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Had a testicular hernia - Peritonial?. Mom is with him, but if you have a moment and pray, please pray for my Dad. He's a good man. He's doing well, though.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)My mom is staying with him over night.
It's some sort of thing where there was a bulge next to his testicles.
I didn't get all the information, I looked it up and I'm still confused, but he is doing well.
marym625
(17,997 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)He's doing well, came out of surgery, and Mom is with him. I talked to him, told him I loved him, and I think he will be okay.
marym625
(17,997 posts)But I am pretty sure this is a pretty common procedure. My dad had it and was fine. Hoping the same is true for your dad
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I worry about him. I know he is a pretty hale man, but I just hate him having to undergo surgery!
irisblue
(32,971 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)He sounds like he is doing well.
Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)and for you and your mum
Aerows
(39,961 posts)sheshe2
(83,751 posts)Best to you and yours, Aerows.
applegrove
(118,642 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I can't express how much it means that everyone has been so kind.
840high
(17,196 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I never thought I would have such support .
Thank you!
SunDrop23
(2,109 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)It is incredible how just something like a post means something to you.
snacker
(3,619 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)a lot. Good Vibes can heal the world. I'm pretty goofy at times, but I believe in it!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)& your mom & you!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You can't imagine how much it is appreciated
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)A perineal hernia occurs in the area behind the testicles (between the testicals and the anus). I understand it can be painful but surgery can fix it. Your dad will need to be on a special diet for a while until he heals up.
Good luck to him, your mom, yourself, and any other family members. Tell your mom and dad there are a lot of anonymous people wishing him well. (Evev somebody who lives not too far from your long-lost Minnesota cousins.)
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I cook for the family, and I specifically keep away from 'gouty' foods.
It is a challenge. Mom cant eat this, Dad cant eat that. I love them both, though, and do the best I can.
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)The diet to which I was referring is one that results in easy bowel movements. (It can be paindul otherwise.)
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm hoping that beans and rice will help.
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)That happened to me after back surgery.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I didn't know that was due to anesthesia. Thanks for that!
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)to give him something stronger than a simple stool softener, but yes, narcotics can make a person constipated.
KMOD
(7,906 posts)I'm glad to hear he is doing well.
I also am sending warm thoughts of strength to your mom. Hanging out in a hospital while caring for a loved one is no fun. I hope she is getting some rest as well.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It makes me smile.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,611 posts)Try not to worry. I know that's not easy...
I'm sure he will do well.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I appreciate it!
You are one of the most awesome DUers
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,611 posts)suffragette
(12,232 posts)And hugs to you.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I appreciate the hug!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)I had an inguinal hernia one time, so I feel for him.