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Wayback Machine. Did anyone here have to take square dancing lessons in elementry school? (Original Post) Javaman Dec 2013 OP
Looks like it's too complicated jakeXT Dec 2013 #1
"Top Flight Hepcat" distantearlywarning Dec 2013 #50
Wow - Thanks for bringing up that strange memory. Jokerman Dec 2013 #2
I remember them making us try it one day in Middle School. Xyzse Dec 2013 #3
I did. Kali Dec 2013 #4
Me too. White stripes for gym shorts. antiquie Dec 2013 #11
Amen LibbyTreehugger Dec 2013 #28
Yes. Chan790 Dec 2013 #5
It was part of phys-ed in the 1970's for me. arcane1 Dec 2013 #6
same here. I liked it at the time... Phentex Dec 2013 #61
yes! sammytko Dec 2013 #7
yes i did, in 2nd grade, we,the boys, were told to go ask a girl to be our partner. i got so leftyohiolib Dec 2013 #8
Yep, in gym class. dballance Dec 2013 #9
No. We learned the Bunny Hop. Aristus Dec 2013 #10
Lololol In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #17
OMG that bunch pipi_k Dec 2013 #20
Yeah, you laugh. Aristus Dec 2013 #21
Yup. Hated it. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2013 #12
In my gym class. they would set up a phonograph and the gym teacher... Javaman Dec 2013 #13
We did all through grade school - it was my favorite thing in PE cyberswede Dec 2013 #14
Yep sakabatou Dec 2013 #15
High school. July Dec 2013 #16
Yes, but in jr high. That was out gym class. madmom Dec 2013 #18
Oh, yeah, and some pipi_k Dec 2013 #19
Didn't 'have' to, but did. In the 50s in Birmingham, Alabama. trof Dec 2013 #22
Elementary, junior high AND high school. California, 80's and 90's. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #23
My father taught grade school in the 50'ws & 60's mulsh Dec 2013 #24
Yep, in junior high. GoCubsGo Dec 2013 #25
Yes, and I loved it. blogslut Dec 2013 #26
Yup - allemande left and dosey doe Ineeda Dec 2013 #27
Yes and YES and I was a STAR and MGM missed out on ME!1 n/t UTUSN Dec 2013 #29
Nope. Private religious school, dancing was frowned upon LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #30
Well now, I went to a Catholic school and we had to square dance. blueamy66 Dec 2013 #56
Mine was Presbyterian LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #57
Yeah, go figure. blueamy66 Dec 2013 #58
California n/t LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #59
ewww cooties TrogL Dec 2013 #31
Thanks for reminding me Cadfael Dec 2013 #32
Yes, kindergarden 1950's Brother Buzz Dec 2013 #33
High school. femmocrat Dec 2013 #34
We didn't have to take it rudolph the red Dec 2013 #35
High school in the late 80s MountainLaurel Dec 2013 #36
Oh, what an awful memory to have. pengillian101 Dec 2013 #38
It has been so long ago, but I think I did. n/t RebelOne Dec 2013 #37
Fourth grade we had square dancing on Fridays as a reward csziggy Dec 2013 #39
Yes...Phys Ed Class hibbing Dec 2013 #40
Yes!! deerheadgal Dec 2013 #41
we did line dancing fizzgig Dec 2013 #42
Yes, but it was a fleeting phenomenon... GReedDiamond Dec 2013 #43
i took square dance and I LOVE LOVED, LOVED IT!!!! trueblue2007 Dec 2013 #44
oh yes grasswire Dec 2013 #45
We did it in grade school. The boys hated square dancing, but the girls loved it. B Calm Dec 2013 #46
I did. AngryOldDem Dec 2013 #47
Was your instructor Bugs Bunny, by any chance? Art_from_Ark Dec 2013 #48
Yes, unfortunately distantearlywarning Dec 2013 #49
2nd grade, 1977-78. I love to dance, so I was ok with it. GreenPartyVoter Dec 2013 #51
Yes, both elementary school and junior high school annonymous Dec 2013 #52
Nuns did not allow dancing of any kind. Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #53
I absolutely loved it. My favorite "gym" activity. PassingFair Dec 2013 #54
I thought it was fun, Still Blue in PDX Dec 2013 #55
Yes, and I have no idea why. eppur_se_muova Dec 2013 #60
Yes LiberalEsto Dec 2013 #62
Yep! RobinA Dec 2013 #63
No, but I had spelling in elementary school ashling Dec 2013 #64
My, aren't you the charmer. nt Javaman Dec 2013 #67
Sorry ashling Dec 2013 #68
Fortunately, Catholic schools don't frown on dancing. Twerking maybe, but not dancing IrishAyes Dec 2013 #65
Not at school, but we learned at 4-H camp. Arkansas Granny Dec 2013 #66
I can't remember if it was grade school or later, Blue_In_AK Dec 2013 #69
Actually, yes. 1966 in Santa Maria, CA. haele Dec 2013 #70
We had to in HS in the 70s AgingAmerican Dec 2013 #71

Jokerman

(3,518 posts)
2. Wow - Thanks for bringing up that strange memory.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
Dec 2013

I think I blotted that part of school out of my mind as it happened.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
3. I remember them making us try it one day in Middle School.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:04 PM
Dec 2013

That was in 1991.
I don't know more than that. I believe it was a massive failure.

Kali

(55,014 posts)
4. I did.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:05 PM
Dec 2013

I thought it was fun. Hell of a lot better than that half a pull-up I could do for the Presidents Physical Fitness Test, remember that?

 

antiquie

(4,299 posts)
11. Me too. White stripes for gym shorts.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:16 PM
Dec 2013

I could never throw that softball far enough.
I thought square dancing was a kick.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
5. Yes.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:06 PM
Dec 2013

It was great. We didn't have to dance swing or lindy hop...we did get to learn to waltz and box-step and other dances. It was the only time we ever got to make physical contact with the girls in gym class. (Religious private schools.)

I was always a charmer...I just didn't realize it until years later. Like post-HS later...there's something disheartening about getting to college and making female friends who will enlighten you so you can realize that half the women in your HS class were really into you, while you were oblivious.

It paid off as an adult.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
6. It was part of phys-ed in the 1970's for me.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:09 PM
Dec 2013

Assorted line dancing, a break from only doing sports, I suppose.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
8. yes i did, in 2nd grade, we,the boys, were told to go ask a girl to be our partner. i got so
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:12 PM
Dec 2013

nervous about it that i threw up on the teacher. i went to her to tell her that i didnt feel well and vomited all over her dress.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
20. OMG that bunch
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 07:52 PM
Dec 2013

looks half dead next to these kids!






Wish I could dance like that, but I'd only end up hurting myself.

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
21. Yeah, you laugh.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:10 PM
Dec 2013

But I had a huge crush on a girl in my class, and I got to watch her do the Bunny Hop for a half hour or so at a time...

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
12. Yup. Hated it.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:39 PM
Dec 2013

Hated the music, hated holding the boys' sweaty little hands, hated the ugly skirts, hated having to hop around like the klutz I was. Why they made us do that I'll never know. As far as I could tell, everybody, even the cool kids, hated it.

Javaman

(62,530 posts)
13. In my gym class. they would set up a phonograph and the gym teacher...
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 05:48 PM
Dec 2013

would tap the beat to the music with a yard stick on the floor like a Russian ballet teacher.

The record would skip from so many years of playing it over and over.

My one take away from the whole miserable experience, (I was horribly shy), was the closing statement by the "caller" of the square dance on the record, "and that is all!"

I had to suffer through that mess for for two weeks every year for 4 years. 2nd through 4th grade. And to this day, I find the whole concept of square dancing, due to my PTSD (post traumatic square dancing), a truly annoying dance.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
14. We did all through grade school - it was my favorite thing in PE
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 06:05 PM
Dec 2013

We were all really good at it by 5th & 6th grade. We danced some really complex dances, some even without a caller.

July

(4,750 posts)
16. High school.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 06:44 PM
Dec 2013

It was a coed unit in gym every year (the only coed one, if I remember correctly). Pretty easy unit, but I do remember that several of the boys had sweaty hands, which made it a bit less amusing.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
19. Oh, yeah, and some
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 07:41 PM
Dec 2013

good and bad memories.

I was a kid during the 60s also, and we had the square dancing.

I loved it.

But it was painful, emotionally.

I've had Raynaud's Disease since childhood. That, and anxiety, made my hands cold and clammy. Nobody ever wanted to hold my hand...they always gripped my wrist instead.

While I understand it now, I didn't way back then, at the age of 9 or 10, when I felt like a dirty outcast.

Anyway. I loved dancing.

Not so much during junior high when the boys' and girls' gym classes had to mingle for a while to learn how to waltz.

trof

(54,256 posts)
22. Didn't 'have' to, but did. In the 50s in Birmingham, Alabama.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:26 PM
Dec 2013

I enjoyed it.
(OK, I was a dork.)

The YWCA gave lessons.
There was Square Dance Night for adolescents and young teens every Saturday.
Something to 'keep us out of trouble' I guess.

I really got into it and learned to call the dances.
And I still remember the calls.

Swing 'em high and whirl 'em low
And keep on swingin' your calico
Allemand left with your old left hand
Back to your partner with a ring and left grand.

Men to the center and back to the bar
Ladies come in with a Texas star

Ah, memories.




LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
23. Elementary, junior high AND high school. California, 80's and 90's.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:32 PM
Dec 2013

I think our teachers just liked having a PE unit we could do inside during the rainy season.

mulsh

(2,959 posts)
24. My father taught grade school in the 50'ws & 60's
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:34 PM
Dec 2013

he taught his classes square dancing but he and the other teacher who taught square dancing decided to mix it up with more current music and dances. When he gave me his mostly swing, opera, and symphonic record collection I found Chuck Berry, James Brown etc records scattered among the Puccini and Beethoven records.

I took square dancing in the fourth and fifth grade. It wasn't too bad. My father never tried to teach his own kids how to square dance and his rock n roll and soul records were in his "school supplies" stash in our garage. We were forbidden to touch that stuff under penalty of death and endless lectures.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
25. Yep, in junior high.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:38 PM
Dec 2013

It was the only part of phys ed that I ever enjoyed back then. They split the boys and girls up for PE, and I don't think the boys were ever made to square dance. So, half of us had to be the "guy" half of the partnerships. I was the fat kid, and always got stuck being the "man", but I didn't really mind. It doesn't make a whole lot of difference in square dancing. I still liked it, and wouldn't mind getting back into it.

blogslut

(38,002 posts)
26. Yes, and I loved it.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:39 PM
Dec 2013

Anything was better than running the fucking mile. I get a cramp in my side just thinking about it.

Ineeda

(3,626 posts)
27. Yup - allemande left and dosey doe
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 08:58 PM
Dec 2013

in junior high gym, also in the 60's. Also a bit of ballroom, which was WAY worse.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
57. Mine was Presbyterian
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:38 PM
Dec 2013

No dancing, it encouraged sexual contact. A policy that became ridiculous after both the bus driver and superintendent got busted for molesting students.

Brother Buzz

(36,444 posts)
33. Yes, kindergarden 1950's
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 11:00 PM
Dec 2013

We practiced all spring and performed at the school May Day shindig. The boys got to wear red bandannas, how cool is that?

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
34. High school.
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 11:02 PM
Dec 2013

I thought it was fun. Our gym classes were not coed in those days. I hated just about everything about gym classes, especially the calisthenics and the hideous gym uniforms.

 

rudolph the red

(666 posts)
35. We didn't have to take it
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 11:43 PM
Dec 2013

but there was a square dance club that met every morning in the gym, 30 minutes before classes and, believe it or not, it was very popular. I think everyone enjoyed it because of the gym teacher who ran it, he was a really funny, happy man and everyone loved him. This was in the late '70s in Boulder CO.

MountainLaurel

(10,271 posts)
36. High school in the late 80s
Wed Dec 4, 2013, 11:47 PM
Dec 2013

The most notable thing I remember is that the guy who was assigned as my partner accidentally blew his head off the following year playing Russian roulette while drunk (looks like that gun education lesson worked real well for him).

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
39. Fourth grade we had square dancing on Fridays as a reward
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 12:56 AM
Dec 2013

If we behaved all week. It was not structured, just a good time for all, and was lots of fun for those kids whose feet would cooperate. I have always been a miserable dancer, so I didn't dance much - but I had fun watching.

hibbing

(10,098 posts)
40. Yes...Phys Ed Class
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 01:02 AM
Dec 2013

Hey,
Funny topic for a thread and looking back on it was really strange. I remember our bad ass big burly PE Teacher "Mr. V" putting on a record in the gym that called out the square dance moves. I don't recall it being anything horrendous at the time.

Peace

deerheadgal

(57 posts)
41. Yes!!
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 01:43 AM
Dec 2013

I went to a one-room country school (in the 1960s). We had 12 students and learned to square dance to celebrate the Kansas Centennial in 1961. It wasn't great, but it wasn't horrible, either.

GReedDiamond

(5,313 posts)
43. Yes, but it was a fleeting phenomenon...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:10 AM
Dec 2013

...which occurred one year during elementary school, while I was in the 3rd grade, circa 1963.

As I recall, it was implemented through PE class.

Personally, I preferred dodgeball to square (or any other kinda) dancing.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
47. I did.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 07:43 AM
Dec 2013

And as much as I hated gym, I hated it even more during Square Dance Week.

I can still remember the record player and the calls -- Swing Your Partner Do-Si-Do...I have to stop before the flashbacks get too bad.

distantearlywarning

(4,475 posts)
49. Yes, unfortunately
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:28 AM
Dec 2013

6th grade. The boys and girls were just starting to notice one another and we were all terribly shy about it, so it was an incredibly painful experience.

And I just thought the whole square dancing thing was just completely ridiculous anyway. I had no interest in "country" culture or that kind of music even at that young age, and did not want to wear the calico skirts or any of that crap because I was a tomboy. I would have even preferred ballroom to "do si doeing". Or pretty much any other activity, actually.

But I was the kind of kid who actually enjoyed competitive sports. My favorite units in PE were the ones where we got to play tennis or badminton. I also liked running long-distance track. Team stuff didn't do much for me (too much hoo rah nonsense and picking teams was always about who was popular rather than who was actually good), but I liked anything individualized and competitive.

annonymous

(882 posts)
52. Yes, both elementary school and junior high school
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:48 AM
Dec 2013

My elementary school had a dance festival every year, so I had to learn various dances for the festival. This was back in the 70's. In junior high, dance was part of gym class.

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
54. I absolutely loved it. My favorite "gym" activity.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 12:34 PM
Dec 2013

Went a couple of times to "barn dances" as an adult, and it was even more fun when I was loaded!



I went to a wedding in Scotland where they did line dances like "Strip the Willow"
at the reception, and my grade school lessons paid off, as I was able to figure out
the rhythms and the moves as I went along.

SOOO much fun!

eppur_se_muova

(36,269 posts)
60. Yes, and I have no idea why.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 05:28 PM
Dec 2013

It wasn't for any class I was in. A teacher just showed up one day and told our teacher she needed a few more boys for square dancing. Our teacher picked out 4-5 boys, including me, and sent us off to the gym. We spent a few weeks doing square dancing instead of study hall. To this day I have no idea what that was about.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
62. Yes
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 06:26 PM
Dec 2013

It wouldn't have mattered what kind of dancing they taught. I was considered one of the losers and none of the boys wanted to be partnered with me.

ashling

(25,771 posts)
64. No, but I had spelling in elementary school
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:14 AM
Dec 2013

We had square dance and folk dancing in Jr. High. They would open up the divider between they boys' and girls' gyms.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
65. Fortunately, Catholic schools don't frown on dancing. Twerking maybe, but not dancing
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 10:19 AM
Dec 2013

in general. Since my dad was career military, we moved a lot so I had to spend temporary spaces in public schools more than once. I grew up with square dancing, but it was so lonnnng ago that it wasn't considered quite so square.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
69. I can't remember if it was grade school or later,
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:34 PM
Dec 2013

but, yes, somewhere along the line I learned how to square dance. Very appropriately named.

haele

(12,660 posts)
70. Actually, yes. 1966 in Santa Maria, CA.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:11 PM
Dec 2013

We did it right after last recess in the portion of the day when we were doing art (looking back, art was at the end of the day because the teachers knew we didn't have the attention span to keep "learning&quot .
They always had the "school work" stuff was always in the morning, and it would get easier and more interactive as the day went on. I guess the dancing part of art was to "teach teamwork" and also get the rest of the recess energy out so we could settle down and paint or build things.
Square dancing was hard. There was a whole lot of falling down that first half hour or so.

Haele

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
71. We had to in HS in the 70s
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:17 PM
Dec 2013

I got paired up with a girl whose hands were so calloused that they felt like sandpaper, and her palms were super sweaty. Not a good memory.

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