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GeorgiaPeanuts

(2,353 posts)
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:09 PM Mar 2016

As a person new to voting and politics (due to cynicism), I find the vote-splainin' frustrating!

It is very rude and condescending to be told that the values and principles I based my vote on are selfish or that I am to blame for the outcome of an election if it ends up with candidates I have no desire to vote for.

It is NOT selfish to vote based on the values and principles you hold dear. And I think the Hillary supporters who harp on this attack should reconsider their actions because it turns off voters even more.

I think a candidate must earn people's votes, not having an R next to your name is not good enough.

So next time when you think about denigrating someone's vote consider what kind of damage you are causing to the general election.

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As a person new to voting and politics (due to cynicism), I find the vote-splainin' frustrating! (Original Post) GeorgiaPeanuts Mar 2016 OP
Childish Blackmail Trenzalore Mar 2016 #1
I didn't threaten anyone to vote for my candidate... GeorgiaPeanuts Mar 2016 #2
Childish advice indeed. malokvale77 Mar 2016 #4
I have never stated I wouldn't vote for the Democratic Nominee Trenzalore Mar 2016 #5
I think... malokvale77 Mar 2016 #9
That's your choice Trenzalore Mar 2016 #10
I see you are in love with the word threatening. malokvale77 Mar 2016 #13
Scary Trenzalore Mar 2016 #14
You seem to be... malokvale77 Mar 2016 #18
At no point did I tell you how to vote Trenzalore Mar 2016 #19
So why do you keep harassing him? If you don't care and all. pdsimdars Mar 2016 #23
They replied to my post Trenzalore Mar 2016 #28
You seem to have a fascination with threats and now guns. unapatriciated Mar 2016 #26
I am sick of the drama Trenzalore Mar 2016 #29
"sick of the drama"... HumanityExperiment Mar 2016 #30
Where did anyone in this thread say what you have so unapatriciated Mar 2016 #31
they've lost 11 Governors, 13 Senators, 69 Reps, 913 state seats, and are happy with 26% of the MisterP Mar 2016 #3
Wow! that really puts things into perspective... GeorgiaPeanuts Mar 2016 #7
it's a simple ratchet: at one end they have to run uninspiring drips MisterP Mar 2016 #15
Party realignment Hydra Mar 2016 #17
The Third Way is Orwell's Inner Party... Progressives need not apply without a moral lobotomy first. VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #32
Lol, almost correct Hydra Mar 2016 #33
What the hell is going on? DWS is in charge. Loser! pdsimdars Mar 2016 #25
Absolutely perfect. They are losers who just want to blame everyone else but themselves. pdsimdars Mar 2016 #24
First thing you need to do nichomachus Mar 2016 #6
It's a very liberal dilemma, what they need is help, but what does -is- mean? Really? HereSince1628 Mar 2016 #8
I agree with you, but ... Onlooker Mar 2016 #11
Your point is definitely valid... GeorgiaPeanuts Mar 2016 #12
I agree Onlooker Mar 2016 #16
I don't want Bernie to extract concessions, I want him to be President. pdsimdars Mar 2016 #21
Georgia or North Carolina? unapatriciated Mar 2016 #27
Bernie beats Trump and EVERY other GOP candidate in head to head polls for months now pdsimdars Mar 2016 #22
Exactly right. . their vote shaming is what LOSERS do pdsimdars Mar 2016 #20

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
1. Childish Blackmail
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:11 PM
Mar 2016

Fine. If Hillary wins don't vote her. Don't use your threats of withholding your vote as a reason I should vote for your candidate over my candidate.

 

GeorgiaPeanuts

(2,353 posts)
2. I didn't threaten anyone to vote for my candidate...
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:15 PM
Mar 2016

I said plain and simple, votes have to be earned, they are not automatic (at least for me).

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
5. I have never stated I wouldn't vote for the Democratic Nominee
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:29 PM
Mar 2016

I think Bernie would be ineffective as President but at least get the Supreme Court nominees right. I think Trump or Cruz would be a disaster.

malokvale77

(4,879 posts)
9. I think...
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:41 PM
Mar 2016

Hillary would be just as disastrous on the issues that matter to me.

Where does that leave me? I'm not willing to follow the party down the road they're heading. I care too much to vote party over people.

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
10. That's your choice
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:44 PM
Mar 2016

Your choice doesn't influence my choice.

Just because you are threatening to not vote for my candidate doesn't make me more likely to vote for yours.

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
19. At no point did I tell you how to vote
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 07:08 AM
Mar 2016

I said I don't give a shit what you do and I told you why I don't give a shit.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
23. So why do you keep harassing him? If you don't care and all.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:39 AM
Mar 2016

Nothing shows you don't care as much as not leaving it alone. Really. Tell yourself that.

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
26. You seem to have a fascination with threats and now guns.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:05 AM
Mar 2016

Last edited Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:48 AM - Edit history (1)

No one in this thread has told you who to vote for nor are they threatening not to vote in the GE.
We have primaries for a reason. It is so we might nominate the candidate that best represents our party's platform and what we dems have stood for since FDR. You are the one who jumped into this thread with anger and accusations.

We are not asking you to listen we are asking you to stop with the false rhetoric.

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
29. I am sick of the drama
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:43 AM
Mar 2016

If you don't vote for my candidate I will do X with my vote. My response is oh well.

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
31. Where did anyone in this thread say what you have so
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:47 AM
Mar 2016

dramatically accused everyone of doing. You're a hoot.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
3. they've lost 11 Governors, 13 Senators, 69 Reps, 913 state seats, and are happy with 26% of the
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:15 PM
Mar 2016

electorate; they blast vitriol against policies that they adopt March of the following year, and blame us for election losses if we express disappointment while their lackeys jeer at the stoopid lefties

 

GeorgiaPeanuts

(2,353 posts)
7. Wow! that really puts things into perspective...
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:40 PM
Mar 2016

I didn't know they lost so many state seats... What the hell is going on?

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
15. it's a simple ratchet: at one end they have to run uninspiring drips
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 11:02 PM
Mar 2016

because a real principled liberal would annoy the donors; at the other end they're used to blaming the voters for absolutely anything--it was the voters, not Katherine Harris; it was the voters, not Joe Lieberman; it was the voters, not John Kerry; it was the voters, not DWS

Hydra

(14,459 posts)
17. Party realignment
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 11:05 PM
Mar 2016

They are looking at taking over for the GOP, and in the interim they are sinking the progressives and others who are not part of the "club." You can see it happening here too.

At some point in the near future, the DWSs of our party will be the norm.

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
32. The Third Way is Orwell's Inner Party... Progressives need not apply without a moral lobotomy first.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 12:46 PM
Mar 2016

eom

Hydra

(14,459 posts)
33. Lol, almost correct
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 07:33 PM
Mar 2016

The Third Way are the attempting to be outer party- the ones who do the heavy lifting for the people in power and get some benefits from it. The Inner party are the people who pay them (or shoot them in the back of the head later) and who have the actual control.

In other words, they're a bunch of suckers. We know the Inner Party feeds off of the outer party as much as the do the Proles.

nichomachus

(12,754 posts)
6. First thing you need to do
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:31 PM
Mar 2016

Is stop using the "______ 'splaining" idiom. It's just stupid and out of control.

It's was cute once. Not any more.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
8. It's a very liberal dilemma, what they need is help, but what does -is- mean? Really?
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:40 PM
Mar 2016

They have anxiety. They can't fix it with their vote, so THEY need you to fix it!

You see... they NEED A FIX!. Actually, they -MUST- have a fix.
'
They so worry, and they want a win. You know how it is to WANT what you think you may not get...

It just makes them WANT MORE. Really want More And MORE!

But they only have their own votes and those are sort of well, less filling and don't taste great.

So not satisfying...so they -MUST- have yours.

And if you don't cheerfully give it...then clearly -YOU- don't love them like a real democrat would.

 

Onlooker

(5,636 posts)
11. I agree with you, but ...
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:49 PM
Mar 2016

... but you have to consider that there are some people who are genuinely afraid of a Trump victory. Here's a true story: A Muslim woman is riding the subway in Boston. Someone gets nervous (perhaps someone mentally ill) because the Muslim woman carries a large bag and literally screams for help. A few men go up to the Muslim woman and without her permission search her bag. It's such a bizarre, scary scene, no one does anything. That's a true story told to me by a friend of that woman. Both the person who told me the story and the victim are now both afraid to ride the train, even though they must every day to go to work. That is Trump's America. Now, if you fear Trump in that way, then anyone who does not help defeat Trump is living selfishly in the world of privilege or is a bigot. But, I do see your point -- you have to reach your decision on your own, without feeling forced into it. That's counterproductive.

 

GeorgiaPeanuts

(2,353 posts)
12. Your point is definitely valid...
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 10:55 PM
Mar 2016

I am part of the LGBTQ community and know very well the damage Repukes can cause. A discrimination law almost passed in my state, if not for the Governor vetoing it today.

The problem I feel is that if we don't stand up and demand (in the event Clinton is the nominee) that the Democratic party adopt at least some of Sanders platform and create some way to make people who don't trust Clinton to have any confidence it will mean anything then we will continue the march to the right.

That is why I am very happy that Sanders is staying in the race to the convention because he can force his demands into the party platform. What happens at the convention in the event of a Clinton nomination will have a big effect on my comfort level for voting for Clinton.

 

Onlooker

(5,636 posts)
16. I agree
Mon Mar 28, 2016, 11:04 PM
Mar 2016

I'm 51% for Sanders, 49% for Clinton, and very much want Sanders to stay in so that he can extract concessions, especially in terms of giving progressives more influence in the Party. And that's great news about Georgia. What a surprise!

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
27. Georgia or North Carolina?
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:14 AM
Mar 2016

used live in Marietta, now in Wilmington NC. both states passed ass backward laws. Getting read to move back to the west coast, Portland , Or


Hopefully NC will do the same as Georgia.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
22. Bernie beats Trump and EVERY other GOP candidate in head to head polls for months now
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 07:23 AM
Mar 2016
Hillary has been LOSING for months. . . now she is starting to win against a few of them but by MUCH SMALLER MARGINS than Bernie.

That "Bernie can't win" meme is a false talking point.

If people are really afraid of Trump winning then they should be campiagning for Bernie, the strongest candidate against him.
 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
20. Exactly right. . their vote shaming is what LOSERS do
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 07:20 AM
Mar 2016

If you candidate can't convince voters to vote for them because of their positions on issues, then you have no one to blame but yourself. And people who look for someone else to blame are losers who don't want to accept responsibility for themselves.

Say hello to Jimmy Carter down there.

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