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closeupready

(29,503 posts)
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:48 PM Apr 2014

I'm grateful to Facebook for at least reminding me why I left home in the first place.

I don't like Facebook much, as I've said before, but while it was nice to reconnect with old friends I hadn't seen in ages, it quickly became clear that our lives diverged sharply after I moved away, and that these differences aren't superficial, but aspects of our lives which are deeply entwined in our ways of life, families, means of living, basically EVERYTHING.

Thus, it can be sad to part ways with old friends due to disagreements about religion or politics.

Then again, why is it incumbent upon ME to concede arguments? If my antipathy for religion and conservatism bother you, then I would recomment that you un-friend me - for your sake, and I dislike the idea that my views bring you pain.

Having just typed that, I realize maybe I need to unfriend these people first.

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I'm grateful to Facebook for at least reminding me why I left home in the first place. (Original Post) closeupready Apr 2014 OP
Like anything else, use it for what it's worth gratuitous Apr 2014 #1

gratuitous

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1. Like anything else, use it for what it's worth
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 04:21 PM
Apr 2014

It's nice, nearly 40 years later, to see what some folks are up to. A guy I knew vaguely back in the day and didn't have much use for just posted some photos his father took of the area back in the early 1960s. Some of the photos were of places I knew once upon a time, others were of his dad and his dad's friends back from hunting or fishing trips, and the like.

I got a new insight into the acquaintance, as I reflected that his dad had gone out on these trips not just for the recreational aspect, but as a means of feeding his family and supplementing a meager income. Our family was lower middle class, probably borderline poverty level, but his family was worse off, financially speaking. Yet, in spite of that scramble just to keep body and soul together, his father had invested in a camera and color film to capture some of that life. I probably won't ever be best friends with this guy, but I have a far better understanding of his life and family, and I appreciate that.

Other people from those days? Meh. I haven't known or cared much about most of them for 40 years, but it's nice to know they're still alive. Doesn't affect me one way or the other. Unless one of them does something like the guy I've been talking about. That would be worth it, and I'd hate to miss it.

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