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when/where did you lose your virginity? (Original Post) nastynaven Jun 2015 OP
16 Facility Inspector Jun 2015 #1
awesome nastynaven Jun 2015 #2
Now that's one hell of a second post! KamaAina Jun 2015 #10
Brother! nt Xipe Totec Jun 2015 #22
my dad went to high school in Del Rio OriginalGeek Jun 2015 #41
Same in tijuana safeinOhio Jun 2015 #50
This message was self-deleted by its author panader0 Jun 2015 #59
Don't spend all your money on just any honey that's prone. panader0 Jun 2015 #60
Let's drive that ol' Chrysler to Mexico boy. Facility Inspector Jun 2015 #63
In 1992 in a 1988 Toyota Corolla NightWatcher Jun 2015 #3
Love it. Bertha Venation Jun 2015 #5
Room 132, Lower Rear, Hotchkiss Hall Bertha Venation Jun 2015 #4
must have been fun nastynaven Jun 2015 #6
Nastynaven, it was life-changing. Bertha Venation Jun 2015 #18
I was 14 and in my senior year in high school. My prom date Exilednight Jun 2015 #7
14 and in your senior year in high school?! KamaAina Jun 2015 #11
I can't be that smart. I'm not part of Exilednight Jun 2015 #12
Nor am I. KamaAina Jun 2015 #13
University of Chicago had the honor of graduating me. I'm probably Exilednight Jun 2015 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #51
On second thought... Iggo Jun 2015 #8
Saybrook College at Yale, September 1983 KamaAina Jun 2015 #9
Which one of you was the bouncy emote? Exilednight Jun 2015 #14
Well, me, obviously KamaAina Jun 2015 #15
July 18 1977, Grand Valley State College, summer session irisblue Jun 2015 #17
Howdy fellow Laker! I lost mine in #101 Copeland Hall, February 1974. catbyte Jun 2015 #44
I lived in Copeland when I started school in 1975! irisblue Jun 2015 #46
A few hours after my wedding Shrek Jun 2015 #19
Chattanooga shenmue Jun 2015 #20
It was springtime in 1962. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #21
Beautiful photos and song JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2015 #37
It was a dark and stormy night... pinboy3niner Jun 2015 #23
Hold it! Snoopy's not a virgin? rurallib Jun 2015 #25
I know it's traumatic, but lucky for you the doctor is in... pinboy3niner Jun 2015 #38
1975 I was 19 TexasBushwhacker Jun 2015 #24
very American way. rurallib Jun 2015 #26
This one time at band camp. dballance Jun 2015 #27
If I told you, you wouldn't believe me. A HERETIC I AM Jun 2015 #28
20. The Phillippines. Cash. n/t UTUSN Jun 2015 #29
Age 19 or 20 Dyedinthewoolliberal Jun 2015 #30
18, college elleng Jun 2015 #31
I worked at a Jewish sorority. AngryAmish Jun 2015 #32
With a girl at 12 and a guy at 15. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #33
MUSICAL INTERLUDE..... MADem Jun 2015 #34
do you mean like with another person ? olddots Jun 2015 #35
17th green of the golf club near my college, fall of 1966. I was a freshman, she was a sophomore. Scuba Jun 2015 #36
Senior year in high school, 1969, La Jolla, CA mnhtnbb Jun 2015 #39
I never lost mine. auntAgonist Jun 2015 #40
In a lady's bedroom, in her parents home at 3:00 in the morning. We heard her father coming... BlueJazz Jun 2015 #42
Who says I have? mysuzuki2 Jun 2015 #43
To be precise DFW Jun 2015 #45
There I was, in ancient Judea, about 2016 years ago, hangin' with a dude named Joe, Arugula Latte Jun 2015 #47
1973. Age 18. West Caldwell, NJ. DamnYankeeInHouston Jun 2015 #48
It appears us Dems loose our virginity later than Repubs olddots Jun 2015 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo Jun 2015 #65
The summer before I turned 15. Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #52
19 and on the bluffs overlooking the ghostsinthemachine Jun 2015 #53
Jan. 13, 2004 in the DU Lounge. bigwillq Jun 2015 #54
Since we are being honest...here is how she untamed me seveneyes Jun 2015 #55
At the Chicken Ranch in La Grange, Texas El Supremo Jun 2015 #56
Now I am forced to post this CrawlingChaos Jun 2015 #62
1989 NewJeffCT Jun 2015 #57
On the dirt access road OxQQme Jun 2015 #58
Probably never (nt) LostOne4Ever Jun 2015 #61
If I knew where it was, it wouldn't be lost, would it? struggle4progress Jun 2015 #64
at 18... at my house... TWICE within a week! Rhythm Jun 2015 #66

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
41. my dad went to high school in Del Rio
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

We went there once when I was 9 or 10 but I think I missed that neighborhood...

Response to Facility Inspector (Reply #1)

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
3. In 1992 in a 1988 Toyota Corolla
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 02:53 PM
Jun 2015

Was a clerk at a video rental store. It was Fall of junior year in high school. It was a wonderful time to be alive, grunge was in style and she had maroon hair that matched my Doc Martens.

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
4. Room 132, Lower Rear, Hotchkiss Hall
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 02:57 PM
Jun 2015

Los Angeles Baptist College. September, 1981. (I was 18 years old.)

Added points: I am a lesbian.

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
18. Nastynaven, it was life-changing.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:44 PM
Jun 2015

Note I didn't say life-affirming.

The first several months were wonderful. Changed my life.

The last two years were terrifying. Changed my life.

But I'm good now!

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
7. I was 14 and in my senior year in high school. My prom date
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:33 PM
Jun 2015

Took pity on me. We did it in the pool house behind her house after the dance.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
13. Nor am I.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:09 PM
Jun 2015

My cum laude Ivy League degree has landed me in a cube pulling down 38,000 American dollars per annum.

Exilednight

(9,359 posts)
16. University of Chicago had the honor of graduating me. I'm probably
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:13 PM
Jun 2015

One of the few alums they don't ask for a donation from.

Response to Exilednight (Reply #7)

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
9. Saybrook College at Yale, September 1983
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 03:59 PM
Jun 2015

It all started at a crowded SAC (Student Activities Committee) party in Branford College (dorm) next door. The line at the kegs was so ridiculous that I got two beers. Next thing I know, there she was, asking me for one (and getting it ). And a couple of dates later...

irisblue

(33,083 posts)
17. July 18 1977, Grand Valley State College, summer session
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 04:33 PM
Jun 2015

First women I had ever slow danced with the local LGBT bar, Three Suns +1. I still have a weakness for blue eyes and dark hair.

catbyte

(34,588 posts)
44. Howdy fellow Laker! I lost mine in #101 Copeland Hall, February 1974.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 04:53 PM
Jun 2015

I was with the first guy I ever loved. We parted ways in 1976. We reconnected via Facebook in 2012 when I ran across his name & sent a friend request. I discovered his wife of 34 years was dying of ALS & my husband of almost 30 years was in a nursing home dying of the ravages of Type I DM he contracted when he was 4. In a horrible coincidence, I lost my dad to ALS in 2000. We lost both of our spouses (he in 2013, mine in 2014.) We are back together and really, really happy. He lives in Lansing; I live in GR. I retired in February from GVSU after working there for 34 years.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,264 posts)
24. 1975 I was 19
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 08:13 PM
Jun 2015

I went on vacation BY MYSELF to a Club Med in Mexico. I had been hanging with a guy in his mid 20s. We did it on the beach, under the moonlight.

rurallib

(62,514 posts)
26. very American way.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 09:28 PM
Jun 2015

back seat of my car on a lonely road with my girlfriend. Summer before junior year.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
27. This one time at band camp.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 09:34 PM
Jun 2015

Seriously, yes. I lost my virginity to my roommate at band camp. FYI, yes, we are both male.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,386 posts)
28. If I told you, you wouldn't believe me.
Mon Jun 15, 2015, 09:55 PM
Jun 2015

Suffice to say, It wasn't the old fashioned, awkward, one-on one type thingy there.

 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
36. 17th green of the golf club near my college, fall of 1966. I was a freshman, she was a sophomore.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:05 AM
Jun 2015
 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
42. In a lady's bedroom, in her parents home at 3:00 in the morning. We heard her father coming...
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 03:12 PM
Jun 2015

...up the stairs. He opened her door and said: "Are you ok? I thought I heard hollering" I slid between the bed and the wall (on the floor)...shaking like a scared 18 year old should. After he let we went back to the task at hand. About 3:30 I crawled out her second story window (I got in that way). On the way home I was feeling pretty damn good. We had more of our ...ah...rendezvous ..a lot more.
I still think of her fondly.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
47. There I was, in ancient Judea, about 2016 years ago, hangin' with a dude named Joe,
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 05:30 PM
Jun 2015

and then the next thing I know there's this Jewish sky god called Yahweh knockin' me up. But I'm still a virgin. Uh, yeah...that's the ticket.

DamnYankeeInHouston

(1,365 posts)
48. 1973. Age 18. West Caldwell, NJ.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 06:48 PM
Jun 2015

I was sure I was the only one to graduate high school still a virgin. Took care of that Freshman year in college. The 70s were a great time to be young.

Response to olddots (Reply #49)

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
52. The summer before I turned 15.
Wed Jun 17, 2015, 02:23 AM
Jun 2015

We met at church camp. At 16, he was the experienced older man. The first time was on a blanket outside at night on the front range of the Rockies outside of Colorado Springs. I didn't really enjoy it, although I wasn't forced.

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
53. 19 and on the bluffs overlooking the
Wed Jun 17, 2015, 05:59 PM
Jun 2015

American River and Folsom. Not far from where I live today and walk up there all the time. I enjoyed it. I've had a recurring affair with that girl for 40 years and we talk frequently.

OxQQme

(2,550 posts)
58. On the dirt access road
Wed Jun 17, 2015, 09:33 PM
Jun 2015

underneath the "OO"s of the Hollywood sign in the back seat of my parents '49 Chevy in 1958.
High school sweety.
First day of summer vacation.
A graduation present.
I lasted 30 seconds.
The first time.

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
66. at 18... at my house... TWICE within a week!
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 12:00 AM
Jun 2015

At the beginning of the week -- cutting school and went home with my ex-b/f...
Not a bad experience, but no fireworks or alarm bells.


End of the week -- girlfriend of the past few weeks, hanging out at my house over the weekend while my parents were out of town!

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