bogota, Colombia, parts of Mexico, and many in Puerto Rico do not trill their "R's" either. Then again, my Spanish is bad enough that it wouldn't matter overall.

Orrex

(66,710 posts)
13. Same!
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 12:18 PM
Jul 2025

First time I ate it, I was sure I was being pranked. meanwhile a coworker mocked me because I “never want to try anything different.”

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
14. Sucks, because I love Mexican food!
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 12:43 PM
Jul 2025

Coworker is an asshat.

I couldn't understand this odd flavor, while most other people rave about cilantro. Yuck.

bamagal62

(4,357 posts)
79. Same. But the weird thing
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 11:06 PM
Jul 2025

Is it did not happen until we ate at some awful
Mexican restaurant at a mall in PA. Before that, cilantro was no problem. But, that salsa at that restaurant tested like dove soap. Now, all cilantro tastes like that to me. It was immediate. Not sure what happened.

Brainstormy

(2,530 posts)
9. I can't whistle very well or
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 11:56 AM
Jul 2025

piss standing up. These, by the way, are my only concessions to male superiority.

Response to debm55 (Reply #10)

hlthe2b

(112,919 posts)
59. Ditto. Of course, I'm never been a 38 D or the like, but still. Not comfortable--never were...
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 09:16 AM
Jul 2025

Of course, I have enough layers underneath that no one can tell, but--ahh, I can. I understand it for those who really need the support, but for those who don't... FREEDOM!

Harker

(17,456 posts)
12. I'm soon to undergo my fourth hernia operation.
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 12:12 PM
Jul 2025

I thought it was weird having had two.

Harker

(17,456 posts)
22. The first two were a couple years apart and on different sides.
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 01:09 PM
Jul 2025

Number three, last year, where a previous one finally gave out, upcoming number four near my navel, the first there.

I think I'm done picking up heavy objects, SheltieLover.

Harker

(17,456 posts)
24. I can't really exercise my abdomen until six weeks after surgery.
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 01:20 PM
Jul 2025

October 1, but I am looking forward to doing so.

ShazzieB

(22,240 posts)
29. I've had one and now I think I'm going to need another one!
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 01:53 PM
Jul 2025

I don't understand what causes these recurrences! So sorry you're up to 4!

Harker

(17,456 posts)
32. They're not fun.
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 02:22 PM
Jul 2025

The good news is that advancements have generally made the repair work faster, safer, and recovery time is much shorter. Where I was hospitalized for several days as a kid of 10 years, 56 years later it's an outpatient thing.

Here's hoping you never have to challenge my record!

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
17. I can't tie knot in cherry stem with tongue. Both daughters could.
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 12:47 PM
Jul 2025

Mo clue how they figured this out.

Ohiya

(2,693 posts)
90. I thought it was a trick,
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 08:29 PM
Jul 2025

Tie a stem with your hands and put it your mouth when no one is looking. Then put in an untied stem in your mouth when people are watching. Switch the stems around in your mouth with your tongue and voila!

catbyte

(38,688 posts)
34. I can't raise only one eyebrow
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 02:33 PM
Jul 2025

and 've always wished I could do that. I also suck at driving a stick shift and parallel parking, much to my humiliation.

mitch96

(15,673 posts)
87. " cross one eye at a time"... ya got me there.. I can only do both eyeballs... but I can roll my tongue though..
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 01:33 PM
Jul 2025

The trick is to pat your head whilst rubbing your tummy all while lifting one leg and spinning it and simultaneously going up and down with the planted leg.....and not falling down...
m

3catwoman3

(28,659 posts)
54. Nor can I. My mom could do that, and when she did, it was...
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:02 AM
Jul 2025

the look that made it clear you’d better stop whatever it was you were doing.

Our younger son can also do it. I’m so jealous.

AllaN01Bear

(28,653 posts)
36. i learned how to roll my rrrrs frrom the 1960s batman cat woman( lee merryweather ) .
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 02:40 PM
Jul 2025

not directly but immitating and practicing. prrractice makes purrrfect. meow.

CrispyQ

(40,705 posts)
53. There was that very old Ruffles commercial where cartoon baby sat in its high chair saying "Rrrruffles have rrrridges."
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:57 AM
Jul 2025

I never noticed trilling r's before that.

AllaN01Bear

(28,653 posts)
58. i saw that commercial on over the air tv when i was a young allan01bear. i thought it was cute .
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:59 AM
Jul 2025

i wonder who the voie over talent was .

SWBTATTReg

(26,073 posts)
38. Being profoundly hard of hearing has always been part of my life since birth, and thus, at one time, always
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 03:40 PM
Jul 2025

wanted 100% hearing one day, w/ aids or whatever would work.

Now, w/ the loss still, and I'm older, much older, I am glad I don't have perfect hearing. My SO told me that hearing everything isn't always the thing that one wants. They're right. Sometimes (or rather, a lot of times), it's nice to block out things, hearing-wise.

LogDog75

(1,118 posts)
41. I figured out how to trill my r's
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 08:00 PM
Jul 2025

I don't have a problem trilling my r's There was a Ruffles potato chip commercial where the catchphrase was "Ruffles had ridges" said in a mock English voice. If you can imitate the commercial you should have no problem trilling your r's.

LogDog75

(1,118 posts)
42. I can turn my eyelids inside out
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 08:07 PM
Jul 2025

Started doing this as a kid and I can still do it. When my niece and nephew were very young and started acting up and wouldn't behave I'd turn my eyelids inside out. It scared the crap out of them and they'd settle down. After that, whenever they wouldn't behave I'd threaten to make my "monster eyes" and they'd behave.

True Dough

(25,907 posts)
45. That was a morbid fascination for me as a kid
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 09:35 PM
Jul 2025

I couldn't do it, but I'd be transfixed when in the company of someone who could.

Orrex

(66,710 posts)
43. Here's another one: I can't see those "hidden" 3D images
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 08:11 PM
Jul 2025

Don't waste time telling me the tricks; I've tried them all to no avail.

I'm convinced that the whole thing is a worldwide conspiracy to make me feel foolish, as if I need that kind of help.

LogDog75

(1,118 posts)
48. It took me awhile but I was eventually able to
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 12:35 AM
Jul 2025

My sister had one of the pictures in her house and whenever I was over I'd try to see the image but couldn't. Finally, after crossing my eyes and slowly relaxing them I was able to see it.

Marthe48

(22,753 posts)
47. My mom ate all the chocolate off a can of
Tue Jul 22, 2025, 10:17 PM
Jul 2025

Chocolate covered peanuts, and put the nuts back in the can on the buffet. Afew days later, our daughter and her fiance stopped by while they were riding a motorcycle. My husband and I were rearranging the back bedroom and didn't immediately come out to the living room to greet them. When we did come out, they were eating the peanuts from the can my Mom had left on the buffet. We were mortified. I managed to get the nuts put away and give them something else. That happened 30 years ago, and we never spilled the beans. And I never will!

Marthe48

(22,753 posts)
50. I told me friend
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:17 AM
Jul 2025

and knowing my Mom so well, she had hysterics It was her favorite Myrtle story ever. The can was my Mom's and maybe she thought no one else would have any.

Scrivener7

(58,456 posts)
52. I don't dry pots and pans before putting them in the cabinet. Just let them air dry and drip for a few minutes.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:44 AM
Jul 2025

I'm a rebel.

CrispyQ

(40,705 posts)
55. I don't like anyone to touch/grab my toes.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:03 AM
Jul 2025

I have no idea where this came from but a boss once gave me a gift cert for a mani/pedi & when I got to the pedi part, after a nice soak in scented water, I said, "I'm good now," & left.

CrispyQ

(40,705 posts)
61. Some people call it rolling your Rs.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 09:48 AM
Jul 2025

You flutter your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Personally, I think trilling is easier to produce with a D sound than an R sound, but Ruffles potato chips cashed in on it with a commercial years ago.

MIButterfly

(2,158 posts)
62. I can't snort.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 10:10 AM
Jul 2025

You know, like the sound a pig makes or that some people make when they laugh too hard. I try and try and I just can't do it. Years ago, I had a boyfriend who would laugh every time I tried because I tried so hard. He would ask me why it was so important to me and I said it's because it's something that everybody can do and I can't.

Attilatheblond

(8,359 posts)
76. I can no longer snap my fingers
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 10:58 PM
Jul 2025

arthritis, I reckon.

But, my daughter did get me some castanets like I had as a child, so that sorta makes up for no snap now.

OldBaldy1701E

(10,290 posts)
93. I went through a phase where I could not either.
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 09:53 PM
Jul 2025

But that damage was externally caused. It eventually healed.

Nowadays, I can snap my right okay, but my left can be slow to work, or just won't work. What I have pretty much lost is my ability to play guitar. I just cannot hold the strings down for the entire length of a song anymore, or I cannot move them fast enough.

Eko

(9,826 posts)
81. There is no food I don't like.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 11:27 PM
Jul 2025

But I don’t like some combinations. I like pickles and hamburgers but I don’t like pickles on hamburgers.

bamagal62

(4,357 posts)
84. I can smell things
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 05:44 AM
Jul 2025

That other people can’t. My daughter says I’m
A “super smeller”. Not sure if that’s a thing. It’s not always a good skill to have. 😂😂😂

Harker

(17,456 posts)
86. It's a thing, alright, and my wife has it.
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 08:02 AM
Jul 2025

She says "stinks" more often then I use the words "a" and "the" combined.

I can't smell ant farts. I can't smell Lily's breath from the other side of the house. I don't know when someone's pumping gas at the Citgo station downtown.

bamagal62

(4,357 posts)
88. lol!
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 04:21 PM
Jul 2025

I can tell when someone just passing by me has a sinus infection. Seriously.
I can smell water. So, I usually know about a leak before it presents itself.
I think my son has the same thing,
When he was little, he and his best friend had identical Batman costumes that they wore ALL the time. Occasionally they would take them off. Then, when he wanted to find his , and put it back on, he’d smell them both and say, “yep, that’s mine!”.
I have to buy everything unscented as smells can overwhelm me.

Harker

(17,456 posts)
89. Every superhero has at least one exceptional sense.
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 06:21 PM
Jul 2025

I'd never thought about heredity having a role in it, so thanks for leading me to a new line of inquiry!

On balance, if you don't mind me asking, is your heightened sense a positive thing or problematic?

My dear departed first wife lost her sense of smell from injuries suffered in an automobile accident. Once a year or so, though, a flower's fragrance would come through, and it was a cause for great joy.



bamagal62

(4,357 posts)
92. I think it's more of a
Thu Jul 24, 2025, 09:10 PM
Jul 2025

Positive thing than a negative one.
The only thing negative is when there are lots of smells together in one place such as the first floor of a department store with all of the perfumes or the candle section of a novelty shop….a mixture of smells is tough. I didn’t realize for the longest time that everyone didn’t smell to the degree I do. So, it seems normal to me.

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