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wickerwoman

(5,662 posts)
Thu Feb 26, 2015, 02:52 PM Feb 2015

The quintessential "nice guy" I worked with over a decade ago just PMed me on Facebook to say:

"I'm deleting all the women (but ONE) from my Farcebook page. I don't have anything against you, in particular, because you're a woman. I have something against all women in general. If you want to get particular, there are a few women I especially despise, such as my fucking sister (and her whole fucking family). Yes, she knows. I'm not a big fan of my mother, either, but she tries. As for the rest of the women in my life, I simply don't want them there anymore. Women do not impress me. Indeed, they disgust me (and I'm not one easily disgusted). If you're wondering why, take a good long look at the women in your life and how they treat others, and the men in their lives in particular. Are there exceptions? Oh, sure. But I am no longer in the "game" of finding out which of you are polite, pleasant people and which of you are raving mad cunts and bitches. In my experience, nice women are like unicorns: fucking imaginary."

He was always a bit unstable and sad and obviously lonely and is clearly suffering some kind of breakdown here. I only friended him in the first place to be polite and haven't talked to him in years.

Only posting it here for the benefit of other "nice guys" who think there's something wrong with all the women in the world and not with them. The reason you can't get a date is because women deal with this shit and build up their internal radars until they can see it coming. You're not as clever at hiding your disrespect as you think you are. And nobody wants to be with someone who thinks they're entitled to be "treated right" regardless of the obvious contempt that they have for other people. If you want love and respect, give genuine love and respect.

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The quintessential "nice guy" I worked with over a decade ago just PMed me on Facebook to say: (Original Post) wickerwoman Feb 2015 OP
Does he live in Illinois? Sounds exactly like my brother. djean111 Feb 2015 #1
If he was, you'd probably have been treated to the same announcement. wickerwoman Feb 2015 #3
He unfriended me a couple of years ago in a fit of anger, because I called him djean111 Feb 2015 #5
Good post and solid advice. leftofcool Feb 2015 #2
Let us hope he does not... 3catwoman3 Feb 2015 #4
Or have a stockpile of weapons. thucythucy Feb 2015 #6
A classic misogynist CountAllVotes Feb 2015 #7
love your sig line!! niyad Feb 2015 #9
clearly, he is not, and probably never was, a "nice guy". niyad Feb 2015 #8
 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
1. Does he live in Illinois? Sounds exactly like my brother.
Thu Feb 26, 2015, 02:57 PM
Feb 2015

Oddly enough, he holds those exact views on women, but in all else he is really liberal and he is registered as, and votes as, a Democrat. He is sad and lonely, too.
We hardly ever talk, because he spends most conversations trying to push my buttons by trash-talking women.
Gets upset when I inform him that I don't actually care what he thinks.

wickerwoman

(5,662 posts)
3. If he was, you'd probably have been treated to the same announcement.
Thu Feb 26, 2015, 03:01 PM
Feb 2015

Unless you're the very lucky "one woman".

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
5. He unfriended me a couple of years ago in a fit of anger, because I called him
Thu Feb 26, 2015, 03:04 PM
Feb 2015

on his BS. I am not really much of a facebook user, don't like it, really, so all in all, it was okay with me. I have two people friended at present, but never check their FB pages, we email and talk on the phone.

CountAllVotes

(20,876 posts)
7. A classic misogynist
Thu Feb 26, 2015, 03:13 PM
Feb 2015

Best to be rid of him.

Men that hate women suck.

I just got rid of one of these sorts not long ago. He was truly filled with hatred towards ME for some reason. Everything I did and said was always challenged and negated (even though I proved him wrong every time and that made him even angrier towards me!). UGH!

He is a contractor that I had hired to do some repairs on the house I now live in. I had to take out a loan to have all of these repairs done and I paid him close to $5,000 of said money and he called me names because he wanted more $$$ from me which he did not get as I hired some other people to finish the work off that needed to be done.

Gawd what a pig he was.

I have zero use for men like this. They are indeed PIGS.

Good riddance my friend, good damn riddance indeed!

I'm glad I do not "do" Facebook.



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