Bereavement
Related: About this forumI ended our relationship 4mo ago. He died Wednesday Oct 14
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Jim. My best friend for more than two years, my lover, my heart.
He was a tRumper. I forgive that.
He was 49 1-2 years old.
I am gutted!!! I turned 50 on Friday and it was the worst birthday of my life!
Thanks for reading. Just need a hug.
Newest Reality
(12,712 posts)Zoonart
(11,891 posts)(((((((((((((((((((((((((( )))))))))))))))))))))))))
SaveOurDemocracy
(4,400 posts)TexasTowelie
(112,558 posts)Turbineguy
(37,385 posts)A Hug and a Kind Word
mercuryblues
(14,551 posts)IADEMO2004
(5,575 posts)lostnfound
(16,194 posts)Tell us, if you like: What was best about him?
Hugs and hopes for healing.
Wawannabe
(5,686 posts)He was a punk! Bass player.
I also love music.
We were gutted when John Prine lost battle to Covid. This was our song.
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AllaN01Bear
(18,603 posts)niyad
(113,700 posts)So very sorry for your loss.
elleng
(131,247 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,484 posts)cate94
(2,816 posts)grantcart
(53,061 posts)Sorry you had to be a casualty.
tavernier
(12,410 posts)I hope youre not beating yourself up for the breakup. You could not have known. Celebrate his life and your past together with love and fondness. Let other emotions go.
Fla Dem
(23,813 posts)Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)on your loss.
May he rest in peace.
bronxiteforever
(9,287 posts)💔
chowder66
(9,093 posts)irisblue
(33,041 posts)PatSeg
(47,691 posts)KY_EnviroGuy
(14,498 posts)Many of us here also have lost loved ones during or just prior to the pandemic and it's a struggle. I lost three very big ones in my life just in the past year or so, and now suffering again through their birthdays and anniversaries of their deaths. Thank goodness for my two adult kids, my bird feeders, music, stuff to fix around the house, meditation and for DU.
I hope you find a path to peace and closure, perhaps through meditation or Mother Nature, or through other friends.
KY...... ...... .......
Wawannabe
(5,686 posts)flamin lib
(14,559 posts)mend your heart.
But someday it will heal.
Meanwhile we are all here for you. It helps to share your grief.
Hip2bSquare
(291 posts)A new co-worker started with us right before the shelter in place when Covid hit. During that time her sister was having headaches and found out she had a tumor. Unfortunately, her sister lost her fight.
I told my co-worker, you'd think God would give us a break from any addtional heartbreak during this horrible time, but it just doesn't happen.
I'm very sorry for the loss. I turned 50 just a few weeks ago also, certainly not how I imagined my 50th year on earth would be.
Sheesh this year hurts...don't give up. Hopefully the clouds will clear soon.
Wawannabe
(5,686 posts)1970 ROCKED!
And thanks for the kind words.