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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Mon May 11, 2015, 06:39 PM May 2015

Another employment rejection.

I've probably applied and/or sent resumes to over 50 job postings since I graduated last December. I can find a job working in my field of study. I've had three offers. The problem is that I can't find anything that pays better than my truck driving gig. It's not like I'm really raking it in driving a truck, either. I made about $44,000 last year at a job I've been working at for over four years now. The best I've been able to run across in my job search is a sales gig starting at about 38k a year that I would have had to commute 1.5 hours for one way. I live a mile from work now. I think you might agree that it wasn't worth it.

The most promising lead I've had was for a local food distributor. I had an interview with the general manager. He told me before the interview nothing was available at the time, but he still wanted to talk to me. I got the impression that if something came up I'd be getting a call. Nope. Nada. Zip. Zilch. Nothing. That company regularly sends me e-mails of job postings, and I've applied for four positions that I'm qualified for, but I just keep getting rejected. I have yet another application and resume in with them for a management position. The company is heavily involved in transportation and I have almost 20 years of experience in that field. I also have a bachelor's degree in business and I graduated near the top of my class. You'd think a person like me would be an attractive recruit for them.

I suppose the job market is really tough right now, especially for good positions. I do have something working against me. I'm 42. I know I have been discriminated against for that on at least one occasion. It may have happened numerous times as far as I know.

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Another employment rejection. (Original Post) Tobin S. May 2015 OP
One step closer to acceptance, then. malthaussen May 2015 #1
Ha ha! I guess that's one way of looking at it. Tobin S. May 2015 #2
I'm so sorry, my dear Tobin... CaliforniaPeggy May 2015 #3
hope you find something soon Terra Alta May 2015 #4
In these Darkest Times seveneyes May 2015 #5
That rocks pretty good. Tobin S. May 2015 #8
It's better to consider promotion potential rather than starting pay Major Nikon May 2015 #6
I understand what you are saying. Tobin S. May 2015 #7
Many people are caught in that catch 22 Major Nikon May 2015 #9
a Pinta May 2015 #10
b hrmjustin May 2015 #11
2 b...or not 2 b. c? NRaleighLiberal May 2015 #12
We shall c. hrmjustin May 2015 #13
D'oh! kentauros May 2015 #21
Well played and no F for you. hrmjustin May 2015 #22
Gee, kentauros May 2015 #23
Ingenious! hrmjustin May 2015 #24
'k. kentauros May 2015 #25
Magnificent! hrmjustin May 2015 #26
Nodding kentauros May 2015 #28
Ok hrmjustin May 2015 #30
Que? kentauros May 2015 #32
Rote and sayings. hrmjustin May 2015 #33
Tata then, kentauros May 2015 #35
Very well! hrmjustin May 2015 #37
Xi (sigh) kentauros May 2015 #38
Zenith! hrmjustin May 2015 #40
Yoiks! kentauros May 2015 #41
Lol I guess i forgot my abc's. hrmjustin May 2015 #42
And the one-post wonder still exists! kentauros May 2015 #43
My pleasure my friend! hrmjustin May 2015 #44
Glad to see you hanging in the Lounge, too! kentauros May 2015 #45
Good to be here. hrmjustin May 2015 #46
C2Be || !ToBe seveneyes May 2015 #36
"Switch you"? kentauros May 2015 #39
c what i c? Terra Alta May 2015 #14
. hrmjustin May 2015 #15
going to have to give you a "D"! NRaleighLiberal May 2015 #16
e i o u vowels, consonants now shall we ? nt steve2470 May 2015 #17
What about 'w'? kentauros May 2015 #27
I see y listed also, interesting! nt steve2470 May 2015 #29
We call it "double-u" yet no one ever seems to take advantage of that fact. kentauros May 2015 #31
hang in there Tobin, I know it's very rough out there steve2470 May 2015 #18
Don't give up Tobin S. You'll find the right job. icymist May 2015 #19
Keep at it BainsBane May 2015 #20
I know a lot of people around here are against using a contractor, kentauros May 2015 #34
Your age is a virtue... CanSocDem May 2015 #47
It's called "needing to pay bills." Tobin S. May 2015 #56
Are you willing/able to move? alarimer May 2015 #48
You may have to re-locate Yavin4 May 2015 #49
All You Need is One Yes Sparhawk60 May 2015 #50
At least you got a response - even if it was bad. bikebloke May 2015 #51
Keep looking. dawg May 2015 #52
What is your field of study? discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2015 #53
If you're still working now then you can be patient and wait lunatica May 2015 #54
All it takes is one Generic Brad May 2015 #55
I feel like you are on the cusp of something happening. Kali May 2015 #57
There is a school of thought about getting a job that goes like this; Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2015 #58

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
6. It's better to consider promotion potential rather than starting pay
Mon May 11, 2015, 08:17 PM
May 2015

A job with a good starting pay, but no potential to earn more is worse long term than a job that starts low, but has good opportunities for advancement.

Few companies are going to risk much on new hires. You just never know what you're going to get. Someone who looks good on paper may be a dud and vice versa.

Even if the starting pay is low, experience in the field you want also has value if most others are making good money.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
7. I understand what you are saying.
Mon May 11, 2015, 09:15 PM
May 2015

But I can't afford to take a pay cut. It's as simple as that. I'm barely getting by as it is.

The ideal job would be one making at least what I am making now with greater income potential.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
9. Many people are caught in that catch 22
Mon May 11, 2015, 09:24 PM
May 2015

Especially older workers who are trying to change career directions.

The only hope you may have is trying to negotiate with your prospective employer for a higher salary. So it's good to have a plan for this. Be prepared to tell them what you have to offer over most other prospects. Things like experience(even if not directly related), demonstration of past reliability, and sometimes even volunteer activities are good to throw at them if you get a job offer.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
45. Glad to see you hanging in the Lounge, too!
Mon May 11, 2015, 10:41 PM
May 2015

It can be a fun place, when it's not in turmoil over boxed-wine, cornflake-encrusted furry-breasted-chickens, and so forth

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
31. We call it "double-u" yet no one ever seems to take advantage of that fact.
Mon May 11, 2015, 10:18 PM
May 2015

There is one instance where I can: when yelling in my car at over-cautious BMW drivers. "Be moving, BMUU!"

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
20. Keep at it
Mon May 11, 2015, 09:49 PM
May 2015

You'll find something. One thing to keep in mind besides starting salary is room for advancement. Even if you start near your current salary, there may be ways to move through the organization so that your long-term earning potential is greater than in your current position.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
34. I know a lot of people around here are against using a contractor,
Mon May 11, 2015, 10:21 PM
May 2015

yet in my field (mapping, drafting) it's truly the only way to get work. And I'm 54. Can you work through a contractor in your field?

 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
47. Your age is a virtue...
Tue May 12, 2015, 10:20 AM
May 2015


...not a vice. It represents the years of wisdom you have accumulated. It has allowed you to formulate the kind of life you want. It has given you time to improve yourself and strengthen your contribution to the public good.

The best thing about a post-secondary education is the exposure it provides, to the larger world. The same can be said about 'driving a truck'.

How did it all come down to how much money you can make?


.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
56. It's called "needing to pay bills."
Wed May 13, 2015, 05:34 AM
May 2015

Life not all about making money, but the reality is that it costs a lot of money to live in America. I can't take a job that puts me below the bottom line unless I want to declare bankruptcy.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
48. Are you willing/able to move?
Tue May 12, 2015, 10:50 AM
May 2015

Possibly there might be opportunities elsewhere.

I've run in to this time and again in my field (which is, admittedly, not a very big one and pretty specialized, to boot, so the advice may not hold in other fields). It is no guarantee of anything, though. Sometimes (and this is my experience) you take a job in another state, at a higher salary, only to end up taking home less because of taxes and whatnot. And of course, local cost of living is an important consideration. $45,000 in San Francisco or Washington, DC does not go far enough to even buy food for most people.

And of course, your personal situation may mean moving is not an option. But I have always counseled some of my younger technicians right out of college that moving is a necessity in order to advance, given the limited positions in our field.

Yavin4

(35,438 posts)
49. You may have to re-locate
Tue May 12, 2015, 10:51 AM
May 2015

The area that you're living in may not be the best for you in terms of opportunities.

 

Sparhawk60

(359 posts)
50. All You Need is One Yes
Tue May 12, 2015, 11:15 AM
May 2015

I am also looking for a job with out much luck, however; I know that all I need is one yes and I am set. My better job offer may come in tomorrow, or in 6 months from tomorrow, but it will come.

bikebloke

(5,260 posts)
51. At least you got a response - even if it was bad.
Tue May 12, 2015, 02:49 PM
May 2015

I've applied for jobs and they don't even send a rejection.

dawg

(10,624 posts)
52. Keep looking.
Tue May 12, 2015, 04:30 PM
May 2015

You're still young enough.

But I do think you will be better off in the long-run with a job that won't require you to drive. Especially if it looks like you will have to work well past age 62 (which is basically all of us these days).

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
54. If you're still working now then you can be patient and wait
Tue May 12, 2015, 04:53 PM
May 2015

for the right job to come along.

Did you get a professional to do your resume? You'd be surprised how good they can make you look.

Also, don't feel shy about calling the people who interviewed you and asking about the opening. You've got nothing to lose by doing that and you have everything to gain. I've gotten a couple of jobs because I called them and let them know I was very interested in working for them. At worst they'll tell you they picked someone else and then you can just move on without having to wait endlessly.

I'm sure you'll get a job soon.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
55. All it takes is one
Tue May 12, 2015, 11:04 PM
May 2015

It just hasn't found you yet. Focus on all the things you have to offer and all of your skills. Make a conscious effort to emphasize the positive. Just don't give up.

I see you have Bernie Sanders as your avatar. Does Bernie get discouraged? Does he listen to the nay sayers? Hell, no. He knows in his heart that he is the best person for the job he is seeking and no one can tell him otherwise. Be like Bernie and keep going for it! I have confidence that you will get where you want to go.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
57. I feel like you are on the cusp of something happening.
Wed May 13, 2015, 10:04 PM
May 2015

hang in there, it just feels like you are going to have a door open or some "event" that will be the answer.

any thoughts about starting your own company?

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,571 posts)
58. There is a school of thought about getting a job that goes like this;
Wed May 13, 2015, 11:27 PM
May 2015

1- do some homework on where you want to work and what companies can use a person with your education, experience, skills and age. this can be based on the product, the vision, the values of the company. it could also be based on how far you want to commute.
2- once you identify this company, find out who has the power to hire you. ask everyone you know if they know anyone in this company. if they say yes, ask them to introduce you to that person.
3- get in front of the person who makes the decision. once you talk to the decision maker, you are in the right spot. All the other people in the process are just gatekeepers and they don't want to make a mistake.

Good Luck. Ageism does exist..........

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