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captain queeg

(10,085 posts)
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:26 PM Jan 2021

Leaving the store today and couldn't remember where I parked

I was standing there with my shopping cart and looking around. A woman came up and asked if she could help. Told her I was looking for my car and described it and she pointed it out. I was thinking I must have looked like a confused oldster. Then I thought, yeah because I am.

In my defense I have a very common looking car. Seems like all the cars a few years ago were grey and a Honda Civic looks a lot like a Toyota Corolla and Hyundai, etc. I’ve even tried getting into someone else car in a parking lot in the past. But I guess I need to start taking note of where I park when I’m in a big crowded lot.

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Leaving the store today and couldn't remember where I parked (Original Post) captain queeg Jan 2021 OP
I ALWAYS park in front of the store sign even if there are a hundred jimfields33 Jan 2021 #1
And I thought I was the only one. ;) Chainfire Jan 2021 #11
My little Corolla is red Ohiogal Jan 2021 #18
This is exactly the reason I bought a turquoise car. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2021 #2
I have an orange equinox. I've seen a few but not many. blueinredohio Jan 2021 #21
They do all look alike! happybird Jan 2021 #3
I feel you mahina Jan 2021 #4
Understand. MuseRider Jan 2021 #5
I have done that many times, just never admitted it Bev54 Jan 2021 #6
I started driving when I was 18. luvs2sing Jan 2021 #7
Isn't that the truth! Clearly fogged in Jan 2021 #19
Oh, yes, gblady Jan 2021 #8
Neat trick I heard on a radio show. Phoenix61 Jan 2021 #9
I forget which vehicle Dave in VA Jan 2021 #10
if you have a remote keyfob just walk around clicking. drray23 Jan 2021 #12
On trips, I've occasionally looked for my own car instead of the rental! flor-de-jasmim Jan 2021 #13
When I rent a car, I take a picture of it, and the license plate, with my phone. Croney Jan 2021 #16
I've never once had difficulty finding my car True Dough Jan 2021 #14
Years ago people used to tie things to car antennas Wicked Blue Jan 2021 #15
I was thinking the same thing. blueinredohio Jan 2021 #22
I was with a driver once who did that at Disneyland, worst possible place! Liberty Belle Jan 2021 #17
Back in the day I would go to Costco so often sometimes it was hard to remember where I parked dem4decades Jan 2021 #20
I don't go many places these days, but where I do go KatyaR Jan 2021 #23
If you have a smart phone and use Google maps you can have it save your parking location. CentralMass Jan 2021 #24
I've done that most of my adult life. 2naSalit Jan 2021 #25
I hear ya! marigold20 Jan 2021 #26
I've been "directionally challenged" my whole life DeeDeeNY Jan 2021 #27
Or hanging a daisy on your car somewhere! Joinfortmill Jan 2022 #28
There are actually times when I do remember. DavidDvorkin Jan 2022 #29
I lost my car while at a Led Zeppelin concert at Kezar stadium CountAllVotes Sep 2023 #30
I had my car stolen at a concert in Pittsburg when I was a teen. captain queeg Sep 2023 #31
Install the Find My Car app DeeDeeNY Sep 2023 #32

jimfields33

(15,669 posts)
1. I ALWAYS park in front of the store sign even if there are a hundred
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:28 PM
Jan 2021

Free spots closer. It’s saved me numerous times and I’m still relatively young.

Chainfire

(17,458 posts)
11. And I thought I was the only one. ;)
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:46 PM
Jan 2021

I drive a sub-compact car, it gets lost among all of the pickup trucks. As long as I can get into hearing distance of the horn, I am fine. But when I walk into the store, I go, "OK, self, you are on the row of the M in Home Depot! I am getting old, but my short term memory has never been anything to write home about.

Ohiogal

(31,895 posts)
18. My little Corolla is red
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 07:00 PM
Jan 2021

But how many times it has gotten completely obliterated by a mammoth pickup truck parked on either side.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,576 posts)
2. This is exactly the reason I bought a turquoise car.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:29 PM
Jan 2021

Everybody has black, white or gray cars these days. Mine stands out in that sea of non-colors and I hardly ever misplace it in a parking lot.

happybird

(4,587 posts)
3. They do all look alike!
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:31 PM
Jan 2021

I bought a silver/grey Corolla a year ago and still have problems locating it in parking lots.

mahina

(17,612 posts)
4. I feel you
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:32 PM
Jan 2021

Park in the same place every time I go to Costco because it’s the farthest from the door so there’s always a spot and it’s the closest to the exit so I don’t have to fuss around with all the people parked in the middle of the lane and dangerous situations. Also I always know where my car is because I have been there too.

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
5. Understand.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:32 PM
Jan 2021

We got lost in a huge parking garage when we were at Disney World long ago when our kids were small. They were whinny and we were bone tired but I bet we walked for miles up and down looking for our white rental among many white rentals.

Today I make sure my car has a key fob that will honk the horn or start the car, that helps some. Even with that I try to photograph what I can see standing beside the car when in a big lot.

Sucks doesn't it?

Bev54

(10,037 posts)
6. I have done that many times, just never admitted it
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:34 PM
Jan 2021

I use the car lock (not the alarm) to hear the horn honk once.

luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
7. I started driving when I was 18.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:37 PM
Jan 2021

I’m 63 now. And I’ve lost my car in parking lots for every year I’ve driven. When I got a phone, I started taking pictures of where I’m parked. It’s nuts. I have an amazing sense of direction but, if I’m not parked directly in front of the door, I’m likely to be lost.

Clearly fogged in

(1,896 posts)
19. Isn't that the truth!
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 07:03 PM
Jan 2021

An innate sense of direction along with organized thinking allows you to travel the world effortlessly. But those damned parking lots...

gblady

(3,541 posts)
8. Oh, yes,
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:37 PM
Jan 2021

My favorite grocery store used to have banners of farm animals at the end of the parking rows, and I would make a mental note which one I was parked in, the cow row, the pig row etc. Then they got rid of them. I was lost a good number of times right after that. Now I look towards the building and remember where I am in relation to it, but the banners were much easier.

Phoenix61

(16,992 posts)
9. Neat trick I heard on a radio show.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:39 PM
Jan 2021

The reason it’s so easy to loose your car in a parking lot is because you don’t know where it’s parked in relation to anything else. You’re looking at the entrance on your way in. So before you walk in, turn around and find your car and make note of where it is in relation to other fixed objects, like light poles. When you get done shopping and walk out the parking lot will look familiar and you’ll have an easier time finding your car. Use this when I can’t park in my”usual” spots and hasn’t failed me yet.

Dave in VA

(2,035 posts)
10. I forget which vehicle
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:43 PM
Jan 2021

I drove to the store. I'll walk around pushing a cart for half an hour looking for my jeep when I drove the wife's sedan to the store.

Gettin' old ain't for whimps!

flor-de-jasmim

(2,125 posts)
13. On trips, I've occasionally looked for my own car instead of the rental!
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:49 PM
Jan 2021

My worst experience was parking a rental car in a shopping center in Minneapolis - the parking lot was one big ramp. I couldn't remember where it was, and after a while, I couldn't even remember what it looked like. Luckily it only took me 20 minutes to remember that the license plate number was printed on the key!

Croney

(4,656 posts)
16. When I rent a car, I take a picture of it, and the license plate, with my phone.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:54 PM
Jan 2021

Now I always know what the car looks like. I wish I'd thought of it years before I did.

Wicked Blue

(5,813 posts)
15. Years ago people used to tie things to car antennas
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:52 PM
Jan 2021

Artificial flowers, pompoms, ribbons, etc.

Unfortunately cars no longer have radio antennas.

Liberty Belle

(9,532 posts)
17. I was with a driver once who did that at Disneyland, worst possible place!
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 06:56 PM
Jan 2021

Somewhere around 1 in the morning, after everyone else had left, we finally found it.

I used to occasionally have trouble finding my silver Toyota Camry, the most common color of the most common car in America at the time -- often there would be several in the same row at stores. When it got totaled in a wreck, I bought the same model but in robin's egg blue. Nobody has that color, it seems,so I've had no more troubles spotting it.

dem4decades

(11,269 posts)
20. Back in the day I would go to Costco so often sometimes it was hard to remember where I parked
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 07:09 PM
Jan 2021

from one day to the next. Car alarms on the key are friends at times.

KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
23. I don't go many places these days, but where I do go
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 07:37 PM
Jan 2021

I always park in the same place or close to. I also have a remote horn and unusual bumper stickers on the car. My anxiety can't handle even thinking I've lost my car.

2naSalit

(86,313 posts)
25. I've done that most of my adult life.
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 08:20 PM
Jan 2021

And when I used to drive semis more than cars, I would leave the store looking first for my truck in the back of the lot. If there isn't one that I recognize, if I'm with someone, I try to recall which of us drove there. Then it comes down to what did I get here in? and where the hell is that? Lately it is the same issue you had. Don't get too down about it, happens more than you might think.

marigold20

(921 posts)
26. I hear ya!
Fri Jan 1, 2021, 08:37 PM
Jan 2021

I have a little different story. I left a big box store and for once knew where I parked. I followed a woman out into the parking lot which was filled with dirty black sedans similar to my Civic. She proceeded to my car, got in (wasn't locked), got back out, and took off in search of her own dirty black car. Now I have a silver Civic, just like most cars are today!

DeeDeeNY

(3,354 posts)
27. I've been "directionally challenged" my whole life
Mon Jan 4, 2021, 09:26 AM
Jan 2021

There are some good apps to help with parking:
Dude Where Is My Car and Find My Car.

CountAllVotes

(20,864 posts)
30. I lost my car while at a Led Zeppelin concert at Kezar stadium
Sun Sep 24, 2023, 02:08 PM
Sep 2023

I had no idea where I had parked MY FATHER'S VW!

I was walking around in San Francisco looking for it after the concert was over.

I couldn't find it and I was crying!

Luckily, the SFPD spotted me and they drove me around the area and found my father's car.

Ye gads that was embarrassing and I was only 16 years old at the time so I couldn't blame it on age/memory!





captain queeg

(10,085 posts)
31. I had my car stolen at a concert in Pittsburg when I was a teen.
Sun Sep 24, 2023, 05:30 PM
Sep 2023

I couldn’t believe it was stolen. Kept thinking I’d just forgotten where I parked it. Finally accepted reality and talked to a cop I saw doing traffic duty. He remembered seeing me the night before with a couple ner-do-well locals and told me their names. I tracked the name down in the phone book and called his mom. After the concert cleared out we found my car in the parking lot, kind of trashed, but we made it home before it gave up the ghost. It was actually quite an adventure all in all. We found some other guys from our home town in the parking lot and they escorted me home (the perps had ruined my brakes). Can’t remember for sure who we went to see, it was one of those stadium concerts with multiple bands. I think BTO was headlining.

DeeDeeNY

(3,354 posts)
32. Install the Find My Car app
Fri Sep 29, 2023, 09:47 PM
Sep 2023

Once you're parked, open the app and set the car location. When you look for the car, the app will lead you to it.

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