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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 06:35 PM Nov 2018

When it comes to religious belief, or lack of, name calling is not dialogue.

It is simply name calling.

And if one claims to be interested in actual dialogue, name calling is one way to shut down dialogue.

It is that simple. If you argument requires insults, it is not dialogue, it is attack speech.


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When it comes to religious belief, or lack of, name calling is not dialogue. (Original Post) guillaumeb Nov 2018 OP
I agree. I've come to understand that if I call an evangelical Christian a "Fundie," Still In Wisconsin Nov 2018 #1
Exactly. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #3
Is name-calling the same as labeling? Croney Nov 2018 #2
Name calling is denigration. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #4
Not if the name is accurate Major Nikon Nov 2018 #15
A bigot is intolerant. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #18
You just described when name calling isn't denigration Major Nikon Nov 2018 #21
What I said: guillaumeb Nov 2018 #22
You are working way too hard to be offended Major Nikon Nov 2018 #24
Dialogue for what? Cary Nov 2018 #5
Dialogue is multiple voices speaking. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #6
He is a racist and a homophobe trying to impose his relgion via politics Cary Nov 2018 #7
I doubt that I know the person, guillaumeb Nov 2018 #9
When they play insipid mind games and lie there can be no respect Cary Nov 2018 #14
I understand. eom guillaumeb Nov 2018 #17
Kinda sucks you don't follow your own advice Major Nikon Nov 2018 #8
Ths is one of your more enlightening ones: guillaumeb Nov 2018 #10
Kinda funny how you'd use your stalking tactics Major Nikon Nov 2018 #11
Afraid of your own words? guillaumeb Nov 2018 #12
When have I ever given you reason to believe that? Major Nikon Nov 2018 #13
Funny is you accusing me of doing what you did in a separate post. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #16
If you're going to accuse me of ad hominem, you should have the integrity to explain yourself Major Nikon Nov 2018 #19
Anyone looking at your replies to me will see the constant references to guillaumeb Nov 2018 #20
Bullshit Major Nikon Nov 2018 #23
Yes, your reply was indeed. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #28
Bullshit Major Nikon Nov 2018 #43
I don't see any name-calling in that post from 2014. MineralMan Nov 2018 #27
And the numerous other examples of name calling? guillaumeb Nov 2018 #29
Or perhaps less. MineralMan Nov 2018 #32
Try reading #23. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #34
No, thank you. Instead, please try MineralMan Nov 2018 #35
#23 is a prime illustration of the point of the thread. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #36
Oh, Guy... MineralMan Nov 2018 #37
You refuse to look at the proof before you. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #38
I read #23. Did you? MineralMan Nov 2018 #39
And what did you see in it? guillaumeb Nov 2018 #40
I saw something you should read for understanding. MineralMan Nov 2018 #41
Deflection. I understand. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #49
By other readers do you mean your imaginary fan club? Major Nikon Nov 2018 #44
Jesus's message covers this topic. Mariana Nov 2018 #25
Jesus probably never existed. Red Raider 85 Nov 2018 #26
The book exists. Mariana Nov 2018 #42
The topic is dialogue. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #30
Are you really claiming you don't insult others on a daily basis here? Major Nikon Nov 2018 #45
Surely not. MineralMan Nov 2018 #48
Hilariously so Major Nikon Nov 2018 #54
Yes, everyone knows the kind of dialog you want to see in this group. Mariana Nov 2018 #47
My own posts disprove your weak assertion. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #51
Poor, poor persecuted Gil. Mariana Nov 2018 #52
Poor deflecting on your part M. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #53
Bullshit Major Nikon Nov 2018 #61
Point to some. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #62
I will later Major Nikon Nov 2018 #64
I will wait for the later. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #67
I will not ignore your libel Major Nikon Nov 2018 #73
You need to research what libel is, and what constitutes evidence. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #74
Says the guy who doesn't know the difference between slander and libel Major Nikon Nov 2018 #77
Indeed. eom guillaumeb Nov 2018 #80
Here's a thread that just started, Guy. MineralMan Nov 2018 #68
You obviously misread the claim. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #71
Condescension from someone who's allegedly all about respectful dialog Major Nikon Nov 2018 #96
Several Major Nikon Nov 2018 #81
3 of your links are empty. Ironic, I think. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #82
All are active posters Major Nikon Nov 2018 #83
I asked fro a specific post, or posts, guillaumeb Nov 2018 #84
Moving the goal posts is a common tactic of those uninterested in civil discourse Major Nikon Nov 2018 #85
Your own claim. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #86
62. Point to some. Major Nikon Nov 2018 #87
#1 on your list is my own question asking for proof. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #88
I proved my assertion Major Nikon Nov 2018 #89
No, you failed, and now you wish to define failure as success. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #90
Not Major Nikon Nov 2018 #91
A wise decision. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #92
Not.... Major Nikon Nov 2018 #93
I complimented you on making a wise decision. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #94
I'll still wait patiently with the proof you reject good faith discussion Major Nikon Nov 2018 #95
Actually I don't even think he wants the first type Major Nikon Nov 2018 #63
Yes, of course. Gil's Groupies. Mariana Nov 2018 #65
The point of this OP is not clear.. Permanut Nov 2018 #31
Dialogue is not required. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #33
So don't do it Major Nikon Nov 2018 #46
Does the beam impede your vision? guillaumeb Nov 2018 #50
Displaying more of your alleged debate skills I see Major Nikon Nov 2018 #55
No, asking a legitimate question. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #57
Condescension is what passes for a legitimate question in your book? Major Nikon Nov 2018 #59
Does the entire tree trunk impede yours? MineralMan Nov 2018 #69
tu quoque fallacy in evidence. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #72
Tu quoque et tu quoque et tu quoque in infinitum... MineralMan Nov 2018 #75
Silliness indeed. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #78
18th Commandment violation Major Nikon Nov 2018 #56
There were only room for 11 on the tablets. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #58
Blasphemy doesn't suit you all that well Major Nikon Nov 2018 #60
Neither is performance art. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2018 #66
Par exemple? MineralMan Nov 2018 #70
Merci beaucoup, MineralMan. Mariana Nov 2018 #97
De rien... MineralMan Nov 2018 #99
No it isn't, yes it is Bradshaw3 Nov 2018 #76
Exactly. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #79
How about smearing everyone who disagrees with you as being part of a "choir"? trotsky Nov 2018 #98
Nothing applies, you see. Some people are sui generis, MineralMan Nov 2018 #101
Classic pattern of narcissists, too. trotsky Nov 2018 #102
There are lots of ways to avoid dialogue marylandblue Nov 2018 #100
 

Still In Wisconsin

(4,450 posts)
1. I agree. I've come to understand that if I call an evangelical Christian a "Fundie,"
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 06:39 PM
Nov 2018

that's really no different than that person calling me (I am a Jew) a Hebe, a Hymie, a Kike, etc..

Croney

(4,660 posts)
2. Is name-calling the same as labeling?
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 06:43 PM
Nov 2018

I self-identify as an atheist. I try to call people what they want to be called.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
4. Name calling is denigration.
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 06:52 PM
Nov 2018

If you are an atheist, that is simply a descriptive term.

But if I said that atheism makes you bad, that is not dialogue.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Not if the name is accurate
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 10:04 PM
Nov 2018

If you call a bigot intolerant, that’s not denigrating. If you call someone who isn’t a bigot intolerant, then you are going down the road of name calling, which is a lesson some are slow to learn, probably intentionally.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
18. A bigot is intolerant.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:12 AM
Nov 2018

So that is a descriptive.

And calling Trump a liar and a con man is simply stating the truth.

But that is not the point of the post.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
22. What I said:
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:37 AM
Nov 2018
And if one claims to be interested in actual dialogue, name calling is one way to shut down dialogue.

It is that simple. If you argument requires insults, it is not dialogue, it is attack speech.


Calling theists contemptible because they are theists is not dialogue, nor is it intended to promote dialogue. It is simply preaching intolerance and disrespect to the choir for which it is intended.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
24. You are working way too hard to be offended
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:56 AM
Nov 2018

Tell us again how Russell’s “extreme intolerance” is so “well known” to anyone but you. I’ve asked you several times for a cite so at this point I’m pretty sure your non-answers are deliberate. Very telling that.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
5. Dialogue for what?
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 07:02 PM
Nov 2018

I can point you to a man who insists he has absolute truth. He is Catholic and feels he is not bound by Vatican II. I would defy you to get a.straight answer out of him on anything. That is just one example of a religious zealot whom you cannot have any dialogue with.

If you wish to waste your time worrying about the sensibilities of people who are holier than thou, that is up to you. But I will tell you the same thing I tell them: unless and until you can provide reasonably objective arguments your proposition is pure faith. You are entitled to your faith but you are not entitled to impose it on me.

"Fundie" is a perfectly servicable term. No, it is not like "kike." Sorry. Not the same.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
6. Dialogue is multiple voices speaking.
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 07:16 PM
Nov 2018

And respectful dialogue is simply that, a process where we listen and respond respectfully.

But calling people names because of their beliefs is not dialogue. It is attempted intimidation.

As to your example, he may not wish to engage in dialogue about his religious beliefs. But if he does not try to prevent you from acting on your beliefs, where is the issue?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
7. He is a racist and a homophobe trying to impose his relgion via politics
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 07:39 PM
Nov 2018

I get your point. I wish I could lay down general rules as seamlessly as you do, but there are evil people out there. Sociopaths. These are people who only understand rejection on the harshest of terms and they will use your general rule and your goodwill against you. Moreover they are now emboldened and resurgent.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
9. I doubt that I know the person,
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 08:03 PM
Nov 2018

but I have met many like that.

Dialogue depends on mutual respect, and a mutual desire to engage.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
14. When they play insipid mind games and lie there can be no respect
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 09:30 PM
Nov 2018

And no civililty.

I gave up trying.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
8. Kinda sucks you don't follow your own advice
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 07:53 PM
Nov 2018

Let’s not forget how you called several folks in this group intolerant just this past week alone.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
11. Kinda funny how you'd use your stalking tactics
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 08:17 PM
Nov 2018

...within an OP where you are trying to present yourself as a model for civil discourse.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
12. Afraid of your own words?
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 08:20 PM
Nov 2018

Perhaps you should research the meaning of the term stalking.

As to civil discourse, your own voluminous record is there for all to see.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
13. When have I ever given you reason to believe that?
Tue Nov 13, 2018, 08:28 PM
Nov 2018

Why don’t you explain why you are desperately searching for completely unrelated posts made in a completely different forum made before you ever got here. Even more hilarious is posting this immediately after falsely accusing me of ad hominem. Why don’t you look up the definition for hypocrite because this OP is starting to reek with it.

Or just tell us again how you’re all about civil discourse. Soon there won’t be a dry eye in the house.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
16. Funny is you accusing me of doing what you did in a separate post.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:08 AM
Nov 2018

And I mentioned you frequent use of ad hominem attack because it is so constant.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
19. If you're going to accuse me of ad hominem, you should have the integrity to explain yourself
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:30 AM
Nov 2018

Otherwise all you’re doing is making a half-fast unsupported claim as usual.

Meanwhile I’ve explained in detail why your personal attacks are nothing more than ad hominem. Instead of disputing you simply reply with a lame canned response, another ad hominem attack, or divert. I have no reason to suspect you’ll behave differently now even within your own thread where you self-righteously and hypocritically claim the high road.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
20. Anyone looking at your replies to me will see the constant references to
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:32 AM
Nov 2018
room temperature IQ, being butt hurt, and many other replies all centered around the theme of a lack of intelligence.

So that is sufficient explanation.

And we have this one of yours, were you accuse me of libel:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218297000


And after twice linking to one of my posts, you accuse me of stalking you when I linked to one of your posts. I fail to follow your reasoning, but that may be due to my room temperature IQ.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
23. Bullshit
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:52 AM
Nov 2018

It’s just like every other time you’ve falsely accused myself and others of name calling. I’ve asked you repeatedly what name you were called and received nothing better than nonsense snark in lieu of a reply.

The IQ response was an answer to who else, besides you is claiming Russell is intolerant which means yes there are some atheist hating anonymous morons on the internet claiming Russell is intolerant. This was in response to your ridiculous claim that Russell’s intolerance is “well known”. I made no assertion or implications to your IQ. That dog won’t hunt and you either know it or should know it because no, I just don’t think you are that stupid.

I accused you of libel because you are guilty of libel. Your ridiculous argument for “extreme intolerance” of Russell was because he called the behavior of those who cling to myths a “little contemptible”. Others who dared to call bullshit were called the same which I’m sure was your intention when you created the OP. That’s exactly what libel is. If you don’t like being called a libeler, don’t defame others. As we both agreed, it ain’t name calling if it’s true.

As far as butt hurt goes that has nothing to do with IQ and it’s more than a bit silly to claim otherwise. You have a long history of disingenuously claiming victimization in this group. You did it with this OP and again with this latest reply. You frequently dish out condescending replies, refer to many of us as the “choir” as a perjorative, and yes engage in creepy cyberstalking behavior against myself and MM if not others. You invent silly rules for this group and then whine incessantly when you think they are violated. When you’re called out for your bad behavior you pretend you’re getting personally attacked. So yeah, “butt hurt” is actually a pretty mild way of putting it and spot on.

Meanwhile pretending you’re even remotely interested in intelligent discourse is ridiculous. In addition to what was previously mentioned, you have a plethora of tactics that specifically avoid anything close to intellectual discussion. You demand answers for all sorts of things, yet almost never provide any in return. You have a handful of canned responses you repeat ad nausem that you pretend constitutes substance as if everyone is too stupid to realize otherwise. You author all sorts of logical fallacies repeatedly even after getting called out for it by several people.

All of this may seem harsh, but if you’re going to accuse me of something you’d better have something to back it up as I promise I will give better than I get.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
28. Yes, your reply was indeed.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:53 AM
Nov 2018

And you admit to your ad hominem attacks in your response denying that they happened. Amazing.


The only positive from reading your response is that it convicts you of what was charged.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
43. Bullshit
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:54 PM
Nov 2018

I asked for your ad hominem evidence after your half-fast false allegations and just as predicted you refused to provide any which really tells anyone all they need to know about your lack of integrity.

Meanwhile you claim to have studied debate but either didn’t pay attention or willfully refuse to engage in meaningful discourse on pretty much anything with everyone while simultaneously claiming you are all about substantive discussion.

Had you paid attention to your alleged debate studies you’d know good faith debate obligates both sides to answer relevant questions. You reveal much about yourself when you simply waffle instead of answer, especially when you spend far more effort doing just that. What you really are all about is giving self-righteous sermons. If that’s what you really want to do, more power to you, but when you pretend what you are doing is debate all you really accomplish is proving your dishonesty.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
27. I don't see any name-calling in that post from 2014.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:06 AM
Nov 2018

Why did you use that as an example? How did you even find it? Odd...

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
32. Or perhaps less.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:05 PM
Nov 2018

I read many threads here. I participate in many threads here. By here, I mean DU. I do not go searching about in old threads, though, looking for reasons to be offended. There are many such threads, of course, but each day is a new day.

There is a fairly good search tool on this website, but it's not something I use, except rarely, and only to look up something I have written in the past.

If you are looking for examples of someone doing something you do not like, they can certainly be found, no doubt. But, to what end, Guy? The only thing that comes from digging around in old threads and posts is opportunity to engage in ad hominem attacks.

There have been some here who have delved into my writings that were posted over a decade ago on other websites. Taking something I said that long ago, completely out of context, they have attacked me from time to time. I simply dismiss such nonsense for what it is.

You linked to a post someone made before you were even on this website and claimed that it had to do with name-calling. I clicked the link and found no name-calling behavior at all there. Perhaps you saw something I did not see, but it was the act of linking to some old post you somehow found that is disturbing to me. Why do that at all? That's the question that comes to my mind? Of what possible good use can that be, I wonder?

And now, I'm replying to a post from you that is devoid of actual content. It references nothing and asks me to consider evidence that is not even presented. What do you suppose I am to read? I read as much as I possibly can here, and am not going to go on a pointless chase after information that might possibly meet your description.

I'm not even sure why you wrote the post to which I am now replying. It makes no sense at all. You have answered my question about a specific thing with a question about nothing at all. That is not communication, nor is it discussion.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
35. No, thank you. Instead, please try
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:09 PM
Nov 2018

sticking to the point of this thread. I will not be led on wild goose chases by you.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
36. #23 is a prime illustration of the point of the thread.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:11 PM
Nov 2018

But you can ignore it if it serves you better, and then claim to not see what my point is.

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
37. Oh, Guy...
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:14 PM
Nov 2018

Truly, I don't think you see what you are doing here. You began this thread with a vague accusation, but presented no evidence of it. When I asked questions of you in more than one post, you did not bother to answer them, but simply asked another question.

Dialog requires participation. When you don't participate, there is no dialog.

And, with that, my participation in this thread is finished.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
38. You refuse to look at the proof before you.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:16 PM
Nov 2018

So yes, your participation, such as it was, should be finished.

But other readers can and will read #23, and perhaps arrive at the obvious conclusion.

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
25. Jesus's message covers this topic.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 03:54 AM
Nov 2018

He told his followers exactly what they're supposed to do when they're called names because of their religious beliefs. Unlike some of his other lessons, his instructions about how to respond to insults are very clear indeed.

He said, "Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you." (Matthew 5 : 12-13)

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
42. The book exists.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:50 PM
Nov 2018

The poster I responded to claims to be a Christian. So, that person probably believes Jesus existed, and that he did at least some of the stuff the book says he did.

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
47. Yes, everyone knows the kind of dialog you want to see in this group.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:05 PM
Nov 2018

You want to have conversations like this:

OP: "The human mind is a pale reflection of the Creator..."
Good: "You're absolutely right!"
Good: "That's so profound!"
Good: "Praise the Lord!"

These kind of exchanges are unacceptable:

OP: "The human mind is a pale reflection of the Creator..."
Bad: "Please describe this creator."
Bad: "Whose human mind?"
Bad: "How do you know this?"

There are several groups on DU that were set up specifically so religious people can have the first kind of conversation, and avoid the second type altogether. This one lone group permits the second kind, and you don't seem to like that one little bit.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
51. My own posts disprove your weak assertion.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:17 PM
Nov 2018

And my observation about the 11th Commandment and the claimed desire for dialogue is still very relevant.

What some few really want here is an opportunity to attack theism and theists with no dissension allowed. And any positive posts are immediately attacked by that same few.

And if those same few wish to attack theism and theists, they also can post in a protected group. But they do not. Why is that?

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
52. Poor, poor persecuted Gil.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:25 PM
Nov 2018

This one group on DU permits discussion of religion that includes disagreement and criticism and awkward questions. How unspeakably awful that must be for you.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
53. Poor deflecting on your part M.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:28 PM
Nov 2018

No comment whatsoever about the obvious.

I understand, it is hard to defend against the obvious. The 11th Commandment is a demanding one for the choir.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
61. Bullshit
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:47 PM
Nov 2018

Meaningful discussion happens with theists and atheists within this group. Just not with you. Who do you think is to blame for that? Please tell us you bear no responsibility because that shit is hilarious.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
62. Point to some.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:49 PM
Nov 2018

Link to some.

Link to even one recent thread that you feel proves your assertion.

I will wait patiently.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
64. I will later
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 02:07 PM
Nov 2018

Right now I’m on a mobile device and linking is too much trouble. Meanwhile I’m still waiting on a number of similar requests from you with zero hope of fulfillment.

Kinda telling about alleged debate skills from those who demand citations, yet never provide any when asked, don’t you think? Oh wait, that’s another question you predictably won’t answer. Add it to the list.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
73. I will not ignore your libel
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 03:54 PM
Nov 2018

If nothing else it provides more evidence of duplicity, as if more were needed. I’ll remind you of it from time to time.

Just sayin’

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
74. You need to research what libel is, and what constitutes evidence.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 03:56 PM
Nov 2018

Speaking from 30 plus years representing union members.


And I will wait for the evidence. MM failed to provide any. But it must be out there, correct?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
71. You obviously misread the claim.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 03:50 PM
Nov 2018

In this thread, there is a response by a Buddhist and 1 by an atheist.

You will have to demonstrate better skills.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
96. Condescension from someone who's allegedly all about respectful dialog
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 10:54 PM
Nov 2018

Ironically in the very thread that same someone gives a sermon about respectful dialog.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
81. Several
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 06:04 PM
Nov 2018

Here’s a short list of avowed theists who have added to the discussion in this group on more than one occasion and do not share your complaints...

https://www.democraticunderground.com/~vlyons
https://www.democraticunderground.com/~Karadeniz
https://www.democraticunderground.com/~Dale%20Neiburg
https://www.democraticunderground.com/~sanatanadharma

Going past theism there’s been several other non-atheist posters who have contributed to this group over the years without the issues you have.

So please do continue with you 11th commandment argyle-bargle and playing the victim.

Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
83. All are active posters
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 06:44 PM
Nov 2018

But do keep diverting as it shows you are all about stubstantive discussion.

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
85. Moving the goal posts is a common tactic of those uninterested in civil discourse
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 06:59 PM
Nov 2018

I asserted there were other theists in this group who participate without problems. I named them.

I support my assertions.

You don’t
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
86. Your own claim.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 07:17 PM
Nov 2018
Meaningful discussion happens with theists and atheists within this group. Just not with you. Who do you think is to blame for that? Please tell us you bear no responsibility because that shit is hilarious.


I asked for proof. You have provided none.
MM tried and failed to provide any.

Not one post, much less the claim that discussion happens. There is none. There is only an endless series of psots attacking theists and theism.


So I do understand the difficultly you are having. You are searching for a unicorn.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
87. 62. Point to some.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 07:25 PM
Nov 2018
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=297288

Pointed to some
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=297316

So please do continue with you 11th commandment argyle-bargle and playing the victim.

Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
88. #1 on your list is my own question asking for proof.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 07:28 PM
Nov 2018

#2 is not proof either. I already showed how it is not in another reply.

#s 3 and 4 are off topic of you proving an assertion that you made.

4 strikes.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
89. I proved my assertion
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 07:57 PM
Nov 2018

Keep playing your diversionary game of moving the goalposts all you want, but you’ll have to play alone.

Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
90. No, you failed, and now you wish to define failure as success.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 08:17 PM
Nov 2018

So far, you have not pointed to one exchange between a theist and an atheist that is respectful. And your claim is that respectful dialogue does take place.

Alice in Wonderland.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
91. Not
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 08:28 PM
Nov 2018

Playing

Your

Game

Anymore.

Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
92. A wise decision.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 08:31 PM
Nov 2018

But I will look for examples of respectful dialogue. At one point, I posted some examples from 2014 of disrespectful dialogue, and I was accused of stalking.

Imagine that. Apparently linking to a previous post is considered by some to be stalking.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
93. Not....
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 08:35 PM
Nov 2018

...

....

Playing

....

...

Your

....

....

Game

...

...

Anymore


Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
95. I'll still wait patiently with the proof you reject good faith discussion
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 08:45 PM
Nov 2018

While pretending otherwise.

Now I’m going to remind you of two recent occasions when I asked for a cite and you provided nothing. There’s more from me and several more from others I could reference if I wanted, but these will do for now. Don’t worry, I’ll keep reminding you. Since you are all about the civil discourse and the debate skills, I’m sure you’ll get right on it.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=295987
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=296900

Meanwhile I’m still waiting on those cites and predictably you are failing to provide any while demanding them from others. Can we stop pretending you are all about stubstantive discussion yet, or do I need to keep reminding you?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
63. Actually I don't even think he wants the first type
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 02:01 PM
Nov 2018

If I were to speculate it appears more like an attention gathering exercise for the benefit of an alleged fan club.

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
65. Yes, of course. Gil's Groupies.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 02:18 PM
Nov 2018

As he has told us more than once, he receives numerous personal messages asking him to continue doing what he is doing, and praising his efforts in this group.

Fans can be fickle, you know. Maybe the numerous personal messages aren't so numerous anymore. When that happens, the performer's desperate attempts to rekindle their devotion look very pathetic indeed.

Permanut

(5,608 posts)
31. The point of this OP is not clear..
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:04 PM
Nov 2018

The Religion Group does not require dialogue:

"Discuss religious and theological issues. All relevant topics are permitted. Believers, non-believers, and everyone in-between are welcome."

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
33. Dialogue is not required.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:06 PM
Nov 2018

All that is required is to post something.

But dialogue and discussion are not productive or possible if name calling and group insults are the preferred tactic.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
46. So don't do it
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:01 PM
Nov 2018

And try actually engaging in discussion rather than refusing to answer relevant questions and back up your assertions when asked. Otherwise whatever you think you are doing ain’t productive discussion and pretending otherwise just makes you look hypocritical.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
55. Displaying more of your alleged debate skills I see
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:35 PM
Nov 2018

Kinda funny how you keep proving you ain’t about meaningful discussion in a thread where you whine about the lack of meaningful discussion.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
57. No, asking a legitimate question.
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:39 PM
Nov 2018

In the quote from my post, Einstein talked about the limitations of human understanding.


Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
59. Condescension is what passes for a legitimate question in your book?
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 01:42 PM
Nov 2018

Please continue to impress with your alleged superior debate skills.

Mariana

(14,857 posts)
97. Merci beaucoup, MineralMan.
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 01:03 AM
Nov 2018

I don't think I've ever seen anything so ... appropriate in my entire life.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
98. How about smearing everyone who disagrees with you as being part of a "choir"?
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 09:46 AM
Nov 2018

Does that promote or hinder dialog, gil?

MineralMan

(146,308 posts)
101. Nothing applies, you see. Some people are sui generis,
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 11:37 AM
Nov 2018

and are not to be held to the same standards as others. They are special. Unique. No rules apply to them, but they apply whatever rules they see fit to everyone else.

If they think they hear harmony, there is a "choir." If they dislike how a point is made, it uses the wrong "framing."

They do not seek dialog, since they clearly have all the correct answers - in their own estimation. Sui generis.

There are such people, almost always self-defined, in every discussion forum I have ever visited.

Rules and standards do not apply to them. They are the givers of rules and standards, see? Or, so they believe, anyhow.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
102. Classic pattern of narcissists, too.
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 01:46 PM
Nov 2018

We see it in Trump to the extreme, but basically everything he does and thinks is automatically true. No one can have a legitimate disagreement with him - they're a "hater" or funded by Soros.

Others express the sentiment differently, by using terms like "choir" to try and discredit others as being part of some faceless group conducted by someone else.

At any rate, a lecture on namecalling from guillaumeb is quite comedic.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
100. There are lots of ways to avoid dialogue
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 10:46 AM
Nov 2018

I could name some of them, but I fear you'd miss the point by either agreeing with me or using Latin.

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