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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
Fri Aug 31, 2012, 01:53 PM Aug 2012

NY priest apologizes for saying child is often seducer in sex abuse cases

http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/08/31/13583763-ny-priest-apologizes-for-saying-child-is-often-seducer-in-sex-abuse-cases?lite


By NBC News wire services

NEW YORK -- A New York priest says he "deeply regrets" if he hurt anyone by his comments that priests accused of child sex abuse are often seduced by their accusers and that a first-time offender should not go to jail.

The Rev. Benedict Groeschel of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal apologized Thursday for the comments he made in an interview with the National Catholic Register, published this week. The conservative, independent Register removed the story from its website and posted an apology for publishing the comments. Groeschel and the friars did as well.

"I did not intend to blame the victim. A priest (or anyone else) who abuses a minor is always wrong and is always responsible," Groeschel said in his post on the website. "My mind and my way of expressing myself are not as clear as they used to be. I have spent my life trying to help others the best that I could. I deeply regret any harm I have caused to anyone."

The friars expressed regret for the remarks and highlighted Groeschel's medical history. They said he had been in a car accident several years ago, and that "in recent months his health, memory and cognitive ability have been failing." They described the comments as "out of character."

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NY priest apologizes for saying child is often seducer in sex abuse cases (Original Post) cbayer Aug 2012 OP
Another well-designed and totally phony apology skepticscott Aug 2012 #1
What a pile of BS. rexcat Aug 2012 #2
Apparently they are blaming it on dementia. cbayer Aug 2012 #3
Then why did they let him make such a statement? rexcat Aug 2012 #4
Big mistake, wasn't it. I am sure whoever is in charge of him is not cbayer Aug 2012 #5
He obviously wasn't too "demented" skepticscott Aug 2012 #6
Exactly... rexcat Aug 2012 #7
How convenient. Seems like every time a believer makes a ridiculous claim... cleanhippie Sep 2012 #10
.......... Angry Dragon Sep 2012 #8
Looka like a Todd Akin edhopper Sep 2012 #9
That's not a real apology, I think. MineralMan Sep 2012 #11
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
1. Another well-designed and totally phony apology
Fri Aug 31, 2012, 02:40 PM
Aug 2012

offered up only after discovering that his real views are despicable and (yet another) embarrassment to the church. Blaming victims for being raped is not a matter of "I misspoke", any more than talking about "legitimate rape" is. It was a well-considered and deliberately expressed opinion.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
6. He obviously wasn't too "demented"
Fri Aug 31, 2012, 03:37 PM
Aug 2012

to make a very clear, detailed and specific statement in the first place.

What a despicable man.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
10. How convenient. Seems like every time a believer makes a ridiculous claim...
Sun Sep 2, 2012, 10:32 AM
Sep 2012

its because s/he has "mental" problems.



Yeah, I'd say so...

MineralMan

(146,307 posts)
11. That's not a real apology, I think.
Sun Sep 2, 2012, 10:44 AM
Sep 2012

It's an "I'm sorry my stupidity and moronic idea got noticed" apology. That trick never works.

If, in fact, the man has dementia, he should not be giving interviews about anything. He said what he said.

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