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I was 19 in boarding school.
It was pretty lame to say the least.
Facility Inspector
(615 posts)Red Light District, Ciudad Acuna, Mexico
nastynaven
(68 posts)That's classic.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Welcome! (or should I say !Bienvenidos!? )
Xipe Totec
(43,901 posts)OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)We went there once when I was 9 or 10 but I think I missed that neighborhood...
safeinOhio
(32,807 posts)and robbed at knife point while there.
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panader0
(25,816 posts)Facility Inspector
(615 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)Was a clerk at a video rental store. It was Fall of junior year in high school. It was a wonderful time to be alive, grunge was in style and she had maroon hair that matched my Doc Martens.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Los Angeles Baptist College. September, 1981. (I was 18 years old.)
Added points: I am a lesbian.
nastynaven
(68 posts)You remember the room and address and everything.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Note I didn't say life-affirming.
The first several months were wonderful. Changed my life.
The last two years were terrifying. Changed my life.
But I'm good now!
Exilednight
(9,359 posts)Took pity on me. We did it in the pool house behind her house after the dance.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)I thought I was smart for being one year ahead!
Exilednight
(9,359 posts)The 1% club.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)My cum laude Ivy League degree has landed me in a cube pulling down 38,000 American dollars per annum.
Exilednight
(9,359 posts)One of the few alums they don't ask for a donation from.
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Iggo
(47,627 posts)....carry on, people.
Nothing to see here.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)It all started at a crowded SAC (Student Activities Committee) party in Branford College (dorm) next door. The line at the kegs was so ridiculous that I got two beers. Next thing I know, there she was, asking me for one (and getting it ). And a couple of dates later...
Exilednight
(9,359 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)turned out she'd done it before.
irisblue
(33,083 posts)First women I had ever slow danced with the local LGBT bar, Three Suns +1. I still have a weakness for blue eyes and dark hair.
catbyte
(34,588 posts)I was with the first guy I ever loved. We parted ways in 1976. We reconnected via Facebook in 2012 when I ran across his name & sent a friend request. I discovered his wife of 34 years was dying of ALS & my husband of almost 30 years was in a nursing home dying of the ravages of Type I DM he contracted when he was 4. In a horrible coincidence, I lost my dad to ALS in 2000. We lost both of our spouses (he in 2013, mine in 2014.) We are back together and really, really happy. He lives in Lansing; I live in GR. I retired in February from GVSU after working there for 34 years.
irisblue
(33,083 posts)small world
Shrek
(3,988 posts)In the honeymoon suite at the Hilton.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,409 posts)I only wish my first time had lasted as long as that piece of music.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Oh, wait...that was Snoopy losing his virginity...
rurallib
(62,514 posts)There goes all my boyhood beliefs. Dog gone it! What a cur.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,264 posts)I went on vacation BY MYSELF to a Club Med in Mexico. I had been hanging with a guy in his mid 20s. We did it on the beach, under the moonlight.
rurallib
(62,514 posts)back seat of my car on a lonely road with my girlfriend. Summer before junior year.
dballance
(5,756 posts)Seriously, yes. I lost my virginity to my roommate at band camp. FYI, yes, we are both male.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,386 posts)Suffice to say, It wasn't the old fashioned, awkward, one-on one type thingy there.
UTUSN
(70,856 posts)Dyedinthewoolliberal
(15,628 posts)House of Ill Repute (how's that for a euphemism?) in Tijuana, Mexico
edited for spelling
elleng
(131,629 posts)freshman, boyfriend's fraternity house. Nice guy. I planned it.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Earned the golden napkin award.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Both were at their homes.
MADem
(135,425 posts)Relates somewhat to this thread...
olddots
(10,237 posts)I wish it was with Ursalla Andress but the 60s were tuff .
Scuba
(53,475 posts)mnhtnbb
(31,450 posts)at my boyfriend's house.
auntAgonist
(17,252 posts)I gave it as a gift
corny I know, but you did ask.
aA
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...up the stairs. He opened her door and said: "Are you ok? I thought I heard hollering" I slid between the bed and the wall (on the floor)...shaking like a scared 18 year old should. After he let we went back to the task at hand. About 3:30 I crawled out her second story window (I got in that way). On the way home I was feeling pretty damn good. We had more of our ...ah...rendezvous ..a lot more.
I still think of her fondly.
mysuzuki2
(3,521 posts)DFW
(54,593 posts)"A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away....."
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)and then the next thing I know there's this Jewish sky god called Yahweh knockin' me up. But I'm still a virgin. Uh, yeah...that's the ticket.
DamnYankeeInHouston
(1,365 posts)I was sure I was the only one to graduate high school still a virgin. Took care of that Freshman year in college. The 70s were a great time to be young.
olddots
(10,237 posts)or we are alot more honest .
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Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)We met at church camp. At 16, he was the experienced older man. The first time was on a blanket outside at night on the front range of the Rockies outside of Colorado Springs. I didn't really enjoy it, although I wasn't forced.
ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)American River and Folsom. Not far from where I live today and walk up there all the time. I enjoyed it. I've had a recurring affair with that girl for 40 years and we talk frequently.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)seveneyes
(4,631 posts)El Supremo
(20,365 posts)I was 18. I'm not lying.
CrawlingChaos
(1,893 posts)I guess you knew somebody would
NewJeffCT
(56,829 posts)right outside the campus of the University of Connecticut.
OxQQme
(2,550 posts)underneath the "OO"s of the Hollywood sign in the back seat of my parents '49 Chevy in 1958.
High school sweety.
First day of summer vacation.
A graduation present.
I lasted 30 seconds.
The first time.
LostOne4Ever
(9,309 posts)struggle4progress
(118,379 posts)Rhythm
(5,435 posts)At the beginning of the week -- cutting school and went home with my ex-b/f...
Not a bad experience, but no fireworks or alarm bells.
End of the week -- girlfriend of the past few weeks, hanging out at my house over the weekend while my parents were out of town!
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