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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:30 PM Nov 2018

Muhammad and Rumi on Sexual Harassment

From the article:

The Prophet said, “Woman
prevails over the wise man,
while the raw and ignorant prevail over her.”
Those men who lack tenderness and affection
are animals, not men.


From Rumi:

She is not that kind of beloved most imagine;
she is a ray of God.
She is not just a created,
she is creative.


To read more:

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/livingtradition/2017/11/muhammad-rumi-sexual-harassment/?utm_source=Newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Muslim&utm_content=49
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Muhammad and Rumi on Sexual Harassment (Original Post) guillaumeb Nov 2018 OP
So I guess most Muslim men edhopper Nov 2018 #1
Muhammad on child rape Major Nikon Nov 2018 #2
And child marriage was also common among royalty. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #7
So? MineralMan Nov 2018 #8
Historical knowledge can be a good thing. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #9
It can also be entirely irrelevant. MineralMan Nov 2018 #10
Here's the best part... Major Nikon Nov 2018 #13
That a tradition exists for child sexual abuse does not MineralMan Nov 2018 #14
Child rape apologia is neither a good argument or sensible Major Nikon Nov 2018 #15
Well, one Cardinal appears to be trying to shift blame for that onto MineralMan Nov 2018 #16
"Ignoring it can lead to faulty reasoning" Major Nikon Nov 2018 #11
The important thing, in the Hadith, is that Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #3
Metaphorically speaking, of course Major Nikon Nov 2018 #4
just so much damn respect edhopper Nov 2018 #5
Not much meat, really, in that year old post on Patheos. MineralMan Nov 2018 #6
Someone keeps trying to convince people religion gives folks a pass for child rape Major Nikon Nov 2018 #12

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
2. Muhammad on child rape
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:53 PM
Nov 2018
Aisha's age at the time of her marriage is frequently mentioned in Islamic literature.[11] According to Sunni hadith sources, Aisha was six or seven years old when she was married to Muhammad in Mecca. The marriage was consummated after the Hegira to Medina, when she had reached the age of nine or ten years old.[23]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aisha#Age_at_marriage

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
10. It can also be entirely irrelevant.
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 07:27 PM
Nov 2018

Then, it adds nothing to understanding.

At one time in human history the menarche was the signal of marriageabiliy. As lifespans increased the age of marriage also increased in most cultures.

In some cultures, however, that did not occur, and young girls were still forced to marry older men. Remnants of that disgusting practice still linger. Deplorable, and indicative of patriarchal power.

Your understanding appears to be quite limited. You can, however, correct that.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
13. Here's the best part...
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 11:12 PM
Nov 2018

We must simply ignore the child raping, because it was in vogue at the time at least with other child rapists, but somehow this person is the example of morality we should emulate in today's world.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
14. That a tradition exists for child sexual abuse does not
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 10:44 AM
Nov 2018

make that abuse OK. It seems as though some believe it does, though.

Not a good argument, nor sensible.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Child rape apologia is neither a good argument or sensible
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 12:20 PM
Nov 2018

...although it does seem to be a trend with some. Kinda sad when your love of superstition trumps the condemnation of child rape.

Voltaire2

(13,023 posts)
3. The important thing, in the Hadith, is that
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 07:27 AM
Nov 2018

when you beat your wife don’t leave any marks.

Please proceed.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
4. Metaphorically speaking, of course
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 10:20 AM
Nov 2018


It's not enough that we must ignore all the homophobia, child molestation, misogyny, intolerance, and slavery in the religious texts of Christianity and Islam. We must believe those same religious texts are a shining beacon against those things, even though even some of the most liberal believers interpret them exactly as they were originally intended.

Just in case anyone had any doubt, this OP is yet another....

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
6. Not much meat, really, in that year old post on Patheos.
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 01:10 PM
Nov 2018

No actual mention or condemnation of sexual harassment, per se, from either Muhammad or Rumi, either. The author, who clumsily paraphrases the actual quotes in an attempt to explain them does mention"groping" at one point, but it's a very weak article, overall.

I was disappointed not to find anything said about harassment by those two people at the link. Which leads me to wonder why you posted it without comment. The link isn't really about that.

Oh, well, another click wasted...

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