I have a teenaged Starker! Can't wait to start work!

[Lady Freedom Returns]

My sis #2 has a younger step daughter. She is cling to me like crazy! She has no since of personal boundaries!

Big problem is that she has a problem with people telling her that they need space and to be told no. She has already told me she wants me just to hang around a party. This is scary due to knowing she has done stuff to get people fired from their jobs due to telling her something she did not like.

All I want to do is get to work, save money so I can get far away!

If I am as lucky as I think I will be, I will be working weekend when she is around.

[nomorenomore08]

1. Sounds like a really bizarre situation. Any idea what this girl's deal is?

[Lady Freedom Returns]

6. she has been gives much leeway as a kid.

Her parents are divorced and believed that giving her leeway with many things. She got anything she wanted hen she wanted it.

This has caused her to think she is privileged and all must do what she wants when she wants.

The kid needs to understand boundaries and that she can't have anything.

This problem has hurt some people already. I have no clue how she has kept out of trouble.

[Locut0s]

2. Is she lonely and starved for attention?...

Does you sis not show her proper affection or attention. Or perhaps she does but the same type of damage was done from her previous family?

[Lady Freedom Returns]

5. Nothing like that.

Her problem is that she always get what she wants. It goes back to her younger years. With her mom and dad being divorced that felt that they had to give her more everything and not giver that many boundaries.

She now has a belief that everyone has got to do what she wants. She is one of those kids that are very popular do to the activities she is in, Her friends do whatever she wants because they want to be cool to.

She thinks all adults are to cater to her like her parents. She also believes she should be able to do whatever. And heaven help the one that does not do what she says or gives her what she wants.

She is 13 years right now, this keeps up, it does not bode well.
Kids really do need boundaries!

[Locut0s]

7. Sounds like she's going to have a rude awakening come a few more years...

When she hits her mid to late teens I wouldn't want to be around here when things go south. Those types of kids who have their every wish catered to, and become super spoiled, often don't turn out the best.

[In_The_Wind]

3. I hope your weekend is going well!

[Lady Freedom Returns]

4. Now that my starker is gone for a couple of weeks thanks to school and

I got my computer screen fixed...YES! It is good!