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cilla4progress

(24,726 posts)
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 10:22 PM Nov 2019

Brand new here.

Not sure if I fit in.

Sometimes I "force" myself to be with people because it's good for me. Other times, I'm truly gregarious. And hilarious. At least to me. After a few drinks.

I live with only my husband of 39 years and our various animals, out in the country. We have one grown daughter - born after 13 years of marriage. It was an intentional decision. She is our crown jewel.

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Brand new here. (Original Post) cilla4progress Nov 2019 OP
Welcome. I'm sure you "fit in" as well as most who post here. Atticus Nov 2019 #1
I would consider myself a loner by choice GitRDun Nov 2019 #2
Welcome to DU! BigMin28 Nov 2019 #3
Welcome to DU! Meadowoak Nov 2019 #4
You'll be ok vercetti2021 Nov 2019 #5
you're not new to DU dweller Nov 2019 #6
Hi, cilla4progress. littlemissmartypants Nov 2019 #7
Glad to meet you!.Welcome and we value your opinion!❤ Karadeniz Nov 2019 #8
Nice. cilla4progress Nov 2019 #9
Never thought I'd see you here. Aristus Nov 2019 #10
Howdy hi! Hahaha! cilla4progress Nov 2019 #11
I guess he has his own website. Aristus Nov 2019 #12
... cilla4progress Nov 2019 #13
Welcome! backtoblue Nov 2019 #14
It really is, isn't it? Aristus Nov 2019 #15
Hell, I'm not sure we fit in yet here we are. yonder Nov 2019 #16

GitRDun

(1,846 posts)
2. I would consider myself a loner by choice
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 10:48 PM
Nov 2019

I married a cruel narcissistic woman.

I am largely estranged from 3 daughters who learned how to treat men from their mother.

I have a son who I am exceptionally close with.

Without disclosing much else I have learned in my life that putting too much trust in others can really hurt you.

Taking control over your ecosystem for a while is not the worst thing in the world.

Just my opinion.

dweller

(23,628 posts)
6. you're not new to DU
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:48 PM
Nov 2019

i've read your posts for years 👍🏻

but you're new to the loners forum, and for reasons of your own have decided to join us ... welcome !

we're a mostly quiet bunch 😎

✌🏼

littlemissmartypants

(22,631 posts)
7. Hi, cilla4progress.
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 12:59 AM
Nov 2019

I am going to go out on a limb here and say that I suspect many of us here are misfits of one sort or another.

If you haven't already done it you might have fun taking the test.

http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1237&pid=526

Thanks for sharing and welcome to the Loners Group. ❤

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
10. Never thought I'd see you here.
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 01:15 AM
Nov 2019


Welcome.

It's good to know that even we happily married people can consider ourselves loners.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
14. Welcome!
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 06:42 AM
Nov 2019

The Loner Group is like finding a secret hidey hole behind a bookcase. We're the cool, secret room of DU!

Love seeing ya on the outside, but welcome to our little sanctuary!





Aristus

(66,316 posts)
15. It really is, isn't it?
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 11:03 AM
Nov 2019

I like being here.

In school, I was unpopular even with the other unpopular kids. So it's nice to have a sanctum sanctorum...

yonder

(9,663 posts)
16. Hell, I'm not sure we fit in yet here we are.
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 01:15 PM
Nov 2019

And after 35 years, Mrs. yonder and I have 2 Crown Jewels, shining for all to see.

Welcome, c4p!

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