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Siwsan

(26,310 posts)
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 04:44 PM Oct 2021

The best medicine for my broken heart

Madoc curled up on my lap and we both fell asleep for a good 2 hours. And he's not done snuggling, yet.

When I got home, last night, he had been cooped up, all alone, for about 11 hours. As a result he had so much energy to burn off. And, of course, the emotional vibes in the house were pretty awful, last night, and not much better, this morning.

But, today he showed his uncle exactly how fast, nimble and mischievous he can be. In particular, his laser dot chasing skills, and gazelle like leaps from one piece of furniture to another. That, along with his non stop attacking of my feet, and anything else he perceived as prey, last night, seems to have tuckered him out. I'm glad he chose my lap for his nap.



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The best medicine for my broken heart (Original Post) Siwsan Oct 2021 OP
Oh my... bamagal62 Oct 2021 #1
Poor guy is probably wondering where all of his family went. TexasTowelie Oct 2021 #2
And now we are all reminded of the perfect remedy Polly Hennessey Oct 2021 #3
Kittehs are the BEST medicine. He is such a sweetie. I am so glad that you niyad Oct 2021 #4
Abso-freakin'-lutely!!! calimary Oct 2021 #18
Love the laser-dot chasing skills!!! mrsadm Oct 2021 #5
I am so glad you have each other! SheltieLover Oct 2021 #6
So glad you have each other! GPV Oct 2021 #7
There's no more effective medicine for a sad heart than a kitty. Ocelot II Oct 2021 #8
At least you still have him to keep you warm. What a sweetie. ratchiweenie Oct 2021 #9
So sweet. Cats pick up on vibes and sadness very quickly. And they stay close Walleye Oct 2021 #10
You and Madoc, together for each other. Fla Dem Oct 2021 #11
Thanks for that wonderful picture....Perhaps, just perhaps..it is time for me to get a kitten... Stuart G Oct 2021 #12
So sweet. He may realize you're hurting, & want to comfort you. CaptainTruth Oct 2021 #13
When my wife died Fortinbras Armstrong Oct 2021 #22
It's about tuxedo cats AverageOldGuy Oct 2021 #14
I've fed a few ferals in my yard wryter2000 Oct 2021 #17
That is truly the best medicine. piddyprints Oct 2021 #15
Precious baby. 3catwoman3 Oct 2021 #16
What a darling boy. He's doing his best to ramp up the cute past 11, knowing it's needed now. catrose Oct 2021 #19
Aww Roy Rolling Oct 2021 #20
Sweet guy seta1950 Oct 2021 #21
My mother's family liked to use the word soldierant Oct 2021 #23
You have the best medicine in that precious guy wendyb-NC Oct 2021 #24

Polly Hennessey

(6,812 posts)
3. And now we are all reminded of the perfect remedy
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 04:53 PM
Oct 2021

for a broken heart -the joyful and pure love of another animal. I have always had a multi-pet household. They let us know and try to help us understand what life is really about. Madoc will help you dry your tears and fill the emptiness left by Sophie and Morgan.

niyad

(113,700 posts)
4. Kittehs are the BEST medicine. He is such a sweetie. I am so glad that you
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 04:53 PM
Oct 2021

have each other. Purrs and hugs from my guy and me.

calimary

(81,555 posts)
18. Abso-freakin'-lutely!!!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 07:21 PM
Oct 2021

Last edited Sun Oct 17, 2021, 01:25 AM - Edit history (1)

Our two new kittens are certainly up to the task! They have helped lift our spirits back up after we lost our Betty last month.

NOTHING quite like new kittens! They can cure a LOT of broken and aching and heavy hearts.

Walleye

(31,108 posts)
10. So sweet. Cats pick up on vibes and sadness very quickly. And they stay close
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 05:52 PM
Oct 2021

It’s good that your brother is helping you out. I have two brothers and they’re both very understanding and situations like this. Don’t know what I would do without them

Stuart G

(38,454 posts)
12. Thanks for that wonderful picture....Perhaps, just perhaps..it is time for me to get a kitten...
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:10 PM
Oct 2021

...But that is for the future..Today, I am enjoying this wonderful picture. Thank You..

......................Stuart G..............

CaptainTruth

(6,612 posts)
13. So sweet. He may realize you're hurting, & want to comfort you.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:28 PM
Oct 2021

We have 3 cats & one of them is very good at sensing my emotions. It's funny in a way, she was born to a feral mother & wouldn't even let us touch her when we adopted her, but 2 years later she's become the most interactive kitty we have & I can have long "conversations" with her, she likes to talk & makes a wide variety of sounds.

Anyway, any time I'm sick or upset or sad & I lay down in bed during the day she always gets in bed, talks to me a bit, then plops down beside me & stays with me as long as I'm there. She doesn't do it when I'm feeling fine, it's only when I'm physically (illness) or emotionally hurting, it's like she knows, she pays extra attention to me & comes to stay with me.

Madoc may be doing the same thing. You may have an extra special kitty.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
22. When my wife died
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 12:00 PM
Oct 2021

The younger of my two dogs spent a lot of time with me. She obviously knew that I was hurting, and did her best to help.

AverageOldGuy

(1,564 posts)
14. It's about tuxedo cats
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:31 PM
Oct 2021

My son and daughter-in-law have an older Bischon whatever-it-is and a Golden Lab. Their two sons -- 14 and 11 -- are not big into the dogs. In fact, the boys ignore the dogs as best they can.

So -- in the spring my son introduced a tuxedo kitten to the mix. The kitten quickly showed the dogs what claws can do to a nose if the nose gets too close . . . the dogs now understand who is in charge.

Meanwhile, after inspecting the entire house, the kitty decided that the desk behind the 14 yr old's computer was his home. The kitten is now damn near full grown; helps the 14 yr old with his homework; keeps the dogs under control; and generally rules the household.

wryter2000

(46,113 posts)
17. I've fed a few ferals in my yard
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:59 PM
Oct 2021

Many became tame. The best one was a tuxedo cat. If I made a lap, he was instantly in it. He'd walk away from food for my lap. (I made sure he got the food, though.) He'd greet me when I came home from work. If I went away for a few days, my husband would make sure he got fed, but the cat gave me a lecture when I got back. Non-stop meowing for a few minutes. I think he thought he was a dog because that's how he acted.

piddyprints

(14,649 posts)
15. That is truly the best medicine.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 06:45 PM
Oct 2021


I was crying so hard this morning and my 18-month-old kitty came into the room to see what was wrong. I picked her up and she started licking the tears off my face.

Madoc has been through a lot of changes. You need each other.

Roy Rolling

(6,943 posts)
20. Aww
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 06:58 AM
Oct 2021

He’s shocked from being alone all day, and alone forever without Morgan and Sophie Stinky Toes. Give him 24/7 attention today. That is an order. 🤣

soldierant

(6,940 posts)
23. My mother's family liked to use the word
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 01:59 PM
Oct 2021

"prince" to describe a man who was rich in empathy (not in your face about it, but quietly, consistently building others up.)

You named Madoc well. (I almost typend "welsh." Silly me.)

wendyb-NC

(3,342 posts)
24. You have the best medicine in that precious guy
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 06:44 PM
Oct 2021

I am so good you have such a sweet kitty boy. You both need to rest. He seems to be hinting that you do too. The play times, sound like a wonderful way to deal with the intensity, and stress, of the last several days. The rest can only help you both heal.

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