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Related: About this forumDoes there need to be an Atheist/Theist dialogue?
Seriously - I would say that this issue affects both camps. There are a great deal of Christians who feel it is their duty to "save" or "rebuke" Atheists. And at the same time there are a great deal of Atheists intent of "converting" theists.
Neither of these does any good, and if anything creates animosity and resentment on both sides.
Christians, I feel, need to understand that many of us Atheists feel betrayed by religion and faith, and feel as if the nature of religion puts us in crosshairs.
At the same time, Atheists need to understand that most Theists are like them - they have families, homes, are suffering in this economy and what not.
Your thoughts?
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cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Bullshit. No one here is interested in "converting" anyone, but non-believers here ARE interested in having answers to the difficult questions that an irrational belief in the supernatural naturally creates. Two very different things.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Still, it happens
All the more reason to have a dialogue
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Friend, you made a serious claim, and I charge you to back up that claim with factual evidence. Please.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)This is not the norm
This is not common
This is is a specific example
AND
It is the internet. Anyone can be anything on the internet.
But, it does exist.
That is all I am saying
trotsky
(49,533 posts)was specifically referring to here on DU.
Did you really mean on the entire Internet? Or in the real world?
Taverner
(55,476 posts)On DU, no.
In fact, we Atheists here couldn't be more polite.
We get accused of being impolite when we question the logic behind theist's beliefs
But that is a difference of opinion, not rudness
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)I thought this was DU-centric at first.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)BTW - my thought is that the scope of such a dialogue wouldn't just be here on DU, but all over America
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)I just want the religious bullshit out of my life and certainly out of the government. The current threads about two different FFRF cases is a clear example. If religion didn't force itself into government and I was not impacted by religion coming into laws, I guarantee you I would say nothing about it outside of discussions people wanted to have with me.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)And I think Christians especially need to see this point of view
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Too bad most theists just are unable to see it that way.
obxhead
(8,434 posts)Everyone is free to believe in whatever magic space being they choose to. I just don't want it shoved down my throat and into our laws.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)My guess is there will be among some of us a conversation, and you probably will want to stay out of it.
I hope that none of us in the conversation will have any intention of converting anyone, just being in the group to listen appreciatively.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)For shame.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)I never said "any conversation" was "religious bullshit." I'm talking about the myriad of ways that religion sticks its nose into our government as "religious bullshit." And if you don't agree with that, then perhaps we don't have anything to talk about. But that's not my fault, because my desire for a secular government is in line with the founders.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)that there would have been on Civil Rights without the religious. Hell, I know you want to count them, but the Transcendentalists were hardly mainline believers and more like Deists than anything and they brought about a lot of this. Emerson was banished from most religious institutions at the time for what he said. But go ahead a continue with this fallacious line of reasoning.
And here's some other stuff that we can say "there goes" to as well: inquisitions, pogroms, blue laws, abortion laws, anti-gay rights laws, religious pandering from politicians. The list continues.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)you are out of luck. To keep the government from authorizing any religious entity is another matter. I'm with you on that one.
Explain what keeping religion out of your life might look like.
If I said that I want atheist bull shit out of my life--which I have never said and certainly don't believe, would you be offended?
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)Go to church.
Wear whatever religious stuff you want.
Just keep it out of my government and leave me alone unless you and I have a reason to talk about it.
That's pretty simple.
And what would wanting all the atheist bullshit out of your life look like? Us not posting in here? I'm not talking about that. I come in here for the purpose of discussing religion. So do you. How has atheism pushed itself into your life?
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)I would never want all atheistic influence out of my life. To wall it off would be rude and non-productive in any dialogue. You can't have a cultural dialogue with no opposition. I'm not talking about this group, but about our society. If I asked for all atheistic thought and action to be invisible because I refuse to deal with it or try to understand it, you could call me a bigot.
stopbush
(24,396 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Good luck with that. I'm sure the "many other ways of knowing" crowd will be along shortly.
Lionessa
(3,894 posts)no objective facts to support their belief in mysticism.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Well said.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)Since I think that is what is up in the air at this time
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)How many atheists do you think are unaware of the things you mentioned about theists, and need to be educated? Most atheists WERE theists at some point, for pity's sake.
TygrBright
(20,767 posts)... the entirely justified anger and resentment on the part of atheists who've suffered centuries of vicious discrimination, and the appalling presumption and insensitivity on the part of many of my fellow theists combine to create such a toxic, emotion-driven brew that I avoid it from sheer cowardice and need to preserve my own equanimity.
So... yes, there probably needs to be such a dialogue. But could we postpone it until atheists have enjoyed a couple of centuries of complete equality, civil rights, and non-discrimination? Possibly by that time many of us theists can internalize the realizations that a) atheists aren't some fundamentally evil breed apart from humanity, and even that the conclusions they have drawn about the nature of life, physics, and metaphysics are just as valid as those theists have drawn.
And possibly by that time many atheists can have sufficiently overcome the pain, resentment, and irritation with their collective and individual experience of discrimination to the extent of not needing to smack down us irrational gullible sky-daddy believing fools for our divine folly.
wearily,
Bright
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Wow. You get it.
Thank you.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)"... the entirely justified anger and resentment on the part of atheists who've suffered centuries of vicious discrimination, and the appalling presumption and insensitivity on the part of many of my fellow theists combine to create such a toxic, emotion-driven brew that I avoid it from sheer cowardice and need to preserve my own equanimity. "
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)I'm an atheist, but since you say you are a theist, I say "bless you" for your understanding. It is most uncommon.
and most welcome
cbayer
(146,218 posts)In terms of postponing it, I'm not so sure. MurielVolestrangler just posted poll results over time that show that the public's willingness to elect an atheist is essentially unchanged over the past 12 years. (side note, it has changed substantially for GLBT candidates).
So, my question is this. Why, despite increased numbers and visibility, does that number remain the same? Do atheists need alliances with non-atheists to make progress? The "nones" are the fastest rising group - those that say they have no religious affiliation, but often still maintain some theism, deism or spirituality". Is there any opportunity for this group of "nones" to help build bridges with the general public?
And, finally, how can others help heal the pain, resentment and irritation that many have experienced? Do they just need to step back and give them time to heal?
TygrBright
(20,767 posts)I think the number of people willing to elect an atheist hasn't changed much in the past 12 years because the issue has been low profile except among those who personally "feel" it passionately. (Mostly atheists, alas... not nearly enough theists/"nones" (agnostics?) regard this issue as important enough to feel personally passionate about.)
In the sense that theists are the majority, control virtually all of the power structures, and pretty much have a lock on the most widely-distributed media voices, it's going to be pretty tough for atheists alone to sufficiently advance the case for ending discrimination. Not impossible, but difficult. The problem is the same as every other discriminated-against group has faced: The need to retain control of their own struggle, while at the same time actuating alliances to advance that struggle. Frankly, I have abundant confidence in atheists to do this, but I'd venture to guess that the most pragmatic among them will be seeking strategic alliances. (Hints on places to look: United Church of Christ. Friends World Congress. Unitarian Universalists.)
The reality remains: Theists must come to terms with the truth that WE are not truly free while atheists suffer discrimination. Banging that through skulls that can enclose some of our more challengingly literalist theologies will be quite the trick.
I have no answers about the "nones" and their capacity as bridge-builders except to speculate that a large number in that category are simply people who are unengaged in metaphysics at all. I'm not sanguine about their inclination to take on a passionate agenda related to metaphysical beliefs/lack of beliefs. But to the extent that "nones" may be engaged in, and passionate about, the issue of discrimination against minorities, they may play a role - even an important one.
How can others help heal the pain, resentment, etc.? Well, let's start by acknowledging that it exists, that it is justified, and that we are complicit in causing it. Let's express remorse, and commit ourselves to change, personal and societal, to rectify the discrimination that caused the pain. It's not a magic wand but I know from my First American friends, my gay relatives and loved ones, my African-American colleagues, etc., that it's usually a good place to start.
And I recommend that anyone who feels the tiniest, slightest, impulse to "explain" why or how any form or manifestation of discrimination against atheists might conceivably have been justified in any anomalous circumstance (especially including the words "tradition/traditional" "culture/cultural" "history/historic" and "context," should probably yes, step back and give it time to heal.
helpfully,
Bright
cbayer
(146,218 posts)I have been an ally in many other causes and have had allies when I have been in the minority fighting for an equal voice. I know that it is a hard line to walk, sometimes, which ever side you are on.
Concerning the pain and resentment, I recognize that many have come to atheism from a theistic background in which they endured worse than just discrimination. Many have been hurt by religious institutions and religious people. To the extent that we (including me) turned a blind eye to this, we do need to take responsibility and make amends. We are also responsible for doing whatever we can to prevent those things happening in the future to whatever extent we can.
But I will not be a whipping post or allow those hurt or abused to hurt or abuse me. If someone feels that the mere presence or voice of a theist is too painful for them or elicits a response that is hostile, then I will certainly agree with your advice that it is best to step back and give them time to heal. I honestly hope that they do.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)is that questioning Christian beliefs, even attacking them, and/or being strongly opposed to wrapping the Democratic agenda in a Christian cloak, is NOT hurting or abusing you.
And let me say too that I am one atheist of many who wasn't necessarily "hurt by religious institutions and religious people" while I believed. Far from it. It just never made any sense to me. Far more damage has come now, as a non-believer, living in a culture still over-saturated with religious sentiments and power and the inability of those who benefit from it to even recognize the privilege they enjoy.
But then you are ignoring me for whatever reason anyway. The hurt goes on.
EvolveOrConvolve
(6,452 posts)I'm not sure what to say, but thank you. I've met very few people who are able to do what you did and empathize with our pain, even though you don't experience it directly. We need more supporters like you!
mr blur
(7,753 posts)Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)mr blur
(7,753 posts)I certainly don't "feel betrayed by religion and faith" - it never owed me anything and has provided me with much amusement. Nor do I feel the need to "convert" theists.
It's theists who need to understand that most atheists are like them.
But, a dialogue where?
Taverner
(55,476 posts)In all honesty, I do think this needs to be a national dialogue
LeftishBrit
(41,212 posts)I don't think that for most people whether you're theist or atheist is the main source of friction: class and ethnicity seem to cause more. But that may be because I'm not American. At any rate, it's in general better to have dialogue than hostility.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)and so it goes...
cbayer
(146,218 posts)There are members from both camps that are not interested or refuse to take any responsibility for their part in the internecine wars nor do they have any interest in a negotiated settlement or truce. It will leave them isolated and ineffective, but if they are bent on mutual destruction in order to say they "won", so be it.
OTOH, there are members from both camps who are forming alliances while recognizing and respecting their substantial differences. Together they will move and assist each other in achieving mutual goals.
It's not that hard.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)or a "settlement" reached when there is a theist army entrenched on atheist territory with NO intention of ever leaving or offering any kind of accommodation that doesn't involve the obliteration of atheism?
When theist control and attempts to control the government, the courts, the schools and the military cease, and cease for good, then talk to us about a "truce". Until then, we'll keep up the fight, thank you very much.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)See you around.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)and a capitulation to those who would enshrine their particular religious beliefs into law and impose them on everyone. And no, I won't be participating in that, nor will I respect you for doing so.
What I will participate in, and have been participating in for many years, are fights to prevent that imposition, and to educate people about the dangers of religious influence in government. You and your warm and fuzzy "interfaith" groups have been of little or no help in that effort and and to the extent you have been, are very late to the party.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)This is not a dialogue, but asking for capitulation, surrender, and a big red "A" on our foreheads
Taverner
(55,476 posts)And it's working well?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)And since you popped in, if such a dialogue were to occur, I would not vote for you as the mediator. Your bias is too thick on this topic.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Launching into an attack when another initiates dialogue is just plain rude.
Take a look at yourself and how you respond.
Just because you think your bias is right, doesn't mean it's still not a bias.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)Especially because you think everything is fine
That mind is firmly shut and not taking anything new
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)Although if you've never seen this before, then what are you doing in this thread?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)But fail to back up anything you claim
Sorry, not going to play that game
Go play with someone else
Meanwhile I'll be here trying to have a dialogue, not a nitpick fight
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Sorry I called you on your serial killer claim.
I'm out now. Don't want to play this game either.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Yeah, funny how some people here get all nit-picky about backing things up with actual evidence, when they habitually refuse to meet such requests themselves.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)Where's the data that proves your god is also his father?
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)If you want to fight fundamentalism go ahead, but leave me out.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)When others ask you for links to back up your assertions, you call them unreasonable demands and attack the person who is asking.
Nice to know you admit to having a double standard.
Leontius
(2,270 posts)there is a majority that wants no dialog even though they claim they do and guess which side that is? It's a shame that their voice of intolerance is so loud and their doublespeak so blatant but seemly accepted by others who hold their worldview if not the same opinion on the need for real discussion.
mr blur
(7,753 posts)Leontius
(2,270 posts)I'd be lying so we'll just have to leave it at thanks.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)who regularly dodge and evade direct questions about their posts and claims. The ones who only want an echo chamber for their views and who regard any criticism or demands for evidence to back up their claims as a personal attack.
You do the math. Show us where the atheists here have refused to engage on any topic.
Leontius
(2,270 posts)other threads with me? Sorry about your luck it ain't happening. Because you can't confront them is not my problem and I can't help you get off their ignore lists.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)puts the lie to your claim about who wants open and unrestricted dialogue and engagement in this group and who doesn't. But I guess you're used to that.
BTW, I have nobody on ignore...so who are the ones with their fingers in their ears, saying "Blah, blah, blah...I'm not listening!" Do the math again.
Leontius
(2,270 posts)I can't make it any clearer for you than that. If you want someone to fight with pick someone else, maybe they will care about your problems with those other posters. I don't care as I would guess you aren't concerned about any problems I may have with certain people here. If someone ignores you I can't help you I already said I can't. I get the echo chamber complaint you have and I don't think it's helpful anymore than you do and I don't think the personal attacks help either, do you, or is that a part of "unrestricted"?
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)to a broad question like the one posed in the OP to only what one person (you) perceives in one thread on one day. it's quite clear that you need to limit your thinking in order not to seem TOO silly.
And where did I say I have problems with other posters? I merely point out that their demonstrable behavior makes you out as dishonest. I have no problem with that if you don't.
LTX
(1,020 posts)pinto
(106,886 posts)and focussing primarily on civic/social issues related to poverty, discrimination. equality and acceptance of diversity, labor rights, etc. An overall liberal / progressive agenda.
There's also an Atheists United group here in the county. Don't know if the latter participates with the former, but I think it would be a plus all around. Small town, I know some of the AU members and some of the IC members...
I'm going to contact both and see if they interact (both have regular booths at our Farmers' Market). If I get some feedback, I'll post it here.
dmallind
(10,437 posts)There obviously are plenty of atheist/theist dialogues already, many of them here. Are you asking if the nature of the dialogues should change? The answer then becomes two questions; by which means and to what end? Sure it would be better if there were both less vitriol and less reason for it I suppose, but I'm not sure you've pegged the reasons for that. I don't see much overt evangelism or devangelism here. Plenty of the former IRL of course.
I also don't think betrayal is all that common a reason for being atheistic. It's certainly a disingenuous one. Religion or its followers have never abused or personally shown treachery to me, and even if they had it wouldn't make their claims invalid were they valid to begin with. By at least a ten to one margin, atheists I've talked to reject theism because there is no evidence for it, not because of resentment or hurt feelings. Sure I'll criticize religious venality aplenty, but it's bugger all to do with why I don't believe in it, and I don't think I'm an outlier. Similarly I'm sure most atheists are well aware believers lead perfectly normal lives for the most part and do not spend their time plotting the next heretic burning.
If we want to improve the dialogue we may all need to bear certain things in mind. I confess I have "sinned" against my own list and I confess I do not approach the issue without bias, but I'll certainly try.
1) Understand terminology. Atheism is the absence of belief in gods. Nothing else. Subsets of atheism exist including perfidious ones like Randians and fideist ones like strong atheists, but speak only for themselves. Theism is the belief in personal gods. Nothing else. Endless subsets exist including wonderfully peacable groups such as Jains and intellectual traditions such as the Jewish Rabbinate but speak only for themselves. Agnosticism is not about belief and is not a third option. Christian means a believer in and follower of Christ. Nothing else. Subsets exist including objectionable ones like WBC and currently perfectly blameless ones such as Quakers - but speak only for themselves.
2) The NTS is real and poisonous and a sign of bad erm...faith in dialogue. Fred Phelps, Pat Robertson, Bryan Fischer et al are Christians, not "Christians" or Paulists. So was Hitler. Stalin, Pol Pot, Mao etc were atheists. So is Dawkins when he insults people or Newdow when he's being a preening git. Pretending bad people are not of your opinion means only people who disagree with you can be bad. That's bullshit and it's insulting bullshit.
3) There is no spokesman for atheism, and no leader. I'm sure there is a communications chief of American Atheists etc - no idea who it is. But he speaks for AA only. Dawkins et al are just famous atheists. Religious leaders on the other hand speak for their organizations just like the AA person does. The Pope DOES apeak for Catholicism. You may disagree with him as a Catholic, just like an AA member may disagree with their spokesman, but he speaks for the faith, not you. I would not dream of saying AA's spokesman does not speak for AA. He does not speak for non-AA atheism though, just like the Pope does not speak for Lutherans or Baptists. BUT there is no spokesman for theism or Christianity either. Sure Ratzinger speaks for Catholicism and Fischher speaks for hundreds of thousands of AFA members, but non-Catholics or non-AFA members should not be tarred with the same brush.
4) Ontological burden of proof rests squarely on the theistic side. I cannot prove and need not prove that there are no indigo unicorns in the Horsehead nebula; if you try to claim that there are then you need to demonstrate why. Gods shouldn't get special pleading here.
5) Faith without evidence, acknowledged as such, is not per se objectionable. We all hope our team will win the Superbowl, or Olympic gold, or the pub quiz. Many of us fervently believe it. Nothing wrong with extending this to gods to give yourself comfort or hope or social cohesion. There is something wrong however with legislating or establishing social norms on that basis onto others who don't share it, or pretending that this belief has an objective basis.
6) The presence of a belief is a much stronger motivation than the absence of one. This works both ways. Believers have done far more charitable things because of their faith than atheists have because they lacked it (although as the philanthropy rankings show, atheists do a lot of it regardless of belief). But nobody ever beat a kid to death because of atheism; the same cannot be said for religion. I'm pretty sure atheists have committed such crimes and worse, but again, regardless of belief.
7) Religious belief is not a special class of belief. It should not be immune from questioning, criticism, humor or ridicule any more than beliefs about sports teams, politics, race relations, art, hobbies or anything else. Same goes for atheism, natch. Plenty of people have non-religious beliefs that are just as deep, sincere and integral to their identity, be that white supremacy or veganism.
8) Religion, and in the US this always means Christianity, permeates society. Nobody can escape it and nobody is free from its effects and influence both good and bad. Everybody has the right and the ability to discuss religion regardless of their belief. We don't have to be White House staffers to discuss politics here; we don't have to be NFL coaches to discuss football or directors to discuss movies. Of course as in these cases theologians can get far deeper into intricacies and subtleties than the rest of us, but that's only an advantage when they are discussing intricacies and subtleties. It doesn't take Scorsese to tell Schwarzenegger is a bad actor. It doesn't take Kung to tell Genesis is a folk myth.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)How does Dawkins insult people?
When is Newdow a preening git?
When they forcefully espouse their views?
Now, I'm sure they have their share of human flaws, and may even have insulted people and been preening gits at some time or other. But basically what I see in both men is, finally!, a complete lack of cowering to the special privileges religions have enjoyed for centuries. Theism has zero authority over them and they show it. Bravo.
The special treatment of theism is so ubiquitous that when it is jettisoned, even intelligent people think it's rudeness. That's like one of the 1st things that needs to be changed.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)I agree with much you say and have some argument with other points. You have raised some issues that I have not considered, but I think I may have a few to add that you may not have considered.
I would encourage you to make this an OP. I would like nothing more than a serious discussion around your 8 points.
Because they are written by you, who I assume is an atheist, perhaps we need to get input from other POV's in refining them. Not just christian, either. The issue of islamism in the US is huge and growing. Where do they fit into this scheme?
Anyway, we just had an incredible gale blow in, so I am not fully engaged here, but I am very interested in discussing further.
I am not impartial by any means but I tried to include religionist prerequisites here as much as atheist ones. To stress a few (none are new - just maybe need to stand alone)
The negative actions of religious people do not damage the validity of their claims, let alone the similar claims of other religious people
The actions of religious groups AS religious groups reflect only on that group
Religious motivation can be positive, and is more likely to drive positive action in that case than atheistic motivation, which is much weaker
Religious belief per se is neither negative nor, for many, useless, unless it is used to restrict the actions or norms of others
About the only other "conditions" for improved dialogue I would expect theists, again almost exclusively Christians here, to suggest, would contradict the basic reason for a dialogue between equals and would betoken the capitulation decried (and, strangely, denied its putative existence by Christians) above:
1) If we accept that religious beliefs are exempt from the same treatment meted out to any other belief from hard questions to ridicule, we assume as axiomatic that it is a different quality of belief - something special and protected. How could that be accepted unless we also accept that it is true? Not going to happen. If you think Donovan McNabb is the greatest QB in history, you need to show me stats and reasoning, and refute data that shows him not to be, and deal with pointed laughter at the comparison. Why, unless they are true, should your claims about your god being the real one amongst many such claims or against the null hypothesis be treated any differently? Sure YOU see a qualitative difference between belief in God and beliefs about football, but that's because you think God is real. If you demand that *I* see that qualitative difference, you're demanding that I think so too. That's not an equal dialogue - that's me giving in 100% to your view of the central thesis of the dialogue. Religious beliefs are only special to the religious
2) If we turn centuries of epistemology on its head and accept that gnosis is a valid source of knowledge, there is no possibility of any dialogue at all. You can claim subjective non-falsifiable non-testable certainty that God exists and I could claim the same way that he doesn't, or that Zeus does. There is no second step here - no way to synthesize or provide evidence or dispute evidence. We might as well debate who has the biggest chakras. If there were "other ways" of knowing there would be NO way of knowing.
As far as Islam goes, I and I believe most atheists see less of a difference than most Christians think we should. Oh for sure I know the theological and historical differences and so on, but none of the points above apply differently to Muslims from their application to Christians or Hindus or Wiccans. Like most Western atheists, I use Christianity as an example because it's what surrounds me and it's the religion that imposes itself on the society in which I live. But there are both benign and malign Muslim groups, who speak only for themselves; negative actions by Muslims do not reduce any truth that might be found in their religion (I personally see none, but if it could be demonstrated, not all the bombs or riots in the world would make it less true any more than Rudolph and Hill would make Christianity less true if 'twere so). Islamic motivation can be positive too and is stronger than atheistic, yadda yadda - they all apply.
I approach Islam not one iota differently from Christianity, in any respect at all. It's simply less important in my life. If I moved to Turkey it would be the reverse.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Dude, your entire post ROCKED! Lets see if you get an intelligent reply from the one you were responding to, or if the usual tactic of passively ignoring or misdirection comes into play.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)I didn't meant to jump down your throat with my "Dawkins" post.
LTX
(1,020 posts)dmallind
(10,437 posts)Even though, for example, Bryan Fischer is a graduate-degreed theologian and career pastor before becoming the policy director for an organization that talks about Christianity as its raison d'etre, he's not a TRUE Christian to many idiot believers because he is a homophobic asshole.
By discarding unpleasant people from the set of TRUE Christians, it seeks to establish that all Christians are pleasant and that only non-Christians can be homophopic assholes. Same for child-beaters, misogynists, ob/gyn killers, bombers, spree-shooters, tyrants etc. Even if they have been Christians all their lives, still avow fervent Christianity, still attend Christian churches and even make perfectly cogent statements that they acted for and because of Christianity, the NTS lie allows bullshitting buffoons to pretend that any bad people are not TRUE Christians and therefore no longer inconvenient to moralistic claims about Christianity and its adherents.
Not a two-way street to any great degree. Can't say too many atheists have claimed Pol Pot wasn't a TRUE atheist.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Sometimes distinctions need to be made. Sometimes people that call themselves something flagrantly betray the most basic tenets of what it means to be that thing.
The accusation that something is an NTS argument and, therefore, a fallacy, is too often used only to lump everyone together and pin the worst traits of some on all.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)and and ignoramus. I would also add that he is very much an Uncle Tom. That doesn't make him "not a true atheist." He doesn't believe in god. He's our (read: atheist) dick and ignoramus to deal with.
dmallind
(10,437 posts)Cite the reference to de Botton not being a TRUE atheist. I'll promise in advance I will excoriate such idiocy roundly. Speaking personally the only time I have referred to people not being real atheists is when a few answered aa survey that they believed in a god. That's definititional, not related to behavior. If somebody says "all true Scotsman are born in Scotland" it's not an NTS to react to "Well Joe was born in Sunderland and he's a Scotsman" with "Well then he's not a true Scotsman" - it's just correcting a false use of the term.
WHEN has it been used as you describe here? WHEN has an atheist used a NTS example to say ALL Christians exhibit the same behavior that the NTS sought to disassociate them from?
You keep making these assertions. Back them up.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)really *one of us*.
dmallind
(10,437 posts)Last edited Tue Jun 12, 2012, 04:34 PM - Edit history (1)
Any indication other blacks think he's not actually black? Or just that he's a sycophantic useful tool for the white majority?
Calling somebody names is not an NTS. It's the opposite of the intent of the NTS. By calling atheists unpleasant things we admit atheists can be unpleasant. Unless we are saying he's not an atheist it's NOT an NTS. How long will you resist this 3rd grade level blindingly obvious universally agreed upon definition simply because it is inconvenient for you?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)between different types within the same group.
I think accusations of using it only shuts down debate, as distinctions are often valid and often need to be made.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)I would posit you can't because I don't think any have used that argument. And because their is no doctrine that we can point to in a cherry-picking manner to somehow kick someone out of the group (e.g. they aren't a true atheist because they _____) unless it is that they believe in a god, but that is hardly a NTS fallacy.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)for self-promotion and money.
I don't see how that is different than trying to distinguish self-promoting religious people from other types of religious people - disingenuous, hypocritical and not what you identify with.
dmallind
(10,437 posts)We can say deBotton is a dick, an Uncle Tom, a fool, and anything else without it bring an NTS. Just like you can say the same about Phelps. In fact, insulting other members of our group is the exact OPPOSITE.
It would only be an NTS if we said DeBotton was NOT A TRUE ATHEIST!
This is not complicated and you have repeated this same lie multiple times. Back it up, retract it or own your lies.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)dmallind
(10,437 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)Just like original usage of "uncle tom" was not saying that the person was not black but that they did all they could to make the whites feel good and not do anything to rock the boat. Uncle Tom was still a black man. de Botton is still an atheist.
I know it might make you feel good to say that I and others are committing the NTS fallacy but you are either not understanding what it is, applying it incorrectly, or deliberately misrepresenting it. I'm not sure which one, but I know your example is not an example of the fallacy.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)If I truly believe that Fred Phelps is a shyster who pretends to be a Christian while betraying everything that I believe defines a christian, is that an NTS argument? If I call myself black for personal gain, although I clearly am not, and someone calls me on it, is that an NTS argument?
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)Unless you have proof that he is pretending to be a Christian. I think Phelps is a dick but I think he firmly believes that his interpretation of Christ's message is correct. He believes in Jesus as the son of god and follows what he feels are his teachings. That is really all that is needed to be a Christian. He will say the same thing about your brand of Christianity that you say about his. Saying his interpretation is wrong is not a NTS. Saying that he isn't a true Christian because he believes X (unless X = "Christ was not the son of god" is.
You are either black or you aren't. We could get into a percentage argument, I guess, but if you say you are black and none of your ancestors are black, then someone who is black saying you aren't isn't a NTS; it's just fact.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)It would be difficult to prove, but I sincerely think he may be a total poseur. I also sincerely believe that about a number of "religious leaders". The only proof I could offer you is that they have overtly lied about other important aspects of their hypocritical lives (their sexual orientation, their faithfulness to their spouses, what they do with the money they collect, etc.). But if I say this in an attempt to distinguish them, I will be called down with the NTS fallacy argument. Just because someone says they are something and mouths the shared beliefs of a certain group, does not mean they are.
My ex-FIL was an "evangelist" who was a total fraud. That one I could prove, but perhaps not to your satisfaction.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)That he's a "poseur" or anything like that. No one has denied the fact that he's an atheist. That's what is key to the claim of NTS. Do you understand?
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)I often picture him in his home laughing about being able to scam so much money by pandering to the LCD.
Calling someone a hypocrite is not committing a NTS fallacy. You can be a hypocrite and still be a Christian.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)And there are some democratic talking heads who are so misogynistic, imo, that I wonder about them as well.
People can say they are something and not really be that thing. While you may not be able to prove they are not what they say, you can honestly believe that about them. This site has good examples of those people - moles and trolls. There comes a point when you just don't believe them.
So I maintain that if I say someone that call themselves a christian is not really a christian, and I do so in good faith, that's not an NTS fallacy.
There was recently a member banned from here (several times) who called himself an atheist. I don't believe he was. He also called himself gay and black. I don't think any of that was true either. But he said he was and I can't "prove" that he wasn't.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Let's take a step back: what's the general, standard definition of "Christian" that just about everyone who claims the label would agree to? No, we'll never get a universal one, but let's try to get a large majority-encompassing one.
For "atheist" it would be "a person who lacks belief in gods."
Your turn.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)personally but I can promise you there are people who fervently believe everything he says and would call anyone who says they are a christian without following their very narrow interpretation of christianity a non-christian. I grew up with those people. Independent, fundamentalist baptists. They barely considered Southern Baptists to be christians. They certainly believed they were backsliding on a lot of issues. My own step-father told my liberal, Dem and Methodist Aunt that he didn't even know how someone could call themselves a christian and still vote Democrat. And that wasn't him just being "out there" That was him toeing his organization's line. Don't even get them started on Catholics. IFBs love the No True Christian thing. They are convinced they are it and very, very few others will join them in the hereafter.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)I heard a good analysis of this problem yesterday on a radio show.
During the AA civil rights era, churches and christians were at the forefront of the movement. Politically active christians were respected and their leaders became the primary spokespeople. To identify oneself as a christian was a good thing.
Then the christian right began to gain power and the whole scenario changed. Now if one calls themselves a christian, there are often assumptions made that put you squarely in the category of being one of them. I grew up around christians who never uttered the words "one way" or even "sin". I knew these other people existed, but nothing about them felt familiar.
That's a pretty radical change over a relatively short period of time.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)1. That churches were essentially the only place where civil rights advocates could meet.
2. That civil rights opponents were just as religious.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)individuals?
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)If you're talking about the actions of the individual, then no. Of course not.
If you're talking about the role of religion as pertains to the issue, then yes. Absolutely.
When you have people on both sides of an issue claiming that their shared religion motivates them, isn't it possible (if not highly likely) that the role played by religion is in the reinforcement of a priori beliefs rather than the source of those beliefs?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)They might acknowledge a shared descriptive word, but their definitions would vary to such an extent that they are essentially contradictory.
Dr. King's christianity looks nothing like the christianity of the KKK Grand Wizard, though they might both be labeled or self-identify as christians.
So how does sharing that descriptor detract from the good done by Dr. King?
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)The Bible: Its stories, narratives, teachings, etc.
MLK Jr. and the KKK read from the same Bible (possibly slightly different translations) and took away completely different things. Now, do you think that this is because they were inspired by their religion's shared holy book to take their respective positions, or do you think that they saw their own beliefs reflected in its pages?
BTW: I never once claimed that King didn't do good. I did claim that Christianity can't justly be credited with that good.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Since the Bible is a collection of stories, it is possible to interpret it very differently.
Dr. King was raised in a church and community where one interpretation was stressed. Are you suggesting that his religion had nothing to do with his position regarding civil rights? Are you saying that he was born with a certain set of views and that he interpreted the bible in such a way that would reinforce them?
I'm not getting what your argument here is at all.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)In a general sense, those who believe in a god create it in their own image, give it their own opinions and when it comes to the Bible, no amount of study will never reveal anything about its morals and lessons that the reader doesn't already agree with or is open to believing because it's rationalization and justification of and for their a priori beliefs.
It's been said elsewhere that the Bible can be interpreted to say whatever the interpreter wants. That sentiment alone is pretty suggestive of the notion that the Bible is used to reinforce, rationalize, and justify existing beliefs and attitudes. If it were the other way around, people with very disparate backgrounds would independently reach the same (or similar) conclusions about what the Bible says. Instead of black churches (like King's) supporting a view of equality and justice and Southern Baptist churches supporting outright racism and division, you'd see both uniting around a single view irrespective of the background of their congregations.
Instead of a complete reversal on the subject of slavery over the last couple hundred years, slavery would either be seen as unacceptable in the 19th century or acceptable today. Attitudes vary and change with time, but the Bible hasn't. With each new attitude, a new interpretation can be found to support it. Christianity didn't begin fracturing into numerous contradictory sects before the New Testament was even fully assembled and now there are some 43,000 different denominations because there's a unifying quality to Christianity that can overcome population differences. On the contrary, this continual fracturing demonstrates my point--that the religion is tailored to an increasingly disparate number of individual and collective views rather than those views emerging from the religion.
The lesson to take away is that God will never reveal anything to you (or any other believer) that disgusts or horrifies you, and you'll never find a passage in the Bible that you find both reprehensible and must be taken literally.
To try and answer your two questions, what seems most likely is that King's community shared similar attitudes towards equal rights and found passages in the Bible which supported that position. The religion was ancillary. To argue otherwise is to argue that had it not been for Christianity and the Bible, King wouldn't have thought to support civil rights, let alone champion them. He wasn't born with a certain set of views, but was raised with them and was likely taught that they were supported by the Bible. No one is an island.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Is that based on your own personal experience or from some scholarly inquiry?
None of this rings true to me. While I appreciate your taking the time to write this and I see that this is the the thesis on which you base your world view, it just rings completely hollow to me.
It does, on the other hand, help me understand where you are coming from.
I guess we will just have to agree to disagree on this topic. To be honest, it holds little interest for me anyway and I know there are others here that are much more interested in discussing religion in this vein.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)Not just people of faith, but everyone. No one is an island.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Name three of four of the assumptions that were made in that post, and explain why they are invalid and unjustified by any facts.
A number of arguments were offered which contradict the position you keep touting. Do you have any answer to any of them that has an objective basis? Or is your response, as always, "I can't reconcile this with my own personal experience, so I'm going to dismiss it out of hand and refuse to discuss it further"?
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)Usually from my little brothers and it usually does make me laugh out loud.
I am glad, though, that my Aunt and Uncle retired to Florida - it has given me an opportunity to get to know them better. I rarely saw them growing up (My aunt is my mom's sister and we generally lived a thousand miles away from them) but talking to my aunt she tells me of the times before my mom fell in with the fundie crowd and I can remember some of those good times from when I was little kid and mostly just blot out the crazy bullshit from later. Since my mom passed a couple years ago I no longer need to talk to my step-father but I love visiting my aunt and uncle. They were very literally the first christians I had met since I was a kid that didn't make me think "Christians are all insane". The kind of christians I grew up with just ain't right in their heads.
I'm still an atheist but at least I now know christians aren't all insane.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Our experiences are almost diametrically opposed. The first "one way" christians I met were relatives of my mother. Their hard stance and judgements were all new to me.
I never thought christians were like that, lol.
dmallind
(10,437 posts)You could define black in a way that includes yourself too, just like you could define Christian in a way that excludes Phelps. But if language is to be useful definitions must be standard between users of that language. If Phelps then conforms to the standard definition of a Christian, which includes believers in the Christian religion, which in turn includes Phelps, then any definition of your own that excludes him is not standard and not useful.
When Phelps says "I do not believe in a divine Christ" (or mindreading becomes testable and established science and indicates he does not so believe) then he's not a Christian. Until then, he is.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)NTS is using an ad hoc definition of a group to exclude someone
Suppose Angus and Hamish are at the pub.
Hamish: Did you hear about that Englishman who shagged a sheep?
Angus: Ha ha, Yes! I'll tell you what, no Scotsman would ever do that.
Hamish: Don't you remember Duncan McDaniel? He shagged a whole bunch of sheep!
Angus: Erm, no TRUE Scotsman would ever do that.
So you see, Angus, having been presented with evidence he was wrong, invented the ad hoc group "True Scotsman" to exclude Duncan. The reason this is a fallacy should be readily apparent.
I hope this helps explain why calling someone an "Uncle Tom" (which isn't at all calling yourself black for financial gain), isn't an NTS argument. By the same token, since there's no universally agreed-upon definition of "Christian," defining Phelps out of Christendom with well-intentioned but still arbitrary definitions is an NTS argument. If there were a universally agreed-upon definition of Christian, then it could be easily argued whether someone is or isn't Christian, but since there's no such definition, then you can't.
What you can do is acknowledge that he wears the same label as you and say all manner of justifiably horrible things about him. That's just an ad hominem, and since it's against a total shit, no one will care.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)of a universally agreed upon definition of a christian. I also see your (and others) points about the Uncle Tom reference. I read it differently and have been corrected.
Let me ask you this. If I say that someone has been shown to be a liar in other areas and their actions betray the most basic tenets of christianity (let's say "love thy neighbor as thyself" and, therefore is most likely a poseur and using the label for personal gain, is that an NTS fallacy?
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)If you interpret the "love thyself" broadly, you have a great philosophy, but not one that's been adhered to by most Christians across history--overt racism, sexism, and homophobia were generally acceptable "Christian" behaviors until fairly recently, different denominations murdering each other, etc.
You seem really eager to wash your hands of the assholes who share your label and there's an easy way to do that--accept that you wear the same label and that doesn't mean you are all the same.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Since we agree that there is no consistent or universally agreed upon definition of christian, I think it is reasonable to just agree that if someone calls themselves that, then they are one (unless proven otherwise).
I would, however, like to be able to distinguish sub-groups within that category and not have it dismissed. I will just have to be careful about how it is worded.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)As has been said by others, it is really just a mindset that it is OK to acknowledge that someone can wear the same label as you and still be a dick. de Botton is an atheist. I have no regard for anything he has written and think he is a sycophant, but he's an atheist just like me.
I know you and I have gone at it a lot, but you can't seriously think that I or any other atheist on here thinks you are the same as Phelps just because you both have the label Christian. Phelps is a worthless piece of shit. The world will be a better place when he is dead. You don't see the world the same way I do but I know you are a progressive and in the vast majority of issues we are the same. I can't think of a single thing Phelps and I would agree on. He's a Christian and a dick. That's OK. Call him a hypocrite and a dick. Just don't exclude him from the label of Christian because he doesn't share your interpretation of it.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Not sure that I have ever said that someone wasn't a real christian, but I may have.
I have not described myself as a christian, btw. There are many reasons for that, but one of the primary ones is the lack of a clear definition as to what that means and the tendency of others to make broad assumptions once someone assumes that label. It would take much more than a single word to describe what I am. In this area, I am somewhat envious of those that call themselves atheists. One word says very clearly what you are or are not.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)laconicsax
(14,860 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)specifying interpretations, positions and practices.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)Christians themselves don't agree on what the "basic tenets" are. Nor do they agree on their interpretation. Is it not possible for Fred Phelps to sincerely, honestly believe that he is showing "love thy neighbor" by TRYING DESPERATELY to warn them about behavior that is displeasing to god? Of course it is. So Phelps is no poseur - he's following his deeply held beliefs. As far as you, I, or anyone else knows.
But he meets the basic definition of Christian. He is one. And to deny it because of arbitrary "Well you have to believe in 'love thy neighbor' exactly as *I* interpret it", that's NTS.
Give me just ONE example of atheists saying that bad people can't be true atheists here.
And just ONE "accusation" levelled unfairly against believers using it.
It's nothing AT ALL to do with distinguishing different types within a group and I challenge you to provide one reputable source on logic or critical thinking that defines it that way. It is entirely and uniquely applicable to pretending that some members of a group are not TRUE members of a group when they fail to meet arbitrary criteria.
IEP here
http://www.iep.utm.edu/fallacy/#NoTrueScotsman
CSU here
http://courses.csusm.edu/fallacies/notruescotsman.htm
University of Essex here
http://www.essex.ac.uk/myskills/skills/thinking/identifyEvaluateargument.asp#19
Every single one consistent with my defintion.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)This poster regards ever request for evidence to back up her claims as "gotcha" tactics. She just makes things up as she goes, to promote a preconceived agenda (must run in the family). Facts, evidence and logic are just impediments, used as weapons by people who aren't interested in "real" and "meaningful" discussion (whatever the heck that is).
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)That's all I am gonna SAY 'bout that
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)and it ain't "tiger"
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)But hey, I'm always up for a little entertainment
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)public square. It is a violation when the government authorizes any religious institution or religion in general. But it is equally clear that the "free exercise" clause allows religion to be outside the walls of the church. When I keep hearing that religion has no place in public life, then that objection leads to conflict with the first amendment. Remember the courts have been struggling with this ever since the Bill of Rights was adopted. You cannot isolate religion from life. You can make sure that because it is a doctrine the law is not subservient to it. Justice, for instance, is a religious imperative, so is peace, equity, etc. People who come to those positions from their faith have a perfect right to speak about them as moral and ethical demands which come from their faith. So where are you with the first amendment as defined in a multitude of court decisions?
The bottom line in this argument is not what either of us holds, but what the courts have decided. This is purely a political issue.
oilpro2
(80 posts)the free exercise of religion?
Would that include all of our national parks? Would that include all of our national monuments, some of which (the White House, for example) are parks with buildings upon them?
Would we be required to allow for the Southern Baptist national conference to hold its gathering in the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, Yellowstone?
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)No ten commandments in front of the Court House. I don't know, but if people want to hold a convention in a national park--you tell me. I know of all kinds of groups that do. i have been at religious meetings in the Rockey Mountain park at the YMCA facility. (Young Man's Christian Association.!) If the Park sponsored the event, that is another matter.
But when a group of any sort wants to rent a space in a park, that obviously is OK.
What do you think.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)You've been educated on this before, and yet you continue to bring up the same falsehoods and bogus accusations?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=18804
If you want to argue the point, have the intellectual courage to do it face to face and out in the open. Don't run off elsewhere and start peddling the same nonsense as if you don't know any better.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)You are all too willing to conflate the rights of citizens (the people) with the rights of the organization (religion). You're just advocating religious corporate personhood.
That's why your reasoning for such always sounds like corporate spin, hype, and parasitic manipulation. Because that's what it is.
Evoman
(8,040 posts)I'm not scared of religious people. I say what I want, when I want, to whom I want. I'll be friends with anyone....but if someone puts me in the "crosshairs", are they in for a surprise. I'm 32 and I've survived being stabbed, being hit by a car, and stage 3 cancer....what the fuck can religious people do to me?
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)laconicsax
(14,860 posts)Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)laconicsax
(14,860 posts)If you're not willing to listen to what someone else has to say, why are you here?
Evoman
(8,040 posts)Evoman
(8,040 posts)Maybe some do, but I don't. I've been around long enough to know that none of the conversations in this place make a damn difference.
I come here because I love some of the fundie atheists in this place. They are some smart and nice people who supported me when I was down. I even like some of the religious people here. And truth be told, it entertains the hell out of me when atheists skewer religious people in arguments......the defense mechanisms make me chuckle.
I don't know if this post will be deleted or get me booted. I just thought you should know that I never lie, and will always speak my truth.
Because I just don't give a shit.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Evoman
(8,040 posts)You come here to get attention. You like talking, and you like people listening to you. Listening to others is not overly important to you....at least not on this message board. Moreover, you secretly love being "attacked", not only because it gives you attention but because it justifies your positions and confirms your beliefs.
As for myself, I love the hell out of you. In fact, when I see you post an OP, my hears skips a beat. Because I know a good time will be had by all. You never disappoint me...there will always be some small (or not so small) provocation in your post. Really, it's all so much fun.
I'd post more, but I have a way of killing posts. Besides, I start chemo again next week and I'll probably be too sick too put up too much of a fight. Two more months, then no more chemo. I'll probably be around more after that. Stick around...we'll have a good time!
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)I'm happy to provide you with entertainment. Sounds like you have a serious problem. Whether you accept it or not, I will hold you in my mind. Some call that prayer. At least i do. At any rare, you are not alone.
Evoman
(8,040 posts)Meh, it's only cancer. If you only knew how many times the universe has tried to kill me....it's almost enough to make you believe in god! Probably a bit different than the god you believe in.
Of course you are going to say that I'm wrong about you. Even if I was right. Which maybe I'm not? Bah, but who really cares.
Leontius
(2,270 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Holy shit, man. That. Was. Perfect!
rrneck
(17,671 posts)you might not.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)felix_numinous
(5,198 posts)is to have one. People are so caught up in their ego constructs that they cannot separate from them. We are not our beliefs, we have beliefs, right?
It has always bugged me to hear people say 'I am a ____, instead of saying 'I am someone who practices this, and at this point decided that this was true', ect. People have truly forgotten how to have--a dialogue.
Some of my favorite quotes:
"It is a mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Aristotole
"Education is the ability to listen to just about anything without losing your temper or your self confidence." Robert Frost
"Discussion is an exchange of knowledge, argument is an exchange of ignorance." Robert Quillen