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bif

(22,697 posts)
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:07 AM Mar 2013

What's the nicest compliment you've received about your cooking?

Here's mine:
About a year ago my daughter invited a friend of hers over for dinner. She's one of those sometime vegetarians. So when my daughter was on the phone with her I said, "Is she a vegetarian now?" My daughter asked her and responded, "She said, 'Not if you're cooking' "!

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What's the nicest compliment you've received about your cooking? (Original Post) bif Mar 2013 OP
No one died ........... Angry Dragon Mar 2013 #1
Complete silence BarbaRosa Mar 2013 #2
Yes--I always savor those few minutes. nt msanthrope Mar 2013 #7
When you invite someone for dinner and they don't ask what's on the menu because Arkansas Granny Mar 2013 #3
I have always thought that is sooo rude of people to ask. guardian Mar 2013 #33
"Where did you buy this cake?" kentauros Mar 2013 #4
When someone who is a very good cook raves over one of my dishes... dixiegrrrrl Mar 2013 #5
It's great introducing someone to real food Fortinbras Armstrong Mar 2013 #9
You could sell these and make a fortune Viva_La_Revolution Mar 2013 #6
The smoke alarm didn't go off this time. PADemD Mar 2013 #8
Hee hee! nt MADem Mar 2013 #18
My ex's nephews lived with us for several years while teenagers. LancetChick Mar 2013 #10
from my husband fizzgig Mar 2013 #11
Most of the time, I live in a community with extremely limited food options cbayer Mar 2013 #12
Just wanted to add this - my husband will literally lick his plate clean cbayer Mar 2013 #13
From my wonderful Italian "mother", now deceased: swimboy Mar 2013 #14
I worked at a company that had occasional large potluck lunches. I would always bring... MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #15
Can we have both recipes? Pretty please? nt msanthrope Mar 2013 #29
I no longer have the hominy recipe. The Spinach Casserole with 3 Cheeses is below. MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #30
I will try it with my daughter who eats nothing green. Thank you! nt msanthrope Mar 2013 #32
A woman proposed to me after I cooked her dinner one night. MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #16
I've had two marriage proposals for pies. grasswire Mar 2013 #17
Do you watch Downton Abbey? A grocer wanted to marry Mrs. Patmore for her cooking last season! nt MADem Mar 2013 #20
yeah, and he was a real creep! nt grasswire Mar 2013 #22
Wasn't he, though....feeling up all the young girls at the fair!!! MADem Mar 2013 #23
I love Mrs. Hughes. grasswire Mar 2013 #24
I was worried they were gonna kill her off when she got sick--thank goodness that got sorted out! MADem Mar 2013 #26
I haven't seen that show, but that makes me think of the really creepy guy in "Circle of Friends". MiddleFingerMom Mar 2013 #31
If you have On Demand, check to see if it is offered--it's very good! You'll be hooked quickly! MADem Mar 2013 #35
Wow, those sound great BainsBane Mar 2013 #38
I get a ton of praise when I cook, which is fairly often... MADem Mar 2013 #19
I do a lot of one / two skillet meals. No matter how involved the prep, it all ends up in one or two pinto Mar 2013 #21
That's when you KNOW you've hit the jackpot! Repeat requests! nt MADem Mar 2013 #25
Mine is: Newest Reality Mar 2013 #27
Is there any left? I want more. hobbit709 Mar 2013 #28
When you bring a dish and it is completely eaten up. guardian Mar 2013 #34
My husband tells our friends "why should we eat in a restaurant when I get the best food right here" auntAgonist Mar 2013 #36
Someone told me I'd made the best meal she had ever eaten. BainsBane Mar 2013 #37
When people help themselves to thirds! bif Mar 2013 #39
My BFF's mother was dying of Stage IV lung cancer. no_hypocrisy Mar 2013 #40
VERY nice story!!! MiddleFingerMom Apr 2013 #42
About a decade and a half ago my cousin said my lasagna was the best he had ever tasted. applegrove Apr 2013 #41
Several years ago, my department had a pot-luck luncheon kcass1954 Apr 2013 #43

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
3. When you invite someone for dinner and they don't ask what's on the menu because
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:40 AM
Mar 2013

they know it will be good even if it's just beans and cornbread.

 

guardian

(2,282 posts)
33. I have always thought that is sooo rude of people to ask.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:06 PM
Mar 2013

The gracious thing to say is "Thank you. May I bring anything?" Short of someone having a food allergy or some medical condition that limits diet people should not ask what's on the menu. If the host wants to serve steak tartare people should have the class not to whine.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
4. "Where did you buy this cake?"
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:41 AM
Mar 2013

While that might seem insensitive, I still took it as a compliment, even as I announced I had made it (that flourless chocolate cake I like to make sometimes.) And then the resultant sounds like someone enjoying sex as they eat their piece(s)

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
5. When someone who is a very good cook raves over one of my dishes...
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 10:43 AM
Mar 2013

THAT is a definite complement.

A different kind of compliment was, once, quite a few years ago, my son's school friend stayed with us for a weekend and I made waffles one morning.
The young man had NEVER had anything but frozen waffles, it turns out, and he was flabbergasted at how they were made. I let him "cook" one.
You would have thought I was cooking gold.

I felt bad about his limited connection to what food was, tho.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
9. It's great introducing someone to real food
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:31 PM
Mar 2013

I remember introducing my wife to cream of tomato soup made from cream and tomatoes. And chicken noodle soup with home-made egg noodles. While she had had ravioli made from scratch before I married her, she is still amazed at how much better mine is than, say, Chef Boyardee's.

LancetChick

(272 posts)
10. My ex's nephews lived with us for several years while teenagers.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 01:04 PM
Mar 2013

Then they grew up and got married. While visiting, one wife asked me to show her how to make Romertopf chicken, a favorite dish of my nephew/her husband which neither of them could get right, despite trying numerous times. They were from the Middle East, and their diet was Middle Eastern, but it amazed me that during those years my old reliable Romertopf chicken had become one of his comfort foods from youth (I don't have kids myself), and he's chosen to make it a part of his life going forward, despite not being into cooking (then, anyway). Food is powerful!

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
11. from my husband
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 01:23 PM
Mar 2013

he told me my chicken tortilla soup was better than wolfgang puck's and he makes 'damn good soup'

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
12. Most of the time, I live in a community with extremely limited food options
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 01:27 PM
Mar 2013

which is composed in large part of adult men living on boats by themselves.....

so I get a lot of compliments, lol.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
13. Just wanted to add this - my husband will literally lick his plate clean
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 01:29 PM
Mar 2013

when he particularly likes something I have made. Now, that's a huge compliment.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
15. I worked at a company that had occasional large potluck lunches. I would always bring...
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:46 PM
Mar 2013

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... one of my easiest and best dishes -- a spinach casserole with 3 cheeses.
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I never had any to take home and the sheer number of requests on each occasion for the
recipe prompted me to run off a bunch of copies of it and bring them along to the meals.
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There was a woman who used to bring a hominy/cheese/green chili casserole who used to
get the same reaction. I think we were considered the "Pot Luck King & Queen".
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And, yes... I was one of those asking HER for her recipe.
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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
30. I no longer have the hominy recipe. The Spinach Casserole with 3 Cheeses is below.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 02:51 PM
Mar 2013

Last edited Sun Mar 17, 2013, 06:33 PM - Edit history (1)

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For kids, I call it "Green Casserole", etc. -- they usually don't have a clue that
they're being dosed with spinach. It's very much like a crustless quiche.
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When you mix this up, it looks NASTY... but cook it in a glass baking dish, as
it's the most glorious green/golden color when finished. I use all lowfat cheeses
and don't think there's a noticeable difference
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6-8 eggs, beaten
10 oz frozen chopped spinach, thawed and liquid squeezed out
1 lb cottage cheese
8 oz cream cheese, small cubes
6-8 oz Swiss cheese (EDIT TO ADD) sliced, cut or torn into 1" or so pieces
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1. Lightly oil an 8x8 glass baking dish. Mix all ingredients well and pour into dish.
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2. Bake at 350 for 35-40 mins or until done.
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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
16. A woman proposed to me after I cooked her dinner one night.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 05:48 PM
Mar 2013

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She was teasing.
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I think.
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grasswire

(50,130 posts)
17. I've had two marriage proposals for pies.
Fri Mar 15, 2013, 03:56 PM
Mar 2013

Particularly a brown-sugar peach pie, and a triple cherry. Didn't take either one of them.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
20. Do you watch Downton Abbey? A grocer wanted to marry Mrs. Patmore for her cooking last season! nt
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 03:23 PM
Mar 2013

MADem

(135,425 posts)
23. Wasn't he, though....feeling up all the young girls at the fair!!!
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 04:52 PM
Mar 2013

I loved Mrs. Patmore's reaction when she found out he was a bounder--such relief! And poor Mrs. Hughes, so worried about hurting her feelings!

He was good for one thing, though--he helped Downton win the tug-o-war!

You can tell I'm a sucker for the show, can't you? We have it on DVD so we can "revisit" when there's nothing good on the telly!

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. I was worried they were gonna kill her off when she got sick--thank goodness that got sorted out!
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 05:03 PM
Mar 2013

I was a bit shocked at this season's ending, though--I've got relatives who are really pissed off, too.

I'm wondering if the publisher will make a second run at Lady Mary in the season(s) ahead....!

MADem

(135,425 posts)
35. If you have On Demand, check to see if it is offered--it's very good! You'll be hooked quickly!
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:59 AM
Mar 2013

I read CoF but it's been so long ago I don't remember the plot!

MADem

(135,425 posts)
19. I get a ton of praise when I cook, which is fairly often...
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 03:22 PM
Mar 2013

I'm the one who likes good chow, so I tend to get the duty. If I didn't cook, it would be "Give me the Campbell life" around these parts as often as not. Now that I'm retired, I have the time to fart around a bit, though I don't do a lot of complex stuff. The fewer pots and pans, the better!

pinto

(106,886 posts)
21. I do a lot of one / two skillet meals. No matter how involved the prep, it all ends up in one or two
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 04:41 PM
Mar 2013

Best compliments I've had are requests to repeat a meal. "Pinto, would make that noodle dish for lunch again?" Stuff along those lines.

 

guardian

(2,282 posts)
34. When you bring a dish and it is completely eaten up.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:15 PM
Mar 2013

Especially at pot lucks or picnics and when your dish of XXXX is sitting next to someone else's dish of the same thing, and your dish is completely eaten and the other dish is mostly untouched.

auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
36. My husband tells our friends "why should we eat in a restaurant when I get the best food right here"
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:38 AM
Mar 2013

While I truly do appreciate his bragging and compliments, I would LOVE to go out to a fancy dinner some night


aA

no_hypocrisy

(46,088 posts)
40. My BFF's mother was dying of Stage IV lung cancer.
Sun Mar 24, 2013, 09:51 AM
Mar 2013

She was on chemo and radiation. Got nauseous smelling food. Lost a lot of weight. Felt horrible.

I went to Virginia and bought a bushel of fresh peaches. I made them into pies.

I gave a pie to her mother. It was the only thing she ate in a long time and finished it in a few days. Nothing else stoked her appetite like the pie. She loved it and even wrote me a note.

She died a few months later. To me, this reception of my cooking and baking will never be surpassed.

kcass1954

(1,819 posts)
43. Several years ago, my department had a pot-luck luncheon
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 01:36 AM
Apr 2013

sometime between Thanksgiving and Christmas.

I made a pecan pie and a custard pie. We invited the general manager to join us. Before we got to dessert, he had to leave for a conference call. I saved a slice of each pie and took it to him later. He was in a meeting, so I left it with his secretary. About 20 minutes later, my phone rang. It was Allan. He didn't even say hello. "If my wife ever leaves me, will you marry me and make me pie?"

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