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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDoes everyone's transparency page say they have at least one person ignoring them?
Mine says someone is ignoring me, but but but, I don't think I ever had any conflict with anyone... There was one person who replied to one of my posts (not a confrontational post) in a rather passive-aggressive way, but that's about it. This shouldn't bother me at all, but it kinda does for some reason. Like what the hell, I'm a fairly nice guy and I'm not an asshole. Even people who don't like me usually like me. *cries*Wait, is this considered whining about DU?
*watches ignore counter go to 500*
d_r
(6,907 posts)but I guess they needed the slot for someone else.
Number of Star members ignoring me: 0
Number of Star members blocking mail from me (including members ignoring me): 0
octothorpe
(962 posts)Suich
(10,642 posts)No idea why.
pscot
(21,024 posts)octothorpe
(962 posts)hollysmom
(5,946 posts)I have 3 people ignoring me. and I am only ignoring 2 people - because they fly off the handle and start cursing at other posters - no one needs to read posts like that.
edbermac
(15,939 posts)a la izquierda
(11,794 posts)Probably someone ignoring me over immigration. Whatevs.
olddots
(10,237 posts)people don't really know anyone here unless they have met in person so everyone is expecting the worst sometimes.
I hate the anonymity of the web but I guess its a protection from spammers and crooks.
I don't want to know if I'm being ignored ---its like being at a party and someone calls you a bore or a jerk then walks away leaving you confused .
NRaleighLiberal
(60,014 posts)octothorpe
(962 posts)BTW, I'm not really upset by my ignore count. I'm actually more perplexed by it than anything else.
NRaleighLiberal
(60,014 posts)stay there - so it is cumulative/additive. I have half a dozen, which is weird - I tend to not be in conflict with anyone as far as I know. Must be from my various MIRT terms, I guess...
GoCubsGo
(32,080 posts)I have had two or three people ignoring me at once. I'm down to one, plus a second who is blocking any PMs from me. Which I find utterly hilarious, because I have only once ever sent someone a PM that was not in response to one they sent me. And, that was a question to someone in Cooking & Baking. Perhaps ignorers go away if they get the MIRT treatment?
I don't care either way if I'm being ignored, but I wish we there was still the "Ignored" notice when people on your ignore list post in a thread. I really don't care what they say, but not having that placeholder sometimes makes parts of a thread a tad nonsensical.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)to see that it's going away.
There are people here who are sensitive about that sort of thing.
I know there will be those who can't tolerate my opinions, but I'd rather not know how many.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Information is always a good thing, even if it gets some sensitive people upset.
Sort of like...why tell her she has cancer? It'll just get her upset. Answer: Because she has a right to know..
HarveyDarkey
(9,077 posts)lightweight
RILib
(862 posts)I hold a couple of unpopular opinions, so I'm not surprised at that.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Number of Star members ignoring me: 5
Number of Star members blocking mail from me (including members ignoring me): 6
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mainer
(12,022 posts)Never visited my own transparency page until I read this OP. Sometimes, it's better not to know!
I, on the other hand, have only one person on ignore -- someone who's particularly loose with the abuse. For the most part, I'd rather take the abuse and see all opinions.
tblue
(16,350 posts)Guess it's from my wicked & cynical days. I'm mellower now. I have one or 2 on ignore because I sensed an intellectual dishonesty and I just grew weary of it.
I know personally more men who really, really worry about being liked than women. I mean they want so bad to be approved of by everybody. It's kinda sweet. To a point. Depends on what you value I guess.
patricia92243
(12,595 posts)much I find it irritating - it makes the current post disappear too fast and I am really not interested in their stuff. So, don't take it personally. It is just their choice.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)I have on my list, that's one of the reasons.
Extremely prolific OP posting, and nothing I'm interested in.
Another one had a photo in their sig line I found very disturbing, even though the person him/her self wasn't offensive.
And one who was nasty and abusive toward me on DU2, displaying what I took to be the beginning of stalker-ish behavior.
That's it.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)It doesn't take much for some people to "ignore" others. I was put on "ignore" when I posted a video of Obama's comedy speech at an event where he made some jokes about his performance in the 1st debate in 2012, and a video of SNL skit of that debate performance. Funny stuff. But not to some, apparently.
The only way not to get ignored is to contribute nothing to the political conversation.
mainer
(12,022 posts)It means you've said something that forced someone to consider uncomfortable thoughts. It means you questioned a reality they've become accustomed to. It means you've made them see the world in a different light -- and they refuse to. It means you've opened their eyes, when they want to keep them firmly closed.
I like hearing opposing viewpoints, and the only reason I'd ignore someone is if they start calling people foul names.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Even then, I don't always ignore them.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)not telling how many free-loaders are ignoring you!
Demo_Chris
(6,234 posts)Not sure why... I hadn't even gotten around to pissing anyone off yet.
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)Scrolling through a thread, near the person's name/handle, in small but bold font read the word "This person has placed you on ignore".
mainer
(12,022 posts)or maybe he's a jokester (like Orrex) whose sig line says:
"This member has you on ignore... or does he?"
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)At least I'm not the only one
pintobean
(18,101 posts)mainer
(12,022 posts)Until I found out it was all a joke.
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lastlib
(23,224 posts)you got a cool name!
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nolabear
(41,960 posts)But what the hell. Can't please everyone.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,733 posts)LWolf
(46,179 posts)Politically, I don't comply, I don't get in line, and I'm not a cheerleader. I AM a Lone Wolf.
It can lead to hard feelings.
Checking, it looks like I've added a couple since the last time I looked. I'm up to 7.
Not my loss.
I don't put anyone on ignore. I can ignore posts without any help.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)Oh well!
OrwellwasRight
(5,170 posts)They are missing out!!
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)Walk away
(9,494 posts)You can't please everybody.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)It bothered me at first, but now I couldn't care less.
Arkansas Granny
(31,515 posts)I have no idea who or why. I'm usually not very confrontational and don't recall having any kind of argument with anyone. Just one of those things.
yewberry
(6,530 posts)I know exactly who it is, and I'm perfectly happy not to interact with the individual.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)If you want to please everyone you will never know what pleases you.
Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)OrwellwasRight
(5,170 posts)As mean as people can be outside the Lounge, I am surprised it's not more. I am ignoring 10 or 12 gunners after the whole Sandyhook tragedy.
But what really puzzles me is that I have not been called to Jury Duty once since the institution of the new system. I used to get jury service pretty regularly.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)I'm ignoring you. Just so you know.
ellie
(6,929 posts)That is so awesome!
Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)But you will never know what it is because you are ignoring me and you are blocking my PM's.
The power is all mine! HA-HA-HA-HA-HA!
baldguy
(36,649 posts)Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)and I know I have several on ignore. I found on DU2 that eventually many of those on my ignore list were tomb stoned.
mnhtnbb
(31,384 posts)I figure it must be related to posting back in meta.
sendero
(28,552 posts).... and I am surprised it is not more as when I think something is stupid I say so and I don't pull punches. I could be wrong I could be right I could be Johnny Lydon.
In any event, Mr.Scorpio has me beat and THIS WILL NOT STAND