Does anyone have experience with FIV+ cats?
Sadly we just had the test confirmed. One is positive, the other is not and we are going in to get him vaccinated this week.
Our kitty is the picture of health, still gaining weight and energetic but we know it will not be like this always.
We kept them inside for the longest time until they learned how to sneak out between the dogs legs when they went out their electric dog door. This is the result.
I guess I am looking for suggestions for down the road when his health begins to decline. I have read a lot about it but I also would like to know from people here what their experience has been.
Thanks. Will check back later. 
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Thank you 
Our vet would not do that. She took care of my old cat, who we knew was dying from lymphoma, until the very end. I was giving him sub cutaneous fluid and she was willing to come to my house and put him down when he started screaming and was unsure where he was.
She kept our lab at her house after he swallowed a bottle of doggie aspirin so she could watch him to see if her treatment had been effective enough.
I think she knows what we expect from her thankfully. That would really anger me, that attitude.
I am encouraged by your sisters story. This little guy had such a small chance of living from the start and he is now 3 1/2 and a big, strong kitty. We love him so much that we were crushed with this diagnosis. If we can just keep him healthy maybe we can have a similar outcome.
He will get the best we can give him, and we are pretty good at giving all our furbabies lots and lots of good love and care. Why else would you ever have them? 
We had it confirmed with Western Blot
Our kitty stays very close to our house, they escape out the electric dog door between the dogs legs. We never intended for them to be outside. I think he got this from the feral I feed, they do not like each other and the feral has not be neutered. I feed the feral at the barn where my cat does not go but it does come hunt around our house. It is the only cat I ever see up by the house. He also could have had it from birth, he was a local rescue.
He really does not go out much. Our other rescue is negative but we will be vaccinating him and will always watch them both closely.
I guess I would say they are 90% indoors and when outdoors are never far and quickly come home when called.
Sounds like a lot of justification. I can't tell you how horrible this makes me feel. It is next to impossible to keep them inside, we have tried closing the door to the room with the dog door but my husband (not blaming but...) can't ever seem to avoid letting them out in the room together.
Right now our kitty is very healthy. Upper normal in weight and sleek. I have been finding conflicting reports about success with anti-oxidents but I think it must be just a normal variant in the disease process between different cats.
We certainly have a lot of daily contact with him so if anything out of the ordinary creeps up we will catch it right away. I guess this is the best chance he has at not getting too far along with an illness that could send him on a downward spiral.
Hoping for lots of good years with him, he is a very sweet boy.
Thank you for your kind, and experienced advice.
but thanks for the clarification.