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MaryLouisaWillis

(44 posts)
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 10:22 AM Jul 2017

Hi, I'm new here

I have read discussions here from links that friends send me on FB. So I decided to register so I can join in.

I am 60. I love to read, sing, garden and I do some acting. I have two sons who are grown and on their own. One lives near me, he's in Philly and I am about 30 minutes away near Trenton NJ. My other son lives in FL, so I don't see him much unfortunately. I am a teacher, 6th grade right now.
I am a feminist, always have been. I am very liberal but I will always hold my nose and vote for a democrat over a third party candidate because I think that leads to the republican being elected. I am going to guess that many good people here won't agree with me.
BTW, my vote for Hillary was NOT done holding my nose. I think she was/is, as Obama said the best most qualified candidate ever to run for President.
So that is a bit about me. I guess I will get to know you all when I have been around longer.

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Hi, I'm new here (Original Post) MaryLouisaWillis Jul 2017 OP
welcome. still_one Jul 2017 #1
Welcome to DU! BigMin28 Jul 2017 #2
Hello and welcome ! lunasun Jul 2017 #3
Welcome to DU vlyons Jul 2017 #4
Good to know! MaryLouisaWillis Jul 2017 #11
It's as if you've been here all along Plucketeer Jul 2017 #22
Welcome to DU Va Lefty Jul 2017 #5
Welcome nt Borchkins Jul 2017 #6
Thank you for being here and for your work! CurtEastPoint Jul 2017 #7
Howdy! Wawannabe Jul 2017 #8
Hello there jehop61 Jul 2017 #9
Thank you! MaryLouisaWillis Jul 2017 #12
Welcome to DU! babylonsister Jul 2017 #10
Welcome, MaryLouisa, here's a non inclusive list of forums and groups you might like here. TexasProgresive Jul 2017 #13
K&R and welcome to DU! nt tblue37 Jul 2017 #14
Welcome from Florida! OriginalGeek Jul 2017 #15
✌️ Hey, you'll fit right in! nt procon Jul 2017 #16
Welcome, MaryLouisaWillis! femmocrat Jul 2017 #17
Welcome! WinstonSmith4740 Jul 2017 #18
Welcome...glad you joined the board. And like you, I proudly voted for Hill iluvtennis Jul 2017 #19
Welcome to DU. Doreen Jul 2017 #20
Welcome! CTyankee Jul 2017 #21
Welcome! volstork Jul 2017 #23
Welcome! handmade34 Jul 2017 #24
Welcome amuse bouche Jul 2017 #25
Welcome to DU! Wounded Bear Jul 2017 #26
Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! VWolf Jul 2017 #27
Welcome to DU. appleannie1943 Jul 2017 #28
Welcome--I've been here since 2005 and love this place. panader0 Jul 2017 #29
Welcome! You have a new friend in a red state! We are similar in age and I did not hold my Liberal In Red State Jul 2017 #30
Hi, welcome LostinRed Jul 2017 #31
Welcome! rock Jul 2017 #32
Welcome! catbyte Jul 2017 #33
Howdy! nt Javaman Jul 2017 #34
Welcome tiredtoo Jul 2017 #35
Hello and welcome blueseas Jul 2017 #36
DUへようこそ yuiyoshida Jul 2017 #37
This Canadian welcomes you luvtheGWN Jul 2017 #38
Welcome aboard! lark Jul 2017 #39
Hey Mary... Welcome to another Philadelphia/Jerseyite! whathehell Jul 2017 #40
welcome aboard!!! bluecollar2 Jul 2017 #41
welcome to DU--lifelong feminist here! niyad Jul 2017 #42
Welcome to DU! livetohike Jul 2017 #43
Your bona fides are fantastic! Fla Dem Jul 2017 #44
Welcome! NurseJackie Jul 2017 #45
Welcome aboard! Scarsdale Jul 2017 #46
Welcome to DU! pnwmom Jul 2017 #47
Welcome! BadgerMom Jul 2017 #48
I'm pretty new, as well Doug the Dem Jul 2017 #49
Welcome from a fellow Trentonian now in upstate NY. redwitch Jul 2017 #50
Howdy MaryLouisa! lapucelle Jul 2017 #51
Welcome! spicysista Jul 2017 #52
Welcome aboard Achilleaze Jul 2017 #53
Welcome! liberaltrucker Jul 2017 #54
Welcome! GreenEyedLefty Jul 2017 #55
Newbies are we. Welcome. haveahart Jul 2017 #56
Hi seta1950 Jul 2017 #57
Your paragraph #3 (ideological orientation) is on-the-nose for me! Welcome to Lounge/DU! UTUSN Jul 2017 #58
Welcome to DU jimlup Jul 2017 #59
Welcome to DU! Eko Jul 2017 #60
Welcome to DU! Phentex Jul 2017 #61
I'll K&R that! Cheers and welcome! nt. druidity33 Jul 2017 #62
Welcome! Please join us in the Fiction group, the Women's Rights & Issues group japple Jul 2017 #63
Hi MLW - rurallib Jul 2017 #64
Hi, I'm pretty new too. We have a few things in common...I grew up in Phila., BigmanPigman Jul 2017 #65
Stay away from the brown acid taterguy Jul 2017 #66
Welcome to du! Heartstrings Jul 2017 #67
Welcome! Aristus Jul 2017 #68
Hey, MaryLouisaWillis! Laffy Kat Jul 2017 #69
Hello and welcome! MarianJack Jul 2017 #70
Welcome MsLeopard Jul 2017 #71
Welcome to DU! ProudProgressiveNow Jul 2017 #72
Hi! raven mad Jul 2017 #73
Hi MaryLouisa! Welcome! BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2017 #74
All these wellcomes and no one has told you sab390 Jul 2017 #75
Welcome to DU, Zoonart Jul 2017 #76
Welcome Turbineguy Jul 2017 #77
Greetings and salutations! Moostache Jul 2017 #78
Welcome. AJT Jul 2017 #79
Welcome MLW! Enjoy! bettyellen Jul 2017 #80
Welcome from a 71 year old fellow feminist! williesgirl Jul 2017 #81
Welcome to DU. kairos12 Jul 2017 #82
Welcome to DU! southerncrone Jul 2017 #83
Welcome, MaryLouisaWillis, and I like your icon and the things you've said about Hillary. NBachers Jul 2017 #84
Welcome! I agree about Hillary! lunamagica Jul 2017 #85
Hello from the west coast marlakay Aug 2017 #86
Welcome Dame Willis. Kablooie Aug 2017 #87
Welcome to DU! nt Honeycombe8 Aug 2017 #88
Welcome to DU, MaryLouisaWillis! calimary Aug 2017 #89
Hey Im Pissed! busterbrown Aug 2017 #90
Nice to meet you, MaryLouisa. No Vested Interest Aug 2017 #91
Welcome! burrowowl Aug 2017 #92
Nice to meet you. bearssoapbox Aug 2017 #93
Welcome to the DU Neighborhood bucolic_frolic Aug 2017 #94
Welcome benld74 Aug 2017 #95
Welcome to DU! smirkymonkey Aug 2017 #96

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
4. Welcome to DU
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 10:26 AM
Jul 2017

What took you so long to get here? I think you'll find that this forum is a great source for info from around the country and overseas. I get more breaking news here than anywhere. Cheers

jehop61

(1,735 posts)
9. Hello there
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 10:31 AM
Jul 2017

You'll love to have a place to vent your frustrations and find like minded folks. Saves me from arguing with family. Enjoy and don't let some naysayers keep you away.

tblue37

(65,269 posts)
14. K&R and welcome to DU! nt
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 10:36 AM
Jul 2017

By the way, "K&R" means "Kick and recommend."

A reply kicks the post to the top of the forum's first page (until another post gets kicked there by a reply), and enough recommends will get a post onto the "Greatest" page, which is arranged hierarchically according to recommend totals.

Five recs gets you to the "Greatest" page, so you are there now, and that means more people will read your post.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
15. Welcome from Florida!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 10:46 AM
Jul 2017

I'll wave to your son if I happen to see him.

The one time I didn't vote Dem in the last 30 years was for a local sheriff who was opposed to medical marijuana - not just recreational use, he was opposed to even medical use and I just don't think that's a very informed opinion for anyone, let alone a Democrat.
It was a protest vote as I knew he would win anyway and he did by a huge margin. I did support his wife for the state house of representatives.

but that's enough politics for the Lounge - how are your cats/dogs/fish/parrots/bunnies or?? ?? We in the lounge support pics of pets all day every day.

CTyankee

(63,899 posts)
21. Welcome!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 11:13 AM
Jul 2017

I agree with what you are doing politically. I think it is the right strategy.

And, I hate Trump and think he's going to blow us all up, after he finishes ruining the economy. I wish to hell he'd resign in the face of growing calls for his impeachment.

I do art history in retiirement so if you want to if you would like to chat about art history...

panader0

(25,816 posts)
29. Welcome--I've been here since 2005 and love this place.
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 11:28 AM
Jul 2017

There are many very bright and humorous people here.

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
35. Welcome
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:00 PM
Jul 2017

We do have our differences here but for me, it is still the best place to get sound reliable information. Based on your introduction, i am sure you will like it here.

luvtheGWN

(1,336 posts)
38. This Canadian welcomes you
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:05 PM
Jul 2017

to the best liberal/democratic site on the web! I'm relatively new here too, after reading for a couple of years. Glad you decided to join us and looking forward to future posts!

lark

(23,078 posts)
39. Welcome aboard!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:09 PM
Jul 2017

DU is a great place to talk politics with like-minded people. There aren't a lot of 3rd party far-left purists here, this site is dedicated to Democrats or people that caucus with Democrats.

whathehell

(29,050 posts)
40. Hey Mary... Welcome to another Philadelphia/Jerseyite!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:10 PM
Jul 2017

I'm a native Phildelphian, also in my 60's, who has been living in Chicago for the past 20 years.

P.S. Does WMMR still hold the 'Louie, Louie" parade?


bluecollar2

(3,622 posts)
41. welcome aboard!!!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:19 PM
Jul 2017

I hope you find these forums as cathartic as I do.

Like you I'll take the Democrat over the Republican even if that Democrat is not as Liberal as I would like them to be.

My first choice in the last Primary wasn't Hillary but she sure as hell was in the General.

niyad

(113,205 posts)
42. welcome to DU--lifelong feminist here!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:23 PM
Jul 2017

also love to read and garden.

you have found a great group. this place has helped keep what is left of my sanity starting with the bush years--and now our national nightmare.

Fla Dem

(23,620 posts)
44. Your bona fides are fantastic!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:27 PM
Jul 2017

Not sure there is anything in your statement anyone here would disagree with you. For the most part we are all very Liberal. Sometimes we just disagree on the purity thing. You know, be against 90% because we aren't getting 100%. When I was growing up my Mom would tell me I was biting my nose to spite my face.

Welcome Mary Louisa!

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
46. Welcome aboard!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:32 PM
Jul 2017

Being an animal lover is a great attribute, too, but not mandatory! We will welcome you, regardless since you voted for Hillary, and are obviously intelligent.

redwitch

(14,943 posts)
50. Welcome from a fellow Trentonian now in upstate NY.
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 12:55 PM
Jul 2017

Actually Hamilton was where I grew up. I am also 60 and have two sons, one nearby and one in Denver.

spicysista

(1,663 posts)
52. Welcome!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 01:07 PM
Jul 2017

Teachers will always hold a special place in my heart! Thanks for making a difference and welcome to DU.

liberaltrucker

(9,129 posts)
54. Welcome!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 01:15 PM
Jul 2017

I'm on the opposite side of PA (just north of Pittsburgh).

You've definitely found the right website! You'll love it here!

GreenEyedLefty

(2,073 posts)
55. Welcome!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 01:16 PM
Jul 2017

I have been posting off and on since 2006. Mostly off during the Obama years, but more frequently now that we have a real threat to our democracy going on right now.

Third party candidates are fine, but I am opposed to voting booth activism... that is neither the time nor the place to voice one's displeasure with a particular candidate.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
61. Welcome to DU!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 04:43 PM
Jul 2017

I was born in Jersey but didn't live there long. Had family in Trenton but most are scattered nearby now.

Join some groups. It's fun here!

japple

(9,818 posts)
63. Welcome! Please join us in the Fiction group, the Women's Rights & Issues group
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 05:02 PM
Jul 2017

and the Gardening group, as well as any others that fit with your interests. I think you will like it here!

rurallib

(62,401 posts)
64. Hi MLW -
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 05:25 PM
Jul 2017

I am a feminist from the other side of the gender divide. I have 2 strong daughters.

I can vaguely remember what it was like to be so young.

Don't be afraid to let it roll here.

BigmanPigman

(51,582 posts)
65. Hi, I'm pretty new too. We have a few things in common...I grew up in Phila.,
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 05:33 PM
Jul 2017

am a life long feminist and I taught 6th for a few years.

Laffy Kat

(16,376 posts)
69. Hey, MaryLouisaWillis!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 07:22 PM
Jul 2017

We have a lot in common. I'm sixty, as well; have two sons in their twenties; and am certainly a feminist. I live in Boulder County, Colorado. It's nice to meet you.

sab390

(182 posts)
75. All these wellcomes and no one has told you
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 09:35 PM
Jul 2017

Never miss lolcats on Sundays and never read anything from TheFereat. Just kidding. (Not about lolcats, a must read)

southerncrone

(5,506 posts)
83. Welcome to DU!
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 11:50 PM
Jul 2017

I'm 61, have 2 grown children, & am a retired teacher. We have a lot in common!
Glad you're here!

NBachers

(17,096 posts)
84. Welcome, MaryLouisaWillis, and I like your icon and the things you've said about Hillary.
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 11:55 PM
Jul 2017

You'll fit right in - with most of us, anyway.

marlakay

(11,443 posts)
86. Hello from the west coast
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 12:09 AM
Aug 2017

I am 61, and one of my daughters just became a teacher in Texas. She is married to a guy in military and they ended up there.

It can get crazy here so my advice just ignore the crazy and know most of us are not that way.

A lot of us joined during Bush to get a democrat back into office.

Kablooie

(18,619 posts)
87. Welcome Dame Willis.
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 12:21 AM
Aug 2017

I was driven here by the machinations of GW Bush long ago and haven't been able to escape since.

calimary

(81,179 posts)
89. Welcome to DU, MaryLouisaWillis!
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 01:47 AM
Aug 2017

Thanks for weighing in and introducing yourself! I often wonder who the new arrivals are, what their stories are, and how they found their way here.

Gotta say - I'll be one of those here who agrees with you, with bells on and sirens blowing - about the utter folly of voting third party. All that does is hand the election to the GOP. You're sending a message alright. But it's guaranteed to be the one that gets you the response of "thanks, CHUMP!" from the bad guys you inadvertently helped across the finish line. That's how our system is, no matter who wants to argue how earnestly about it. That's just what IS. Like it or not, we're a two-party system. PERIOD. And yeah, there are many who don't like that. But it also means there are just as many who are eager to cut their noses off to spite their faces. And please somebody tell me, how well does THAT ever work out? Rebels, renegades, and other third-party outworlders just wind up being spoilers. Plain 'n' simple. Sorry, but that's the fact. As we've seen. All too painfully.

I, too, did NOT hold my nose to vote for Hillary. I couldn't wait to vote for Hillary!!! It was something I'd been waiting to do ever since I started learning about her - and just resonating with the woman like nobody's business. NEVER encountered any political person, male or female, with whom I connected at such a deeply profound level as I did with Hillary - and long before she ever became a formalized politician in her own right. She's the candidate I realized I was waiting all my life to vote for. She's my president, too. The Orange Shartmaster will NEVER be anything even close to that. And I don't vote for ANYBODY but "D's." NEVER an "R." 'Cause I don't believe in lurching our nation into Reverse.

Welcome! You sound like a sister to me. But probably nowhere near as annoying as I can be, here!

busterbrown

(8,515 posts)
90. Hey Im Pissed!
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 01:54 AM
Aug 2017

I never got the wonderful response (greeting) which u received, when I first joined..
I hate you...lol

bucolic_frolic

(43,111 posts)
94. Welcome to the DU Neighborhood
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 08:49 AM
Aug 2017

We always call it TREN-tahn! for it's Hessian roots.

Most Jerseyites call it Trent'n much like Nerk for Newark

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