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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:05 PM May 2017

I need to brag on myself for a minute.

I hopped on the scales this morning and weighed in at 275.8. That's down from 356.4 in April of last year. This week marks the 80 pound loss mark for me. I'm looking to get down to 230.

I fell so much better. The fact that I quit drinking also has something to do with that. There was a time in my life when I didn't think I could live happily without booze and cigarettes. July 5th will mark my fifth anniversary of quitting tobacco and I quit drinking last September. I feel great.

I'm becoming the person I've wanted to be almost since I started my bad habits, but couldn't until now: sober and healthy.

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I need to brag on myself for a minute. (Original Post) Tobin S. May 2017 OP
Congrats mythology May 2017 #1
That is fantastic! Congrats! flor-de-jasmim May 2017 #2
You certainly deserve to brag on yourself, my dear Tobin! CaliforniaPeggy May 2017 #3
That is a huge effort MuseRider May 2017 #4
Keep up the good work Scarsdale May 2017 #71
Great discipline and you are an inspiration to all those attempting to quit bad habits democratisphere May 2017 #5
That's very impressive, Tobin! Ron Obvious May 2017 #6
You should be very proud of yourself randr May 2017 #7
YAY..Tis a great feeling, indeed. Tikki May 2017 #8
You are now no longer carrying four spare tires on your back! forgotmylogin May 2017 #9
Well done. Congratulations. RelativelyJones May 2017 #10
Good job, good effort! FM123 May 2017 #11
Excellent. Congrats. underpants May 2017 #12
Good news, and thanks for sharing it with us. No Vested Interest May 2017 #13
Congratulations! Your loss is your gain :P luvMIdog May 2017 #14
Double congrats!!! You were able to do this after Trump!!! LeftInTX May 2017 #15
Mazel tov! That's some dedication, good going! JudyM May 2017 #16
Well I am IMPRESSED! Well done! CurtEastPoint May 2017 #17
Very good! Key to keeping it off is to eat well: nutritiously & only enough to satisfy hunger. Bernardo de La Paz May 2017 #18
!!!!!!!fantastic!!!! Motley13 May 2017 #19
Is very hard for people to change their behavior, and I salute you Tobin for doing so. NBachers May 2017 #20
k and r..nt Stuart G May 2017 #21
You are to be HIGHLY commended!!!! CONGRATS BigBearJohn May 2017 #22
You are awesome! Ilsa May 2017 #23
Wow! Generic Brad May 2017 #24
You Go! crosinski May 2017 #25
You win the DU will power award, Great job! N_E_1 for Tennis May 2017 #26
Woo Hoo!!! You're a sexy devil, now!!!! Honeycombe8 May 2017 #27
Congratulations, Tobin S. Well done. Give yourself an attaboy. sarge43 May 2017 #28
Congrats!!! Sophiegirl May 2017 #29
Well done! GeoWilliam750 May 2017 #30
Congrats, Tobin! elleng May 2017 #31
Good on you !!!! nt trocar May 2017 #32
PHENOMENAL!!! Congrats ... neither booze nor nicotine are easy to up and quit ... many cannot ... mr_lebowski May 2017 #33
You are doing an amazing job!! GreenPartyVoter May 2017 #34
That is awesome! MelissaB May 2017 #35
Amazing self discipline radical noodle May 2017 #36
I'VE READ EVERY REPLY AND YOU ALL ARE VERY KIND! Tobin S. May 2017 #37
That's great!! Ligyron May 2017 #38
Here's a better way to do the math: Towlie May 2017 #39
You, Tobin S., should be mighty proud. democrank May 2017 #40
How about that feeling of being in control, and the lift... SaveOurDemocracy May 2017 #41
best news all day grantcart May 2017 #42
Congratulations!!! TxDemChem May 2017 #43
Good for you! William769 May 2017 #44
I find the Fitbit Surge has been fantastic for me,as it keeps OnDoutside May 2017 #56
Congrats!! Keep it going!! Thor_MN May 2017 #45
That Is awesome iamateacher May 2017 #46
+1 onetexan May 2017 #48
YAY! Good for you! Mountain Mule May 2017 #47
Congrats to you that is awesome LostinRed May 2017 #49
Lost nearly 6 stone ?!? THAT is some willpower! Congrats. FailureToCommunicate May 2017 #50
Keep it up. SonofDonald May 2017 #51
Way to go! wryter2000 May 2017 #52
Brag all you want rock May 2017 #53
Congratulations, Tobin! gademocrat7 May 2017 #54
Wow! Don't even know you and yet I'm so proud of you! SticksnStones May 2017 #55
Good results! shenmue May 2017 #57
Awesome!! GaYellowDawg May 2017 #58
Great job, Tobin! mnhtnbb May 2017 #59
Congrats! OrwellwasRight May 2017 #60
thank you for giving up cigarettes. I can smell one half a block away. The ammonia demigoddess May 2017 #61
Congratulations!! Doreen May 2017 #62
Congratulations Tobin S. ! montana_hazeleyes May 2017 #63
Holy Crap Tobin! denbot May 2017 #64
Well Done! LittleGirl May 2017 #65
I quit smoking for 10 years then promptly smoked another 20 before finally quitting. flying_wahini May 2017 #74
Congratulations, Tobin S.! Lyricalinklines May 2017 #66
Good to brag at times. That's quite a feat. I should brag more often. applegrove May 2017 #67
Congratulations volstork May 2017 #68
Well done! DFW May 2017 #69
It has to be inspiring for your wife too TexasBushwhacker May 2017 #70
You SHOULD be proud! anniebelle May 2017 #72
Wonderful and awesome! PennyK May 2017 #73
Thousands of supporters Roy Rolling May 2017 #75
Congratulations! This is certainly worth a little bit of "bragging." nt tblue37 May 2017 #76
That is absolutely terrific! SharonAnn May 2017 #77
Hooray, Tobin! I know how much dedication it takes. nolabear May 2017 #78

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
3. You certainly deserve to brag on yourself, my dear Tobin!
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:08 PM
May 2017

Either one of those accomplishments would be brag-worthy..............but both?

Wow.

I know you're feeling good! Keep on keepin' on.



MuseRider

(34,108 posts)
4. That is a huge effort
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:11 PM
May 2017

congratulations! I think you can count that one of your good, healthy traits is determination. Those are 3 really hard things to quit or control. I am impressed.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
71. Keep up the good work
Mon May 29, 2017, 06:15 AM
May 2017

Congratulations, what an achievement. So happy for you. This is not bragging, it is a statement and an excellent one.

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
5. Great discipline and you are an inspiration to all those attempting to quit bad habits
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:13 PM
May 2017

and a lousy lifestyle. Good luck getting to your ultimate goal, I know you can do it!

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
8. YAY..Tis a great feeling, indeed.
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:16 PM
May 2017

It only gets better, Tobin...CONGRATULATIONS

I have been down that path and unabashedly congratulate myself and all others
who want to and do...smoke no more and drink no more.

As I get older I am becoming more like my role model, my late mother-in-law.

She would want me to be true to myself...but breaking unhealthy habits is how I feel good about myself.

Tikki

forgotmylogin

(7,528 posts)
9. You are now no longer carrying four spare tires on your back!
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:19 PM
May 2017

An entire set of tires weighs 81 pounds.


Congratulations!

underpants

(182,791 posts)
12. Excellent. Congrats.
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:29 PM
May 2017

I lost 60 back in 2007 and have kept it off. Makes you feel completely different, huh?

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
18. Very good! Key to keeping it off is to eat well: nutritiously & only enough to satisfy hunger.
Sun May 28, 2017, 04:46 PM
May 2017

If you get your nutrition, your body doesn't crave food.

Then, having got sufficient nutrition, including bulk and fiber, then you can indulge in some tasty treats so that your mind won't crave food. Of course, you are now discovering or have been for perhaps five years that there is a world of delicious tastes and many of them are low calorie. This is important because focusing on nutrition and taste are central.

But, I am sure that you are learning all this quite handily on your own.

Keep up the good work! Weight that took a long time to pile on should not come off too quickly, but you are doing it well!

P.S. It's "brag about myself".

crosinski

(411 posts)
25. You Go!
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:05 PM
May 2017

Gods above, I know how hard it is to lose weight! I'm down 10 and up 8, rinse and repeat.

But now you, YOU, know how to DO this thing!

Sophiegirl

(2,338 posts)
29. Congrats!!!
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:12 PM
May 2017

Well deserved pat on the back.

I quite smoking Feb 2016. Major improvement in my health. I KNOW you feel better.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
33. PHENOMENAL!!! Congrats ... neither booze nor nicotine are easy to up and quit ... many cannot ...
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:18 PM
May 2017

Keep on keeping on!!!

Towlie

(5,324 posts)
39. Here's a better way to do the math:
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:40 PM
May 2017

I accomplished a large weight loss myself but I didn't motivate myself with simple arithmetic, I oped for higher math. I kept track of my daily weight and calculated the derivative. That is, the rate of my weight change with respect to time. I set a realistic goal of reaching my desired weight by a certain calendar date and I made sure at all times that my weight-loss rate was going to get me there.

My advice is don't play around with addition and subtraction, and don't allow yourself to interpret "not as overweight as I used to be" as success, because it's not. Success is achieving your proper weight and then adopting a life-style that keeps you there. Start calculating the ratio of your weight change to time elapsed, and as long it's a negative number you at least know you're going in the right direction and if you keep it up, you're going to get there sooner or later.





SaveOurDemocracy

(4,400 posts)
41. How about that feeling of being in control, and the lift...
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:48 PM
May 2017

...in confidence that comes with those accomplishments? I don't know you but I feel very proud of you.

You could teach that squatter in our White House what winning looks like.

William769

(55,146 posts)
44. Good for you!
Sun May 28, 2017, 05:55 PM
May 2017

My weight loss is not as good as yours but for health reason I need to shed weight also.

Two moths ago I was at 270 today I am at 250. I would love to get back to 200 but I'll settle for 230.

OnDoutside

(19,956 posts)
56. I find the Fitbit Surge has been fantastic for me,as it keeps
Sun May 28, 2017, 06:52 PM
May 2017

Me accountable. I have my Bluetooth headphones and I walk for my 5000+ steps a day listening to my Rachel or Randi podcasts.

SonofDonald

(2,050 posts)
51. Keep it up.
Sun May 28, 2017, 06:24 PM
May 2017

It can be done, you've found the willpower to get this far and believe me that is the most important thing.

I drank heavily for years, I came back down south after 17 years in bush Alaska, up there if you have a thirst you will drink.

I've been sober for 20 years four months and eight days and luckily I don't have any cravings for the drink.

I also weighed around 275 pounds after shattering my right leg and not working.

I lost 45 pounds in four months after going back to work, it can be done, believe in yourself and remind yourself every morning when you get up.

You are on the right track, you wouldn't be where you are if you weren't.

Keep on fighting.

GaYellowDawg

(4,446 posts)
58. Awesome!!
Sun May 28, 2017, 07:05 PM
May 2017

You've done a great job! Didn't it feel awesome the first time that number started with a 2? I started my weight loss back in November 2014 and I've gone from 350 to 228. 190 is my goal now.

But great for you! You should pat yourself on the back every day for all the hard work you've done. Your journey has been a lot harder than mine; I have never smoked and I might have alcohol 3-4 times a year. So you've stopped drinking, stopped smoking, and lost weight? You are a champ!!

mnhtnbb

(31,386 posts)
59. Great job, Tobin!
Sun May 28, 2017, 07:17 PM
May 2017


I have been trying to give up booze--down to one cocktail/day and no wine--but it's tough. Especially with the state of the world!

Good for you!

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
61. thank you for giving up cigarettes. I can smell one half a block away. The ammonia
Sun May 28, 2017, 09:28 PM
May 2017

in them alone will kill you.

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
63. Congratulations Tobin S. !
Sun May 28, 2017, 10:00 PM
May 2017

You have done a great job tackling these things that adversely affect your physical health and it has helped you feel better in many ways.

LittleGirl

(8,287 posts)
65. Well Done!
Sun May 28, 2017, 11:58 PM
May 2017

You've inspired me to keep my goal. I want to quit smoking on June 1st. For the last time already.

I quit for 5 yrs and let stress get me hooked again. I need to lay off the alcohol as well as I've let that get to easy. I climbed the hill today near my neighborhood and I did better than expected. I want to have a post like yours someday. I don't need to lose a massive amount of weight just 15-20 lbs and quit smoking and enjoy alcohol rather than 'need' it.

I'm very happy for you. Thanks for sharing your story! Cheers!

flying_wahini

(6,593 posts)
74. I quit smoking for 10 years then promptly smoked another 20 before finally quitting.
Mon May 29, 2017, 09:35 AM
May 2017

Chantix is a miracle drug and I can't tell you what a life changing thing it has been.
Also my insurance paid for it 100%.

I never thought I would ever be able to quit. Consider it.

applegrove

(118,642 posts)
67. Good to brag at times. That's quite a feat. I should brag more often.
Mon May 29, 2017, 03:03 AM
May 2017

Last Friday I was having dinner with a group of people, some of whom I don't know so well. I told a story about how I didn't know internet vernacular when I first started interacting online. I made a joke and some did an IOI. I thought that is mean calling me an absolute zero (two bars vertical bars separated by a zero is the scientific symbol for absolute zero. Of course they were LOL laughing out loud). Supposed to be funny. I used to be self effacing all the time. One person there at dinner thought it was a sign of my insecurity. She looked sad for me. I thought to myself I don't brag enough. Then they'd see my self effacingness as a strength rather than a sign of weakness. So brag away. Share the good with us too. There are strengths and weaknesses in all of us. Losing 80 pounds is huge. It is not easy to give up smoking and then drinking and then food. I know. I'm stuck on the food part. But I have a health app that cues me to take a certain number of steps a day and such. Hopefully that and not drinking pop will start me losing. You are an inspiration. Never hide the good stuff. How have you changed your diet?

TexasBushwhacker

(20,185 posts)
70. It has to be inspiring for your wife too
Mon May 29, 2017, 06:10 AM
May 2017

You said she's struggling with her new diabetic friendly, low carb diet, correct? But look at the example you've set for her. The 2 of you are getting together, supporting each other.

PennyK

(2,302 posts)
73. Wonderful and awesome!
Mon May 29, 2017, 08:57 AM
May 2017

I've followed part of your story and I know that you have done some really hard work on yourself. Mazel Tov on all your success so far and keep up the GREAT work!

Roy Rolling

(6,917 posts)
75. Thousands of supporters
Mon May 29, 2017, 09:45 AM
May 2017

Everyone here cheers your success and backs your journey. DO NOT go back. Congratulations on the discipline for such a truly life-changing effort. Inspiring to all.

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