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Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:51 PM Oct 2021

I can home from the vets to a shocking discovery

My beautiful Sophie died while I was taking care of Morgan. She was 14, had lost weight, but her appetite seemed to be back and her stress groomed fur was starting to return. What happened, I'll never know, but she was in the den, and had obviously been dead for hours.

I'm in such deep shock and so heartbroken, it's hard for me to type much more. However, life goes on. Madoc is jumping all over me, right now, so happy to see me. And I got to give Morgan a goodnight kiss and scritch before leaving the hospital.

Somehow I doubt I'll sleep, tonight, but I'll keep little Madoc by my side.

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I can home from the vets to a shocking discovery (Original Post) Siwsan Oct 2021 OP
I am so sorry. Love your cat/kitten posts. Hoyt Oct 2021 #1
I'm So Very Sorry For Your Loss SoCalDavidS Oct 2021 #2
I am so sorry montanacowboy Oct 2021 #3
Oh my, you have had a terrible day. TexasTowelie Oct 2021 #4
You have done God's work caring for your kittens. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 2021 #5
How awful to come home to that! My deepest condolences. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2021 #6
Omg! SheltieLover Oct 2021 #7
I just don't know what to say NJCher Oct 2021 #8
Lady Bast, please take Your Sophie gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Oct 2021 #9
+1 2naSalit Oct 2021 #16
What a terrible day you have had. 3catwoman3 Oct 2021 #10
I'm so sorry happybird Oct 2021 #11
Your day has been more than terrible. Polly Hennessey Oct 2021 #12
She knew she was loved. That is what matters. blm Oct 2021 #13
Holy cow... 2naSalit Oct 2021 #14
I'm so sorry! What an awful day for you! Ocelot II Oct 2021 #15
Very sorry for your loss. vanlassie Oct 2021 #17
I am so terribly sorry, words at a time like this are never enough. Rhiannon12866 Oct 2021 #18
I'm so sorry, Siwsan. brer cat Oct 2021 #19
I am so sorry. nt spooky3 Oct 2021 #20
So sorry for your loss, Siwsan... nothing can replace the love Sophie gave you. TygrBright Oct 2021 #21
So sorry for your loss, Siwsan! pazzyanne Oct 2021 #22
Oh my. MontanaMama Oct 2021 #23
I very sorry for your loss.. denbot Oct 2021 #24
🕯️ I am so sorry for your great loss irisblue Oct 2021 #25
Oh no! I am so sorry Siwsan IcyPeas Oct 2021 #26
Post removed Post removed Oct 2021 #27
I am so sorry UpInArms Oct 2021 #28
This is heartbreaking. Mr.Bill Oct 2021 #29
I'm so sorry, Siwsan. Solly Mack Oct 2021 #30
That is so sad. I feel for you. LoisB Oct 2021 #31
Oh Siwsan, I am so sorry KT2000 Oct 2021 #32
Words can't express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.. virgdem Oct 2021 #33
The pain of losing a pet, especially unexpectedly is among the worse losses we can have, but hlthe2b Oct 2021 #34
OMG, Siwsan! piddyprints Oct 2021 #35
Oh Siwsan. That's so wrenchingly sad. femmedem Oct 2021 #36
I'm sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Oct 2021 #37
I am so sorry. From your posts, I know how much you love and will Tanuki Oct 2021 #38
Ugh I'm so sorry. Something very similar happened with my cat. róisín_dubh Oct 2021 #39
I was sorry to hear about your double tragedy Marthe48 Oct 2021 #40
it is difficult llashram Oct 2021 #41
Sophie arranged the gift of Madoc to help ease your pain before she left. appleannie1 Oct 2021 #42
Take the heartfelt words in this thread into your heart. Ilsa Oct 2021 #43
Never easy. housecat Oct 2021 #44
So sorry NQAS Oct 2021 #45
So sorry. I hope you find comfort in the happy memories left behind. littlemissmartypants Oct 2021 #46
I'm so sorry. haele Oct 2021 #47
I'm so sorry Siwsan about your loss kimbutgar Oct 2021 #48
I'm so sorry! CrispyQ Oct 2021 #49
Keep your memories close. The Jungle 1 Oct 2021 #50
I can relate to you pain. Over the years my wife and I have had many cats. patphil Oct 2021 #51
Looking after those kittens was preparation malaise Oct 2021 #52
I'm so sorry for your loss onlyadream Oct 2021 #53
Was this Sophie Stinky toes? XanaDUer2 Oct 2021 #54
Yes. Siwsan Oct 2021 #55
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Oct 2021 #56
It's always a shock when a pet leaves us. bluedigger Oct 2021 #57

montanacowboy

(6,085 posts)
3. I am so sorry
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:55 PM
Oct 2021

We are dealing with a 17 yr old orange tabby in decline and it's hard everyday to know we can lose her at any time. But it looks like Sophie chose the time to leave, when you were not there. She is at the Rainbow Bridge, love her heart. I hope your little one recovers and comes home healthy and happy. We do what we can for them but in the end, they know when to leave us. Hugs.

OAITW r.2.0

(24,467 posts)
5. You have done God's work caring for your kittens.
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:55 PM
Oct 2021

Sophie passed, but she had a damn good life with you. And the last few months must have been special for her. May we all pass relaxed.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
6. How awful to come home to that! My deepest condolences.
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:55 PM
Oct 2021

Of course the shock of discovery makes it so difficult to recover from this.

Be good to yourself. She had a great life with you and she loved you. Hold onto that.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
7. Omg!
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:55 PM
Oct 2021

I am so deeply sorry to learn of beloved Sophie crossing the Rainbow Bridge!



I am so glad Madoc is with you & that you were able to give Morgan a kiss before leaving for home.

NJCher

(35,662 posts)
8. I just don't know what to say
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:55 PM
Oct 2021

You have been through so much tonight and to come home to Sophie having passed on must be more than anyone can bear.

I’m so, so sorry.

Those of us who love animals have all been there. We know. We know.

niyad

(113,284 posts)
9. Lady Bast, please take Your Sophie gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Fri Oct 15, 2021, 11:56 PM
Oct 2021

and comfort to our grieving Siswan.

((((((((((Siswan))))))))) there are not enough words to help right now, but know that we are all here for you and Morgan ad Madoc. My little ones have been sent to be with Sophie.

Polly Hennessey

(6,794 posts)
12. Your day has been more than terrible.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:07 AM
Oct 2021

Madoc will soothe your pain somewhat. I cannot imagine the heartbreak of coming home to Sophie. Be gentle with your grief for Sophie was loved.

Ocelot II

(115,683 posts)
15. I'm so sorry! What an awful day for you!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:15 AM
Oct 2021
Hoping for the best for Morgan and so, so sorry about Sophie.

Rhiannon12866

(205,313 posts)
18. I am so terribly sorry, words at a time like this are never enough.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:21 AM
Oct 2021

Like the others, I've been there and know how devastating losing a much loved pet can be. And it never gets easier. Thank you for all you have done and continue to do with your rescued little ones. And always remember that Sophie was so very lucky to have found you...

TygrBright

(20,759 posts)
21. So sorry for your loss, Siwsan... nothing can replace the love Sophie gave you.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:33 AM
Oct 2021

Stay strong, hold her in your heart. Her time with you will ever remain a blessing.

sadly,
Bright

pazzyanne

(6,551 posts)
22. So sorry for your loss, Siwsan!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:47 AM
Oct 2021

She will be deeply missed, and I will miss your posts about her. Take care of yourself, and a gentle crossing of the Rainbow Bridge for Sophie.

Response to Siwsan (Original post)

UpInArms

(51,282 posts)
28. I am so sorry
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:33 AM
Oct 2021

although I have not posted on your threads, I have followed your story of love …

For the strays … for your Sophie toes

For your so obvious love for all the living creatures in your world ….

I am so sorry for your loss … and so grateful for your love and caring

May it live on in every carnation and every breath

Thank you for being you

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
29. This is heartbreaking.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:45 AM
Oct 2021

I'm more of a dog person than a cat person. I may not respond much in your threads but I read them all and feel like I know you and all your fur babies. I'm tearing up typing this. I will snuggle a little closer to my puppies tonight, that's for sure.

My sincere condolences.

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
32. Oh Siwsan, I am so sorry
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 02:44 AM
Oct 2021

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there are no words but know we are all thinking of you and Morgan and Madoc.

virgdem

(2,126 posts)
33. Words can't express how deeply sorry I am for your loss..
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 02:55 AM
Oct 2021

I know all too well the pain and heartbreak you are going through. Hold your remaining kitties close and take good care of yourself.💔🌈

hlthe2b

(102,239 posts)
34. The pain of losing a pet, especially unexpectedly is among the worse losses we can have, but
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:34 AM
Oct 2021

it only underscores how very precious they are to us. I'm so sorry.

May Sophie be forever happy beyond the rainbow bridge and may you be at peace knowing that.

piddyprints

(14,642 posts)
35. OMG, Siwsan!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:53 AM
Oct 2021

You have had a day from hell.

So sorry about Sophie. I’ve always enjoyed your posts about her and the others.

femmedem

(8,201 posts)
36. Oh Siwsan. That's so wrenchingly sad.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 07:44 AM
Oct 2021

We have all shared in your joy as you cared for your kittens and Sophie, and we share in your grief now.

Marthe48

(16,949 posts)
40. I was sorry to hear about your double tragedy
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:45 AM
Oct 2021

The kitties pick their times to go on to their 10th life. You gave them good lives and it was a mercy they didn't linger in sickness. It is hard on you, and I hope your little Madoc gives you comfort.

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
42. Sophie arranged the gift of Madoc to help ease your pain before she left.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:32 PM
Oct 2021

Sometimes animals know things before we do. Sending hugs.

housecat

(3,121 posts)
44. Never easy.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:51 PM
Oct 2021

I am truly sorry for your great loss. Of the several heartbreaks we've had with the loss of a beautiful soul, the one I can't get out of my mind is when I held him as he was being euthanized and I saw and felt his life leave. It is never easy. Be strong. She is at peace.

NQAS

(10,749 posts)
45. So sorry
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:57 PM
Oct 2021

Sadly, it’s the price we know we are going to pay when these creatures come into our lives. Doesn’t make the reality any easier to confront.

littlemissmartypants

(22,655 posts)
46. So sorry. I hope you find comfort in the happy memories left behind.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:00 PM
Oct 2021

Thank you so much for sharing your kitty cat journey with us. Bless you for serving as an example of the beauty and power of love. Please also know that you are loved. Stay strong and never forget that there is always someone here for you if you need anything. ❤

haele

(12,650 posts)
47. I'm so sorry.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:16 PM
Oct 2021

A difficult decision and a shock like this returning home is heartbreaking and almost too hard to hear for anyone with a heart. And there's nothing more you could have done for either Morgan or Sophie, no matter how much you loved them and they loved you.
Take care of yourself. And take all the time you need to grieve. Your human family and Madoc will understand.

Haele

kimbutgar

(21,137 posts)
48. I'm so sorry Siwsan about your loss
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:20 PM
Oct 2021

Everyday I read your posts about your cats make me smile.

Sophie is resting peacefully in cat heaven now.

patphil

(6,172 posts)
51. I can relate to you pain. Over the years my wife and I have had many cats.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 05:04 PM
Oct 2021

Even when you have time to prepare for it, it's painful.
Pets are like children that never grow up.

We give them our love, and they give us theirs. Both are enriched by the years we have together.
Live does indeed go on, and time lessens the pain and the good times will eventually far outweigh the bad.

onlyadream

(2,166 posts)
53. I'm so sorry for your loss
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:18 PM
Oct 2021

I lost my kitty on 9/3 and I’m still unable to think of her without crying.

Siwsan

(26,260 posts)
55. Yes.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 07:39 PM
Oct 2021

The vet I saw last night told me cats have an amazing talent for hiding the fact they are ill. And, if she had been diagnosed with something, how much was I willing to have her endure medically.

She has 14 great years. The sad thing was my brother and I were talking about her during the drive home, commenting on how great it was she had accepted the kittens.

I'm still having trouble processing this whole situation. It just seems fate decided to deal a very cruel hand.

bluedigger

(17,086 posts)
57. It's always a shock when a pet leaves us.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 08:47 PM
Oct 2021

I've enjoyed your posts this last year. They helped a lot as I coped with the loss of my own dog and then a cat. A new puppy is now in the house, and a kitten is on order. All the best to you!

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