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SalmonChantedEvening

(31,951 posts)
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 08:51 AM Aug 2014

My Mother has passed away.

After a long battle with peripheral neuropathy and osteo-athritis, and two TIAs. She left us early this morning. I take great comfort in knowing her suffering is over, and that wherever souls might meet, she and my Father are together once again.

RIP Mom.

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My Mother has passed away. (Original Post) SalmonChantedEvening Aug 2014 OP
I'm so sorry... my condolences. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #1
I am so sorry, SCE. My thoughts are with you. Arkansas Granny Aug 2014 #2
Condolences SCE sarge43 Aug 2014 #3
Oh, Salmon, Granny M Aug 2014 #4
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you blessings of peace and healing. LiberalEsto Aug 2014 #5
I am so sorry for your loss, SCE. mnhtnbb Aug 2014 #6
I'm so sorry for your loss. Owl Aug 2014 #7
I'm so sorry to hear you lost her, SalmonChantedEvening pinboy3niner Aug 2014 #8
Love and condolences to you and yours, my friend. babylonsister Aug 2014 #9
oh, SCE, I'm so sorry... magical thyme Aug 2014 #10
I'm so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Aug 2014 #11
Deepest sympathy Scarsdale Aug 2014 #14
I have no words... mentalsolstice Aug 2014 #12
love strength and comfort, Salmon. BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2014 #13
I'm so sorry for your loss, SCE. Lars39 Aug 2014 #15
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. cbayer Aug 2014 #16
My condolences to you & your family. :( Little Star Aug 2014 #17
For you, Mother -- A Rose: lastlib Aug 2014 #18
I'm so sorry. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #19
Adding to the collection of love tavernier Aug 2014 #20
. ctsnowman Aug 2014 #21
I am so sorry MissDeeds Aug 2014 #22
There are no words DFW Aug 2014 #23
My deepest sympathies on your loss, SCE. CrispyQ Aug 2014 #24
Peace antiquie Aug 2014 #25
No matter if TNNurse Aug 2014 #26
I am sorry SCE. redwitch Aug 2014 #27
Heart felt condolences Grantuspeace Aug 2014 #28
Love you SCE QED Aug 2014 #29
I'm sorry, SalmonChantedEvening. OnyxCollie Aug 2014 #30
(((...))) handmade34 Aug 2014 #31
I am sorry oldandhappy Aug 2014 #32
Thinking about you snd your mom. Hoyt Aug 2014 #33
My condolences yuiyoshida Aug 2014 #34
........ daleanime Aug 2014 #35
So sorry to hear that. Greybnk48 Aug 2014 #36
. NRaleighLiberal Aug 2014 #37
My deepest sympathies over your loss. ClusterFreak Aug 2014 #38
I am so sorry, SCE. brer cat Aug 2014 #39
I'm sorry to hear that, SCE. Wherever she is ballyhoo Aug 2014 #40
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. nt Fla Dem Aug 2014 #41
My deepest sympathy SalmonChantedEvening zeemike Aug 2014 #42
That diagnosis sounds like me at some time in the future. Sorry to hear of her passing but fully jwirr Aug 2014 #43
Safe Passage, SCE mama. You done good. alphafemale Aug 2014 #44
SCE I am so sorry for your loss. littlewolf Aug 2014 #45
My deepest condolences. kcass1954 Aug 2014 #46
So sorry to hear about your mama. She has a wonderful son in you. My Nay Aug 2014 #47
I am really sorry SCE. Raine1967 Aug 2014 #48
Oh! so sory SalmonC.E. intaglio Aug 2014 #49
May you and your family find peace. Mopar151 Aug 2014 #50
My condolences to you. kairos12 Aug 2014 #51
She is on her next journey, one that we all will someday take. Loki Aug 2014 #52
Oh no--she produced a wonderful child. We're so lucky to have you. MADem Aug 2014 #53
So sorry for your loss... panader0 Aug 2014 #54
I offer my sincere condolences, {{{SalmonChantedEvening}}}. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #55
. LiberalElite Aug 2014 #56
So sorry for your loss... ms liberty Aug 2014 #57
Deep condolences Richard D Aug 2014 #58
Sending sincere condolences to LibDemAlways Aug 2014 #59
My condolences to you. Peace for your mother. Take care in this time of sorrow. lunasun Aug 2014 #60
You devoted yourself to her care so splendidly. Aristus Aug 2014 #61
So very sorry for your loss. cate94 Aug 2014 #62
SCE, I am so sorry for your loss. Mnemosyne Aug 2014 #63
I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Salmon loudsue Aug 2014 #64
So sorry for your loss. JustinBulletin Aug 2014 #65
So sorry to hear ... CaptainTruth Aug 2014 #66
May she cross easy. Be well, SCE. You are much loved here. nolabear Aug 2014 #67
I'm sorry. blueamy66 Aug 2014 #68
Long memories! sellitman Aug 2014 #69
So sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2014 #70
Please accept my deepest condolences Iwillnevergiveup Aug 2014 #71
Very sorry for her passing The Blue Flower Aug 2014 #72
sorry she had to suffer so. mopinko Aug 2014 #73
... 2naSalit Aug 2014 #74
I am sorry for your loss. rhett o rick Aug 2014 #75
My condolences, SCE nuxvomica Aug 2014 #76
Very sorry, SCE. Enthusiast Aug 2014 #77
My wishes for Grace and Mercy for you! mfcorey1 Aug 2014 #78
Very sorry for your loss. Hugs. LoisB Aug 2014 #79
So sorry for your loss. kickysnana Aug 2014 #80
My deepest sympathy to alsame Aug 2014 #81
Thinking of you voteearlyvoteoften Aug 2014 #82
(((((Hugs)))) SCE. I am is sorry. riderinthestorm Aug 2014 #83
My deepest condolences SCE denbot Aug 2014 #84
My sincere condolences heaven05 Aug 2014 #85
So terribly sorry, SalmonChantedEvening ReRe Aug 2014 #86
So very sorry to hear this...I'm sure she's at peace joeybee12 Aug 2014 #87
I am so sorry for your loss. hrmjustin Aug 2014 #88
Oh, SCE, I'm so sorry for your loss. kag Aug 2014 #89
I'm so very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts. catbyte Aug 2014 #90
Mothers teach us so much packman Aug 2014 #91
I hope my mom, Irene, who passed last year, will welcome her! NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #92
I'm so sorry. TDale313 Aug 2014 #93
Our deepest sympathies indepat Aug 2014 #94
Sorry, SCE Tab Aug 2014 #95
I'm so sorry. area51 Aug 2014 #96
... glinda Aug 2014 #97
I'm so sorry. stage left Aug 2014 #98
Peace ChazInAz Aug 2014 #99
My deepest condolences. 840high Aug 2014 #100
I am so very sorry for your loss. She must have been a great Mom because she raised a great Son. LiberalLoner Aug 2014 #101
So sorry for your loss... RetroLounge Aug 2014 #102
Sorry for your loss, SCE Wounded Bear Aug 2014 #103
I am so sorry for your loss etherealtruth Aug 2014 #104
I'm so very sorry . . . Still Blue in PDX Aug 2014 #105
Condolences benld74 Aug 2014 #106
I'm so sorry for your loss... abakan Aug 2014 #107
I'm so sorry for your loss NikolaC Aug 2014 #108
So Sorry liberalmike27 Aug 2014 #109
Oh my dear SalmonChantedEvening... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2014 #110
Oh No SalmonChantedEvening! Great big hugs!! ralps Aug 2014 #111
my deepest condolences …. shireen Aug 2014 #112
Oh, I am so sorry SCE! Brigid Aug 2014 #113
so sorry for your loss SalmonChantedEvening barbtries Aug 2014 #114
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. hedgehog Aug 2014 #115
I am saddened to hear you lost someone from your life. Half-Century Man Aug 2014 #116
My deepest sympathy, SCE. truth2power Aug 2014 #117
Much love to you, SCE. You give so many smiles and chuckles to us Sunday after Sunday. calimary Aug 2014 #118
Thank you, Mother Salmon MoreGOPoop Aug 2014 #119
Condolences Demeter Aug 2014 #120
Much comfort to you and your family. blogslut Aug 2014 #121
**more hugs** Arugula Latte Aug 2014 #122
Deepest condolences dear SCE MsLeopard Aug 2014 #123
Hugs to you NJCher Aug 2014 #124
I'm terribly sorry SCE. a la izquierda Aug 2014 #125
I am so sorry, KT2000 Aug 2014 #126
I`m so sorry democrank Aug 2014 #127
Oh my dear Bob.... annabanana Aug 2014 #128
I am so sorry for your loss, SCE Digit Aug 2014 #129
Please accept my family's deepest condolences, SCE! MarianJack Aug 2014 #130
Love is eternal sunnystarr Aug 2014 #131
Mercy shenmue Aug 2014 #132
So very sorry to hear of this, SCE. chervilant Aug 2014 #133
I'm sorry for your loss. Worried senior Aug 2014 #134
Deepest sympathy SalmonChantedEvening malaise Aug 2014 #135
I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. n/t Tom_Foolery Aug 2014 #136
((SCE)))5 blondie58 Aug 2014 #137
Oh my dear Salmon...I am so sorry to hear this. onecent Aug 2014 #138
So sad. Vibes to you and yours. applegrove Aug 2014 #139
I'm very sorry discntnt_irny_srcsm Aug 2014 #140
My Condolences cantbeserious Aug 2014 #141
Love never dies BrotherIvan Aug 2014 #142
My condolences. GoneOffShore Aug 2014 #143
A thousand hugs to you SCE lunatica Aug 2014 #144
Sorry for your mercuryblues Aug 2014 #145
Even when this transition provides relief... 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #146
My deepest condolences to you, SCE... virgdem Aug 2014 #147
So sorry SCE. AllyCat Aug 2014 #148
So sorry very SalmonChantedEvening family... Tikki Aug 2014 #149
My deepest and sincerest thoughts, condolences and sympathies to you and your family RFKHumphreyObama Aug 2014 #150
My condolences on your loss. Autumn Aug 2014 #151
I'm so sorry. Cleita Aug 2014 #152
() Jack Rabbit Aug 2014 #153
So very sorry wendylaroux Aug 2014 #154
All the Best to You Leith Aug 2014 #155
My condolences. Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #156
What #16 said! patricia92243 Aug 2014 #157
I am sorry for your loss. Kali Aug 2014 #158
Oh SCE I'm so sorry. Triana Aug 2014 #159
Sincerest Sympathies. Maynar Aug 2014 #160
So very sorry trocar Aug 2014 #161
I would like to add my condolences Lifelong Protester Aug 2014 #162
I send my deepest condolences... love_katz Aug 2014 #163
May all the joy you bring to DU... Ferretherder Aug 2014 #164
Holding you in the Light, SCE. n/t TygrBright Aug 2014 #165
so sorry to hear this, SalmonChantedEvening bigtree Aug 2014 #166
My wife and I am sorry for you. I lost my grandmother a few months ago and understand your diabeticman Aug 2014 #167
and somehow I always felt my mother should live forever. Stellar Aug 2014 #168
Hope you have many built up memories. Visit them often juajen Aug 2014 #169
SCE, I am very sorry to hear this.... meti57b Aug 2014 #170
Dear SEC Lilma Aug 2014 #171
(((((((SalmonChantedEvening))))))) WillyT Aug 2014 #172
i am so sorry Salmon. Hugs and prayers for you. trueblue2007 Aug 2014 #173
Our deepest condolences.. Peacetrain Aug 2014 #174
My deepest sympathy for your loss, SCE. femmocrat Aug 2014 #175
Deepest sympanthy passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #176
My sympathies to you, SCE. Raffi Ella Aug 2014 #177
I'm so sorry, SCE, for your loss. Yes, your Mom & your Dad are together again. Booster Aug 2014 #178
So so very sorry. All condolences. n/t Bossy Monkey Aug 2014 #179
I am so sorry, Salmon lululu Aug 2014 #180
I'm so sorry for your loss, SCE. Unknown Beatle Aug 2014 #181
Sorry for your loss TexasProgresive Aug 2014 #182
I am so sorry to hear that. tblue37 Aug 2014 #183
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." Thomas Campbell hue Aug 2014 #184
So sorry for your loss. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #185
I'm so sorry for your loss. May she RIP. nt Ilsa Aug 2014 #186
RIP to your mother and all the best to you and your family ! nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #187
I am sorry, SCE. nt freedom fighter jh Aug 2014 #188
Take care of yourself SCE awoke_in_2003 Aug 2014 #189
You and your family are in my Thoughts SCE... Eyerish Aug 2014 #190
you are as ever in my heart, honey. you are so loved roguevalley Aug 2014 #191
I am so sorry Spiggitzfan Aug 2014 #192
Very gracious post-welcome to DU gopiscrap Aug 2014 #250
I am so sorry for your loss Stargazer09 Aug 2014 #193
I am so sorry. irisblue Aug 2014 #194
My condolences Salmon. Kingofalldems Aug 2014 #195
I am only one of many, but collectively we grieve with you. snappyturtle Aug 2014 #196
Hugs, my friend. riqster Aug 2014 #197
I am so sorry. GoCubsGo Aug 2014 #198
My sincere condolences.... PCIntern Aug 2014 #199
Godspeed DonCoquixote Aug 2014 #200
I am so sorry, SCE, red dog 1 Aug 2014 #201
I am very sorry SCE. GentryDixon Aug 2014 #202
condolences heather blossom Aug 2014 #203
Sorry for your loss SCE. cui bono Aug 2014 #204
I'm sorry. LWolf Aug 2014 #205
My condolences... CherokeeDem Aug 2014 #206
RIP SCE's Mom Tribalceltic Aug 2014 #207
Sorry for your loss. Chevy Aug 2014 #208
Aloha SalmonChantedEvening. mahina Aug 2014 #209
Please accept my condolences. cyberswede Aug 2014 #210
So sorry for your loss swilton Aug 2014 #211
sorry to hear SCE rurallib Aug 2014 #212
Love you! graywarrior Aug 2014 #213
Sorry; may she rest in peace. Now she knows more than we do. IrishAyes Aug 2014 #214
Yes! She is free now, and is with your father, and with you too. DesertDiamond Aug 2014 #215
My deepest sympathy...please take care. Oilwellian Aug 2014 #216
Hugs. Scuba Aug 2014 #217
You are in my thoughts ... I am so sorry for your loss tandot Aug 2014 #218
My heart breaks with your old friend BigBearJohn Aug 2014 #219
My sympathy to you and your family. joanbarnes Aug 2014 #220
So sorry for your loss creeksneakers2 Aug 2014 #221
My thoughts are with you MannyGoldstein Aug 2014 #222
(((((((SalmonChantedEvening)))))))... TeeYiYi Aug 2014 #223
... defacto7 Aug 2014 #224
I'm so sorry for your loss. Agschmid Aug 2014 #225
Deepest condolences, SCE. Behind the Aegis Aug 2014 #226
It's a hurt that never heals. raven mad Aug 2014 #227
My condolences to you and the family - n/t mazzarro Aug 2014 #228
I'm so sorry for you loss, SalmonChantedEvening. n/t FourScore Aug 2014 #229
I know how hard it is to lose your mom emsimon33 Aug 2014 #230
Deepest sympathies Salmon JackInGreen Aug 2014 #231
I'm sorry, don't forget to take care of yourself DiverDave Aug 2014 #232
I'm sorry for your loss Denis 11 Aug 2014 #233
I'm sorry for your loss, SalmonChantedEvening. ='( AverageJoe90 Aug 2014 #234
May all your fond memories of her be a balm in your time of sorrow ... 66 dmhlt Aug 2014 #235
My sincere condolences, SCE. Cooley Hurd Aug 2014 #236
Good vibes your way... farmbo Aug 2014 #237
I am very sorry for your loss, SCE. gademocrat7 Aug 2014 #238
I am so sorry. RiffRandell Aug 2014 #239
Rest in peace In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #240
I'm so sorry for your loss, SalmonChantedEvening. 6000eliot Aug 2014 #241
So very sorry for your loss... Phentex Aug 2014 #242
So sorry for your loss. mithnanthy Aug 2014 #243
I'm very sorry for your loss NewJeffCT Aug 2014 #244
My deepest sympathies for your loss. snagglepuss Aug 2014 #245
You have my deepest sympathy my friend Crewleader Aug 2014 #246
{{{{SalmonChantedEvening}}}} csziggy Aug 2014 #247
my deepest sympathies and condolences to you and all who love her. your du family niyad Aug 2014 #248
I am so, so very sorry, my friend... Rhiannon12866 Aug 2014 #249
"How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!" orleans Aug 2014 #251
We are so very sorry Paula Sims Aug 2014 #252
I am so sorry, SCE, kiva Aug 2014 #253

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
6. I am so sorry for your loss, SCE.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 09:07 AM
Aug 2014

Sending you some hugs.

You have brought us so much love, laughter, and fun on Sunday mornings.

Here's a rose for you, in remembrance of your mom.

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magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
10. oh, SCE, I'm so sorry...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 09:38 AM
Aug 2014

please accept my condolences to you and yours on your loss.

Godspeed, mother to SCE...

lastlib

(23,222 posts)
18. For you, Mother -- A Rose:
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 09:44 AM
Aug 2014


Simple -- Beautiful -- A symbol of love --
An expression of Good -- A Remembrance of Sacrifice --
A soother of unhappy times -- The warmth of a kiss --
Given with Gratitude.

My deepest condolences to you, SCE!

CrispyQ

(36,461 posts)
24. My deepest sympathies on your loss, SCE.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 09:53 AM
Aug 2014

Holding you & your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
26. No matter if
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 09:57 AM
Aug 2014

It is after an illness and your are grateful her suffering is over, it is always hard to lose your mother. I know just how you feel. You do not want her back to suffer, you will always miss her, but she will always be with you.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
36. So sorry to hear that.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:16 AM
Aug 2014

I'm will be happy with you that her suffering has ended. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

ClusterFreak

(3,112 posts)
38. My deepest sympathies over your loss.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:18 AM
Aug 2014

I lost my own mother last summer and like yourself posted about it on DU. I took great comfort in the warm and kind response I got from this community, I am sure you will do the same.

brer cat

(24,561 posts)
39. I am so sorry, SCE.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:21 AM
Aug 2014

Losing a parent is a terrible loss. May you find peace and comfort knowing her pain and suffering have ended.

 

ballyhoo

(2,060 posts)
40. I'm sorry to hear that, SCE. Wherever she is
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:24 AM
Aug 2014

now, she can at least remember what a wonderful child she had and how much joy in a not so joyous world her son brought to so many people. May the angels prepare her room.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
43. That diagnosis sounds like me at some time in the future. Sorry to hear of her passing but fully
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:27 AM
Aug 2014

understand the relief from pain. Take care of yourself now.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
47. So sorry to hear about your mama. She has a wonderful son in you. My
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:36 AM
Aug 2014

condolences and love go to you and your family.

Loki

(3,825 posts)
52. She is on her next journey, one that we all will someday take.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:44 AM
Aug 2014

May you find peace and comfort in the love and support of your family and friends.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
53. Oh no--she produced a wonderful child. We're so lucky to have you.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:48 AM
Aug 2014


I hope you have friends and family to help you through what is a very difficult transition.

Aristus

(66,327 posts)
61. You devoted yourself to her care so splendidly.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 10:58 AM
Aug 2014

You are to be commended. I know you're in pain right now. But as you can see, we are here for you...

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
64. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Salmon
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:01 AM
Aug 2014

Peripheral neuropathy and OA are very painful, and I am so sorry she had to endure those pains. I'm sending you and your family big hugs, and the strength of good family memories in your healing.

JustinBulletin

(73 posts)
65. So sorry for your loss.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:02 AM
Aug 2014

My you find some peace in knowing how much we all care and appreciate everything you do for us on Sunday mornings. May your mother rest in peace.

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
71. Please accept my deepest condolences
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:12 AM
Aug 2014

on the loss of your beloved mother.

((((((MamaEnchantedEvening)))))) ((((((SalmonChantedEvening))))))

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
86. So terribly sorry, SalmonChantedEvening
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:31 AM
Aug 2014

Please know that all of us are sending our care and love to you at this sad time in your life.

kag

(4,079 posts)
89. Oh, SCE, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:38 AM
Aug 2014

I'm glad you have some solace knowing she is no longer in pain. Take care.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
91. Mothers teach us so much
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:39 AM
Aug 2014

She gave us a good person to share our journey thru life with


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NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
92. I hope my mom, Irene, who passed last year, will welcome her!
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:40 AM
Aug 2014

If your mom liked vodka tonics, or was a supporter of cancer victims, or loved pets, then they'll become fast friends!

Tab

(11,093 posts)
95. Sorry, SCE
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 11:44 AM
Aug 2014

My dad did something similar. I found it very devastating. Best to you and any siblings, or anyone else in your family. Sad to see it happen.

abakan

(1,819 posts)
107. I'm so sorry for your loss...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 12:19 PM
Aug 2014

Here are flowers from the garden I grow in remembrance of my mother, for you and your mother.

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CaliforniaPeggy

(149,605 posts)
110. Oh my dear SalmonChantedEvening...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 12:28 PM
Aug 2014

My heart is breaking for you and your terrible loss...

I have no words.....only hugs, sweetie...



calimary

(81,222 posts)
118. Much love to you, SCE. You give so many smiles and chuckles to us Sunday after Sunday.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 12:54 PM
Aug 2014

We love you back. All week long. Anyway. But especially now. All our sympathies.

NJCher

(35,661 posts)
124. Hugs to you
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 01:18 PM
Aug 2014

I know what it's like, SCE. My dad went through a long, difficult period of illness before he died, too. And yes, you miss them terribly but if you're open to the message, you may get "word" that they're OK. As TNNurse said upthread, she will always be with you.




Cher

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
128. Oh my dear Bob....
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 01:31 PM
Aug 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. When we lose our parents, we lose those who have known us best. When they look at us they see our whole lives. No one else can see us with those eyes.
The warmth she provided for you will remain with you.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
130. Please accept my family's deepest condolences, SCE!
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 01:41 PM
Aug 2014

RIP for your mom. My mom passed on 8 years ago. I still love & miss her as I'm sure you will. As Vice President told the families of deceased service people, I promise you that someday (hopefully soon) the thought of your mom will bring the smile before the tear. Your family and you have our best wishes.

PEACE!

sunnystarr

(2,638 posts)
131. Love is eternal
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 01:45 PM
Aug 2014

and her love will always surround you. I lost my mom back in 1977 and her love is still with me. Peace.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
133. So very sorry to hear of this, SCE.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 01:51 PM
Aug 2014

I am so very glad she raised such a lovely person.

(I miss my Mom every single day.)

onecent

(6,096 posts)
138. Oh my dear Salmon...I am so sorry to hear this.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 02:09 PM
Aug 2014

My thoughts and blessings will be with you and your family during this time.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
144. A thousand hugs to you SCE
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 02:14 PM
Aug 2014


Her suffering is over now and she feels the release of it. I firmly believe that.

3catwoman3

(23,975 posts)
146. Even when this transition provides relief...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 02:17 PM
Aug 2014

...from suffering, I don't think we are ever entirely ready, no mater how old/grown up we may be, to be without the person who loved us before they even met us.

Here is a cyber hug from me and my 5 cats - ((((((>^..^&lt )))))

RFKHumphreyObama

(15,164 posts)
150. My deepest and sincerest thoughts, condolences and sympathies to you and your family
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 02:52 PM
Aug 2014

on the loss of your mother, SCE. I've been where you are know and I know what it feels like and my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry to hear of this

Leith

(7,809 posts)
155. All the Best to You
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:20 PM
Aug 2014

I never say it often enough, but I appreciate your threads. Your mom is at peace and I hope you are, too.


Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
156. My condolences.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:22 PM
Aug 2014

I know that she has had a hard time of it, and I am sure that it was her time. That doesn't help. It is so hard to lose your mother. I am very sorry for your sorrow.

 

Triana

(22,666 posts)
159. Oh SCE I'm so sorry.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:36 PM
Aug 2014

It sounds like she probably had a good long life and maybe it was time but losing your Mom is never easy. I wish mine could live forever but alas I know that she won't and I dread the day.

You have my sincerest sympathy.

Hugs to ya!

Lifelong Protester

(8,421 posts)
162. I would like to add my condolences
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:47 PM
Aug 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.


Last week, when I mentioned that we missed your return comments, I hope you know it was meant in a "we miss you, and love hearing from you" kind of way, not pushy! I just wanted, and still want, you to know how much your presence here means to all of us.

Ferretherder

(1,446 posts)
164. May all the joy you bring to DU...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:03 PM
Aug 2014

...wash back over you in a karmic wave to ease your sorrow.

You truly are a treasure on this sight, SCE. I am very sorry for your loss. Sending good vibes your way, my friend.

bigtree

(85,996 posts)
166. so sorry to hear this, SalmonChantedEvening
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:11 PM
Aug 2014

. . . beautiful tribute, many condolences to you and your family.

diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
167. My wife and I am sorry for you. I lost my grandmother a few months ago and understand your
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:12 PM
Aug 2014

statement. When a love one is suffering so much on this earth sometimes there release is a comforting and even a relief to those of us left. The last thing we ever want to see is a love one suffer so greatly.


Stellar

(5,644 posts)
168. and somehow I always felt my mother should live forever.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:13 PM
Aug 2014

I know exactly how you feel. May you find Peace in your heart.

juajen

(8,515 posts)
169. Hope you have many built up memories. Visit them often
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:16 PM
Aug 2014

and visit the funny ones particularly, for laughter really is the best medicine. Crying is also cathartic. So sorry.

Lilma

(132 posts)
171. Dear SEC
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 04:33 PM
Aug 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.
You make me happy every Sunday, I wish I had the words to make this a good day for you.

Peace be with you SEC.

Raffi Ella

(4,465 posts)
177. My sympathies to you, SCE.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 05:18 PM
Aug 2014

What we have once enjoyed we can never lose...
All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. Helen Keller

tblue37

(65,340 posts)
183. I am so sorry to hear that.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 06:02 PM
Aug 2014

It doesn't matter how old you are, nor whether the passing was expected, losing one's mother is a terrible blow.

Just know that we on DU are thinking of you and wishing you comfort.


hue

(4,949 posts)
184. "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." Thomas Campbell
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 06:02 PM
Aug 2014

I'm sorry Sal. Yet I'm glad You can find some peace in knowing She is not suffering anymore. My Mother passed away a little more than a year ago.

Spiggitzfan

(35 posts)
192. I am so sorry
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 06:46 PM
Aug 2014

The loss of our mother is something that every adult whose mom has health issues dreads. We know it will come. We keep hoping somehow it won't, but we know it will. Knowing ahead of time doesn't make it easier- maybe it even makes it harder, because each little symptom gives us more suffering and dread to adapt to. I hope that when my mom dies I will be able to tell myself that she's not suffering anymore, but at that time I will probably be suffering myself too much for that to be of much comfort.
I am sorry for the both of you. Please remember that you are not alone.
Peace.

snappyturtle

(14,656 posts)
196. I am only one of many, but collectively we grieve with you.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 07:24 PM
Aug 2014

May you find some solace in the out pouring of sympathy. Love to you and your family.

GoCubsGo

(32,080 posts)
198. I am so sorry.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 07:32 PM
Aug 2014

I lost mine last month after a long illness, too. I know how much it suck, even though the suffering is over.

CherokeeDem

(3,709 posts)
206. My condolences...
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 08:49 PM
Aug 2014

May you, your family and friends find peace in her memory and knowing she had joined your father.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
227. It's a hurt that never heals.
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 02:41 AM
Aug 2014

A love that never leaves, and a memory that's always there. I am so sorry for your loss.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
232. I'm sorry, don't forget to take care of yourself
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 05:39 AM
Aug 2014

when my mom died, I went into my smoking room and didn't eat anything but ice cream, when I would remember to eat.
I sat and just vegged and got pneumonia because I didn't eat or sleep.
I bought a ticket to get across the country for the services and couldn't go because I was pretty close to death.
I was in the hospital for 10 days and home for 2 weeks more...never got to use the ticket either...840 down the united airlines toilet

Take care of yourself, don't do what I did.

Dave

6000eliot

(5,643 posts)
241. I'm so sorry for your loss, SalmonChantedEvening.
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 09:49 AM
Aug 2014

She must have been a great woman to raise such a caring, generous child.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
242. So very sorry for your loss...
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 09:51 AM
Aug 2014

I am happy she is no longer suffering but I am sure it is painful still. Big hugs to you and your family!

Crewleader

(17,005 posts)
246. You have my deepest sympathy my friend
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 04:31 PM
Aug 2014

It is great comfort knowing your mother is not suffering anymore. Rest In Peace Mom and Big Hug to You!

niyad

(113,279 posts)
248. my deepest sympathies and condolences to you and all who love her. your du family
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 09:28 PM
Aug 2014

is here for you. and yes, she and your father are together again.

Rhiannon12866

(205,264 posts)
249. I am so, so very sorry, my friend...
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 02:57 AM
Aug 2014

I lost my mother three years ago, accident, and my heart goes out to you. This really is one of the most difficult losses ever. Take good care of yourself and know that DU shares your sadness and we're here when you need us.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
251. "How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!"
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 08:36 PM
Aug 2014

"Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!"

--written by Canon Henry Scott Holland for a sermon he delivered in 1919 following the death of King Edward VII. it has become known as "death is nothing at all"

my heart is heavy with sadness for you.

i imagine your mom is, indeed, with your father and together they are trying to help you through this difficult time.

wishing you so very much comfort and peace.

Paula Sims

(877 posts)
252. We are so very sorry
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 09:29 PM
Aug 2014

I lost my Father 6 months ago so I know the pain.

No matter how much time you have with them, it is never enough.

Paula

kiva

(4,373 posts)
253. I am so sorry, SCE,
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 12:33 AM
Aug 2014

but happy for her that the pain is over...even though it means more pain for you. Take care my friend, it is a difficult time.

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