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Reduce holiday gift spending, (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 OP
I had a friend whose boyfriend used to break up with her before every holiday. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #1
Yes! rsdsharp Nov 2025 #2
🤗 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #10
🤔 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #7
Last time I did that at Thanksgiving was during the Mueller probe..... lastlib Nov 2025 #3
😁 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #11
Nationwide buying strike called for week of Nov. 25. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2025 #4
😁 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #12
Not buying any gifts this year. SheltieLover Nov 2025 #5
🤗 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #13
I did some shopping today Marthe48 Nov 2025 #6
Yesterday, I did grocery shopping in a store with clothing and home goods. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #8
The Christmas creep Marthe48 Nov 2025 #16
Exactly. The corporations want us always living three months in the future. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #17
They are missing the boat on that Marthe48 Nov 2025 #18
I guess they figure women are pivoting to Christmas shopping. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #19
😵‍💫 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #14
None of my friends or family really need "Things". I make donations to their favorite Ziggysmom Nov 2025 #9
☺️ Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #15
my family is united justaprogressive Nov 2025 #20
😊 Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2025 #21

Irish_Dem

(81,248 posts)
1. I had a friend whose boyfriend used to break up with her before every holiday.
Thu Nov 6, 2025, 04:07 PM
Nov 2025

Then the day after the holiday he would show up with gifts that had been reduced by 50%.

Was he a shrewd businessman or a complete jerk?

lastlib

(28,258 posts)
3. Last time I did that at Thanksgiving was during the Mueller probe.....
Thu Nov 6, 2025, 04:27 PM
Nov 2025

My MAGA brother and his MAGA wife were seated at the table across from me. For grace we had to go around the table and say what we were thankful for. I said I was thankful for family, friends, health, and special prosecutors. I never heard a peep out of them toward me the rest of the day!

Marthe48

(23,174 posts)
6. I did some shopping today
Thu Nov 6, 2025, 05:08 PM
Nov 2025

Big Lots reopened a local store and they had a grand opening event. When I went in, Christmas music was playing. They had Halloween decorations on sale for 50% off. Boo! Ho Ho Ho!



Irish_Dem

(81,248 posts)
8. Yesterday, I did grocery shopping in a store with clothing and home goods.
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 08:24 AM
Nov 2025

The Christmas merchandise was out and on sale!
I have never seen Christmas stuff on sale so early.
But even on sale it was still too expensive.

And yes they were playing Christmas music which felt odd and jarring.

Marthe48

(23,174 posts)
16. The Christmas creep
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 08:50 AM
Nov 2025

My friend and I would have several conversations a year about trying to buy things for the season we were celebrating and too bad! The stores were selling the next holiday. I couldn't get boots in Jan, or a swimsuit in June, and she couldn't get Halloween stuff in October, or Christmas stuff in December.





Irish_Dem

(81,248 posts)
17. Exactly. The corporations want us always living three months in the future.
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 09:01 AM
Nov 2025

I was looking for a current season jacket with football logo.
But didn't want to pay full price. And wanted it for fall and early winter wear.
And could be worn with a sweater in very cold weather.

All of them had been moved out and heavy winter coats in their place.

It is still autumn and still football season!

Interestingly the store kept some of the jackets for men out.
But the women's had all been moved out for winter stuff.

Marthe48

(23,174 posts)
18. They are missing the boat on that
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 09:48 AM
Nov 2025

I bet there are plenty of women shopping for sports items, probably more than men.

Once again, tying one arm behind their backs and expecting stellar results.

Hope you find what you're looking for

Irish_Dem

(81,248 posts)
19. I guess they figure women are pivoting to Christmas shopping.
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 09:55 AM
Nov 2025

And moved on from football season.

But yes the store is missing an opportunity because
women will also buy sports items as Christmas gifts.

It is not important, I don't need the item.
I was just hoping to get something marked down but I guess I missed the boat.

Ziggysmom

(4,123 posts)
9. None of my friends or family really need "Things". I make donations to their favorite
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 08:25 AM
Nov 2025

charities in their name. Except one 5 y/o special girl who I take Barbie shopping! I love it as much as she does.

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