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BeckyDem

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Mon Sep 6, 2021, 05:57 PM Sep 2021

The Other Afghan Women

In the countryside, the endless killing of civilians turned women against the occupiers who claimed to be helping them.

By Anand Gopal
September 6, 2021

Late one afternoon this past August, Shakira heard banging on her front gate. In the Sangin Valley, which is in Helmand Province, in southern Afghanistan, women must not be seen by men who aren’t related to them, and so her nineteen-year-old son, Ahmed, went to the gate. Outside were two men in bandoliers and black turbans, carrying rifles. They were members of the Taliban, who were waging an offensive to wrest the countryside back from the Afghan National Army. One of the men warned, “If you don’t leave immediately, everyone is going to die.”

Shakira, who is in her early forties, corralled her family: her husband, an opium merchant, who was fast asleep, having succumbed to the temptations of his product, and her eight children, including her oldest, twenty-year-old Nilofar—as old as the war itself—whom Shakira called her “deputy,” because she helped care for the younger ones. The family crossed an old footbridge spanning a canal, then snaked their way through reeds and irregular plots of beans and onions, past dark and vacant houses. Their neighbors had been warned, too, and, except for wandering chickens and orphaned cattle, the village was empty.

Shakira’s family walked for hours under a blazing sun. She started to feel the rattle of distant thuds, and saw people streaming from riverside villages: men bending low beneath bundles stuffed with all that they could not bear to leave behind, women walking as quickly as their burqas allowed.

The pounding of artillery filled the air, announcing the start of a Taliban assault on an Afghan Army outpost. Shakira balanced her youngest child, a two-year-old daughter, on her hip as the sky flashed and thundered. By nightfall, they had come upon the valley’s central market. The corrugated-iron storefronts had largely been destroyed during the war. Shakira found a one-room shop with an intact roof, and her family settled in for the night. For the children, she produced a set of cloth dolls—one of a number of distractions that she’d cultivated during the years of fleeing battle. As she held the figures in the light of a match, the earth shook.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2021/09/13/the-other-afghan-women?utm_source=nl&utm_brand=tny&utm_mailing=TNY_Daily_090621&utm_campaign=aud-dev&utm_medium=email&bxid=60f239a4aabb872829789057&cndid=65728974&hasha=44cfc77e6722be4659d9567dfd793083&hashb=044c54e4bf0856e2678234751b807c8ca8aa54f0&hashc=d7db2afde970a1fe27bb94c26d18c25a8979f47d2971a192f463a052546b4223&esrc=growl2-regGate-0521&mbid=CRMNYR012019&utm_term=TNY_Daily


( Biden did the right thing to end this sick war, the idea the US was saving women is preposterous. )

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The Other Afghan Women (Original Post) BeckyDem Sep 2021 OP
Heartsick KNR niyad Sep 2021 #1
Exactly. It is a difficult read, so much pain. BeckyDem Sep 2021 #2
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