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Kaleva

(36,295 posts)
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:48 PM Oct 2017

How many Facebook friends do you have?

I have 78. Mostly relatives, old high school buddies and former shipmates. I'll have to double check but I don't think there's even a half dozen who don't fall into one of the 3 categories.

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How many Facebook friends do you have? (Original Post) Kaleva Oct 2017 OP
Zed, zero, nada TexasProgresive Oct 2017 #1
Me, too janterry Oct 2017 #3
It's a great way to communicate during a family crisis Kaleva Oct 2017 #10
I'm going to look for a job, soon janterry Oct 2017 #15
Around 40. The sad part is, I mostly do not have family. Mediumsizedhand Oct 2017 #2
I'm old and have around 250. Some friends, some family, mostly neighbors. CurtEastPoint Oct 2017 #4
309. Mostly people I know from school. Some co-workers and family. I accept about any friend brewens Oct 2017 #5
I hover around 250, give or take 5 True Dough Oct 2017 #6
I think I have somewhere around 100 LuckyCharms Oct 2017 #7
0 n/t RKP5637 Oct 2017 #8
Zero! Iggo Oct 2017 #9
Works for me!..................n-a Ernesto Oct 2017 #17
Works for ME! Ernesto Oct 2017 #18
dont know dont care... i actually have even blocked my sister... samnsara Oct 2017 #11
LOL I blocked my sister too. n/t LuckyCharms Oct 2017 #36
I have 48. Croney Oct 2017 #12
What is this thing you call "Facebook?" cyclonefence Oct 2017 #13
bravo jodymarie aimee Oct 2017 #22
people I either actually know in the real world or who are well known to people msongs Oct 2017 #14
ZERO... ADX Oct 2017 #16
None Hayduke Bomgarte Oct 2017 #19
Nobody anymore JonLP24 Oct 2017 #20
None. cloudbase Oct 2017 #21
2. But I don't Facebook anymore, and when I did I didn't do it too much lunamagica Oct 2017 #23
It's been many months since I've posted anything about myself Kaleva Oct 2017 #24
I don't know Madam Mossfern Oct 2017 #25
Zero and now that the news comes out about the Russians doc03 Oct 2017 #26
Zero now, zero then. northoftheborder Oct 2017 #27
I Had ONE..... becca da bakkah Oct 2017 #28
1,055 left-of-center2012 Oct 2017 #29
291, mostly elephant & cetacean activist friends from Thailand, India, Africa & Japan catbyte Oct 2017 #30
120 - most are Democratic activists LeftInTX Oct 2017 #31
Around 262 OriginalGeek Oct 2017 #32
58 sakabatou Oct 2017 #33
Around 450 or so Blue_Adept Oct 2017 #34
Somewhere around 2000, with about 1,900 from Macedonia Orrex Oct 2017 #35
I get tons of friend requests from nice Russian ladies OriginalGeek Oct 2017 #37
Curse her and her rejection of diplomacy! Orrex Oct 2017 #38
lol steve2470 Oct 2017 #43
157 at the moment. mnhtnbb Oct 2017 #39
dkdc Sentath Oct 2017 #40
None. n/t demmiblue Oct 2017 #41
a few ? I'm not much of a FB'er nt steve2470 Oct 2017 #42
 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
3. Me, too
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:52 PM
Oct 2017

but for me I think it's a mistake. I think it would be better if I kept up with folks more (well, a few folks anyway!).

So, I'm thinking about it.........(sigh)

 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
15. I'm going to look for a job, soon
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 02:13 PM
Oct 2017

and the last three companies I worked for are either defunct or rebranded. One company had a line - not for a reference - but to Equifax. I couldn't get through to HR. It was awful.

I spent hours tracking folks down. It would have been a lot easier if I kept them in my social circle...........

I'm lucky that they are still out there and working (not retired) and we had a good relationship (friendly). But it reminded me that I need a facebook that's newsy about me and just sort of 'keeps in touch.'

 

Mediumsizedhand

(531 posts)
2. Around 40. The sad part is, I mostly do not have family.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:51 PM
Oct 2017

I am political on my board. What I say would offend them. I do not care to hear their opinion. The only person I have unfriended was a family member.

brewens

(13,582 posts)
5. 309. Mostly people I know from school. Some co-workers and family. I accept about any friend
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:57 PM
Oct 2017

request as long as I know who it is. I only ask to be friends if it's someone I actually knew pretty well or did stuff with.

It pretty much takes someone getting nailed for a sex crime (which has happened twice) for me to boot them. Even the most obnoxious right-winger, I let stay. Better to keep an eye on what they throw up on the feed than cut them loose. It can be informative.

True Dough

(17,303 posts)
6. I hover around 250, give or take 5
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 01:58 PM
Oct 2017

I have "unfollowed" more than half of them. Some pollute my "news feed" with endless memes and jokes and nutty videos, so I don't want to see that. Others post multiple "selfies" every day. Don't need to see that either.

The remainder occasionally post meaningful life updates that are truly of interest to me, or they link to meaningful articles (like you often find as the source of a thread here at the DU) or the odd video that genuinely amuses me. Everything in moderation, right?

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
11. dont know dont care... i actually have even blocked my sister...
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 02:07 PM
Oct 2017

...and a whole lot of childhood friends (Im 67 and still have friends I grew up with). My sole purpose on FB is to post anti trump stuff and dog stuff. I don't ever go back and read any comments. My goal is to have all of my trump friends block me.

Croney

(4,659 posts)
12. I have 48.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 02:08 PM
Oct 2017

All relatives except for maybe 5 friends, and the 48 includes two children and a cat who have their own pages, and two relatives who have a second page for no good reason.

I post this once a year: Most of you reading this would not exist if I had not married a Cuban refugee in 1963.

(Just a warning not to post any right-wing bullshit where I can read it.)

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
22. bravo
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 03:47 PM
Oct 2017

don't go near it and don't own a cellphone....we stopped a war in Berkeley 1970 without these things....

msongs

(67,400 posts)
14. people I either actually know in the real world or who are well known to people
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 02:10 PM
Oct 2017

I actually know. ignore unsolicited friend requests. and my business page is not cross referenced with my personal page. never click on an ad or "sponsored link"

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
20. Nobody anymore
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 03:18 PM
Oct 2017

I haven't logged in well over a year and a half. I stick with Twitter but it is hard to find people only the ones with the famous blue checkmark.

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
23. 2. But I don't Facebook anymore, and when I did I didn't do it too much
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 04:03 PM
Oct 2017

I have a niece who has 800+ Facebook friends, and a cousin who has over a thousand...it's mind-blowing. There's no way either one of them even know half that many people, yet they share... well the cousin shares a great number of intimate details of her life with them

Madam Mossfern

(2,340 posts)
25. I don't know
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 04:12 PM
Oct 2017

Honest - I figure about a couple dozen, family and high school people (from 50 years ago!)
I'll go check...

doc03

(35,328 posts)
26. Zero and now that the news comes out about the Russians
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 05:00 PM
Oct 2017

planting fake news on Facebook I will be sure to never go there in the future either.

becca da bakkah

(426 posts)
28. I Had ONE.....
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 05:58 PM
Oct 2017

....my ex SIL. We lost contact after her brother, my son's father, died, back in 1979. Then we got back in touch, until I read her hateful posts about Obama. Really stupid, vile stuff. She even listed Rush as a "fav". NO! Oh hell NO!

I blocked her and haven't been tempted to communicate anymore. Luckily, she lives in TN and I'm in CA. Mostly now I just use FB to keep up on what my nieces/nephews/family are doing.

Really frustrating to try to find old boyfriends...the ones who are still living. Especially when several with the same name pops up. How can I lurk on your FB page when I don't know which one you are!?

catbyte

(34,376 posts)
30. 291, mostly elephant & cetacean activist friends from Thailand, India, Africa & Japan
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 11:27 PM
Oct 2017

I thought about ditching Facebook, but it's the best, cheapest way for us to keep in touch. I figure I watch mainstream media, & they were just as complicit, & I would really miss my friends.

LeftInTX

(25,285 posts)
31. 120 - most are Democratic activists
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:03 AM
Oct 2017

About 20 of them are family and friends

FB has been great for our resistance. We plan everything on FB. For instance, I can't decide on Thursday whether to go to Precinct Chair training or an event with our City Council member. Don't even get me started on Saturday morning. There are about 5 local Democratic Party functions that are pulling me in many different directions. I love the event thing, it is like a calendar.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
32. Around 262
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:56 AM
Oct 2017

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2 from Jr high, many from high school and the most of the rest are bands I follow and people I know from shows I go to. Not many from work as that is just dangerous. There's a few family but they are mostly all of an Accord with my politics so that's no problem. My brother isn't but he a doperson and I pick on him fir his ridiculous views that I firmly believe he champions just to be
funny.

wow ^^^ - phone typing is is detrimental to the appearance of my competency

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
34. Around 450 or so
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 06:08 AM
Oct 2017

Lots of friends from around the world met through shared interests that I used to be able to get together with more, but we've all gotten older from our time in our twenties and now have families and such, so it's a great way to keep in touch.

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
35. Somewhere around 2000, with about 1,900 from Macedonia
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 07:31 AM
Oct 2017

They all have remarkably pretty profile pics though, so I'm sure they're legit.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
37. I get tons of friend requests from nice Russian ladies
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 11:35 AM
Oct 2017

but my wife won't let me accept them. :/ I guess she just doesn't care if the US and Russia have good relations.

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
39. 157 at the moment.
Wed Oct 18, 2017, 12:07 PM
Oct 2017

Some are family, some are high school friends. Others are friends acquired through the years living from coast to coast
and traveling. Some are DU'ers who are also on fb.

I have defriended a bunch of people who expressed support of Trump either before or after the election. Some Trump supporting
family are still "friends" but I don't follow them.

I mostly stay on fb because it's easier to keep up with family and real friends that way. I enjoy hearing about their travels
and their lives and their kids.

I do some politics--commenting on posts--on fb, but mostly I avoid it.

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