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octothorpe

(962 posts)
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 11:45 PM Mar 2013

Does everyone's transparency page say they have at least one person ignoring them?

Mine says someone is ignoring me, but but but, I don't think I ever had any conflict with anyone... There was one person who replied to one of my posts (not a confrontational post) in a rather passive-aggressive way, but that's about it. This shouldn't bother me at all, but it kinda does for some reason. Like what the hell, I'm a fairly nice guy and I'm not an asshole. Even people who don't like me usually like me. *cries*

Wait, is this considered whining about DU?

*watches ignore counter go to 500*
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Does everyone's transparency page say they have at least one person ignoring them? (Original Post) octothorpe Mar 2013 OP
I used to have one d_r Mar 2013 #1
Oh bummer... I was hoping it was a test/glitch that gave everybody 1. octothorpe Mar 2013 #5
I have one. Suich Mar 2013 #2
I believe 7 is par pscot Mar 2013 #3
Maybe anything under five means you're doing it wrong. octothorpe Mar 2013 #4
ha ha - I will work on it hollysmom Mar 2013 #12
Mine says one star member and I have no idea who. edbermac Mar 2013 #6
Me too. a la izquierda Mar 2013 #23
don't worry olddots Mar 2013 #7
That function is going to go away - see Skinner's response to an ATA question here... NRaleighLiberal Mar 2013 #8
Ahhh, I see where he's coming from with that... octothorpe Mar 2013 #9
I used to be until I learned that PPR members that had you on ignore NRaleighLiberal Mar 2013 #11
I'm not so sure about that. GoCubsGo Mar 2013 #27
I'm really glad pipi_k Mar 2013 #18
If they do that, I'll probably discontinue my involvement. Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #20
Only one? HarveyDarkey Mar 2013 #10
I have four RILib Mar 2013 #13
You aren't whining. Stop crying before DU gets all soggy. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #14
Well, thanks to you I just found out I have 6 ignores mainer Mar 2013 #15
I have 6 too last I checked. tblue Mar 2013 #16
I have a couple of people on ignore and it says more about ME than them. One person posts so patricia92243 Mar 2013 #17
Of the very few pipi_k Mar 2013 #21
Congratulations. That means you said something worthwhile. Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #19
I think that's very true mainer Mar 2013 #24
The only people I ignore are those who have attacked me personally. I don't want to deal w/them. Honeycombe8 Mar 2013 #39
And that's just star members OriginalGeek Mar 2013 #22
I had almost twenty people put me on ignore before I had a hundred posts Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #25
Weird: My transparency page shows no star members ignoring me, but Populist_Prole Mar 2013 #26
Maybe he's not a star member mainer Mar 2013 #28
Well well. I fell for the Orrex thing too. Populist_Prole Mar 2013 #50
That was a joke pintobean Mar 2013 #29
Yeah, he got me wondering what I'd said to piss him off! mainer Mar 2013 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author Jamaal510 Mar 2013 #30
I only clicked on this thread to tell ya.... lastlib Mar 2013 #32
I hate it when someone asks this and I look. I'm up to 5. Don't know why either. nolabear Mar 2013 #33
Three. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2013 #34
I always have people ignoring me. LWolf Mar 2013 #35
I've got 29 ignoring me MrScorpio Mar 2013 #36
29? OrwellwasRight Mar 2013 #45
I KNOW!!! nt MrScorpio Mar 2013 #46
I have 6! I assume they are all Gun collectors, Catholics or dog breeders. Walk away Mar 2013 #37
I've got two. LeftofObama Mar 2013 #38
My page says there are 5 star members ignoring me. Arkansas Granny Mar 2013 #40
I have one, and it's not a test. yewberry Mar 2013 #41
I have 15 star members ignoring me lunatica Mar 2013 #42
I have one, too, and it puzzles me no end. nt Still Blue in PDX Mar 2013 #43
I have one. OrwellwasRight Mar 2013 #44
It's me BainsBane Mar 2013 #47
I have one person ignoring me! ellie Mar 2013 #48
I've got a message for the one person who is ignoring me Generic Brad Mar 2013 #49
Ever since Grovelbot was laid off, he's been pissed at everyone. baldguy Mar 2013 #51
I have 2 at this point Sherman A1 Mar 2013 #52
I have 2 star members ignoring me and blocking e-mails and I have no clue who. mnhtnbb Mar 2013 #53
I have 15.... sendero Mar 2013 #54

d_r

(6,907 posts)
1. I used to have one
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 11:49 PM
Mar 2013

but I guess they needed the slot for someone else.

Number of Star members ignoring me: 0
Number of Star members blocking mail from me (including members ignoring me): 0

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
12. ha ha - I will work on it
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:47 AM
Mar 2013

I have 3 people ignoring me. and I am only ignoring 2 people - because they fly off the handle and start cursing at other posters - no one needs to read posts like that.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
7. don't worry
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:02 AM
Mar 2013

people don't really know anyone here unless they have met in person so everyone is expecting the worst sometimes.

I hate the anonymity of the web but I guess its a protection from spammers and crooks.

I don't want to know if I'm being ignored ---its like being at a party and someone calls you a bore or a jerk then walks away leaving you confused .

octothorpe

(962 posts)
9. Ahhh, I see where he's coming from with that...
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:12 AM
Mar 2013

BTW, I'm not really upset by my ignore count. I'm actually more perplexed by it than anything else.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,014 posts)
11. I used to be until I learned that PPR members that had you on ignore
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:16 AM
Mar 2013

stay there - so it is cumulative/additive. I have half a dozen, which is weird - I tend to not be in conflict with anyone as far as I know. Must be from my various MIRT terms, I guess...

GoCubsGo

(32,080 posts)
27. I'm not so sure about that.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:44 PM
Mar 2013

I have had two or three people ignoring me at once. I'm down to one, plus a second who is blocking any PMs from me. Which I find utterly hilarious, because I have only once ever sent someone a PM that was not in response to one they sent me. And, that was a question to someone in Cooking & Baking. Perhaps ignorers go away if they get the MIRT treatment?

I don't care either way if I'm being ignored, but I wish we there was still the "Ignored" notice when people on your ignore list post in a thread. I really don't care what they say, but not having that placeholder sometimes makes parts of a thread a tad nonsensical.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
18. I'm really glad
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:06 AM
Mar 2013

to see that it's going away.

There are people here who are sensitive about that sort of thing.

I know there will be those who can't tolerate my opinions, but I'd rather not know how many.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
20. If they do that, I'll probably discontinue my involvement.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:11 AM
Mar 2013

Information is always a good thing, even if it gets some sensitive people upset.

Sort of like...why tell her she has cancer? It'll just get her upset. Answer: Because she has a right to know..

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
14. You aren't whining. Stop crying before DU gets all soggy.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 03:36 AM
Mar 2013

Number of Star members ignoring me: 5
Number of Star members blocking mail from me (including members ignoring me): 6




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mainer

(12,022 posts)
15. Well, thanks to you I just found out I have 6 ignores
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:53 AM
Mar 2013

Never visited my own transparency page until I read this OP. Sometimes, it's better not to know!

I, on the other hand, have only one person on ignore -- someone who's particularly loose with the abuse. For the most part, I'd rather take the abuse and see all opinions.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
16. I have 6 too last I checked.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 08:07 AM
Mar 2013

Guess it's from my wicked & cynical days. I'm mellower now. I have one or 2 on ignore because I sensed an intellectual dishonesty and I just grew weary of it.

I know personally more men who really, really worry about being liked than women. I mean they want so bad to be approved of by everybody. It's kinda sweet. To a point. Depends on what you value I guess.

patricia92243

(12,595 posts)
17. I have a couple of people on ignore and it says more about ME than them. One person posts so
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 09:56 AM
Mar 2013

much I find it irritating - it makes the current post disappear too fast and I am really not interested in their stuff. So, don't take it personally. It is just their choice.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
21. Of the very few
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:15 AM
Mar 2013

I have on my list, that's one of the reasons.

Extremely prolific OP posting, and nothing I'm interested in.

Another one had a photo in their sig line I found very disturbing, even though the person him/her self wasn't offensive.

And one who was nasty and abusive toward me on DU2, displaying what I took to be the beginning of stalker-ish behavior.

That's it.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
19. Congratulations. That means you said something worthwhile.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:09 AM
Mar 2013

It doesn't take much for some people to "ignore" others. I was put on "ignore" when I posted a video of Obama's comedy speech at an event where he made some jokes about his performance in the 1st debate in 2012, and a video of SNL skit of that debate performance. Funny stuff. But not to some, apparently.

The only way not to get ignored is to contribute nothing to the political conversation.

mainer

(12,022 posts)
24. I think that's very true
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:41 AM
Mar 2013

It means you've said something that forced someone to consider uncomfortable thoughts. It means you questioned a reality they've become accustomed to. It means you've made them see the world in a different light -- and they refuse to. It means you've opened their eyes, when they want to keep them firmly closed.

I like hearing opposing viewpoints, and the only reason I'd ignore someone is if they start calling people foul names.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
39. The only people I ignore are those who have attacked me personally. I don't want to deal w/them.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 03:24 PM
Mar 2013

Even then, I don't always ignore them.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
25. I had almost twenty people put me on ignore before I had a hundred posts
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:25 PM
Mar 2013

Not sure why... I hadn't even gotten around to pissing anyone off yet.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
26. Weird: My transparency page shows no star members ignoring me, but
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:34 PM
Mar 2013

Scrolling through a thread, near the person's name/handle, in small but bold font read the word "This person has placed you on ignore".

mainer

(12,022 posts)
28. Maybe he's not a star member
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 12:44 PM
Mar 2013

or maybe he's a jokester (like Orrex) whose sig line says:

"This member has you on ignore... or does he?"

Response to Populist_Prole (Reply #26)

nolabear

(41,960 posts)
33. I hate it when someone asks this and I look. I'm up to 5. Don't know why either.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 01:05 PM
Mar 2013

But what the hell. Can't please everyone.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
35. I always have people ignoring me.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 01:55 PM
Mar 2013

Politically, I don't comply, I don't get in line, and I'm not a cheerleader. I AM a Lone Wolf.

It can lead to hard feelings.

Checking, it looks like I've added a couple since the last time I looked. I'm up to 7.

Not my loss.

I don't put anyone on ignore. I can ignore posts without any help.

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
40. My page says there are 5 star members ignoring me.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 03:41 PM
Mar 2013

I have no idea who or why. I'm usually not very confrontational and don't recall having any kind of argument with anyone. Just one of those things.

yewberry

(6,530 posts)
41. I have one, and it's not a test.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 03:51 PM
Mar 2013

I know exactly who it is, and I'm perfectly happy not to interact with the individual.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
42. I have 15 star members ignoring me
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 04:29 PM
Mar 2013

If you want to please everyone you will never know what pleases you.

OrwellwasRight

(5,170 posts)
44. I have one.
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 07:26 PM
Mar 2013

As mean as people can be outside the Lounge, I am surprised it's not more. I am ignoring 10 or 12 gunners after the whole Sandyhook tragedy.

But what really puzzles me is that I have not been called to Jury Duty once since the institution of the new system. I used to get jury service pretty regularly.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
49. I've got a message for the one person who is ignoring me
Fri Mar 29, 2013, 10:28 PM
Mar 2013

But you will never know what it is because you are ignoring me and you are blocking my PM's.

The power is all mine! HA-HA-HA-HA-HA!

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
52. I have 2 at this point
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:42 AM
Mar 2013

and I know I have several on ignore. I found on DU2 that eventually many of those on my ignore list were tomb stoned.

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
53. I have 2 star members ignoring me and blocking e-mails and I have no clue who.
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 05:49 AM
Mar 2013

I figure it must be related to posting back in meta.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
54. I have 15....
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 06:06 AM
Mar 2013

.... and I am surprised it is not more as when I think something is stupid I say so and I don't pull punches. I could be wrong I could be right I could be Johnny Lydon.

In any event, Mr.Scorpio has me beat and THIS WILL NOT STAND

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