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Related: About this forumA Gay Atheist Enters Gothenburg Cathedral And Finds An Antidote To Darkness
12/12/2016 10:55 am ET
Mark A. Thompson
On a snow-cold winters night in Sweden, a gay atheist and his husband entered Gothenburg Cathedral for the annual candlelit Lucia concert and, two hours later, emerged elated.
That atheist was me and in the months since that night the memory of that Saint Lucia celebration has reminded me anew of the power of music and beauty in the face of (post-election) darkness.
Few holidays in Sweden are as beloved as Saint Lucia Day, which is celebrated annually on the 13th of December. In the ancient Julian calendar, the Lucia tradition was associated with the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year, a dangerous night marked by supernatural beings. As a bearer of light in the midst of a dark Swedish winter, Lucia appeared in white wearing light in her hair.
Ever since I was a kid, I have always loved Lucia Day, says Anders Öhrman, Editor in Chief of QX, Swedens largest LGBT magazine. As a little boy, I was a bit jealous of the girl who got to be Lucia she was always so beautiful and sparkled with light but since I was a boy I could only choose between being a star boy or a gingerbread boy in the parade. Not so glamorous.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mark-a-thompson/a-gay-atheist-enters-goth_b_13556066.html
TexasProgresive
(12,157 posts)guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)And recognize the inspiration even as we all know that believers are imperfect.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)I only read the headline.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)The author laments MORE THAN ONCE about rigid and restrictive gender roles in this festival. MORE THAN ONCE. Clearly this is a major issue with the author and I agree. I think that is a shitty construct and I don't celebrate shitty constructs that make people, like the author, feel marginalized or jealous or less worthy. I'm not using 'jealous' in a derogatory context, but in the sense that the person feeling that way clearly perceives some injustice or inequality, on some level.
So I'm reading this thing and predictive analytics suggest to me that I'm going to hear a wonderful tale about how the people putting on this festival BROKE TRADITION and evolved in some way, making it gender-neutral and allowing the participants to express themselves as they prefer.
In the end, I'm holding an empty sack. WTF man. What a letdown.
So now, all I detect from this article is that a self-professed atheist can experience some of the negativity of gender stereotypes, but walk into an event, go along with the crowd and somehow come out feeling fuzzy and happy and positive about a sexist experience.
I don't get it. Big deal as a kid. Points it out as an adult. Points it out again going into the thing, and coming out, somehow it's just not a thing worth considering anymore.
WTF was I supposed to learn from this?
Ok, I saw the sky. Light refraction and suspended particulates.
What the fuck was I supposed to learn from that?
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)roles that are apparently immovable.
That article reads like
Irrelevant fact A
Irrelevant fact B
Foreshadowing about gender roles and a desire to PARTICIPATE in a reversal of.
Irrelevant fact C
Repeat foreshadowing
...
...
Feel warm and fuzzy.
The end.
rug
(82,333 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)The author felt, at the end, warm (positive) and fuzzy (unable to explain precisely why).
I was being literal as a joke. But seriously warm orange juice. That's not right.
rug
(82,333 posts)Cold orange juice hurts my moth.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Heated is why pasteurized orange juice tastes funny. (and why there are studies on heated OJ and the breakdown of certain things)