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In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 06:48 PM Mar 2013

La petite mort

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10 votes, 1 pass | Time left: Unlimited
Hell yes!
7 (70%)
What are you talking about?
0 (0%)
Multipal times.
2 (20%)
I am celebate!
1 (10%)
Still trying.
0 (0%)
Practice makes perfection.
0 (0%)
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La petite mort (Original Post) In_The_Wind Mar 2013 OP
Danger! Not Safe For Work: Ptah Mar 2013 #1
Beautiful Agony is a perfect link. Thanks Ptah! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Mar 2013 #67
No porn threads. Wait Wut Mar 2013 #2
Skinner said it was okay! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #14
Damnit... Wait Wut Mar 2013 #18
It's hanging somewhere in AtA! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #35
I had the coolest English Comp 101 prof in college. Her name was Dul... and she said that if... MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #23
Those are the best teachers! Wait Wut Mar 2013 #27
I took both an undergrad and a postgrad course on "The Psychology of Sex". MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #33
What? Sekhmets Daughter Mar 2013 #3
With the right man, all day, every day, anytime! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #24
Don't forget any place! Sekhmets Daughter Mar 2013 #36
Any place at all works when it's right. It's all good. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #38
Agreed... Gwynann Mar 2013 #41
I've never been kicked out of anyplace. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #42
Rilly?... Gwynann Mar 2013 #52
Nah. Just very experienced at keeping the man I love happy! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #53
:D Gwynann Mar 2013 #54
Early and often! NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #4
Yes! I like it that way the best! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #28
Now that gets my vote! Sekhmets Daughter Mar 2013 #43
It means "the little dead" in french darkangel218 Mar 2013 #5
Props to you ~ darkangel218! Your thread was the reason for this poll! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #12
Oh, i didnt go back to read the new posts darkangel218 Mar 2013 #19
Running a thread takes work! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #29
I have no energy left in me :( darkangel218 Mar 2013 #39
Take a nap! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #40
Did you misspell multiple... Callmecrazy Mar 2013 #6
That's a Freudian slip if I've ever seen one... Hayabusa Mar 2013 #7
I'm sayin'... Callmecrazy Mar 2013 #8
Makes it sound like la petite suicide pact pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #10
It means: Fornicate to an orgasm ! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #16
Or "the little death" nt bike man Mar 2013 #34
No matter how it's said: It is my favorite way of passing time! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #37
!!!!! Wait Wut Mar 2013 #20
Excellent! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #13
My ex was born in Germany and raised by her mother and American soldier stepfather... MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #9
No. I don't know Fido. But I do know La Petite Mort! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #30
Non reproba totus vicis. SEMOVoter Mar 2013 #11
relinquere In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #31
Tish... I love it when you speak French! bluesbassman Mar 2013 #15
It was just a slip of the tongue! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #17
D'oh! bluesbassman Mar 2013 #21
Indeed! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #32
Reminds me of... pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #25
Me in my best George Takei voice, "Morticia... OH MY!!!" Big crush. Big. MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #26
I voted "Hell, yes!" Aristus Mar 2013 #44
Practice makes perfect. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #45
We'll never be perfect. Aristus Mar 2013 #46
That is the fun part. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #47
Plus, Aristus Mar 2013 #48
Indeed! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #49
did you mean to say "celibate", or "celebrate" JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2013 #50
I refuse to become celibate. However my dry spell is way too long. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #51
Other: Freedom Fries!1!! pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #55
Isn't Freedom Fries a Southern thing? In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #56
Freedom fries... pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #57
Then should my OP have been:Orgasm Much. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #58
How do you say that in French? :) pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #59
ménage à trois In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #60
I studied it briefly, when my dream was to be a foreign correspondent pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #61
I really am sorry to hear that your dream fell by the wayside. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #62
Don't be sorry for me. What happens in our lives often is very different from our plans. pinboy3niner Mar 2013 #65
Every night. 840high Mar 2013 #63
Very nice. Congratulations! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #64
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Mar 2013 #66
Your sig: Don't Believe Everything You Think In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #68
"the little death" CanSocDem Mar 2013 #69
I use pheromone therapy to combat a chronic pain condition. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #70
Mmm Aerows Mar 2013 #71
indeed In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #72
Just felt like posting this. Ron Obvious Mar 2013 #73
I totally understand how you can be confused. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #74

Response to Ptah (Reply #1)

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
2. No porn threads.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 06:52 PM
Mar 2013


Funny thing is, I learned this in Latin class...in high school. My teacher was hilarious. Figured the best way to get Latin into our heads was to make it 'interesting'. That and 'agricolae' were the only things I retained. Oh, and 'veni, vidi, vici'. But, that one was just fun to say.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
23. I had the coolest English Comp 101 prof in college. Her name was Dul... and she said that if...
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 07:29 PM
Mar 2013

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... any of us misspelled it, we were going to fail her course.
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When she taught us brainstorming for writing projects, she said, "I'm going to propose a subject near
and dear to every college student's heart -- SEX!!!"
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"GO!!!"
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We were all so shy and cautious and politically correct.
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"Caresses." "Moans." "Lubrication." "Breasts." Etc., etc. etc.
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She had done this before. She let us go on in this dull (with two l's) uncreative fashion for
a coupla minutes before she shouted, "STOP!!!"
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She took some chalk and, in GIGANTIC letters, wrote across the board -- ORANGE. FLAVORED. ORGY. BUTTER.
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"GO"!!!"
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And we were off to the races... never to look back.
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Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
27. Those are the best teachers!
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 07:35 PM
Mar 2013

I never had the opportunity to go to college, but I was in all honors courses in HS, which meant I got the crazy teachers. My Psych teacher was a sex therapist, so we spent most of the time discussing Freud (I was the only girl in class...and the most outspoken student...heh). My History/Constitution teacher was a hippy that would take off her shoes as soon as she came in the room and would sit crosslegged on her desk. She would start debates in class that helped form my opinions today. My Journalism teacher looked like she stepped off the bus in the mid 50's, but was a huge fan of my writing and cried when I told her I was dropping out of school. She's also the one that had my article on the legalization of marijuana printed on the front page of the school newspaper. Yeah, that was a bit trippy.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
33. I took both an undergrad and a postgrad course on "The Psychology of Sex".
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 07:49 PM
Mar 2013

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In the undergrad course, we were all FAIRLY professional, quoting Kinsey and the like... except
for one guy who was (there's a word for "monitoring" a course for no credit) not really a student.
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He WAS sincere, though. And his main source was, I shit you not... "Penthouse Letters"!!!
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The professor LOVED (and we shared his emotion) to call on this guy. He was absolutely serious
and clueless. Nobody made fun of him, but we all enjoyed the hell out of his contributions.
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For a Journalism course, I did an article about a friend of mine who was a pretty big pot grower
in the area (my... did we have some adventures). The prof liked it so much that he wanted me
to submit it to the Philadelphia Inquirer for publication.
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I opted not to. I would never have given up my friend and I didn't feel like going to jail to protect
a source -- the publication didn't mean that much to me.
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In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
42. I've never been kicked out of anyplace.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 08:30 PM
Mar 2013

There is a way to ... shall we say ... cover the activity at hand. [img][/img]
Completing any unfinished matters later. Like in the car!

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
53. Nah. Just very experienced at keeping the man I love happy!
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 10:24 PM
Mar 2013

Anyway I can as long as it doesn't upset me while I'm doing whatever floats his boat.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
39. I have no energy left in me :(
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 08:00 PM
Mar 2013

Pretty wiped out from working every night , 12 hour shift. I can't even see straight :/
My next day off is Monday and I plan on going to Tampa weeeeeeee!

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
9. My ex was born in Germany and raised by her mother and American soldier stepfather...
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 07:07 PM
Mar 2013

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... from about the age of 6 or so. She had gone to American schools and had moved back-and-forth
between Germany and America with her stepdad's postings. Her German accent, while I could hear
hints of it now and then, was virtually nonexistent for most people.
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Now I get personal (but cute, I hope). Her name for, ahem... Li'l MiddleFingerMom was Fido. For the
longest time, I just accepted that... but one day asked her, you know... why.
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She had read a book and had been impressed with one of the character's explanation of the Sicilian
version of "La petite mort".
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The book? "The Godfather". The character? Vito Corleone.
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You know... ... ... ... Fido.
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JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,339 posts)
50. did you mean to say "celibate", or "celebrate"
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 09:45 PM
Mar 2013

anyway, I'd celebrate the body electric.

The "celibate" thing? it's a fancy word for a dry spell.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
51. I refuse to become celibate. However my dry spell is way too long.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 10:04 PM
Mar 2013

This was on page 8 in My Journal ~> http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018320145




I'd celebrate the body electric. <<~ Very Good! [img][/img]

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
57. Freedom fries...
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 10:41 PM
Mar 2013
Freedom fries is a political euphemism for French fries in the United States. The term came to prominence in 2003 when the Republican-controlled Congress officially renamed the menu item in Congressional cafeterias in response to France's opposition to the proposed invasion of Iraq. The renaming quickly gained notoriety as part of a greater wave of political and popular anti-French sentiment in the United States. Although originally supported by Americans with several restaurants changing their menus as well, following declining support for the Iraq War, the term became irrelevant. Following Bob Ney's resignation from the Committee which oversaw the renaming, it was quietly reverted.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_fries



In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
58. Then should my OP have been:Orgasm Much.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 10:53 PM
Mar 2013

I was aware of freedom fries in 2003. I don't hate everything French.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
59. How do you say that in French? :)
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 11:00 PM
Mar 2013

The name-change thing was ludicrous from the beginning, and even the GOP Rep. who started it later recanted.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
60. ménage à trois
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 11:10 PM
Mar 2013

I know very little of the French language.
Ah. But the language of amorous adventures is endless and very fascination to me.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
61. I studied it briefly, when my dream was to be a foreign correspondent
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 11:19 PM
Mar 2013

Alas, both my French studies and my dream fell by the wayside...

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
62. I really am sorry to hear that your dream fell by the wayside.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 11:28 PM
Mar 2013

Sad

But you did learn to speak the language of love.
[IMG][/IMG]
and that must be a plus

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
65. Don't be sorry for me. What happens in our lives often is very different from our plans.
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 12:14 AM
Mar 2013

My life turned out quite differently from what I imagined. Yet, I'm content. I took some knocks and learned some valuable things along the way, and I ended up having an opportunity to do some good things I never imagined.

I count myself lucky to be where I am, despite the hard knocks.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
64. Very nice. Congratulations!
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 11:47 PM
Mar 2013

I remember what that felt like.
I believe that I will again feel la petite mort daily.

Response to In_The_Wind (Original post)

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
68. Your sig: Don't Believe Everything You Think
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 06:44 AM
Mar 2013

I Believe That My Voice Should Be Heard.

perhaps you will agree with me freshwest

In my lifetime I have been:
An Investigator for Child Protective Services.
The Chair for a twelve-step program for Sex Addicts Anonymous: Court mandated pedophiles had no choice but to hear what their evil despicable acts caused to everyone of their victims.

I cannot allow my voice to become silenced again.





in flagrante de·lic·to adverb
Definition of IN FLAGRANTE DELICTO
1: in the very act of committing a misdeed : red-handed
2: in the midst of sexual activity
Origin of IN FLAGRANTE DELICTO
Medieval Latin, literally, while the crime is blazing
First Known Use: 1772

 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
69. "the little death"
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 02:42 PM
Mar 2013


Comes from a book by Jack London called The Star Rover.

http://www.booklore.co.uk/PastReviews/LondonJack/TheStarRover/TheStarRoverReview.htm

Used to describe the out of body experience or astral travelling used by an inmate to survive prison torture.

Not familiar with the sexual reference. My bad.

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In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
70. I use pheromone therapy to combat a chronic pain condition.
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 04:21 PM
Mar 2013
.Human pheromones and sexual attraction
Karl Grammer
Affiliations Ludwig–Boltzmann-Institute for Urban Ethology, c/o Institute of Anthropology, University of Vienna, Austria
Abstract
Olfactory communication is very common amongst animals, and since the discovery of an accessory olfactory system in humans, possible human olfactory communication has gained considerable scientific interest. The importance of the human sense of smell has by far been underestimated in the past. Humans and other primates have been regarded as primarily ‘optical animals’ with highly developed powers of vision but a relatively undeveloped sense of smell. In recent years this assumption has undergone major revision. Several studies indicate that humans indeed seem to use olfactory communication and are even able to produce and perceive certain pheromones; recent studies have found that pheromones may play an important role in the behavioural and reproduction biology of humans. In this article we review the present evidence of the effect of human pheromones and discuss the role of olfactory cues in human sexual behaviour.


La petite mort, French for "the little death", is a metaphor for orgasm.

More widely, it can refer to the spiritual release that comes with orgasm or to a short period of melancholy or transcendence as a result of the expenditure of the "life force", the feeling whereof is caused by the release of oxytocin in the brain after the occurrence of the orgasm. Literary critic Roland Barthes spoke of la petite mort as the chief objective of reading literature. He metaphorically used the concept to describe the feeling one should get when experiencing any great literature.
A recent study of brain activation patterns using Positron Emission Tomography (PET) give some support to the experience of a small death:
"To some degree, the present results seem to be in accordance with this notion, because female orgasm is associated with decreased blood flow in the orbitofrontal cortex, a part of the brain that is crucial for behavioural control."[1]
The term "la petite mort" or "the small death" does not always apply to sexual experiences. It can also be used when some undesired thing has happened to a person and has affected them so much that "a part of them dies inside". A literary example of this is found in Thomas Hardy's Tess of the D'Urbervilles when he uses the phrase to describe how Tess feels after she comes across a particularly gruesome omen and meeting with her own rapist:
"She felt the petite mort at this unexpectedly gruesome information, and left the solitary man behind her."
'La petite mort' has been referenced in other art forms as well. In 1993 Jake and Dinos Chapman created a piece called "Little Death Machine (Castrated)". The sculpture is part of an installation at the Tate Britain gallery in London, which explores some of the overtly sexual views of the Surrealist movement. Surrealists such as Salvador Dali explored the links between sex and death through their art.
In the 1973 musical A Little Night Music is a song titled "Every Day a Little Death", written by Stephen Sondheim.

(wikipedia)



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Aerows

(39,961 posts)
71. Mmm
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 05:42 PM
Mar 2013

Le petite mort

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